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Dimensions : v.4: no.3(1989:Sept.)
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Dimensions was a lesbian lifestyle magazine published in Lubbock, TX from July 1986 until the end of 1996. Content includes national news, poetry, book reviews, advice columns, and horoscopes.
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Visions Publishing Co.
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1989-09
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Visions Publishing Co.
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Chambers, Kelly
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PROPERTY OF
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Volume 4, Issue 3
September 1989
eotures
17 Love With An Early Riser
by Karen Dole Wolmon
24 the Coffee Club
lesbian & gay literature
il^partments
27 Quiz:
What Is Your
5 To The Editor
7 News
11 What's Goin' On
Net Worth?
14 Dear Agnes
29 Poetry
30 Horoscope
33 Directory
36 Classifieds
38 Graffiti
22 What A World,
What A World!
humor by comedian
Nancy Ford
Dimensions is published by Visions Publishing Co., P.O. Box 856,Lubbock, TX 79408.Phone (806)
797-9647. Opinions expressed by columnists do not necessarily reflect those of Dimensions or its
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Subscription Rates: 6 mos. $12.00, 1 yr. $24.00. Payment must accompany all subscription orders.
Copyright ©1989 Visions Publishing Co. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or in part is
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September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 3
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Signature.
me Editor
A Legitimate Gripe ...
scanning that I have kept for many
Dear Dimensions:
years. But I feel it is well worth it.
Thanks for putting out such quality
"Yes!," I do have something to get off
my chest.Every month Ireceive certain
publications to which I subscribe. No
big deal. At my leisure I thumb through
them,and pick out what interests me.I
material.
Keep up the great work,
Sarah Ortiz
Granbury,TX
scan articles, glance at pictures and
promptly place the magazines in a
carefully chosen pile, where they
Ed. Note:I'm afraid to say that we are
not sorry for messing up a pattern it
collect dust and await disposal.
I have been reading Dimensions from
cover to cover since it began.This takes
considerably more time than scanning
tookyouso many yearsto develop,Ican
only hope that we can keep your rapt
attention in thefuture! Thanksfor the
compliment.
and glancing! Many of my tasks have
been put off until later, so that I can
become informed and entertained! I
actually look forward to receiving
IRS Following Lesbians?
Dear Dimensions:
Dimensions each month.
I have tried to skip articles, fiction or
As a gay it offends me the way the
poetry. No such will power! Each will
Internal
be well written and intersting. I can't
even slide by a quiz without scratching
discriminates against us. My lover and
Revenue
Service
Ijust cam back from Mexico and found
that we were being followed by a
in answers.
It's wonderful to have this intelligent
publication directed at women.
Dimensions is just what I need to
remind me that there is a place where I
can fit in, and relate to others. I have
even found that I enjoy keeping and
rereading them.
I am breaking a pattern of glancing and
straight IRS female who was stationed
in the American embassy. What is the
IRS doing nosing around in foriegn
countries anyway? We should unite
and fight the IRS nosingaround outside
the U.S.!
Opal Bayer
San Antonio, TX
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Names will tse withheld if so requested.
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 5
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From Around the Region,the Couritry & the World
6th Annual Texas
Freedom Parade
DALLAS, TX - The 6th annual
TEXAS FREEDOM PARADE,which
is also Dallas' 10th annual lesbian/gay
pride parade, will be held on Sunday,
September 24,starting at 3:00 p.m.near
the Oak Lawn Library on Cedar
Springs Road. The parade will end in
Lee Park with the traditional
CELEBRATION IN LEE PARK on
mailed to businesses and organizations.
They will also be available at the office
of the Dallas Tavern Guild, 3900
Lemmon Avenue, Suite #220, Dallas,
TX 75219
New Community
Assembly To Unite San
Antonio
SAN ANTONIO, TX - The San
the porch and grounds of ArUngton
Hall for the presentation of parade
trophies, community awards,
entertainment and speeches. The
Antonio Lesbian & Gay Assembly
(SALGA*) has been formed to unite
the numerous and diverse groups and
Dallas Tavern Guild is the proud
sponsor of these two events for the
a community umbrella organization,
SALGA would respond to the needs
lesbian and gay community.
The theme of this year's parade,
community which have not been
"STONEWALL 20: A Generation of
adequately addressed by traditional
individuals in the San Antonio area. As
and concerns of the lesbian and gay
Pride,"follows the national lesbian/gay
providers of community services. The
theme as we celebrate the twentieth
goal of the Assembly is to create a
anniversary of Stonewall rebellion in
New York City, which began during
the evening of June 27, 1969.
Participants of the parade will be asked
to express the positive and healthy
lives, attitudes and images of a
community that has shown great
mutually supportive community
network which would gather &
disperse information, promote
education & service programs, and
develop community facilities.
An Interregnum Board of Directors
was elected in June by an Ad-Hoc
strength during the past8 years with the
Community Steering Committee
battle against AIDS. The parade is not
a protest march, but rather a time to
which had been meeting since spring.
The Interregnum Board has been
acknowledge our political and social
charged with developing a governing
accomplishments over the past20 years
and to recognize our strengths during a
structure and seating the first
health crisis.
Letters of invitation with the parade
guidelines and application will be
permanent Board of Directors.
SALGA's first public event will be a
"Community Gathering" on Thursday,
September 7, 1989 at 411 Bonham
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 7
Street. Complimentary wine & buffet
at 7:30 p.m. and program at 8:00 p.m..
Interested
individuals
and
representatives from All area lesbian &
duration, in amounts ranging from
S20,000 to $50,000 each. A total of $1
million is available for this funding
round.
gay groups are urged to attend this
ground-breaking event. The two cochairs (female & male) will introduce
the interregnum directors and briefly
Between January 1981 and August
1989, over 100,000 persons have been
diagnosed with AIDS; over 58,0(X)
review the purposeand current status of
killed during the Vietnam War. The
SALGA.
Agenda items include:
1. Gay Fiesta, Sunday, October 15th,
La Villita Assembly Hall.
2.SALGA Community Directory - For
have died—more Americans than were
primary goal of this RFP is to provide
education on AIDS and HIV infection
through funding community-based,
community-service organizations with
an emphasis on those organizations
October release.
which have established ties to racial
3.'Heart Strings' AIDS benefit show,
Tuesday, October lOth, Majestic
and ethnic populations, IV drug and
substance abusers, people who are HIV
Theatre.
positive or have AIDS, and people who
Also, those with announcements or
reside in areas with fewer AIDS cases.
issues to be raised may contact the cochairs through the Switchboard at 733-
In announcing the availability of
funding. Conference of Mayors
7300.
Executive Director J. Thomas Cochran
(♦In Spanish "Saiga" means "Come
out")
said that the organization was fully
committed to providing funding and
technical assistance to those groups
MAYORS ANNOUNCE
which have the best access to people
AVAILABILITY OF AIDS
most. "Community-based
EDUCATION GRANTS
WASHINGTON, D.C. - The United
States Conference of Mayors is
releasing today its 8th Request for
Proposals (RFP) for funding of
community-based
AIDS
risk-
reduction education programs. The
who need HIV/AIDS information the
organizations, especially when
working with local government and the
local health department, have proven
their effectiveness in providing
accurate and appropriate information
and in ways that are accepted by their
audience. This must continue and we
targets of the Round 8 RFP include:
are committed to assisting them, "
racial and ethnic minorities; substance
Cochran said.
abusers (including intravenous drug,
crack cocaine and alcohol abusers);
HIV antibody positive individuals and
people with AIDS; and people who
Funding for the AIDS grants was made
available to the Conference of Mayors
by the federal Centers for Disease
Control. With this latest round of
reside in areas with fewer AIDS cases.
funding, the Conference of Mayors will
Approximately 20 grants will be
have awarded $3.54 million to fund 113
awarded for projects up to 12 months in
projects across the nation.
Page 8 • Dimensions • September 1989
Lesbian/Gay Leaders
Sponsor Notional
Coming Out Day
Santa Fe, NM - The 2nd annual
National Coming Out Day,October 11,
is being co-sponsored by a broad base
of highly respected community leaders
and organizations. The goal of NCOD
is to increase the visibility of the more
than 20 million gay people in the
United States. Last year's activities
received {xasitive media coverage
throughout the country, including
coverage in USA TODAY, CNN,
NATIONAL PUBLIC RADIO, THIS
WAY OUT, and the OPRAH
WINFREY SHOW.
October 11, the day of this annual
event,commemorates the 1987 March
on Washington for Lesbian and Gay
Rights."This is a grassroots campaign,
and its success depends on the
willingness of local groups to plan and
carry out events that support people to
take their next step in coming out"says
NCOD co-chair. Dr. Rob Eichberg.
As coming out is a process and not a
singular event, individuals are being
asked to "take the next step" in their
coming out process — a step which
may be very personalforsome and very
public for others. "Our power is
awesome,and it's time we use it." says
NCOD co-chair Jean O'Leary,
Executive Director of National Gay
Rights Advocates.
Joining the growing list of NCOD
sponsors are, among others: Jeff Levy
and Urvashi Vaid with the National
Gay and Lesbian Task Force; Boston
City Councillor, David Scondras;
writer Harvey Fierstein, comedian
Robin Tyler, and veteran activists
Virginia Apuzzo, Vivian Shapiro, and
Cleve Jones.
For more information, or to contribute
to NCOD, write to NCOD,P.O. Box
i5524,Santa Fe,New Mexico,87506,
or call(505)982-2558.
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A Monthy Listing of Special Events Aii Around Texas, Oklahoma & New Mexico
DALLAS - Lynn Lavner's coming to
Fund Committee Dinner on November
Texas! The short, left-handed, Jewish
lesbian from New York wiU be in Dallas on
11th. It will be black tie, $100 a plate, and
the theme will be "Blazing A Trail".
Saturday, September 30, for oneperformance only at Sammons Center for
the Arts. The event is co-sponsored by
DALLAS - Ride your bike, run or Walk
For Life on Saturday, September 16th at
Lesbian Visionaries and Littie Feather
White Rock Lake in Dallas.
Productions. Lavner will be in San
Start
Antonio Sunday, October 1 at THE
collecting pledges now and get ready to get
involved in the fight against AIDS. All
CIRCLE.
money will go to benefit the AIDS
Lavner's act might be described as
Resource Center, PWA Coalition,
xmconventional. Her songs and humor are
Nelson-Tebedo
drawn, she says, from her experiences,
"which are considerably different than the
experiences ofan average person from,let's
say Columbus, Nebraska." And,the quick
witted Lavner, who stands only five feet
tall, performs in black leather.
Community Outreach Center of Ft.
AIDS
Clinic,
Worth, the Pentamidine Mist Program
and The Food Bank. Walk For Life is
being sponsored by 98-KZEW (The Zoo)
and you can get more information from the
WalkUne at(214)484-0990.
Don't forget to mark your calendars!
Dallas, September 30 and San Antonio
October 1. Tickets for the Dallas
performance are $10 and are available at
CURIOUS TIMES. Please contact THE
CIRCLE for ticket info in San Antonio.
SAN ANTONIO - It's may sound a little
early, but next summer's Third Annual
Texas Lesbian Conference wiU be held in
San Antonio! Theplanningstartsnow and if
you'd like to be a part of it, show up at the
DENMARK - Okay - this is reaUy
exciting! On October 1, 1989 Denmark
will become the first country to legalize
gay and lesbian marriages! This will
grant these marriages full and equal
rights under the law. We gan make it
happen here if we try hard enough.
AUSTIN - Ifyou arelooking forlivemusic,
you'll find it this month at NEXUS &
Esperanca Peace & Justice Center,
PETTICOAT JUNCTION! On the 1st it's
DeniseFawcett,onthel3th HisBoyElroy
Thursday, September 21st at 7pm. The
hits the stage, Lara Linette plays on the
center is located at 1305 N. Flores. If you
aren't able to attend but would still like to be
involved, call the center at(512)228-0201
or the LISA line and leave your name and
number. Also,a party of several Lesbian &
Gay Organizations under the umbrella of
15th, the 22nd brings Alison Goodgame,
and on the 27th catch the Julie Burrell
Band. But, of course, there's more than
music! Lisa Bryson (former Ms. Gay
Dallas)wiU bring her"One Woman Show"
to NEXUS on the 8th. Who's Those Girls,
an all-female review from Dallas, will
the Esperanca Peace & Justice Center are
holding a fundraising brunch for the center
entertain you on the 17th and Nancy Ford
on September 16th. Last, but not least, get
will strut her stuff on the 8th!
ready for the Human Rights Campaign
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 11
HOUSTON - The Country Express Band
will be playing at the RANCH on Tuesday
the 17th.There won't be any cover because
(Shhhhh...I'mnotsupposed to tell you this
...)it's Betsy's Birthday! Wish her a good
one when you pass her on the dance floor!
Also be sure to check out the RANCH's new
DALLAS - If you are a golfer,sign up now
for the 1st Annual DESERT MOON Golf
Classic! The date hadn't been set at press
time but it wiU happen in October so get
your golf clubs out now and polish up your
putting skills! Check at the bar for date,
location and tee-off time!
frozen drink machine, from what I've
heard, it's pretty amazing and can even
make frozen white russian's, Mmmmm,
SAN ANTONIO - Ping Pong is the name of
sounds good.
CIRCLE is the place! Yes, the Ping Pong
the game, S50 is first prize and THE
Tournament is on and it happens
DALLAS - Okay girls... you'vejust got to
get on out to SUE ELLEN's and check out
the"Super,Spectacular,Sunday Show"!
There's all manner of great performers and
with MC Kathy Jack, you can't go wrong.
Also be sure you don'tmiss Happy Hour at
SUE ELLEN's. It happens everyday from
3pm till 8pm and Fridays until 9pm. Plus,
there's all kinds of other drink specials so,
September 3rd at 2pm so get ready!
Tuesday NightTopics atTHE CIRCLE this
month are "Body Image" on the 5th and
"Beyond Shame" with a guest speaker on
the 19th. Be sure to check out Thursday
night steak night and nightly drink specials
- you're sure to find something to suit your
fancy!
get on out there and have some fun!
DALLAS - Attention Beer Drinkers! JUGS
HOUSTON - We heard from a reliable
has got great specials all week long. You
can get 75^ Draft on Mondays and
source that KEYSTROKE is moving to a
new and improved location! Keep your
eyes open for date,time and address info for
Thursdays,250 Draft onTuesdays,Fridays
and all day and night on Sundays and free
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September! And, ladies, if you like
addition to all that, there's also a Cookout
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Wednesdays,$1 Frozen Margaritas and a
PoolTourney on Thursdays and$1 Bloody
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gnes
ear
Answers to your questions about love,
relationships & personal problems
Dear Agnes,
I am a SWF,I have a boyfriend whom Icare
about very much. But recently I have been
thinking more and more about having an
affair with another woman (mind you, I
Dear Agnes,
I have a problem that is driving me up the
wall, my lover. We have been together for
five years and up until the last four or five
months everything was fine. We worked,
haven't gone looking and I have no-one in
came home, and had a fairly quite life
mind). But these curiosities have led me to
except for an occasional wild party. We
start doing things I never would have done
have some friends but don't see them except
before.
weekends.
I bought a vibrator! Although this has been
All of a sudden about five months ago Ann
somewhatsatisfying I still have these urges.
started a night class. Suddenly she was
I do not know any lesbians and would never
moody, preoccupied, gone alot and when
go to a bar with the threat of AIDS at every
comer. Although I am straight, I still have
she did come home, she ignored me. This
this fantasy of being with a woman.
Are there any books I can order to get more
She has brought a woman home to "study"
with a couple of times and that has been the
fulfillment from my vibrator? Is one
vibrator better than the other? What is my
only time I have seen her in a good mood for
next step?
study or to the library, and she doesn'tcome
Desperately waiting for your advice!
home till after dark most nights. Our sex life
is dead, we don't talk to each other any
more, and if I didn't know better, I would
swear she wants out of this relationship.
Dear Desperately Waiting,
With AIDS "around every comer", I
certainly hope you are having "safe sex"
describes our existence from then utill now.
all these months. Weekends she's gone to
What do you think? I've tried talking to her
with your boyfriend! You will not contact it
and it's like talking to a brick wall. She
sitting on a toilet seat in a bar-gay or
glares at me like I am nuts and refuses to
straight.
talk. I feel like I am going crazy. What can
The experts I contacted on vibrators assure
I do?Ireally don't want to leave her,but this
me that there are some that are more
is like living in hell!
Help! Tulsa
satisfying than others, but after consulting
two or tfiree,I am convinced it is a matter of
personal taste. I suggest going to your local
Dear Help,
sex shop or book store for a little shopping
spree. If you are too shy, take your
Tell her your preception of what is
boyfriend. You can mail order books and
vibrators.
I guess the next step is up to you. Your letter
leaves me with one question, where did you
pick up a Dimensions....
happening.Try to explain in terms of,"I feel
like you are constantly in a bad mood"or"I
feel ". Try not to make her defensive, but
do try to get her to talk. Suggest couples
counseling and see if you get a response. If
she is willing to go, by all means go. If she
Page 14 • Dimensions • September 1989
isn't receptive to the idea, you might
consider talking to a counselor to help sort
though your feeling right now.
You can not make her talk! But the most
have always voted but I'm afraid I voted for
the wrong people for the wrong reasons. I
didn't realize that you can'tjust get rid of a
president in four years if you don't like him
important asset in a relationship is
—his legacy remains in the Supreme Court
communication. Refusing to talk about a
problem does notfix it, nor does it make the
problem go away.
for years to come.
Believe me,I know better now and I, for
which is difficult when problems arise,
one,am following your advice. After all, if
we can't get and keep our rights as women,
how will we ever get our rights as gays?
especially relationship problems.Getoutof
A New Believer
Take steps to maintain your self-esteem
the house,make plans with friends,go to the
library, join an exercise class, don't sit
home and wait for your lover to come home
in a bad mood ever night. Her attitude and
behavior are not your fault. So whatever
you do, don't lay a guilt trip on yourself.
Dear Believer,
I think we have alllearned that sitting on the
sidelines is a dangerous occupation that
does not pay. Enough said!
Dear Agnes,
Activist Seeking Direction in last month's
column hit the nail on the head. I am 27
years old and when I got out of high school,
I never worried about equal pay, my right to
an abortion or anything else. I guess 1
thought it was all settled and that it would
never go backwards.
Boy, was I wrong! I'm learning now that
you don't just have to fight to
your
Write To Dear Agnes
With Your Problems or
Comments at:
Dimensions
P.O Box 856
Lubbock,TX 79408
rights, you have to fight to keep them too.I
r?
PEVG POKTG
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Sunday, September 3rd • 2pm
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TUESDAY
AIGIIT
DISCUSSIOAT
TOPICS
September 5th—
Body Image
September 19th-
Beyond Shame
(Guest Speaker)^
Lynn Lavner • Oct. 1st
Sonya Johnson • Oct. 8th
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by Karen Dole Wolmon^^^p
Over the years, I've heard countless
not too difticuino recognize, here are
tales of love affairs that were doomed
from the start. There is the case of the
health food freak with the junk food
few clues to tip you off in case she
catches you off guard: she awakens
without being blasted out of bed by an
junkie, the quiet intellectual with the
alarm clock with more decibels than an
party animal and the hopeless slob with
as many strikes against it as the one
AC/DC concert, greets sparrows by
name, becomes verbal before an
intravaneous infusion of thick,
with the mismatched circadian
Columbian brew and makes the bed
the neat freak. But no relationship has
rhythms.Try and visualize the scenario
before taking a shower. As a wise m^
when a bonafide night person hooks up
with the strangest of human beings:
once said, "don't trust anyone who's
alert before eleven in the morning."'
Now,match this strange bird up with a
THE MORNING PERSON. The
relationship is destined for failure
before the pair is even introduced.
A few words of warning are called for
here. Although the morning person is
genuine night owl and feathers are sure
to fly. As all of us late rising creatures
have known since pre-embryonic
stage, the alarm clock is a medieval
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 17
instrument of torture invented by a
offer of a cocktail; she doesn't want to
sadistic madman who makes Attila the
stay out too late. You wouldn't mind
timiing in early with her.
Hun appear benevolent. As for the
button that allows a few extra minutes
ofsleep,don'tbefooled.It'sjusta tease
engineered by someone on the payroll
of Phyllis Schafly.
Things are innocent enough when you
first meet this morning person. She's
attractive, friendly without being
You start to get nervous as her eyelids
droop and the conversation falters. It
takes yotir all to convince this creature
to go to that cute little cappucino and
cannoli place after the meal. When you
leave the dessert shop,she walks with
. . the alarm clock is a medieval instrument of
torture invented by a sadistic madman who
mokes Attila the Hun appear benevolent.
pushy,and has no interest whatsoever
in your astrological sign. She seems to
be genuinely interested in you and asks
intelligent questions about your work
— without trying to discover your
salary or whether you can sneak a tryst
to Maui onto your expense account
After you've been chatting for awhile
and she hasn't mentioned a psychotic
her arm around your waist. At first you
think it's romantic, but you quickly
realize she's doing it for support. She
has trouble walking when she's half
asleep.
Notonly is yourenergy peaking,butthe
caffeine and sugar have you flying
Just as you're aboutto offer your phone
high.You'd invite her in for a nightcap,
but you don't think she can stay awake
thatlong.Instead,you get her into acab,
give her address to the driver — she's
not coherent enough to do it herself—
number,she asks ifshe may take you to
and head for the nearest nightclub —
ex-girlfriend or an obsession with cats,
you figure you've caught a live one.
dinner later in the week. As it's still
solo.
early, you have no clue as to her true
Now I'm not saying that a one night
stand — started early enough — with a
nature.
Imagine your first date with this new
woman. She insists on picking you up
for dinner at 5:30. Although that's just
past your usual lunchtime, you are
flattered that she can't wait to see you
and do your best to put yourself
together before the firstcommuter train
pulls into suburbia.She arrives right on
time, armed with candy and flowers.
You smile when she turns down you
morning person isa bad idea,butdo you
really want to spend your life with
someone who whistles as she gels her
hair and considers 9am late morning?
Granted, she is the type to serve you
breakfast in bed, but it is liable to be
oatmeal — and she'll expect you to eat
it.
To a person who grunts and growls if
spoken to before noon and believes that
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7am garbage collections are a
communist plot, the early rising
specimen is anathema. Envision the
scenario: you are miles deep under
thick, warm comforters on one rainy
Sunday morn. Hazy Technicolor
visions of candlelight dinners and
staying up till nine watching reruns of
The Loveboat. Just as you begin to
show signs of life, she's got about as
much energy as Secretariat after
running the Kentucky Derby.
Now don't get me wrong. The
building's not on fire, you're dead
relationship won't be all misconnected
energy and grief. There is one hour of
the day—between about2and 3pm —
when yotir biorhythms match and you
are both on the upswing. It's only 60
minutes, but that's 3600 seconds of
magic.Think hard before you pass that
meat!" It's HER on the phone, merrily
up.
white sandy beaches drift through your
subconscious when suddenly,
Alexander Graham Bell interrupts yotir
ecstasy. You reach for the offending
instrument and threaten, "if the
chirping,"oh gee,did 1 wake you? It's
already past seven and I thought we
'Johnny Carson in an article by Paul
could walk around town, hit a few
Rosenfield, "The Off-Camera
Carson,"Los Angeles Times Calendar,
museums, and have an early
lunch."You throw the phone against
the wall and burrow deeper under the
July 6,1986, p.4.
covers.
You waken hours later, way past the
time when the sun has passed its zenith
in the sky. Your idea ofthe perfect way
to start a lazy Sunday is with a late
brunch, as close to dinner time as
possible. After some window shopping
for things you can't afford, you're
dying for a horseback ride through the
park, a brisk swim in the pool, or an
invigorating game of raquetball. Your
adrenaline is high and you are ready to
conquer the world. She, unfortunately,
can't keep her eyelids open sans
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afternoon by the time you resemble a
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your heels till dawn on the agenda. Her
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FlEiSTA WFBKEAD
vSeptember 15,16 &.17 at I^exus &.P«I's
FeattiringLara Linette• Friday the 15th • 6pin
Who's Those Girls • All-Female Review From Dallas
Sunday the 17th • 10pm
Friday, September 8th,9pm
Lisa. Bpysou of Dallas
"One Woman Show" in Nexus
Wednesday, September 13th, 10pm
His Boy Elroy
Wednesday, September 27th, 10pm
The Julie Bui^rell HaudK^'
Bvery Wednesday at 9ptti
C&W Dance Lessons with Dena in PJ's
"Girl's IVight Out"
Thursdays in Nexus
With Brie,Tamara,Trishon & Tatiana
l ltlUAV HAPFX HOI K li\
September 1st — Denise Fawcett •6pm
September 8th — Nancy Ford • Comedy & Music • 7pm
Septmeber 15th — Lara Linette •6pm
Setpember 22nd — Alison Goodgame •6pm
September 29th — Birdie •6pm
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 21
hat A World,
hat A World!
Make A Wist)
by Nancy Ford
The other day on The Andy Grijfith
Show, Barney and Opie found an
Aladdin-like lamp and subsequently
were granted three wishes,all of which
came true. Watching this episode set
Miss Texases never say out loud but
always think.
me to thinkin' (that's Mayberry talk,)
about wishes, and reminded me of the
X that my friends would agree that it is
at least a remote possibility that the
time my sister Susan advised me of the
correct procedure to follow should I
ever be granted three wishes. I was to
spend the first two wishes in whatever
popular laser-tag game, in which
people themselves become human
game pieces, is not only futuristic
manner I desired,but must be sure that
also a guerilla U-aining program for an
my third wish was always for three
more wishes. Not unlike, lather, rinse,
army of laser warriors in the there-and-
repeat. It could go on forever.
X
With that in mind I have compiled the
detectors in airports.
following list of wishes should I ever
X three more wishes.
I further wish —
entertainment in the here-and-now,but
later.
keys that don't set off metal
happen to stumble upon a lamp of the
wish-granting genre. If it can happen to
Barney and Opie, it can happen to any
of us, and I want to be ready.
X that the French had a name for eggs
other than I'oeuf. It makes French
breakfast dishes taste lik®
I wish —
X for world peace
X an end to hunger.
sponges.
X thatIhadnot,asachild,decidedthat
old age was determined by whether or
not blue,root-like veins were visible on
X three more wishes. Now on to the
the back of one's hands.
good stuff; the wishes that potential
X three more wishes.
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^ that Jaclyn Smith would realize
that we don't believe for one minute
that she wears K-Mart clothes in real
life.
that Miss Crump would be my
teacher again next year. No, wait, that
was Opie's wish.
X an alarm clock that automatically
postpones ringing until after I've
completed any dream with Kim
Bassinger in it. No matter how late it
gets.
Stop in Houston September 12-17,and
every Thursday night at RiMarks
Cabaret with Randy Jobe in
"Performer's Showcase". Anyone
interested in auditioning for stage time
(singers, musicians, etc.) should call
Randy at 522-9485
Nancy Ford's column.
What A World,
What A World,
X three more wishes.
oppeors every
month right here in
X Endust really did.
X a permanent that really is.
Dimensions!
X three more wishes.
X the address of Cher's tattoo parlour.
X the time of her next appointment.
X three more wishes.
(to be continued in another issue.)
<S
nancy ford
Nancy Ford will be starring as Dorothy
Gale Storm in "The Wizard of
• comedy •
Montrose" or "Go To Hell, Dorothy
Gale", a musical comedy revue
' residential • commercial •
examining Houston's 1989 mayoral
race.The show will open on September
11th at RiMarks Cabaret, 2715
Waughcrest in Houston, and run'
Monday and Tuesday nights through
November.
Reservations
are
suggested. Call(713)524-2333.
Nancy will also be appearing at Nexus
in Austin on September 8th,at the Laff
for booking info
coii or write:
You'll See Productions
2990 Richmond #316
Houston,Texas 77098
(713) 721-4125
(713)520-7237
September 1989 • Dimensions• Page 23
the
offee f^lub
A Discussion of Lesbian Literature Both New and Old
This month, T. Sumner Reviews:
^lea
sures
hy Ulobhi Sommers
Edgewise
by Camariri Grae
I'll start out this month with Pleasures
(Naiad, Inc., S8.95) by Robbi
Sommers.This is a collection of"erotic
stories" for lesbians.
Frankly, I was bored. The first two or
many of these stories, the sex did not
enhance the plot.It wasas if the sex was
thrown in as an afterthought so that the
stories could be labeled "erotica".
1 also did not appreciate the selfpromotion ofPleasures in the last story
three were all right, but I found myself
skimming through the sex scenes as I
read through the rest. They all started to
"cutesy" and condescending that my
sound alike after awhile. All the women
intelligence was insulted.
seemed to have "ice-blue eyes" and a
"musky scent of womanhood".
Ms.Sommers does have talent, but it is
Some of the stories would have been
very good if it were not for the
"gratuitous"sex. By that I mean- that in
in the book. It was an ending so
not suited to this format. I probably
would have liked these stories if they
weren't all together in one book where
the flaws are magnified by repetition.
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There is a need in lesbian literature for
leaders of the Circle Edge community.
good erotica and there are a few
S he also discovers that her arrival in the
wonderful
community has been foretold and thatit
supposedly signals the beginnings of a
volumes
out
there.
Unfortunately, this isn't one I would
recommend. Many of the stories were
wonderful, but the sex only proved to
world-changing time.
As she gets more and more involved
be a distraction.
with the women of Circle Edge,Jude's
Now,in a totally different vein, we'll
look into Edgewise by Camarin Grae
(Naiad,Inc.,$9.95). The story revolves
lover and their friends become more
around Jude Alta who returns home to
danger in a symbolic ritual.
and more concerned . . . especially
when they learn that her life may be in
a small town in Colorado to visit her
Camarin Grae's novels are always
dying friend, Rosalie. The entire town
is awaiting word on how Rosalie's vast
wealth and property will be distributed.
intriguing but 1 found this one
The women of Circle Edge, a
mysterious feminist community
outside of town is also awaiting
Rosalie's death and disposition of her
wealth.
The women of Circle Edge have been
around as long as Jude can remember,
but neither she nor the town folk know
much about them. That is until Jude is
invited to visit their community.
Soon,Jude finds herself being taken in
by the religious beliefs and charismatic
especially so! She puts enormous
energy into creating situations and
personalities that are out of the norm —
this is especially true of Edgewise and
the Kwo-Amian religion Ms. Grae has
invented for it. This book is thoroughly
enjoyable and extremely well written. 1
highly recommend it to any lover of
intrigue and good fiction.
Both Pleasures and Edgewi.se are from
Naiad Press, Inc., P.O. Box 10543,
Tallahasee, PL 32302. Please enclose
15% postage. Complete catalogs are
available upon request
Curious Times
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September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 25
Stephanie
Knowlond has
the power...
What does
your ex-lover
meon to you?
Are you best friends? Enemies? Do
you provide emotional support for
Even as a child, Stephanie realized
that her psychic abilities set her
apart from others. Now, a crazed
killer whom she helped send to
prison is determined to exact his
revenge on Stephanie and her
lover. Stephanie's power Eilone is
not enough to save them against
the psychopath who has decided to
play a fiendish cat-and-mouse
game with the two women.
THE
CRYSTAL CURTAIN
one another . . . or have you lost
contact? Through dozens of per
sonal interviews with lesbians and
their ex-lovers, Carol Becker has
charted the course that a break-up
may take. She shows how the end of
a relationship can provide a time for
important personal growth, and
how former lovers can also serve as
the foundation for new forms of
family and community.
UNDROKEN TIES:
Lesbian Ex-Lovers
by Carol Decker
by Sandy Doyar
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WHAT 1$
YOUR NET
WORTH?.
ESOFAMEMCA
There is alot of talk these days about"net worth". Texas Monthly recently ran a list of
the 100 richest Texans,all had a net worth over one-hundred million dollars. Now,mine
wasn't even close to that and yours probably won't be either, but wouldn t you like to
know where you stand? The following questions are to help you figure your net worth.
Answer all the questions that pertain to you and leave the ones that don't apply blank.
Assets
What is the current balance of your:
Checking Account?
Savings Account?
IRA or Keough plans?
What is the current value of your:
Savings Certificates?
Savings Bonds?
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 27
Retirement or Profit Sharing Plan?
Cash Value of Life Insurance Policy?
S_
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Automobile?
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Household Furnishings & Appliances?
Jewelry & Furs?
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Other Assets?
$_
What Is The Market Value of:
Your Home?
Other Real Estate?
Stocks?
Bonds?
Mutual Funds?
$_
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Other Investments (including collectibles)?
$-
TOTAL ASSETS
Liabilities
What is the total of your:
Current Bills - including rent?
5-
Mortagage Balance?
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Credit Card Balances?
Auto Loan Balance?
Student Loan Balance?
Other Loan balances or Debts?
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TOTAL LIABILITIES
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To figure your current net \A/orth, subtract your
total liabilities from your total assets.
Total Assets
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9?
oefry
Not A Day Goes By ...
1 grant myself ten minutes to bask
in the iime-green,adoiescent glow,and
my heart striking xyiophone-ribs, but
i help your hand,anyway.
My shower runs like the one
you liked so much in San Antonio,
just in case you surprise me
and come by.
The realist in me shrugs,
takes one iast look for the day -
time and distance make dreams ragged
and more remnants drift away.
i share my iove with someone,now.
We don't know where we are going, but
she trusts and loves me in ways
I've never known.
And so that's good,
and . . . not a day goes by
that I don't think of you.
•S. Hoffman
McKinney, TX
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oroscope
What's in the Stars for You this month?
VIRGO
SCORPIO
(August 23rd- Sept 22nd)
You may be worried aboutjob security
during the first week of September.
Things will be looking up by week's
end and an idea of yours could even
lead to extra money.From the 9th thru
the 16th try to control your tendency to
be possessive and your love life will be
much happier. From the 17th thru the
23rd everything seems to fall in place
and you will be feeling in control again.
Problems with a partner will be worked
(Oct 24tti -Nov 22nd)
Affairs of the heart are accented during
the first week of September. Every
thing is going good at home and at
work.From the 9th thru the 16th a bad
situation at work could be getting
worse. This could lead to problems in
your personal life if you take out yoiu:
frustrations on loved ones. From the
17th thru the 23rd positive changes
will be on the horizon at work. Things
will improve in your relationship and
out if both sides make an effort. From
you will be more involved with others.
the 24th to the 30th you will be well on
your way to working through all your
problems and your outlook will be
From the 24th thru the 30th your
home life and career may,once again,
positive.
LIBRA
be competing with each other.You may
have tojuggle your time and energies to
keep everyone happy, but you'll come
through all right
(Sept 23rd - Oct 23rd)
Your love life is looking up during the
first week of September. Either yoiu
current romance is heating up or a new
one is just around the comer! From the
9th thru the 16th a career decision
SAGIHARIUS
(Nov23-Dec21)
The first week of September is a good
time for setting goals, both for career
and romance.Try to make them reason
should be put on hold. Time and per
able and accessible so that you don't get
spective could change your mind about
a goal you made in the past From the
in over your head. From the 9th thru
the 16th your love life will be in the
17th thru the 23rd don't let a co-
forefront. Your relationship with that
worker get in the way of your success
on the job. Someone could be trying to
special person will be strong and se
cure. Keep a conservative view on fi
sabotage your work. From the 24th
thru the 30th your social life is back in
fullswing and you can't waittojump in!
Your energy is high and you're ready to
play!
the 23rd you will be feeling very laidback. Keep in mind that curiosity can
get you in trouble and mind your own
nancial matters. From the 17th thru
business at work. From the 24th thru
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Property of the Center
the 30th you may be feeling nervous
think through important decisions.
and restless. Get out with friends or
plan some special activities to get you
out of the house.
PISCES
(Feb 19th-Mar 20th)
During the first week ofSeptember, it
is hard for anything to go wrong.Love,
CAPRICORN
(Dec 22nd - Jon 19lh)
Money matters could be taking up all
your dme during the first week of
September. A new, unexpected
romance could also heat up this week.
From the 9th thru the 16th everything
is going your way, as long as you
remember to put your career first. Work
may seem tedious but the rewards will
be plentiful. From the 17th to the 23rd
you may be thinking seriously
seriously about committing yourself to
a relationship. Don't go too fast, you
may still have your head in the clouds.
From the 24th thru the 30th be sure to
keep your emotions under control. A
problem in your relationship could
have you feeling down but things will
be back on track be the last day of the
month.
money, career, and social life are all
positive. The 9th thru the 16th will
prove to be a most productive week for
you,both at work and in your love life.
Your self-confidence will bring
positive reactions from those around
you. From the 17th to the 23rd you
may be feeling irresponsible and
irritated; but the latter part of the week
will find you more responsible,caring,
and playful. The 24th thru the 30th
may be full of emotional ups and
downs. You will come to realize how
importantanother person is to you.But,
at the same time, you may discover
some deception in a close personal
relationship. Try to rely on your
intuition. It won't steer you wrong.
ARIES
(Mar 21st-April 19)
AQUARIUS
The first week of September will find
(Jan 20th - Feb 18th)
The first week ofSeptember may find
move ahead. Don't expect too much,
you planning your career and how to
you re-assessing some persona!
you may have to return to the drawing
relationship, either at work or at home.
You will be at the center of attention
board several times to get everything
squared away. The 9th thru the 16th
from the9th thru the 16th.You maybe
could see your plans take off, don t be
feeling successful in every way, but
don't take on too much or you'll find
afraid to push for what you want.
yourselfswamped next week.From the
17th thru the 23rd you will be busy
planning personal goals and activities.
There could also be an exciting new
a new romance. From the 17th to the
let those you love know how you feel.
romance in the works. From the 24th
The 24th to the 30th may be
thru the 30th you should try to keep
emotionally trying, but don't let it get
you down. The last three days of the
month will bring both luck and love.
your positive attitude no matter what
you encounter. Make time this week to
Things may not be what they appear in
23rd you may be more concerned with
domestic affairs. Now is a fine time to
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 31
TAURUS
(April 20th-May 20th)
You may not find time for travel during
the first week of September, but that
will not make the lu'ge go away! Yoiu"
career is taking an upward turn thanks
to the attention ofa higher-up and it will
keep you firmly attached to your desk.
From the 9th thru the 16th romance
and social activities will have to be cut
back due to extra stress at work. From
CANCER
(June 22th - July 22th)
Social activities seem especially
attractive during the first week of
September. Romance will also spice
up your life.It may seem like all fun and
games but remember your
commitments and responsibilities.
From the 9th thru the 16th you may
feel like you are on a roller-coaster.
Maintain your charm and poise and it
will see you through these trying times.
the 17th thru the 23rd,yotir social and
romantic life will come back into play
and the feeling of isolation you have
been experiencing will go away. From
the 24th thru the 30th you may find
social calendar can leave you
you do not share the same romantic
emotionally drained. The week of the
feelings as someone you have been
seeing. The love and support offriends
24th thru the 30th will be exciting and
Be cautious with your money now.
From the 17th thru the 23rd it will be
best to stay home and relax. A full
may be more satisfying than that of a
rewarding. Your charm and charisma
could put you in the role of trendsetter
lover.
as well as filling your social calendar!
GEMINI
(May 21st - June 21st)
LEO
(July 23rcl - August 22nd)
Confidence and control are yoiu key
The first week of September could
assets during the first week of
find you moving ahead and making
September. Calm and poise will be
plans for your future. Be cautious with
your ticket to success. You will
your money - do not take any
unnecessary financial risks. The 9th to
succeed as long as you keep the
eccentric side of your nature under
the 16th will bring high energy,
control.The9th thru the 16th will find
you with a full social calendar and the
romance, and a full social calendar.
prospect of a new and exciting
romance. Control the urge to
overspend. You may have some
your temper and not insist on having
everything your way.From the 17th to
decisions to make about a relationship
firom the 17th to the 23rd. You could
find yourself pulled between the
This can be fun but you'll have to watch
the 23rd your thoughts will be torn
between yourpastand future. Don'tlet
a friend slip away because she will
prove to be very important to you later
carefree single life and an intense
on. From the 24th thru the 30th your
romantic involvement. From the 24th
career may seem to be going downhill,
but be patient, everything will work
out. This is a good time to relax with
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A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
ARLINGTON,TX (area code 817)
P.O. Box 225831 75222 • 948-1546
AIDS Resource Center
clubs
Britches & Bloomers
3920 Cedar Springs 75219
Dallas Gay Alliance
809 N. Collins • 860-8717
P.O. Box 190712 75219 .528-4233
organizations
Dallas Gay/Lesbian Historic Archives
3930 Cedar Springs « 821-1653
Dallas Gay Youth Group
Goy/Lesblcn Association of UTA
P.O. Box 19348-77. UTA St. 76019
794-5140
300 Turtle Creek Plaza #116 * 307-7203
Dallas Outdoors
P.O. Box 35474 75235• 276-5270
AUSTIN, TX (area code 512)
Dallas Tavern Guild
clubs
Nexus/Petticoat Junction
3900 Lemmon Ave. #220 • 526-5292
Foundation for Hurrran Understanding
401 & 401-B E. 2nci.495-9553
528-4233
organizations
528-4233
GayAesbian Young Adults
Affirmation (f^ethodist)
7403 Shoo! Creek • 451-2329
Grace Fellowship in Christ Jesus
2727 Oak Lawn 75219 .528-2811
Lesbian Information Line (LIL)
P.O. Box 191443 75219.528-2426
Austin Lambda
P.O. Box 5455 78763
Gay/Lesbian Student
Association at UT Austin •458-3971
Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338
Lesbia/Gay Political Coalition
P.O. Box 224424 75222.828-9882
Lesbian/Gay Rights Advocates
Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby
528-4233
P.O. Box 2505 78768
Lesbian Visionaries
Metropolitan Community Church
P.O. Box 191443 75219.521-9642
1100 Springdole Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Ministry
Metropiex Republicans
5555 N. Lomar Blvd. #L101 • 441-9191
Waterloo Counseling Center
P.O. Box 191033 75219.941-8114
Oak Lawn Community Services
3000 Turtie Creek Pldza, Suite 116
507 Powell 78703• 322-9654
75219-5311.520-8108
Texas Human Rights Foundation
Oak Lawn Symphonic Band
2201 N. Lomar # 203 78705•479-8473
P.O. Box 190973 75219.986-1751
Womyn Together
AIDS Legal Assistance 1-800-828-6417
3920 Cedar Springs.528-4233
DALLAS, TX (area code 214)
businesses
DENTON,TX (area code 817)
Business Delivery Systems
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14902 Preston Rd. 75240 • 733-1108
Crossroads Market
3930 Cedar Springs
521-8919 or 1-800-992-6404
Curious Times - Women's Books etc.
COURAGE, Lesbian Gay Student Org.
4008-D Cedar Springs 75219 • 528-4087
c/o Student Activities Center
P.O. Box 5067 76203.382-3813
FT. WORTH (area code 817)
clubs
ciubs
Jugs •3810 Congress
Partners
1612 Park Place.924-2519
Sue Ellen's
3903 Cedar Springs • 559-0707
Desert Moon • 5903 Willis • 828-4471
organizations
Affirmation (Methodist).478-7837
organizations
Affirmation (Methodist)
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HOUSTON,TX (area code 713)
clubs
Keystroke
Keystroke Hotline 785-9258
Ranch • 9125 S. Main •666-3464
organizallorts
AIDS Foundation
3400 Montrose #700• 524-AIDS
AIDS HOTLINE
c/o Switchboard • 529-3211
Gay/Lesbian Students
University of Houston
4800 Coihoun • 529-3211
Gay & Lesbian Switchboard
P.O. Box 66591 77266 • 529-3211
Houston Gay Political Caucus
P.O. Box 66664 77266 • 521-1000
Kingdom Community Church
614 E. 19th.862-7533
Lambda ALANON
Lambda Center for Aichohoiics
1214 Joanne • 521-9772
Inc.P.O. Box 190426
Dallas, TX 75219-0426 •(214) 307-7203
National Gay/Lesbian Clearinghouse
666 Broadway 4th Floor
NY, NY 10012
National Gay/Lesbian Crisisline
1-800-SOS-GAYS
National Gay/Lesbian Task Force
1517 U Street NW
Washington D.C. 20009 • 202-332-6483
The Fund for Human Dignity
666 Broadway 4th Floor
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NORMAN,OK (area code 405)
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Women's Resource Center
P.O. Box 5089 73070
OKLAHOMA CITY, OK
(area code 405)
Lesbian/Gay Students
University of Houston - Clear Lake
2700 Bay Area 77058
Montrose Pool League/Billiards
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PJ 863-8482
PWA Coalition - Houston
3327 Essex Lane *623-4436
2312 NW 39th 73112 • 794-7464
Womynspace
P.O. Box 980601 77098-0601
880-9517 or 521-0780
Women's Softball League
6431 Pineshade • 868-6256
LUBBOCK,TX (area code 806)
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Oasis the Community Center
2135 NW 39th 73112.525-AiDS
Herland Sister Resources, Inc.
SAN ANTONIO,TX
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The Circle
8021 Pinebrook « 341-2818
Memories
6402 Coiiaghan Road
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Names Project/Lubbock
Dignity/San Antonio
202 N. St. Mary's • 349-3632
Integrity/San Antonio
796-1800 or 744-1957
P.O. Box 150006 78212.684-4920
Lubbock Lesbian/Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 64746 79464• 796-2403
River City Living Metropolitan
Community Church
202 Holland 78212 • 822-1121
NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS
Affirmation: United Methodists for
LISA (Lesbian Information SA)
828-LISA (5472)
Lesbian/Gay Concerns
P.O. Box 1021 • Evanston, IL 60204
AIDS Action Council
San Antonio AIDS Foundation
P.O. Box 120113 78212-9313
San Antonio Tavern Guild • 822-2823
729 Eighth St. S.E. Suite 200
Washington. DC 20003 .(202) 547-3101
AIDS 800 • 1-800-221-7044
Conference For Catholic Lesbians
P.O. Box 436, Planetarium Station
New York, New York 10024
SOUTH PADRE ISLAND,TX
(area code 512)
accomodations
Lyie's Deck • 120 E. Atol St.
Ntt Gay Alliance for Young Adults,
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6th Annual Texas
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DALLAS, TX - The 6th annual
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pride parade, will be held on Sunday,
September 24,starting at 3:00 p.m.near
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the porch and grounds of ArUngton
Hall for the presentation of parade
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entertainment and speeches. The
Antonio Lesbian & Gay Assembly
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Dallas Tavern Guild is the proud
sponsor of these two events for the
a community umbrella organization,
SALGA would respond to the needs
lesbian and gay community.
The theme of this year's parade,
community which have not been
"STONEWALL 20: A Generation of
adequately addressed by traditional
individuals in the San Antonio area. As
and concerns of the lesbian and gay
Pride,"follows the national lesbian/gay
providers of community services. The
theme as we celebrate the twentieth
goal of the Assembly is to create a
anniversary of Stonewall rebellion in
New York City, which began during
the evening of June 27, 1969.
Participants of the parade will be asked
to express the positive and healthy
lives, attitudes and images of a
community that has shown great
mutually supportive community
network which would gather &
disperse information, promote
education & service programs, and
develop community facilities.
An Interregnum Board of Directors
was elected in June by an Ad-Hoc
strength during the past8 years with the
Community Steering Committee
battle against AIDS. The parade is not
a protest march, but rather a time to
which had been meeting since spring.
The Interregnum Board has been
acknowledge our political and social
charged with developing a governing
accomplishments over the past20 years
and to recognize our strengths during a
structure and seating the first
health crisis.
Letters of invitation with the parade
guidelines and application will be
permanent Board of Directors.
SALGA's first public event will be a
"Community Gathering" on Thursday,
September 7, 1989 at 411 Bonham
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 7
Street. Complimentary wine & buffet
at 7:30 p.m. and program at 8:00 p.m..
Interested
individuals
and
representatives from All area lesbian &
duration, in amounts ranging from
S20,000 to $50,000 each. A total of $1
million is available for this funding
round.
gay groups are urged to attend this
ground-breaking event. The two cochairs (female & male) will introduce
the interregnum directors and briefly
Between January 1981 and August
1989, over 100,000 persons have been
diagnosed with AIDS; over 58,0(X)
review the purposeand current status of
killed during the Vietnam War. The
SALGA.
Agenda items include:
1. Gay Fiesta, Sunday, October 15th,
La Villita Assembly Hall.
2.SALGA Community Directory - For
have died—more Americans than were
primary goal of this RFP is to provide
education on AIDS and HIV infection
through funding community-based,
community-service organizations with
an emphasis on those organizations
October release.
which have established ties to racial
3.'Heart Strings' AIDS benefit show,
Tuesday, October lOth, Majestic
and ethnic populations, IV drug and
substance abusers, people who are HIV
Theatre.
positive or have AIDS, and people who
Also, those with announcements or
reside in areas with fewer AIDS cases.
issues to be raised may contact the cochairs through the Switchboard at 733-
In announcing the availability of
funding. Conference of Mayors
7300.
Executive Director J. Thomas Cochran
(♦In Spanish "Saiga" means "Come
out")
said that the organization was fully
committed to providing funding and
technical assistance to those groups
MAYORS ANNOUNCE
which have the best access to people
AVAILABILITY OF AIDS
most. "Community-based
EDUCATION GRANTS
WASHINGTON, D.C. - The United
States Conference of Mayors is
releasing today its 8th Request for
Proposals (RFP) for funding of
community-based
AIDS
risk-
reduction education programs. The
who need HIV/AIDS information the
organizations, especially when
working with local government and the
local health department, have proven
their effectiveness in providing
accurate and appropriate information
and in ways that are accepted by their
audience. This must continue and we
targets of the Round 8 RFP include:
are committed to assisting them, "
racial and ethnic minorities; substance
Cochran said.
abusers (including intravenous drug,
crack cocaine and alcohol abusers);
HIV antibody positive individuals and
people with AIDS; and people who
Funding for the AIDS grants was made
available to the Conference of Mayors
by the federal Centers for Disease
Control. With this latest round of
reside in areas with fewer AIDS cases.
funding, the Conference of Mayors will
Approximately 20 grants will be
have awarded $3.54 million to fund 113
awarded for projects up to 12 months in
projects across the nation.
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Lesbian/Gay Leaders
Sponsor Notional
Coming Out Day
Santa Fe, NM - The 2nd annual
National Coming Out Day,October 11,
is being co-sponsored by a broad base
of highly respected community leaders
and organizations. The goal of NCOD
is to increase the visibility of the more
than 20 million gay people in the
United States. Last year's activities
received {xasitive media coverage
throughout the country, including
coverage in USA TODAY, CNN,
NATIONAL PUBLIC RADIO, THIS
WAY OUT, and the OPRAH
WINFREY SHOW.
October 11, the day of this annual
event,commemorates the 1987 March
on Washington for Lesbian and Gay
Rights."This is a grassroots campaign,
and its success depends on the
willingness of local groups to plan and
carry out events that support people to
take their next step in coming out"says
NCOD co-chair. Dr. Rob Eichberg.
As coming out is a process and not a
singular event, individuals are being
asked to "take the next step" in their
coming out process — a step which
may be very personalforsome and very
public for others. "Our power is
awesome,and it's time we use it." says
NCOD co-chair Jean O'Leary,
Executive Director of National Gay
Rights Advocates.
Joining the growing list of NCOD
sponsors are, among others: Jeff Levy
and Urvashi Vaid with the National
Gay and Lesbian Task Force; Boston
City Councillor, David Scondras;
writer Harvey Fierstein, comedian
Robin Tyler, and veteran activists
Virginia Apuzzo, Vivian Shapiro, and
Cleve Jones.
For more information, or to contribute
to NCOD, write to NCOD,P.O. Box
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A Monthy Listing of Special Events Aii Around Texas, Oklahoma & New Mexico
DALLAS - Lynn Lavner's coming to
Fund Committee Dinner on November
Texas! The short, left-handed, Jewish
lesbian from New York wiU be in Dallas on
11th. It will be black tie, $100 a plate, and
the theme will be "Blazing A Trail".
Saturday, September 30, for oneperformance only at Sammons Center for
the Arts. The event is co-sponsored by
DALLAS - Ride your bike, run or Walk
For Life on Saturday, September 16th at
Lesbian Visionaries and Littie Feather
White Rock Lake in Dallas.
Productions. Lavner will be in San
Start
Antonio Sunday, October 1 at THE
collecting pledges now and get ready to get
involved in the fight against AIDS. All
CIRCLE.
money will go to benefit the AIDS
Lavner's act might be described as
Resource Center, PWA Coalition,
xmconventional. Her songs and humor are
Nelson-Tebedo
drawn, she says, from her experiences,
"which are considerably different than the
experiences ofan average person from,let's
say Columbus, Nebraska." And,the quick
witted Lavner, who stands only five feet
tall, performs in black leather.
Community Outreach Center of Ft.
AIDS
Clinic,
Worth, the Pentamidine Mist Program
and The Food Bank. Walk For Life is
being sponsored by 98-KZEW (The Zoo)
and you can get more information from the
WalkUne at(214)484-0990.
Don't forget to mark your calendars!
Dallas, September 30 and San Antonio
October 1. Tickets for the Dallas
performance are $10 and are available at
CURIOUS TIMES. Please contact THE
CIRCLE for ticket info in San Antonio.
SAN ANTONIO - It's may sound a little
early, but next summer's Third Annual
Texas Lesbian Conference wiU be held in
San Antonio! Theplanningstartsnow and if
you'd like to be a part of it, show up at the
DENMARK - Okay - this is reaUy
exciting! On October 1, 1989 Denmark
will become the first country to legalize
gay and lesbian marriages! This will
grant these marriages full and equal
rights under the law. We gan make it
happen here if we try hard enough.
AUSTIN - Ifyou arelooking forlivemusic,
you'll find it this month at NEXUS &
Esperanca Peace & Justice Center,
PETTICOAT JUNCTION! On the 1st it's
DeniseFawcett,onthel3th HisBoyElroy
Thursday, September 21st at 7pm. The
hits the stage, Lara Linette plays on the
center is located at 1305 N. Flores. If you
aren't able to attend but would still like to be
involved, call the center at(512)228-0201
or the LISA line and leave your name and
number. Also,a party of several Lesbian &
Gay Organizations under the umbrella of
15th, the 22nd brings Alison Goodgame,
and on the 27th catch the Julie Burrell
Band. But, of course, there's more than
music! Lisa Bryson (former Ms. Gay
Dallas)wiU bring her"One Woman Show"
to NEXUS on the 8th. Who's Those Girls,
an all-female review from Dallas, will
the Esperanca Peace & Justice Center are
holding a fundraising brunch for the center
entertain you on the 17th and Nancy Ford
on September 16th. Last, but not least, get
will strut her stuff on the 8th!
ready for the Human Rights Campaign
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 11
HOUSTON - The Country Express Band
will be playing at the RANCH on Tuesday
the 17th.There won't be any cover because
(Shhhhh...I'mnotsupposed to tell you this
...)it's Betsy's Birthday! Wish her a good
one when you pass her on the dance floor!
Also be sure to check out the RANCH's new
DALLAS - If you are a golfer,sign up now
for the 1st Annual DESERT MOON Golf
Classic! The date hadn't been set at press
time but it wiU happen in October so get
your golf clubs out now and polish up your
putting skills! Check at the bar for date,
location and tee-off time!
frozen drink machine, from what I've
heard, it's pretty amazing and can even
make frozen white russian's, Mmmmm,
SAN ANTONIO - Ping Pong is the name of
sounds good.
CIRCLE is the place! Yes, the Ping Pong
the game, S50 is first prize and THE
Tournament is on and it happens
DALLAS - Okay girls... you'vejust got to
get on out to SUE ELLEN's and check out
the"Super,Spectacular,Sunday Show"!
There's all manner of great performers and
with MC Kathy Jack, you can't go wrong.
Also be sure you don'tmiss Happy Hour at
SUE ELLEN's. It happens everyday from
3pm till 8pm and Fridays until 9pm. Plus,
there's all kinds of other drink specials so,
September 3rd at 2pm so get ready!
Tuesday NightTopics atTHE CIRCLE this
month are "Body Image" on the 5th and
"Beyond Shame" with a guest speaker on
the 19th. Be sure to check out Thursday
night steak night and nightly drink specials
- you're sure to find something to suit your
fancy!
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gnes
ear
Answers to your questions about love,
relationships & personal problems
Dear Agnes,
I am a SWF,I have a boyfriend whom Icare
about very much. But recently I have been
thinking more and more about having an
affair with another woman (mind you, I
Dear Agnes,
I have a problem that is driving me up the
wall, my lover. We have been together for
five years and up until the last four or five
months everything was fine. We worked,
haven't gone looking and I have no-one in
came home, and had a fairly quite life
mind). But these curiosities have led me to
except for an occasional wild party. We
start doing things I never would have done
have some friends but don't see them except
before.
weekends.
I bought a vibrator! Although this has been
All of a sudden about five months ago Ann
somewhatsatisfying I still have these urges.
started a night class. Suddenly she was
I do not know any lesbians and would never
moody, preoccupied, gone alot and when
go to a bar with the threat of AIDS at every
comer. Although I am straight, I still have
she did come home, she ignored me. This
this fantasy of being with a woman.
Are there any books I can order to get more
She has brought a woman home to "study"
with a couple of times and that has been the
fulfillment from my vibrator? Is one
vibrator better than the other? What is my
only time I have seen her in a good mood for
next step?
study or to the library, and she doesn'tcome
Desperately waiting for your advice!
home till after dark most nights. Our sex life
is dead, we don't talk to each other any
more, and if I didn't know better, I would
swear she wants out of this relationship.
Dear Desperately Waiting,
With AIDS "around every comer", I
certainly hope you are having "safe sex"
describes our existence from then utill now.
all these months. Weekends she's gone to
What do you think? I've tried talking to her
with your boyfriend! You will not contact it
and it's like talking to a brick wall. She
sitting on a toilet seat in a bar-gay or
glares at me like I am nuts and refuses to
straight.
talk. I feel like I am going crazy. What can
The experts I contacted on vibrators assure
I do?Ireally don't want to leave her,but this
me that there are some that are more
is like living in hell!
Help! Tulsa
satisfying than others, but after consulting
two or tfiree,I am convinced it is a matter of
personal taste. I suggest going to your local
Dear Help,
sex shop or book store for a little shopping
spree. If you are too shy, take your
Tell her your preception of what is
boyfriend. You can mail order books and
vibrators.
I guess the next step is up to you. Your letter
leaves me with one question, where did you
pick up a Dimensions....
happening.Try to explain in terms of,"I feel
like you are constantly in a bad mood"or"I
feel ". Try not to make her defensive, but
do try to get her to talk. Suggest couples
counseling and see if you get a response. If
she is willing to go, by all means go. If she
Page 14 • Dimensions • September 1989
isn't receptive to the idea, you might
consider talking to a counselor to help sort
though your feeling right now.
You can not make her talk! But the most
have always voted but I'm afraid I voted for
the wrong people for the wrong reasons. I
didn't realize that you can'tjust get rid of a
president in four years if you don't like him
important asset in a relationship is
—his legacy remains in the Supreme Court
communication. Refusing to talk about a
problem does notfix it, nor does it make the
problem go away.
for years to come.
Believe me,I know better now and I, for
which is difficult when problems arise,
one,am following your advice. After all, if
we can't get and keep our rights as women,
how will we ever get our rights as gays?
especially relationship problems.Getoutof
A New Believer
Take steps to maintain your self-esteem
the house,make plans with friends,go to the
library, join an exercise class, don't sit
home and wait for your lover to come home
in a bad mood ever night. Her attitude and
behavior are not your fault. So whatever
you do, don't lay a guilt trip on yourself.
Dear Believer,
I think we have alllearned that sitting on the
sidelines is a dangerous occupation that
does not pay. Enough said!
Dear Agnes,
Activist Seeking Direction in last month's
column hit the nail on the head. I am 27
years old and when I got out of high school,
I never worried about equal pay, my right to
an abortion or anything else. I guess 1
thought it was all settled and that it would
never go backwards.
Boy, was I wrong! I'm learning now that
you don't just have to fight to
your
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by Karen Dole Wolmon^^^p
Over the years, I've heard countless
not too difticuino recognize, here are
tales of love affairs that were doomed
from the start. There is the case of the
health food freak with the junk food
few clues to tip you off in case she
catches you off guard: she awakens
without being blasted out of bed by an
junkie, the quiet intellectual with the
alarm clock with more decibels than an
party animal and the hopeless slob with
as many strikes against it as the one
AC/DC concert, greets sparrows by
name, becomes verbal before an
intravaneous infusion of thick,
with the mismatched circadian
Columbian brew and makes the bed
the neat freak. But no relationship has
rhythms.Try and visualize the scenario
before taking a shower. As a wise m^
when a bonafide night person hooks up
with the strangest of human beings:
once said, "don't trust anyone who's
alert before eleven in the morning."'
Now,match this strange bird up with a
THE MORNING PERSON. The
relationship is destined for failure
before the pair is even introduced.
A few words of warning are called for
here. Although the morning person is
genuine night owl and feathers are sure
to fly. As all of us late rising creatures
have known since pre-embryonic
stage, the alarm clock is a medieval
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 17
instrument of torture invented by a
offer of a cocktail; she doesn't want to
sadistic madman who makes Attila the
stay out too late. You wouldn't mind
timiing in early with her.
Hun appear benevolent. As for the
button that allows a few extra minutes
ofsleep,don'tbefooled.It'sjusta tease
engineered by someone on the payroll
of Phyllis Schafly.
Things are innocent enough when you
first meet this morning person. She's
attractive, friendly without being
You start to get nervous as her eyelids
droop and the conversation falters. It
takes yotir all to convince this creature
to go to that cute little cappucino and
cannoli place after the meal. When you
leave the dessert shop,she walks with
. . the alarm clock is a medieval instrument of
torture invented by a sadistic madman who
mokes Attila the Hun appear benevolent.
pushy,and has no interest whatsoever
in your astrological sign. She seems to
be genuinely interested in you and asks
intelligent questions about your work
— without trying to discover your
salary or whether you can sneak a tryst
to Maui onto your expense account
After you've been chatting for awhile
and she hasn't mentioned a psychotic
her arm around your waist. At first you
think it's romantic, but you quickly
realize she's doing it for support. She
has trouble walking when she's half
asleep.
Notonly is yourenergy peaking,butthe
caffeine and sugar have you flying
Just as you're aboutto offer your phone
high.You'd invite her in for a nightcap,
but you don't think she can stay awake
thatlong.Instead,you get her into acab,
give her address to the driver — she's
not coherent enough to do it herself—
number,she asks ifshe may take you to
and head for the nearest nightclub —
ex-girlfriend or an obsession with cats,
you figure you've caught a live one.
dinner later in the week. As it's still
solo.
early, you have no clue as to her true
Now I'm not saying that a one night
stand — started early enough — with a
nature.
Imagine your first date with this new
woman. She insists on picking you up
for dinner at 5:30. Although that's just
past your usual lunchtime, you are
flattered that she can't wait to see you
and do your best to put yourself
together before the firstcommuter train
pulls into suburbia.She arrives right on
time, armed with candy and flowers.
You smile when she turns down you
morning person isa bad idea,butdo you
really want to spend your life with
someone who whistles as she gels her
hair and considers 9am late morning?
Granted, she is the type to serve you
breakfast in bed, but it is liable to be
oatmeal — and she'll expect you to eat
it.
To a person who grunts and growls if
spoken to before noon and believes that
Page 18 • Dimensions • September 1989
7am garbage collections are a
communist plot, the early rising
specimen is anathema. Envision the
scenario: you are miles deep under
thick, warm comforters on one rainy
Sunday morn. Hazy Technicolor
visions of candlelight dinners and
staying up till nine watching reruns of
The Loveboat. Just as you begin to
show signs of life, she's got about as
much energy as Secretariat after
running the Kentucky Derby.
Now don't get me wrong. The
building's not on fire, you're dead
relationship won't be all misconnected
energy and grief. There is one hour of
the day—between about2and 3pm —
when yotir biorhythms match and you
are both on the upswing. It's only 60
minutes, but that's 3600 seconds of
magic.Think hard before you pass that
meat!" It's HER on the phone, merrily
up.
white sandy beaches drift through your
subconscious when suddenly,
Alexander Graham Bell interrupts yotir
ecstasy. You reach for the offending
instrument and threaten, "if the
chirping,"oh gee,did 1 wake you? It's
already past seven and I thought we
'Johnny Carson in an article by Paul
could walk around town, hit a few
Rosenfield, "The Off-Camera
Carson,"Los Angeles Times Calendar,
museums, and have an early
lunch."You throw the phone against
the wall and burrow deeper under the
July 6,1986, p.4.
covers.
You waken hours later, way past the
time when the sun has passed its zenith
in the sky. Your idea ofthe perfect way
to start a lazy Sunday is with a late
brunch, as close to dinner time as
possible. After some window shopping
for things you can't afford, you're
dying for a horseback ride through the
park, a brisk swim in the pool, or an
invigorating game of raquetball. Your
adrenaline is high and you are ready to
conquer the world. She, unfortunately,
can't keep her eyelids open sans
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relationship won't work. It's late
afternoon by the time you resemble a
Please serxl your written reply to:
human being;she's yawning and ready
to take a nap. You've got a workout at
Personnel Dept.
the gym,a late dinner, and kicking up
your heels till dawn on the agenda. Her
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FlEiSTA WFBKEAD
vSeptember 15,16 &.17 at I^exus &.P«I's
FeattiringLara Linette• Friday the 15th • 6pin
Who's Those Girls • All-Female Review From Dallas
Sunday the 17th • 10pm
Friday, September 8th,9pm
Lisa. Bpysou of Dallas
"One Woman Show" in Nexus
Wednesday, September 13th, 10pm
His Boy Elroy
Wednesday, September 27th, 10pm
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September 8th — Nancy Ford • Comedy & Music • 7pm
Septmeber 15th — Lara Linette •6pm
Setpember 22nd — Alison Goodgame •6pm
September 29th — Birdie •6pm
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 21
hat A World,
hat A World!
Make A Wist)
by Nancy Ford
The other day on The Andy Grijfith
Show, Barney and Opie found an
Aladdin-like lamp and subsequently
were granted three wishes,all of which
came true. Watching this episode set
Miss Texases never say out loud but
always think.
me to thinkin' (that's Mayberry talk,)
about wishes, and reminded me of the
X that my friends would agree that it is
at least a remote possibility that the
time my sister Susan advised me of the
correct procedure to follow should I
ever be granted three wishes. I was to
spend the first two wishes in whatever
popular laser-tag game, in which
people themselves become human
game pieces, is not only futuristic
manner I desired,but must be sure that
also a guerilla U-aining program for an
my third wish was always for three
more wishes. Not unlike, lather, rinse,
army of laser warriors in the there-and-
repeat. It could go on forever.
X
With that in mind I have compiled the
detectors in airports.
following list of wishes should I ever
X three more wishes.
I further wish —
entertainment in the here-and-now,but
later.
keys that don't set off metal
happen to stumble upon a lamp of the
wish-granting genre. If it can happen to
Barney and Opie, it can happen to any
of us, and I want to be ready.
X that the French had a name for eggs
other than I'oeuf. It makes French
breakfast dishes taste lik®
I wish —
X for world peace
X an end to hunger.
sponges.
X thatIhadnot,asachild,decidedthat
old age was determined by whether or
not blue,root-like veins were visible on
X three more wishes. Now on to the
the back of one's hands.
good stuff; the wishes that potential
X three more wishes.
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^ that Jaclyn Smith would realize
that we don't believe for one minute
that she wears K-Mart clothes in real
life.
that Miss Crump would be my
teacher again next year. No, wait, that
was Opie's wish.
X an alarm clock that automatically
postpones ringing until after I've
completed any dream with Kim
Bassinger in it. No matter how late it
gets.
Stop in Houston September 12-17,and
every Thursday night at RiMarks
Cabaret with Randy Jobe in
"Performer's Showcase". Anyone
interested in auditioning for stage time
(singers, musicians, etc.) should call
Randy at 522-9485
Nancy Ford's column.
What A World,
What A World,
X three more wishes.
oppeors every
month right here in
X Endust really did.
X a permanent that really is.
Dimensions!
X three more wishes.
X the address of Cher's tattoo parlour.
X the time of her next appointment.
X three more wishes.
(to be continued in another issue.)
<S
nancy ford
Nancy Ford will be starring as Dorothy
Gale Storm in "The Wizard of
• comedy •
Montrose" or "Go To Hell, Dorothy
Gale", a musical comedy revue
' residential • commercial •
examining Houston's 1989 mayoral
race.The show will open on September
11th at RiMarks Cabaret, 2715
Waughcrest in Houston, and run'
Monday and Tuesday nights through
November.
Reservations
are
suggested. Call(713)524-2333.
Nancy will also be appearing at Nexus
in Austin on September 8th,at the Laff
for booking info
coii or write:
You'll See Productions
2990 Richmond #316
Houston,Texas 77098
(713) 721-4125
(713)520-7237
September 1989 • Dimensions• Page 23
the
offee f^lub
A Discussion of Lesbian Literature Both New and Old
This month, T. Sumner Reviews:
^lea
sures
hy Ulobhi Sommers
Edgewise
by Camariri Grae
I'll start out this month with Pleasures
(Naiad, Inc., S8.95) by Robbi
Sommers.This is a collection of"erotic
stories" for lesbians.
Frankly, I was bored. The first two or
many of these stories, the sex did not
enhance the plot.It wasas if the sex was
thrown in as an afterthought so that the
stories could be labeled "erotica".
1 also did not appreciate the selfpromotion ofPleasures in the last story
three were all right, but I found myself
skimming through the sex scenes as I
read through the rest. They all started to
"cutesy" and condescending that my
sound alike after awhile. All the women
intelligence was insulted.
seemed to have "ice-blue eyes" and a
"musky scent of womanhood".
Ms.Sommers does have talent, but it is
Some of the stories would have been
very good if it were not for the
"gratuitous"sex. By that I mean- that in
in the book. It was an ending so
not suited to this format. I probably
would have liked these stories if they
weren't all together in one book where
the flaws are magnified by repetition.
Page 24• Dimensions • September T989
There is a need in lesbian literature for
leaders of the Circle Edge community.
good erotica and there are a few
S he also discovers that her arrival in the
wonderful
community has been foretold and thatit
supposedly signals the beginnings of a
volumes
out
there.
Unfortunately, this isn't one I would
recommend. Many of the stories were
wonderful, but the sex only proved to
world-changing time.
As she gets more and more involved
be a distraction.
with the women of Circle Edge,Jude's
Now,in a totally different vein, we'll
look into Edgewise by Camarin Grae
(Naiad,Inc.,$9.95). The story revolves
lover and their friends become more
around Jude Alta who returns home to
danger in a symbolic ritual.
and more concerned . . . especially
when they learn that her life may be in
a small town in Colorado to visit her
Camarin Grae's novels are always
dying friend, Rosalie. The entire town
is awaiting word on how Rosalie's vast
wealth and property will be distributed.
intriguing but 1 found this one
The women of Circle Edge, a
mysterious feminist community
outside of town is also awaiting
Rosalie's death and disposition of her
wealth.
The women of Circle Edge have been
around as long as Jude can remember,
but neither she nor the town folk know
much about them. That is until Jude is
invited to visit their community.
Soon,Jude finds herself being taken in
by the religious beliefs and charismatic
especially so! She puts enormous
energy into creating situations and
personalities that are out of the norm —
this is especially true of Edgewise and
the Kwo-Amian religion Ms. Grae has
invented for it. This book is thoroughly
enjoyable and extremely well written. 1
highly recommend it to any lover of
intrigue and good fiction.
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THE
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9?
oefry
Not A Day Goes By ...
1 grant myself ten minutes to bask
in the iime-green,adoiescent glow,and
my heart striking xyiophone-ribs, but
i help your hand,anyway.
My shower runs like the one
you liked so much in San Antonio,
just in case you surprise me
and come by.
The realist in me shrugs,
takes one iast look for the day -
time and distance make dreams ragged
and more remnants drift away.
i share my iove with someone,now.
We don't know where we are going, but
she trusts and loves me in ways
I've never known.
And so that's good,
and . . . not a day goes by
that I don't think of you.
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McKinney, TX
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oroscope
What's in the Stars for You this month?
VIRGO
SCORPIO
(August 23rd- Sept 22nd)
You may be worried aboutjob security
during the first week of September.
Things will be looking up by week's
end and an idea of yours could even
lead to extra money.From the 9th thru
the 16th try to control your tendency to
be possessive and your love life will be
much happier. From the 17th thru the
23rd everything seems to fall in place
and you will be feeling in control again.
Problems with a partner will be worked
(Oct 24tti -Nov 22nd)
Affairs of the heart are accented during
the first week of September. Every
thing is going good at home and at
work.From the 9th thru the 16th a bad
situation at work could be getting
worse. This could lead to problems in
your personal life if you take out yoiu:
frustrations on loved ones. From the
17th thru the 23rd positive changes
will be on the horizon at work. Things
will improve in your relationship and
out if both sides make an effort. From
you will be more involved with others.
the 24th to the 30th you will be well on
your way to working through all your
problems and your outlook will be
From the 24th thru the 30th your
home life and career may,once again,
positive.
LIBRA
be competing with each other.You may
have tojuggle your time and energies to
keep everyone happy, but you'll come
through all right
(Sept 23rd - Oct 23rd)
Your love life is looking up during the
first week of September. Either yoiu
current romance is heating up or a new
one is just around the comer! From the
9th thru the 16th a career decision
SAGIHARIUS
(Nov23-Dec21)
The first week of September is a good
time for setting goals, both for career
and romance.Try to make them reason
should be put on hold. Time and per
able and accessible so that you don't get
spective could change your mind about
a goal you made in the past From the
in over your head. From the 9th thru
the 16th your love life will be in the
17th thru the 23rd don't let a co-
forefront. Your relationship with that
worker get in the way of your success
on the job. Someone could be trying to
special person will be strong and se
cure. Keep a conservative view on fi
sabotage your work. From the 24th
thru the 30th your social life is back in
fullswing and you can't waittojump in!
Your energy is high and you're ready to
play!
the 23rd you will be feeling very laidback. Keep in mind that curiosity can
get you in trouble and mind your own
nancial matters. From the 17th thru
business at work. From the 24th thru
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Property of the Center
the 30th you may be feeling nervous
think through important decisions.
and restless. Get out with friends or
plan some special activities to get you
out of the house.
PISCES
(Feb 19th-Mar 20th)
During the first week ofSeptember, it
is hard for anything to go wrong.Love,
CAPRICORN
(Dec 22nd - Jon 19lh)
Money matters could be taking up all
your dme during the first week of
September. A new, unexpected
romance could also heat up this week.
From the 9th thru the 16th everything
is going your way, as long as you
remember to put your career first. Work
may seem tedious but the rewards will
be plentiful. From the 17th to the 23rd
you may be thinking seriously
seriously about committing yourself to
a relationship. Don't go too fast, you
may still have your head in the clouds.
From the 24th thru the 30th be sure to
keep your emotions under control. A
problem in your relationship could
have you feeling down but things will
be back on track be the last day of the
month.
money, career, and social life are all
positive. The 9th thru the 16th will
prove to be a most productive week for
you,both at work and in your love life.
Your self-confidence will bring
positive reactions from those around
you. From the 17th to the 23rd you
may be feeling irresponsible and
irritated; but the latter part of the week
will find you more responsible,caring,
and playful. The 24th thru the 30th
may be full of emotional ups and
downs. You will come to realize how
importantanother person is to you.But,
at the same time, you may discover
some deception in a close personal
relationship. Try to rely on your
intuition. It won't steer you wrong.
ARIES
(Mar 21st-April 19)
AQUARIUS
The first week of September will find
(Jan 20th - Feb 18th)
The first week ofSeptember may find
move ahead. Don't expect too much,
you planning your career and how to
you re-assessing some persona!
you may have to return to the drawing
relationship, either at work or at home.
You will be at the center of attention
board several times to get everything
squared away. The 9th thru the 16th
from the9th thru the 16th.You maybe
could see your plans take off, don t be
feeling successful in every way, but
don't take on too much or you'll find
afraid to push for what you want.
yourselfswamped next week.From the
17th thru the 23rd you will be busy
planning personal goals and activities.
There could also be an exciting new
a new romance. From the 17th to the
let those you love know how you feel.
romance in the works. From the 24th
The 24th to the 30th may be
thru the 30th you should try to keep
emotionally trying, but don't let it get
you down. The last three days of the
month will bring both luck and love.
your positive attitude no matter what
you encounter. Make time this week to
Things may not be what they appear in
23rd you may be more concerned with
domestic affairs. Now is a fine time to
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 31
TAURUS
(April 20th-May 20th)
You may not find time for travel during
the first week of September, but that
will not make the lu'ge go away! Yoiu"
career is taking an upward turn thanks
to the attention ofa higher-up and it will
keep you firmly attached to your desk.
From the 9th thru the 16th romance
and social activities will have to be cut
back due to extra stress at work. From
CANCER
(June 22th - July 22th)
Social activities seem especially
attractive during the first week of
September. Romance will also spice
up your life.It may seem like all fun and
games but remember your
commitments and responsibilities.
From the 9th thru the 16th you may
feel like you are on a roller-coaster.
Maintain your charm and poise and it
will see you through these trying times.
the 17th thru the 23rd,yotir social and
romantic life will come back into play
and the feeling of isolation you have
been experiencing will go away. From
the 24th thru the 30th you may find
social calendar can leave you
you do not share the same romantic
emotionally drained. The week of the
feelings as someone you have been
seeing. The love and support offriends
24th thru the 30th will be exciting and
Be cautious with your money now.
From the 17th thru the 23rd it will be
best to stay home and relax. A full
may be more satisfying than that of a
rewarding. Your charm and charisma
could put you in the role of trendsetter
lover.
as well as filling your social calendar!
GEMINI
(May 21st - June 21st)
LEO
(July 23rcl - August 22nd)
Confidence and control are yoiu key
The first week of September could
assets during the first week of
find you moving ahead and making
September. Calm and poise will be
plans for your future. Be cautious with
your ticket to success. You will
your money - do not take any
unnecessary financial risks. The 9th to
succeed as long as you keep the
eccentric side of your nature under
the 16th will bring high energy,
control.The9th thru the 16th will find
you with a full social calendar and the
romance, and a full social calendar.
prospect of a new and exciting
romance. Control the urge to
overspend. You may have some
your temper and not insist on having
everything your way.From the 17th to
decisions to make about a relationship
firom the 17th to the 23rd. You could
find yourself pulled between the
This can be fun but you'll have to watch
the 23rd your thoughts will be torn
between yourpastand future. Don'tlet
a friend slip away because she will
prove to be very important to you later
carefree single life and an intense
on. From the 24th thru the 30th your
romantic involvement. From the 24th
career may seem to be going downhill,
but be patient, everything will work
out. This is a good time to relax with
thru the 30th you will have a tendency
to overreact both emotionally and
physically. Keep a short rein on your
loved ones.
temper.
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Irecfory
A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
ARLINGTON,TX (area code 817)
P.O. Box 225831 75222 • 948-1546
AIDS Resource Center
clubs
Britches & Bloomers
3920 Cedar Springs 75219
Dallas Gay Alliance
809 N. Collins • 860-8717
P.O. Box 190712 75219 .528-4233
organizations
Dallas Gay/Lesbian Historic Archives
3930 Cedar Springs « 821-1653
Dallas Gay Youth Group
Goy/Lesblcn Association of UTA
P.O. Box 19348-77. UTA St. 76019
794-5140
300 Turtle Creek Plaza #116 * 307-7203
Dallas Outdoors
P.O. Box 35474 75235• 276-5270
AUSTIN, TX (area code 512)
Dallas Tavern Guild
clubs
Nexus/Petticoat Junction
3900 Lemmon Ave. #220 • 526-5292
Foundation for Hurrran Understanding
401 & 401-B E. 2nci.495-9553
528-4233
organizations
528-4233
GayAesbian Young Adults
Affirmation (f^ethodist)
7403 Shoo! Creek • 451-2329
Grace Fellowship in Christ Jesus
2727 Oak Lawn 75219 .528-2811
Lesbian Information Line (LIL)
P.O. Box 191443 75219.528-2426
Austin Lambda
P.O. Box 5455 78763
Gay/Lesbian Student
Association at UT Austin •458-3971
Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338
Lesbia/Gay Political Coalition
P.O. Box 224424 75222.828-9882
Lesbian/Gay Rights Advocates
Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby
528-4233
P.O. Box 2505 78768
Lesbian Visionaries
Metropolitan Community Church
P.O. Box 191443 75219.521-9642
1100 Springdole Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Ministry
Metropiex Republicans
5555 N. Lomar Blvd. #L101 • 441-9191
Waterloo Counseling Center
P.O. Box 191033 75219.941-8114
Oak Lawn Community Services
3000 Turtie Creek Pldza, Suite 116
507 Powell 78703• 322-9654
75219-5311.520-8108
Texas Human Rights Foundation
Oak Lawn Symphonic Band
2201 N. Lomar # 203 78705•479-8473
P.O. Box 190973 75219.986-1751
Womyn Together
AIDS Legal Assistance 1-800-828-6417
3920 Cedar Springs.528-4233
DALLAS, TX (area code 214)
businesses
DENTON,TX (area code 817)
Business Delivery Systems
organizations
14902 Preston Rd. 75240 • 733-1108
Crossroads Market
3930 Cedar Springs
521-8919 or 1-800-992-6404
Curious Times - Women's Books etc.
COURAGE, Lesbian Gay Student Org.
4008-D Cedar Springs 75219 • 528-4087
c/o Student Activities Center
P.O. Box 5067 76203.382-3813
FT. WORTH (area code 817)
clubs
ciubs
Jugs •3810 Congress
Partners
1612 Park Place.924-2519
Sue Ellen's
3903 Cedar Springs • 559-0707
Desert Moon • 5903 Willis • 828-4471
organizations
Affirmation (Methodist).478-7837
organizations
Affirmation (Methodist)
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 33
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HOUSTON,TX (area code 713)
clubs
Keystroke
Keystroke Hotline 785-9258
Ranch • 9125 S. Main •666-3464
organizallorts
AIDS Foundation
3400 Montrose #700• 524-AIDS
AIDS HOTLINE
c/o Switchboard • 529-3211
Gay/Lesbian Students
University of Houston
4800 Coihoun • 529-3211
Gay & Lesbian Switchboard
P.O. Box 66591 77266 • 529-3211
Houston Gay Political Caucus
P.O. Box 66664 77266 • 521-1000
Kingdom Community Church
614 E. 19th.862-7533
Lambda ALANON
Lambda Center for Aichohoiics
1214 Joanne • 521-9772
Inc.P.O. Box 190426
Dallas, TX 75219-0426 •(214) 307-7203
National Gay/Lesbian Clearinghouse
666 Broadway 4th Floor
NY, NY 10012
National Gay/Lesbian Crisisline
1-800-SOS-GAYS
National Gay/Lesbian Task Force
1517 U Street NW
Washington D.C. 20009 • 202-332-6483
The Fund for Human Dignity
666 Broadway 4th Floor
NY, NY 10012
NORMAN,OK (area code 405)
organizations
Women's Resource Center
P.O. Box 5089 73070
OKLAHOMA CITY, OK
(area code 405)
Lesbian/Gay Students
University of Houston - Clear Lake
2700 Bay Area 77058
Montrose Pool League/Billiards
organizations
PJ 863-8482
PWA Coalition - Houston
3327 Essex Lane *623-4436
2312 NW 39th 73112 • 794-7464
Womynspace
P.O. Box 980601 77098-0601
880-9517 or 521-0780
Women's Softball League
6431 Pineshade • 868-6256
LUBBOCK,TX (area code 806)
organizations
Oasis the Community Center
2135 NW 39th 73112.525-AiDS
Herland Sister Resources, Inc.
SAN ANTONIO,TX
(area code 512)
clubs
The Circle
8021 Pinebrook « 341-2818
Memories
6402 Coiiaghan Road
organizations
Names Project/Lubbock
Dignity/San Antonio
202 N. St. Mary's • 349-3632
Integrity/San Antonio
796-1800 or 744-1957
P.O. Box 150006 78212.684-4920
Lubbock Lesbian/Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 64746 79464• 796-2403
River City Living Metropolitan
Community Church
202 Holland 78212 • 822-1121
NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS
Affirmation: United Methodists for
LISA (Lesbian Information SA)
828-LISA (5472)
Lesbian/Gay Concerns
P.O. Box 1021 • Evanston, IL 60204
AIDS Action Council
San Antonio AIDS Foundation
P.O. Box 120113 78212-9313
San Antonio Tavern Guild • 822-2823
729 Eighth St. S.E. Suite 200
Washington. DC 20003 .(202) 547-3101
AIDS 800 • 1-800-221-7044
Conference For Catholic Lesbians
P.O. Box 436, Planetarium Station
New York, New York 10024
SOUTH PADRE ISLAND,TX
(area code 512)
accomodations
Lyie's Deck • 120 E. Atol St.
Ntt Gay Alliance for Young Adults,
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From Around the Region,the Couritry & the World
6th Annual Texas
Freedom Parade
DALLAS, TX - The 6th annual
TEXAS FREEDOM PARADE,which
is also Dallas' 10th annual lesbian/gay
pride parade, will be held on Sunday,
September 24,starting at 3:00 p.m.near
the Oak Lawn Library on Cedar
Springs Road. The parade will end in
Lee Park with the traditional
CELEBRATION IN LEE PARK on
mailed to businesses and organizations.
They will also be available at the office
of the Dallas Tavern Guild, 3900
Lemmon Avenue, Suite #220, Dallas,
TX 75219
New Community
Assembly To Unite San
Antonio
SAN ANTONIO, TX - The San
the porch and grounds of ArUngton
Hall for the presentation of parade
trophies, community awards,
entertainment and speeches. The
Antonio Lesbian & Gay Assembly
(SALGA*) has been formed to unite
the numerous and diverse groups and
Dallas Tavern Guild is the proud
sponsor of these two events for the
a community umbrella organization,
SALGA would respond to the needs
lesbian and gay community.
The theme of this year's parade,
community which have not been
"STONEWALL 20: A Generation of
adequately addressed by traditional
individuals in the San Antonio area. As
and concerns of the lesbian and gay
Pride,"follows the national lesbian/gay
providers of community services. The
theme as we celebrate the twentieth
goal of the Assembly is to create a
anniversary of Stonewall rebellion in
New York City, which began during
the evening of June 27, 1969.
Participants of the parade will be asked
to express the positive and healthy
lives, attitudes and images of a
community that has shown great
mutually supportive community
network which would gather &
disperse information, promote
education & service programs, and
develop community facilities.
An Interregnum Board of Directors
was elected in June by an Ad-Hoc
strength during the past8 years with the
Community Steering Committee
battle against AIDS. The parade is not
a protest march, but rather a time to
which had been meeting since spring.
The Interregnum Board has been
acknowledge our political and social
charged with developing a governing
accomplishments over the past20 years
and to recognize our strengths during a
structure and seating the first
health crisis.
Letters of invitation with the parade
guidelines and application will be
permanent Board of Directors.
SALGA's first public event will be a
"Community Gathering" on Thursday,
September 7, 1989 at 411 Bonham
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 7
Street. Complimentary wine & buffet
at 7:30 p.m. and program at 8:00 p.m..
Interested
individuals
and
representatives from All area lesbian &
duration, in amounts ranging from
S20,000 to $50,000 each. A total of $1
million is available for this funding
round.
gay groups are urged to attend this
ground-breaking event. The two cochairs (female & male) will introduce
the interregnum directors and briefly
Between January 1981 and August
1989, over 100,000 persons have been
diagnosed with AIDS; over 58,0(X)
review the purposeand current status of
killed during the Vietnam War. The
SALGA.
Agenda items include:
1. Gay Fiesta, Sunday, October 15th,
La Villita Assembly Hall.
2.SALGA Community Directory - For
have died—more Americans than were
primary goal of this RFP is to provide
education on AIDS and HIV infection
through funding community-based,
community-service organizations with
an emphasis on those organizations
October release.
which have established ties to racial
3.'Heart Strings' AIDS benefit show,
Tuesday, October lOth, Majestic
and ethnic populations, IV drug and
substance abusers, people who are HIV
Theatre.
positive or have AIDS, and people who
Also, those with announcements or
reside in areas with fewer AIDS cases.
issues to be raised may contact the cochairs through the Switchboard at 733-
In announcing the availability of
funding. Conference of Mayors
7300.
Executive Director J. Thomas Cochran
(♦In Spanish "Saiga" means "Come
out")
said that the organization was fully
committed to providing funding and
technical assistance to those groups
MAYORS ANNOUNCE
which have the best access to people
AVAILABILITY OF AIDS
most. "Community-based
EDUCATION GRANTS
WASHINGTON, D.C. - The United
States Conference of Mayors is
releasing today its 8th Request for
Proposals (RFP) for funding of
community-based
AIDS
risk-
reduction education programs. The
who need HIV/AIDS information the
organizations, especially when
working with local government and the
local health department, have proven
their effectiveness in providing
accurate and appropriate information
and in ways that are accepted by their
audience. This must continue and we
targets of the Round 8 RFP include:
are committed to assisting them, "
racial and ethnic minorities; substance
Cochran said.
abusers (including intravenous drug,
crack cocaine and alcohol abusers);
HIV antibody positive individuals and
people with AIDS; and people who
Funding for the AIDS grants was made
available to the Conference of Mayors
by the federal Centers for Disease
Control. With this latest round of
reside in areas with fewer AIDS cases.
funding, the Conference of Mayors will
Approximately 20 grants will be
have awarded $3.54 million to fund 113
awarded for projects up to 12 months in
projects across the nation.
Page 8 • Dimensions • September 1989
Lesbian/Gay Leaders
Sponsor Notional
Coming Out Day
Santa Fe, NM - The 2nd annual
National Coming Out Day,October 11,
is being co-sponsored by a broad base
of highly respected community leaders
and organizations. The goal of NCOD
is to increase the visibility of the more
than 20 million gay people in the
United States. Last year's activities
received {xasitive media coverage
throughout the country, including
coverage in USA TODAY, CNN,
NATIONAL PUBLIC RADIO, THIS
WAY OUT, and the OPRAH
WINFREY SHOW.
October 11, the day of this annual
event,commemorates the 1987 March
on Washington for Lesbian and Gay
Rights."This is a grassroots campaign,
and its success depends on the
willingness of local groups to plan and
carry out events that support people to
take their next step in coming out"says
NCOD co-chair. Dr. Rob Eichberg.
As coming out is a process and not a
singular event, individuals are being
asked to "take the next step" in their
coming out process — a step which
may be very personalforsome and very
public for others. "Our power is
awesome,and it's time we use it." says
NCOD co-chair Jean O'Leary,
Executive Director of National Gay
Rights Advocates.
Joining the growing list of NCOD
sponsors are, among others: Jeff Levy
and Urvashi Vaid with the National
Gay and Lesbian Task Force; Boston
City Councillor, David Scondras;
writer Harvey Fierstein, comedian
Robin Tyler, and veteran activists
Virginia Apuzzo, Vivian Shapiro, and
Cleve Jones.
For more information, or to contribute
to NCOD, write to NCOD,P.O. Box
i5524,Santa Fe,New Mexico,87506,
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A Monthy Listing of Special Events Aii Around Texas, Oklahoma & New Mexico
DALLAS - Lynn Lavner's coming to
Fund Committee Dinner on November
Texas! The short, left-handed, Jewish
lesbian from New York wiU be in Dallas on
11th. It will be black tie, $100 a plate, and
the theme will be "Blazing A Trail".
Saturday, September 30, for oneperformance only at Sammons Center for
the Arts. The event is co-sponsored by
DALLAS - Ride your bike, run or Walk
For Life on Saturday, September 16th at
Lesbian Visionaries and Littie Feather
White Rock Lake in Dallas.
Productions. Lavner will be in San
Start
Antonio Sunday, October 1 at THE
collecting pledges now and get ready to get
involved in the fight against AIDS. All
CIRCLE.
money will go to benefit the AIDS
Lavner's act might be described as
Resource Center, PWA Coalition,
xmconventional. Her songs and humor are
Nelson-Tebedo
drawn, she says, from her experiences,
"which are considerably different than the
experiences ofan average person from,let's
say Columbus, Nebraska." And,the quick
witted Lavner, who stands only five feet
tall, performs in black leather.
Community Outreach Center of Ft.
AIDS
Clinic,
Worth, the Pentamidine Mist Program
and The Food Bank. Walk For Life is
being sponsored by 98-KZEW (The Zoo)
and you can get more information from the
WalkUne at(214)484-0990.
Don't forget to mark your calendars!
Dallas, September 30 and San Antonio
October 1. Tickets for the Dallas
performance are $10 and are available at
CURIOUS TIMES. Please contact THE
CIRCLE for ticket info in San Antonio.
SAN ANTONIO - It's may sound a little
early, but next summer's Third Annual
Texas Lesbian Conference wiU be held in
San Antonio! Theplanningstartsnow and if
you'd like to be a part of it, show up at the
DENMARK - Okay - this is reaUy
exciting! On October 1, 1989 Denmark
will become the first country to legalize
gay and lesbian marriages! This will
grant these marriages full and equal
rights under the law. We gan make it
happen here if we try hard enough.
AUSTIN - Ifyou arelooking forlivemusic,
you'll find it this month at NEXUS &
Esperanca Peace & Justice Center,
PETTICOAT JUNCTION! On the 1st it's
DeniseFawcett,onthel3th HisBoyElroy
Thursday, September 21st at 7pm. The
hits the stage, Lara Linette plays on the
center is located at 1305 N. Flores. If you
aren't able to attend but would still like to be
involved, call the center at(512)228-0201
or the LISA line and leave your name and
number. Also,a party of several Lesbian &
Gay Organizations under the umbrella of
15th, the 22nd brings Alison Goodgame,
and on the 27th catch the Julie Burrell
Band. But, of course, there's more than
music! Lisa Bryson (former Ms. Gay
Dallas)wiU bring her"One Woman Show"
to NEXUS on the 8th. Who's Those Girls,
an all-female review from Dallas, will
the Esperanca Peace & Justice Center are
holding a fundraising brunch for the center
entertain you on the 17th and Nancy Ford
on September 16th. Last, but not least, get
will strut her stuff on the 8th!
ready for the Human Rights Campaign
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 11
HOUSTON - The Country Express Band
will be playing at the RANCH on Tuesday
the 17th.There won't be any cover because
(Shhhhh...I'mnotsupposed to tell you this
...)it's Betsy's Birthday! Wish her a good
one when you pass her on the dance floor!
Also be sure to check out the RANCH's new
DALLAS - If you are a golfer,sign up now
for the 1st Annual DESERT MOON Golf
Classic! The date hadn't been set at press
time but it wiU happen in October so get
your golf clubs out now and polish up your
putting skills! Check at the bar for date,
location and tee-off time!
frozen drink machine, from what I've
heard, it's pretty amazing and can even
make frozen white russian's, Mmmmm,
SAN ANTONIO - Ping Pong is the name of
sounds good.
CIRCLE is the place! Yes, the Ping Pong
the game, S50 is first prize and THE
Tournament is on and it happens
DALLAS - Okay girls... you'vejust got to
get on out to SUE ELLEN's and check out
the"Super,Spectacular,Sunday Show"!
There's all manner of great performers and
with MC Kathy Jack, you can't go wrong.
Also be sure you don'tmiss Happy Hour at
SUE ELLEN's. It happens everyday from
3pm till 8pm and Fridays until 9pm. Plus,
there's all kinds of other drink specials so,
September 3rd at 2pm so get ready!
Tuesday NightTopics atTHE CIRCLE this
month are "Body Image" on the 5th and
"Beyond Shame" with a guest speaker on
the 19th. Be sure to check out Thursday
night steak night and nightly drink specials
- you're sure to find something to suit your
fancy!
get on out there and have some fun!
DALLAS - Attention Beer Drinkers! JUGS
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can get 75^ Draft on Mondays and
source that KEYSTROKE is moving to a
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gnes
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Answers to your questions about love,
relationships & personal problems
Dear Agnes,
I am a SWF,I have a boyfriend whom Icare
about very much. But recently I have been
thinking more and more about having an
affair with another woman (mind you, I
Dear Agnes,
I have a problem that is driving me up the
wall, my lover. We have been together for
five years and up until the last four or five
months everything was fine. We worked,
haven't gone looking and I have no-one in
came home, and had a fairly quite life
mind). But these curiosities have led me to
except for an occasional wild party. We
start doing things I never would have done
have some friends but don't see them except
before.
weekends.
I bought a vibrator! Although this has been
All of a sudden about five months ago Ann
somewhatsatisfying I still have these urges.
started a night class. Suddenly she was
I do not know any lesbians and would never
moody, preoccupied, gone alot and when
go to a bar with the threat of AIDS at every
comer. Although I am straight, I still have
she did come home, she ignored me. This
this fantasy of being with a woman.
Are there any books I can order to get more
She has brought a woman home to "study"
with a couple of times and that has been the
fulfillment from my vibrator? Is one
vibrator better than the other? What is my
only time I have seen her in a good mood for
next step?
study or to the library, and she doesn'tcome
Desperately waiting for your advice!
home till after dark most nights. Our sex life
is dead, we don't talk to each other any
more, and if I didn't know better, I would
swear she wants out of this relationship.
Dear Desperately Waiting,
With AIDS "around every comer", I
certainly hope you are having "safe sex"
describes our existence from then utill now.
all these months. Weekends she's gone to
What do you think? I've tried talking to her
with your boyfriend! You will not contact it
and it's like talking to a brick wall. She
sitting on a toilet seat in a bar-gay or
glares at me like I am nuts and refuses to
straight.
talk. I feel like I am going crazy. What can
The experts I contacted on vibrators assure
I do?Ireally don't want to leave her,but this
me that there are some that are more
is like living in hell!
Help! Tulsa
satisfying than others, but after consulting
two or tfiree,I am convinced it is a matter of
personal taste. I suggest going to your local
Dear Help,
sex shop or book store for a little shopping
spree. If you are too shy, take your
Tell her your preception of what is
boyfriend. You can mail order books and
vibrators.
I guess the next step is up to you. Your letter
leaves me with one question, where did you
pick up a Dimensions....
happening.Try to explain in terms of,"I feel
like you are constantly in a bad mood"or"I
feel ". Try not to make her defensive, but
do try to get her to talk. Suggest couples
counseling and see if you get a response. If
she is willing to go, by all means go. If she
Page 14 • Dimensions • September 1989
isn't receptive to the idea, you might
consider talking to a counselor to help sort
though your feeling right now.
You can not make her talk! But the most
have always voted but I'm afraid I voted for
the wrong people for the wrong reasons. I
didn't realize that you can'tjust get rid of a
president in four years if you don't like him
important asset in a relationship is
—his legacy remains in the Supreme Court
communication. Refusing to talk about a
problem does notfix it, nor does it make the
problem go away.
for years to come.
Believe me,I know better now and I, for
which is difficult when problems arise,
one,am following your advice. After all, if
we can't get and keep our rights as women,
how will we ever get our rights as gays?
especially relationship problems.Getoutof
A New Believer
Take steps to maintain your self-esteem
the house,make plans with friends,go to the
library, join an exercise class, don't sit
home and wait for your lover to come home
in a bad mood ever night. Her attitude and
behavior are not your fault. So whatever
you do, don't lay a guilt trip on yourself.
Dear Believer,
I think we have alllearned that sitting on the
sidelines is a dangerous occupation that
does not pay. Enough said!
Dear Agnes,
Activist Seeking Direction in last month's
column hit the nail on the head. I am 27
years old and when I got out of high school,
I never worried about equal pay, my right to
an abortion or anything else. I guess 1
thought it was all settled and that it would
never go backwards.
Boy, was I wrong! I'm learning now that
you don't just have to fight to
your
Write To Dear Agnes
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by Karen Dole Wolmon^^^p
Over the years, I've heard countless
not too difticuino recognize, here are
tales of love affairs that were doomed
from the start. There is the case of the
health food freak with the junk food
few clues to tip you off in case she
catches you off guard: she awakens
without being blasted out of bed by an
junkie, the quiet intellectual with the
alarm clock with more decibels than an
party animal and the hopeless slob with
as many strikes against it as the one
AC/DC concert, greets sparrows by
name, becomes verbal before an
intravaneous infusion of thick,
with the mismatched circadian
Columbian brew and makes the bed
the neat freak. But no relationship has
rhythms.Try and visualize the scenario
before taking a shower. As a wise m^
when a bonafide night person hooks up
with the strangest of human beings:
once said, "don't trust anyone who's
alert before eleven in the morning."'
Now,match this strange bird up with a
THE MORNING PERSON. The
relationship is destined for failure
before the pair is even introduced.
A few words of warning are called for
here. Although the morning person is
genuine night owl and feathers are sure
to fly. As all of us late rising creatures
have known since pre-embryonic
stage, the alarm clock is a medieval
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 17
instrument of torture invented by a
offer of a cocktail; she doesn't want to
sadistic madman who makes Attila the
stay out too late. You wouldn't mind
timiing in early with her.
Hun appear benevolent. As for the
button that allows a few extra minutes
ofsleep,don'tbefooled.It'sjusta tease
engineered by someone on the payroll
of Phyllis Schafly.
Things are innocent enough when you
first meet this morning person. She's
attractive, friendly without being
You start to get nervous as her eyelids
droop and the conversation falters. It
takes yotir all to convince this creature
to go to that cute little cappucino and
cannoli place after the meal. When you
leave the dessert shop,she walks with
. . the alarm clock is a medieval instrument of
torture invented by a sadistic madman who
mokes Attila the Hun appear benevolent.
pushy,and has no interest whatsoever
in your astrological sign. She seems to
be genuinely interested in you and asks
intelligent questions about your work
— without trying to discover your
salary or whether you can sneak a tryst
to Maui onto your expense account
After you've been chatting for awhile
and she hasn't mentioned a psychotic
her arm around your waist. At first you
think it's romantic, but you quickly
realize she's doing it for support. She
has trouble walking when she's half
asleep.
Notonly is yourenergy peaking,butthe
caffeine and sugar have you flying
Just as you're aboutto offer your phone
high.You'd invite her in for a nightcap,
but you don't think she can stay awake
thatlong.Instead,you get her into acab,
give her address to the driver — she's
not coherent enough to do it herself—
number,she asks ifshe may take you to
and head for the nearest nightclub —
ex-girlfriend or an obsession with cats,
you figure you've caught a live one.
dinner later in the week. As it's still
solo.
early, you have no clue as to her true
Now I'm not saying that a one night
stand — started early enough — with a
nature.
Imagine your first date with this new
woman. She insists on picking you up
for dinner at 5:30. Although that's just
past your usual lunchtime, you are
flattered that she can't wait to see you
and do your best to put yourself
together before the firstcommuter train
pulls into suburbia.She arrives right on
time, armed with candy and flowers.
You smile when she turns down you
morning person isa bad idea,butdo you
really want to spend your life with
someone who whistles as she gels her
hair and considers 9am late morning?
Granted, she is the type to serve you
breakfast in bed, but it is liable to be
oatmeal — and she'll expect you to eat
it.
To a person who grunts and growls if
spoken to before noon and believes that
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7am garbage collections are a
communist plot, the early rising
specimen is anathema. Envision the
scenario: you are miles deep under
thick, warm comforters on one rainy
Sunday morn. Hazy Technicolor
visions of candlelight dinners and
staying up till nine watching reruns of
The Loveboat. Just as you begin to
show signs of life, she's got about as
much energy as Secretariat after
running the Kentucky Derby.
Now don't get me wrong. The
building's not on fire, you're dead
relationship won't be all misconnected
energy and grief. There is one hour of
the day—between about2and 3pm —
when yotir biorhythms match and you
are both on the upswing. It's only 60
minutes, but that's 3600 seconds of
magic.Think hard before you pass that
meat!" It's HER on the phone, merrily
up.
white sandy beaches drift through your
subconscious when suddenly,
Alexander Graham Bell interrupts yotir
ecstasy. You reach for the offending
instrument and threaten, "if the
chirping,"oh gee,did 1 wake you? It's
already past seven and I thought we
'Johnny Carson in an article by Paul
could walk around town, hit a few
Rosenfield, "The Off-Camera
Carson,"Los Angeles Times Calendar,
museums, and have an early
lunch."You throw the phone against
the wall and burrow deeper under the
July 6,1986, p.4.
covers.
You waken hours later, way past the
time when the sun has passed its zenith
in the sky. Your idea ofthe perfect way
to start a lazy Sunday is with a late
brunch, as close to dinner time as
possible. After some window shopping
for things you can't afford, you're
dying for a horseback ride through the
park, a brisk swim in the pool, or an
invigorating game of raquetball. Your
adrenaline is high and you are ready to
conquer the world. She, unfortunately,
can't keep her eyelids open sans
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afternoon by the time you resemble a
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the gym,a late dinner, and kicking up
your heels till dawn on the agenda. Her
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vSeptember 15,16 &.17 at I^exus &.P«I's
FeattiringLara Linette• Friday the 15th • 6pin
Who's Those Girls • All-Female Review From Dallas
Sunday the 17th • 10pm
Friday, September 8th,9pm
Lisa. Bpysou of Dallas
"One Woman Show" in Nexus
Wednesday, September 13th, 10pm
His Boy Elroy
Wednesday, September 27th, 10pm
The Julie Bui^rell HaudK^'
Bvery Wednesday at 9ptti
C&W Dance Lessons with Dena in PJ's
"Girl's IVight Out"
Thursdays in Nexus
With Brie,Tamara,Trishon & Tatiana
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September 1st — Denise Fawcett •6pm
September 8th — Nancy Ford • Comedy & Music • 7pm
Septmeber 15th — Lara Linette •6pm
Setpember 22nd — Alison Goodgame •6pm
September 29th — Birdie •6pm
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 21
hat A World,
hat A World!
Make A Wist)
by Nancy Ford
The other day on The Andy Grijfith
Show, Barney and Opie found an
Aladdin-like lamp and subsequently
were granted three wishes,all of which
came true. Watching this episode set
Miss Texases never say out loud but
always think.
me to thinkin' (that's Mayberry talk,)
about wishes, and reminded me of the
X that my friends would agree that it is
at least a remote possibility that the
time my sister Susan advised me of the
correct procedure to follow should I
ever be granted three wishes. I was to
spend the first two wishes in whatever
popular laser-tag game, in which
people themselves become human
game pieces, is not only futuristic
manner I desired,but must be sure that
also a guerilla U-aining program for an
my third wish was always for three
more wishes. Not unlike, lather, rinse,
army of laser warriors in the there-and-
repeat. It could go on forever.
X
With that in mind I have compiled the
detectors in airports.
following list of wishes should I ever
X three more wishes.
I further wish —
entertainment in the here-and-now,but
later.
keys that don't set off metal
happen to stumble upon a lamp of the
wish-granting genre. If it can happen to
Barney and Opie, it can happen to any
of us, and I want to be ready.
X that the French had a name for eggs
other than I'oeuf. It makes French
breakfast dishes taste lik®
I wish —
X for world peace
X an end to hunger.
sponges.
X thatIhadnot,asachild,decidedthat
old age was determined by whether or
not blue,root-like veins were visible on
X three more wishes. Now on to the
the back of one's hands.
good stuff; the wishes that potential
X three more wishes.
Page 22 • Dimensions • September 1989
^ that Jaclyn Smith would realize
that we don't believe for one minute
that she wears K-Mart clothes in real
life.
that Miss Crump would be my
teacher again next year. No, wait, that
was Opie's wish.
X an alarm clock that automatically
postpones ringing until after I've
completed any dream with Kim
Bassinger in it. No matter how late it
gets.
Stop in Houston September 12-17,and
every Thursday night at RiMarks
Cabaret with Randy Jobe in
"Performer's Showcase". Anyone
interested in auditioning for stage time
(singers, musicians, etc.) should call
Randy at 522-9485
Nancy Ford's column.
What A World,
What A World,
X three more wishes.
oppeors every
month right here in
X Endust really did.
X a permanent that really is.
Dimensions!
X three more wishes.
X the address of Cher's tattoo parlour.
X the time of her next appointment.
X three more wishes.
(to be continued in another issue.)
<S
nancy ford
Nancy Ford will be starring as Dorothy
Gale Storm in "The Wizard of
• comedy •
Montrose" or "Go To Hell, Dorothy
Gale", a musical comedy revue
' residential • commercial •
examining Houston's 1989 mayoral
race.The show will open on September
11th at RiMarks Cabaret, 2715
Waughcrest in Houston, and run'
Monday and Tuesday nights through
November.
Reservations
are
suggested. Call(713)524-2333.
Nancy will also be appearing at Nexus
in Austin on September 8th,at the Laff
for booking info
coii or write:
You'll See Productions
2990 Richmond #316
Houston,Texas 77098
(713) 721-4125
(713)520-7237
September 1989 • Dimensions• Page 23
the
offee f^lub
A Discussion of Lesbian Literature Both New and Old
This month, T. Sumner Reviews:
^lea
sures
hy Ulobhi Sommers
Edgewise
by Camariri Grae
I'll start out this month with Pleasures
(Naiad, Inc., S8.95) by Robbi
Sommers.This is a collection of"erotic
stories" for lesbians.
Frankly, I was bored. The first two or
many of these stories, the sex did not
enhance the plot.It wasas if the sex was
thrown in as an afterthought so that the
stories could be labeled "erotica".
1 also did not appreciate the selfpromotion ofPleasures in the last story
three were all right, but I found myself
skimming through the sex scenes as I
read through the rest. They all started to
"cutesy" and condescending that my
sound alike after awhile. All the women
intelligence was insulted.
seemed to have "ice-blue eyes" and a
"musky scent of womanhood".
Ms.Sommers does have talent, but it is
Some of the stories would have been
very good if it were not for the
"gratuitous"sex. By that I mean- that in
in the book. It was an ending so
not suited to this format. I probably
would have liked these stories if they
weren't all together in one book where
the flaws are magnified by repetition.
Page 24• Dimensions • September T989
There is a need in lesbian literature for
leaders of the Circle Edge community.
good erotica and there are a few
S he also discovers that her arrival in the
wonderful
community has been foretold and thatit
supposedly signals the beginnings of a
volumes
out
there.
Unfortunately, this isn't one I would
recommend. Many of the stories were
wonderful, but the sex only proved to
world-changing time.
As she gets more and more involved
be a distraction.
with the women of Circle Edge,Jude's
Now,in a totally different vein, we'll
look into Edgewise by Camarin Grae
(Naiad,Inc.,$9.95). The story revolves
lover and their friends become more
around Jude Alta who returns home to
danger in a symbolic ritual.
and more concerned . . . especially
when they learn that her life may be in
a small town in Colorado to visit her
Camarin Grae's novels are always
dying friend, Rosalie. The entire town
is awaiting word on how Rosalie's vast
wealth and property will be distributed.
intriguing but 1 found this one
The women of Circle Edge, a
mysterious feminist community
outside of town is also awaiting
Rosalie's death and disposition of her
wealth.
The women of Circle Edge have been
around as long as Jude can remember,
but neither she nor the town folk know
much about them. That is until Jude is
invited to visit their community.
Soon,Jude finds herself being taken in
by the religious beliefs and charismatic
especially so! She puts enormous
energy into creating situations and
personalities that are out of the norm —
this is especially true of Edgewise and
the Kwo-Amian religion Ms. Grae has
invented for it. This book is thoroughly
enjoyable and extremely well written. 1
highly recommend it to any lover of
intrigue and good fiction.
Both Pleasures and Edgewi.se are from
Naiad Press, Inc., P.O. Box 10543,
Tallahasee, PL 32302. Please enclose
15% postage. Complete catalogs are
available upon request
Curious Times
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September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 25
Stephanie
Knowlond has
the power...
What does
your ex-lover
meon to you?
Are you best friends? Enemies? Do
you provide emotional support for
Even as a child, Stephanie realized
that her psychic abilities set her
apart from others. Now, a crazed
killer whom she helped send to
prison is determined to exact his
revenge on Stephanie and her
lover. Stephanie's power Eilone is
not enough to save them against
the psychopath who has decided to
play a fiendish cat-and-mouse
game with the two women.
THE
CRYSTAL CURTAIN
one another . . . or have you lost
contact? Through dozens of per
sonal interviews with lesbians and
their ex-lovers, Carol Becker has
charted the course that a break-up
may take. She shows how the end of
a relationship can provide a time for
important personal growth, and
how former lovers can also serve as
the foundation for new forms of
family and community.
UNDROKEN TIES:
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by Carol Decker
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WHAT 1$
YOUR NET
WORTH?.
ESOFAMEMCA
There is alot of talk these days about"net worth". Texas Monthly recently ran a list of
the 100 richest Texans,all had a net worth over one-hundred million dollars. Now,mine
wasn't even close to that and yours probably won't be either, but wouldn t you like to
know where you stand? The following questions are to help you figure your net worth.
Answer all the questions that pertain to you and leave the ones that don't apply blank.
Assets
What is the current balance of your:
Checking Account?
Savings Account?
IRA or Keough plans?
What is the current value of your:
Savings Certificates?
Savings Bonds?
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 27
Retirement or Profit Sharing Plan?
Cash Value of Life Insurance Policy?
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Automobile?
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Household Furnishings & Appliances?
Jewelry & Furs?
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Other Assets?
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What Is The Market Value of:
Your Home?
Other Real Estate?
Stocks?
Bonds?
Mutual Funds?
$_
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Other Investments (including collectibles)?
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TOTAL ASSETS
Liabilities
What is the total of your:
Current Bills - including rent?
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Mortagage Balance?
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Credit Card Balances?
Auto Loan Balance?
Student Loan Balance?
Other Loan balances or Debts?
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TOTAL LIABILITIES
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To figure your current net \A/orth, subtract your
total liabilities from your total assets.
Total Assets
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9?
oefry
Not A Day Goes By ...
1 grant myself ten minutes to bask
in the iime-green,adoiescent glow,and
my heart striking xyiophone-ribs, but
i help your hand,anyway.
My shower runs like the one
you liked so much in San Antonio,
just in case you surprise me
and come by.
The realist in me shrugs,
takes one iast look for the day -
time and distance make dreams ragged
and more remnants drift away.
i share my iove with someone,now.
We don't know where we are going, but
she trusts and loves me in ways
I've never known.
And so that's good,
and . . . not a day goes by
that I don't think of you.
•S. Hoffman
McKinney, TX
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oroscope
What's in the Stars for You this month?
VIRGO
SCORPIO
(August 23rd- Sept 22nd)
You may be worried aboutjob security
during the first week of September.
Things will be looking up by week's
end and an idea of yours could even
lead to extra money.From the 9th thru
the 16th try to control your tendency to
be possessive and your love life will be
much happier. From the 17th thru the
23rd everything seems to fall in place
and you will be feeling in control again.
Problems with a partner will be worked
(Oct 24tti -Nov 22nd)
Affairs of the heart are accented during
the first week of September. Every
thing is going good at home and at
work.From the 9th thru the 16th a bad
situation at work could be getting
worse. This could lead to problems in
your personal life if you take out yoiu:
frustrations on loved ones. From the
17th thru the 23rd positive changes
will be on the horizon at work. Things
will improve in your relationship and
out if both sides make an effort. From
you will be more involved with others.
the 24th to the 30th you will be well on
your way to working through all your
problems and your outlook will be
From the 24th thru the 30th your
home life and career may,once again,
positive.
LIBRA
be competing with each other.You may
have tojuggle your time and energies to
keep everyone happy, but you'll come
through all right
(Sept 23rd - Oct 23rd)
Your love life is looking up during the
first week of September. Either yoiu
current romance is heating up or a new
one is just around the comer! From the
9th thru the 16th a career decision
SAGIHARIUS
(Nov23-Dec21)
The first week of September is a good
time for setting goals, both for career
and romance.Try to make them reason
should be put on hold. Time and per
able and accessible so that you don't get
spective could change your mind about
a goal you made in the past From the
in over your head. From the 9th thru
the 16th your love life will be in the
17th thru the 23rd don't let a co-
forefront. Your relationship with that
worker get in the way of your success
on the job. Someone could be trying to
special person will be strong and se
cure. Keep a conservative view on fi
sabotage your work. From the 24th
thru the 30th your social life is back in
fullswing and you can't waittojump in!
Your energy is high and you're ready to
play!
the 23rd you will be feeling very laidback. Keep in mind that curiosity can
get you in trouble and mind your own
nancial matters. From the 17th thru
business at work. From the 24th thru
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Property of the Center
the 30th you may be feeling nervous
think through important decisions.
and restless. Get out with friends or
plan some special activities to get you
out of the house.
PISCES
(Feb 19th-Mar 20th)
During the first week ofSeptember, it
is hard for anything to go wrong.Love,
CAPRICORN
(Dec 22nd - Jon 19lh)
Money matters could be taking up all
your dme during the first week of
September. A new, unexpected
romance could also heat up this week.
From the 9th thru the 16th everything
is going your way, as long as you
remember to put your career first. Work
may seem tedious but the rewards will
be plentiful. From the 17th to the 23rd
you may be thinking seriously
seriously about committing yourself to
a relationship. Don't go too fast, you
may still have your head in the clouds.
From the 24th thru the 30th be sure to
keep your emotions under control. A
problem in your relationship could
have you feeling down but things will
be back on track be the last day of the
month.
money, career, and social life are all
positive. The 9th thru the 16th will
prove to be a most productive week for
you,both at work and in your love life.
Your self-confidence will bring
positive reactions from those around
you. From the 17th to the 23rd you
may be feeling irresponsible and
irritated; but the latter part of the week
will find you more responsible,caring,
and playful. The 24th thru the 30th
may be full of emotional ups and
downs. You will come to realize how
importantanother person is to you.But,
at the same time, you may discover
some deception in a close personal
relationship. Try to rely on your
intuition. It won't steer you wrong.
ARIES
(Mar 21st-April 19)
AQUARIUS
The first week of September will find
(Jan 20th - Feb 18th)
The first week ofSeptember may find
move ahead. Don't expect too much,
you planning your career and how to
you re-assessing some persona!
you may have to return to the drawing
relationship, either at work or at home.
You will be at the center of attention
board several times to get everything
squared away. The 9th thru the 16th
from the9th thru the 16th.You maybe
could see your plans take off, don t be
feeling successful in every way, but
don't take on too much or you'll find
afraid to push for what you want.
yourselfswamped next week.From the
17th thru the 23rd you will be busy
planning personal goals and activities.
There could also be an exciting new
a new romance. From the 17th to the
let those you love know how you feel.
romance in the works. From the 24th
The 24th to the 30th may be
thru the 30th you should try to keep
emotionally trying, but don't let it get
you down. The last three days of the
month will bring both luck and love.
your positive attitude no matter what
you encounter. Make time this week to
Things may not be what they appear in
23rd you may be more concerned with
domestic affairs. Now is a fine time to
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 31
TAURUS
(April 20th-May 20th)
You may not find time for travel during
the first week of September, but that
will not make the lu'ge go away! Yoiu"
career is taking an upward turn thanks
to the attention ofa higher-up and it will
keep you firmly attached to your desk.
From the 9th thru the 16th romance
and social activities will have to be cut
back due to extra stress at work. From
CANCER
(June 22th - July 22th)
Social activities seem especially
attractive during the first week of
September. Romance will also spice
up your life.It may seem like all fun and
games but remember your
commitments and responsibilities.
From the 9th thru the 16th you may
feel like you are on a roller-coaster.
Maintain your charm and poise and it
will see you through these trying times.
the 17th thru the 23rd,yotir social and
romantic life will come back into play
and the feeling of isolation you have
been experiencing will go away. From
the 24th thru the 30th you may find
social calendar can leave you
you do not share the same romantic
emotionally drained. The week of the
feelings as someone you have been
seeing. The love and support offriends
24th thru the 30th will be exciting and
Be cautious with your money now.
From the 17th thru the 23rd it will be
best to stay home and relax. A full
may be more satisfying than that of a
rewarding. Your charm and charisma
could put you in the role of trendsetter
lover.
as well as filling your social calendar!
GEMINI
(May 21st - June 21st)
LEO
(July 23rcl - August 22nd)
Confidence and control are yoiu key
The first week of September could
assets during the first week of
find you moving ahead and making
September. Calm and poise will be
plans for your future. Be cautious with
your ticket to success. You will
your money - do not take any
unnecessary financial risks. The 9th to
succeed as long as you keep the
eccentric side of your nature under
the 16th will bring high energy,
control.The9th thru the 16th will find
you with a full social calendar and the
romance, and a full social calendar.
prospect of a new and exciting
romance. Control the urge to
overspend. You may have some
your temper and not insist on having
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Irecfory
A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
ARLINGTON,TX (area code 817)
P.O. Box 225831 75222 • 948-1546
AIDS Resource Center
clubs
Britches & Bloomers
3920 Cedar Springs 75219
Dallas Gay Alliance
809 N. Collins • 860-8717
P.O. Box 190712 75219 .528-4233
organizations
Dallas Gay/Lesbian Historic Archives
3930 Cedar Springs « 821-1653
Dallas Gay Youth Group
Goy/Lesblcn Association of UTA
P.O. Box 19348-77. UTA St. 76019
794-5140
300 Turtle Creek Plaza #116 * 307-7203
Dallas Outdoors
P.O. Box 35474 75235• 276-5270
AUSTIN, TX (area code 512)
Dallas Tavern Guild
clubs
Nexus/Petticoat Junction
3900 Lemmon Ave. #220 • 526-5292
Foundation for Hurrran Understanding
401 & 401-B E. 2nci.495-9553
528-4233
organizations
528-4233
GayAesbian Young Adults
Affirmation (f^ethodist)
7403 Shoo! Creek • 451-2329
Grace Fellowship in Christ Jesus
2727 Oak Lawn 75219 .528-2811
Lesbian Information Line (LIL)
P.O. Box 191443 75219.528-2426
Austin Lambda
P.O. Box 5455 78763
Gay/Lesbian Student
Association at UT Austin •458-3971
Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338
Lesbia/Gay Political Coalition
P.O. Box 224424 75222.828-9882
Lesbian/Gay Rights Advocates
Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby
528-4233
P.O. Box 2505 78768
Lesbian Visionaries
Metropolitan Community Church
P.O. Box 191443 75219.521-9642
1100 Springdole Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Ministry
Metropiex Republicans
5555 N. Lomar Blvd. #L101 • 441-9191
Waterloo Counseling Center
P.O. Box 191033 75219.941-8114
Oak Lawn Community Services
3000 Turtie Creek Pldza, Suite 116
507 Powell 78703• 322-9654
75219-5311.520-8108
Texas Human Rights Foundation
Oak Lawn Symphonic Band
2201 N. Lomar # 203 78705•479-8473
P.O. Box 190973 75219.986-1751
Womyn Together
AIDS Legal Assistance 1-800-828-6417
3920 Cedar Springs.528-4233
DALLAS, TX (area code 214)
businesses
DENTON,TX (area code 817)
Business Delivery Systems
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14902 Preston Rd. 75240 • 733-1108
Crossroads Market
3930 Cedar Springs
521-8919 or 1-800-992-6404
Curious Times - Women's Books etc.
COURAGE, Lesbian Gay Student Org.
4008-D Cedar Springs 75219 • 528-4087
c/o Student Activities Center
P.O. Box 5067 76203.382-3813
FT. WORTH (area code 817)
clubs
ciubs
Jugs •3810 Congress
Partners
1612 Park Place.924-2519
Sue Ellen's
3903 Cedar Springs • 559-0707
Desert Moon • 5903 Willis • 828-4471
organizations
Affirmation (Methodist).478-7837
organizations
Affirmation (Methodist)
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HOUSTON,TX (area code 713)
clubs
Keystroke
Keystroke Hotline 785-9258
Ranch • 9125 S. Main •666-3464
organizallorts
AIDS Foundation
3400 Montrose #700• 524-AIDS
AIDS HOTLINE
c/o Switchboard • 529-3211
Gay/Lesbian Students
University of Houston
4800 Coihoun • 529-3211
Gay & Lesbian Switchboard
P.O. Box 66591 77266 • 529-3211
Houston Gay Political Caucus
P.O. Box 66664 77266 • 521-1000
Kingdom Community Church
614 E. 19th.862-7533
Lambda ALANON
Lambda Center for Aichohoiics
1214 Joanne • 521-9772
Inc.P.O. Box 190426
Dallas, TX 75219-0426 •(214) 307-7203
National Gay/Lesbian Clearinghouse
666 Broadway 4th Floor
NY, NY 10012
National Gay/Lesbian Crisisline
1-800-SOS-GAYS
National Gay/Lesbian Task Force
1517 U Street NW
Washington D.C. 20009 • 202-332-6483
The Fund for Human Dignity
666 Broadway 4th Floor
NY, NY 10012
NORMAN,OK (area code 405)
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Women's Resource Center
P.O. Box 5089 73070
OKLAHOMA CITY, OK
(area code 405)
Lesbian/Gay Students
University of Houston - Clear Lake
2700 Bay Area 77058
Montrose Pool League/Billiards
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PJ 863-8482
PWA Coalition - Houston
3327 Essex Lane *623-4436
2312 NW 39th 73112 • 794-7464
Womynspace
P.O. Box 980601 77098-0601
880-9517 or 521-0780
Women's Softball League
6431 Pineshade • 868-6256
LUBBOCK,TX (area code 806)
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Oasis the Community Center
2135 NW 39th 73112.525-AiDS
Herland Sister Resources, Inc.
SAN ANTONIO,TX
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The Circle
8021 Pinebrook « 341-2818
Memories
6402 Coiiaghan Road
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Names Project/Lubbock
Dignity/San Antonio
202 N. St. Mary's • 349-3632
Integrity/San Antonio
796-1800 or 744-1957
P.O. Box 150006 78212.684-4920
Lubbock Lesbian/Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 64746 79464• 796-2403
River City Living Metropolitan
Community Church
202 Holland 78212 • 822-1121
NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS
Affirmation: United Methodists for
LISA (Lesbian Information SA)
828-LISA (5472)
Lesbian/Gay Concerns
P.O. Box 1021 • Evanston, IL 60204
AIDS Action Council
San Antonio AIDS Foundation
P.O. Box 120113 78212-9313
San Antonio Tavern Guild • 822-2823
729 Eighth St. S.E. Suite 200
Washington. DC 20003 .(202) 547-3101
AIDS 800 • 1-800-221-7044
Conference For Catholic Lesbians
P.O. Box 436, Planetarium Station
New York, New York 10024
SOUTH PADRE ISLAND,TX
(area code 512)
accomodations
Lyie's Deck • 120 E. Atol St.
Ntt Gay Alliance for Young Adults,
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6th Annual Texas
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DALLAS, TX - The 6th annual
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September 24,starting at 3:00 p.m.near
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the porch and grounds of ArUngton
Hall for the presentation of parade
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Antonio Lesbian & Gay Assembly
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Dallas Tavern Guild is the proud
sponsor of these two events for the
a community umbrella organization,
SALGA would respond to the needs
lesbian and gay community.
The theme of this year's parade,
community which have not been
"STONEWALL 20: A Generation of
adequately addressed by traditional
individuals in the San Antonio area. As
and concerns of the lesbian and gay
Pride,"follows the national lesbian/gay
providers of community services. The
theme as we celebrate the twentieth
goal of the Assembly is to create a
anniversary of Stonewall rebellion in
New York City, which began during
the evening of June 27, 1969.
Participants of the parade will be asked
to express the positive and healthy
lives, attitudes and images of a
community that has shown great
mutually supportive community
network which would gather &
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education & service programs, and
develop community facilities.
An Interregnum Board of Directors
was elected in June by an Ad-Hoc
strength during the past8 years with the
Community Steering Committee
battle against AIDS. The parade is not
a protest march, but rather a time to
which had been meeting since spring.
The Interregnum Board has been
acknowledge our political and social
charged with developing a governing
accomplishments over the past20 years
and to recognize our strengths during a
structure and seating the first
health crisis.
Letters of invitation with the parade
guidelines and application will be
permanent Board of Directors.
SALGA's first public event will be a
"Community Gathering" on Thursday,
September 7, 1989 at 411 Bonham
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 7
Street. Complimentary wine & buffet
at 7:30 p.m. and program at 8:00 p.m..
Interested
individuals
and
representatives from All area lesbian &
duration, in amounts ranging from
S20,000 to $50,000 each. A total of $1
million is available for this funding
round.
gay groups are urged to attend this
ground-breaking event. The two cochairs (female & male) will introduce
the interregnum directors and briefly
Between January 1981 and August
1989, over 100,000 persons have been
diagnosed with AIDS; over 58,0(X)
review the purposeand current status of
killed during the Vietnam War. The
SALGA.
Agenda items include:
1. Gay Fiesta, Sunday, October 15th,
La Villita Assembly Hall.
2.SALGA Community Directory - For
have died—more Americans than were
primary goal of this RFP is to provide
education on AIDS and HIV infection
through funding community-based,
community-service organizations with
an emphasis on those organizations
October release.
which have established ties to racial
3.'Heart Strings' AIDS benefit show,
Tuesday, October lOth, Majestic
and ethnic populations, IV drug and
substance abusers, people who are HIV
Theatre.
positive or have AIDS, and people who
Also, those with announcements or
reside in areas with fewer AIDS cases.
issues to be raised may contact the cochairs through the Switchboard at 733-
In announcing the availability of
funding. Conference of Mayors
7300.
Executive Director J. Thomas Cochran
(♦In Spanish "Saiga" means "Come
out")
said that the organization was fully
committed to providing funding and
technical assistance to those groups
MAYORS ANNOUNCE
which have the best access to people
AVAILABILITY OF AIDS
most. "Community-based
EDUCATION GRANTS
WASHINGTON, D.C. - The United
States Conference of Mayors is
releasing today its 8th Request for
Proposals (RFP) for funding of
community-based
AIDS
risk-
reduction education programs. The
who need HIV/AIDS information the
organizations, especially when
working with local government and the
local health department, have proven
their effectiveness in providing
accurate and appropriate information
and in ways that are accepted by their
audience. This must continue and we
targets of the Round 8 RFP include:
are committed to assisting them, "
racial and ethnic minorities; substance
Cochran said.
abusers (including intravenous drug,
crack cocaine and alcohol abusers);
HIV antibody positive individuals and
people with AIDS; and people who
Funding for the AIDS grants was made
available to the Conference of Mayors
by the federal Centers for Disease
Control. With this latest round of
reside in areas with fewer AIDS cases.
funding, the Conference of Mayors will
Approximately 20 grants will be
have awarded $3.54 million to fund 113
awarded for projects up to 12 months in
projects across the nation.
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Lesbian/Gay Leaders
Sponsor Notional
Coming Out Day
Santa Fe, NM - The 2nd annual
National Coming Out Day,October 11,
is being co-sponsored by a broad base
of highly respected community leaders
and organizations. The goal of NCOD
is to increase the visibility of the more
than 20 million gay people in the
United States. Last year's activities
received {xasitive media coverage
throughout the country, including
coverage in USA TODAY, CNN,
NATIONAL PUBLIC RADIO, THIS
WAY OUT, and the OPRAH
WINFREY SHOW.
October 11, the day of this annual
event,commemorates the 1987 March
on Washington for Lesbian and Gay
Rights."This is a grassroots campaign,
and its success depends on the
willingness of local groups to plan and
carry out events that support people to
take their next step in coming out"says
NCOD co-chair. Dr. Rob Eichberg.
As coming out is a process and not a
singular event, individuals are being
asked to "take the next step" in their
coming out process — a step which
may be very personalforsome and very
public for others. "Our power is
awesome,and it's time we use it." says
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A Monthy Listing of Special Events Aii Around Texas, Oklahoma & New Mexico
DALLAS - Lynn Lavner's coming to
Fund Committee Dinner on November
Texas! The short, left-handed, Jewish
lesbian from New York wiU be in Dallas on
11th. It will be black tie, $100 a plate, and
the theme will be "Blazing A Trail".
Saturday, September 30, for oneperformance only at Sammons Center for
the Arts. The event is co-sponsored by
DALLAS - Ride your bike, run or Walk
For Life on Saturday, September 16th at
Lesbian Visionaries and Littie Feather
White Rock Lake in Dallas.
Productions. Lavner will be in San
Start
Antonio Sunday, October 1 at THE
collecting pledges now and get ready to get
involved in the fight against AIDS. All
CIRCLE.
money will go to benefit the AIDS
Lavner's act might be described as
Resource Center, PWA Coalition,
xmconventional. Her songs and humor are
Nelson-Tebedo
drawn, she says, from her experiences,
"which are considerably different than the
experiences ofan average person from,let's
say Columbus, Nebraska." And,the quick
witted Lavner, who stands only five feet
tall, performs in black leather.
Community Outreach Center of Ft.
AIDS
Clinic,
Worth, the Pentamidine Mist Program
and The Food Bank. Walk For Life is
being sponsored by 98-KZEW (The Zoo)
and you can get more information from the
WalkUne at(214)484-0990.
Don't forget to mark your calendars!
Dallas, September 30 and San Antonio
October 1. Tickets for the Dallas
performance are $10 and are available at
CURIOUS TIMES. Please contact THE
CIRCLE for ticket info in San Antonio.
SAN ANTONIO - It's may sound a little
early, but next summer's Third Annual
Texas Lesbian Conference wiU be held in
San Antonio! Theplanningstartsnow and if
you'd like to be a part of it, show up at the
DENMARK - Okay - this is reaUy
exciting! On October 1, 1989 Denmark
will become the first country to legalize
gay and lesbian marriages! This will
grant these marriages full and equal
rights under the law. We gan make it
happen here if we try hard enough.
AUSTIN - Ifyou arelooking forlivemusic,
you'll find it this month at NEXUS &
Esperanca Peace & Justice Center,
PETTICOAT JUNCTION! On the 1st it's
DeniseFawcett,onthel3th HisBoyElroy
Thursday, September 21st at 7pm. The
hits the stage, Lara Linette plays on the
center is located at 1305 N. Flores. If you
aren't able to attend but would still like to be
involved, call the center at(512)228-0201
or the LISA line and leave your name and
number. Also,a party of several Lesbian &
Gay Organizations under the umbrella of
15th, the 22nd brings Alison Goodgame,
and on the 27th catch the Julie Burrell
Band. But, of course, there's more than
music! Lisa Bryson (former Ms. Gay
Dallas)wiU bring her"One Woman Show"
to NEXUS on the 8th. Who's Those Girls,
an all-female review from Dallas, will
the Esperanca Peace & Justice Center are
holding a fundraising brunch for the center
entertain you on the 17th and Nancy Ford
on September 16th. Last, but not least, get
will strut her stuff on the 8th!
ready for the Human Rights Campaign
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 11
HOUSTON - The Country Express Band
will be playing at the RANCH on Tuesday
the 17th.There won't be any cover because
(Shhhhh...I'mnotsupposed to tell you this
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one when you pass her on the dance floor!
Also be sure to check out the RANCH's new
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for the 1st Annual DESERT MOON Golf
Classic! The date hadn't been set at press
time but it wiU happen in October so get
your golf clubs out now and polish up your
putting skills! Check at the bar for date,
location and tee-off time!
frozen drink machine, from what I've
heard, it's pretty amazing and can even
make frozen white russian's, Mmmmm,
SAN ANTONIO - Ping Pong is the name of
sounds good.
CIRCLE is the place! Yes, the Ping Pong
the game, S50 is first prize and THE
Tournament is on and it happens
DALLAS - Okay girls... you'vejust got to
get on out to SUE ELLEN's and check out
the"Super,Spectacular,Sunday Show"!
There's all manner of great performers and
with MC Kathy Jack, you can't go wrong.
Also be sure you don'tmiss Happy Hour at
SUE ELLEN's. It happens everyday from
3pm till 8pm and Fridays until 9pm. Plus,
there's all kinds of other drink specials so,
September 3rd at 2pm so get ready!
Tuesday NightTopics atTHE CIRCLE this
month are "Body Image" on the 5th and
"Beyond Shame" with a guest speaker on
the 19th. Be sure to check out Thursday
night steak night and nightly drink specials
- you're sure to find something to suit your
fancy!
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gnes
ear
Answers to your questions about love,
relationships & personal problems
Dear Agnes,
I am a SWF,I have a boyfriend whom Icare
about very much. But recently I have been
thinking more and more about having an
affair with another woman (mind you, I
Dear Agnes,
I have a problem that is driving me up the
wall, my lover. We have been together for
five years and up until the last four or five
months everything was fine. We worked,
haven't gone looking and I have no-one in
came home, and had a fairly quite life
mind). But these curiosities have led me to
except for an occasional wild party. We
start doing things I never would have done
have some friends but don't see them except
before.
weekends.
I bought a vibrator! Although this has been
All of a sudden about five months ago Ann
somewhatsatisfying I still have these urges.
started a night class. Suddenly she was
I do not know any lesbians and would never
moody, preoccupied, gone alot and when
go to a bar with the threat of AIDS at every
comer. Although I am straight, I still have
she did come home, she ignored me. This
this fantasy of being with a woman.
Are there any books I can order to get more
She has brought a woman home to "study"
with a couple of times and that has been the
fulfillment from my vibrator? Is one
vibrator better than the other? What is my
only time I have seen her in a good mood for
next step?
study or to the library, and she doesn'tcome
Desperately waiting for your advice!
home till after dark most nights. Our sex life
is dead, we don't talk to each other any
more, and if I didn't know better, I would
swear she wants out of this relationship.
Dear Desperately Waiting,
With AIDS "around every comer", I
certainly hope you are having "safe sex"
describes our existence from then utill now.
all these months. Weekends she's gone to
What do you think? I've tried talking to her
with your boyfriend! You will not contact it
and it's like talking to a brick wall. She
sitting on a toilet seat in a bar-gay or
glares at me like I am nuts and refuses to
straight.
talk. I feel like I am going crazy. What can
The experts I contacted on vibrators assure
I do?Ireally don't want to leave her,but this
me that there are some that are more
is like living in hell!
Help! Tulsa
satisfying than others, but after consulting
two or tfiree,I am convinced it is a matter of
personal taste. I suggest going to your local
Dear Help,
sex shop or book store for a little shopping
spree. If you are too shy, take your
Tell her your preception of what is
boyfriend. You can mail order books and
vibrators.
I guess the next step is up to you. Your letter
leaves me with one question, where did you
pick up a Dimensions....
happening.Try to explain in terms of,"I feel
like you are constantly in a bad mood"or"I
feel ". Try not to make her defensive, but
do try to get her to talk. Suggest couples
counseling and see if you get a response. If
she is willing to go, by all means go. If she
Page 14 • Dimensions • September 1989
isn't receptive to the idea, you might
consider talking to a counselor to help sort
though your feeling right now.
You can not make her talk! But the most
have always voted but I'm afraid I voted for
the wrong people for the wrong reasons. I
didn't realize that you can'tjust get rid of a
president in four years if you don't like him
important asset in a relationship is
—his legacy remains in the Supreme Court
communication. Refusing to talk about a
problem does notfix it, nor does it make the
problem go away.
for years to come.
Believe me,I know better now and I, for
which is difficult when problems arise,
one,am following your advice. After all, if
we can't get and keep our rights as women,
how will we ever get our rights as gays?
especially relationship problems.Getoutof
A New Believer
Take steps to maintain your self-esteem
the house,make plans with friends,go to the
library, join an exercise class, don't sit
home and wait for your lover to come home
in a bad mood ever night. Her attitude and
behavior are not your fault. So whatever
you do, don't lay a guilt trip on yourself.
Dear Believer,
I think we have alllearned that sitting on the
sidelines is a dangerous occupation that
does not pay. Enough said!
Dear Agnes,
Activist Seeking Direction in last month's
column hit the nail on the head. I am 27
years old and when I got out of high school,
I never worried about equal pay, my right to
an abortion or anything else. I guess 1
thought it was all settled and that it would
never go backwards.
Boy, was I wrong! I'm learning now that
you don't just have to fight to
your
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by Karen Dole Wolmon^^^p
Over the years, I've heard countless
not too difticuino recognize, here are
tales of love affairs that were doomed
from the start. There is the case of the
health food freak with the junk food
few clues to tip you off in case she
catches you off guard: she awakens
without being blasted out of bed by an
junkie, the quiet intellectual with the
alarm clock with more decibels than an
party animal and the hopeless slob with
as many strikes against it as the one
AC/DC concert, greets sparrows by
name, becomes verbal before an
intravaneous infusion of thick,
with the mismatched circadian
Columbian brew and makes the bed
the neat freak. But no relationship has
rhythms.Try and visualize the scenario
before taking a shower. As a wise m^
when a bonafide night person hooks up
with the strangest of human beings:
once said, "don't trust anyone who's
alert before eleven in the morning."'
Now,match this strange bird up with a
THE MORNING PERSON. The
relationship is destined for failure
before the pair is even introduced.
A few words of warning are called for
here. Although the morning person is
genuine night owl and feathers are sure
to fly. As all of us late rising creatures
have known since pre-embryonic
stage, the alarm clock is a medieval
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 17
instrument of torture invented by a
offer of a cocktail; she doesn't want to
sadistic madman who makes Attila the
stay out too late. You wouldn't mind
timiing in early with her.
Hun appear benevolent. As for the
button that allows a few extra minutes
ofsleep,don'tbefooled.It'sjusta tease
engineered by someone on the payroll
of Phyllis Schafly.
Things are innocent enough when you
first meet this morning person. She's
attractive, friendly without being
You start to get nervous as her eyelids
droop and the conversation falters. It
takes yotir all to convince this creature
to go to that cute little cappucino and
cannoli place after the meal. When you
leave the dessert shop,she walks with
. . the alarm clock is a medieval instrument of
torture invented by a sadistic madman who
mokes Attila the Hun appear benevolent.
pushy,and has no interest whatsoever
in your astrological sign. She seems to
be genuinely interested in you and asks
intelligent questions about your work
— without trying to discover your
salary or whether you can sneak a tryst
to Maui onto your expense account
After you've been chatting for awhile
and she hasn't mentioned a psychotic
her arm around your waist. At first you
think it's romantic, but you quickly
realize she's doing it for support. She
has trouble walking when she's half
asleep.
Notonly is yourenergy peaking,butthe
caffeine and sugar have you flying
Just as you're aboutto offer your phone
high.You'd invite her in for a nightcap,
but you don't think she can stay awake
thatlong.Instead,you get her into acab,
give her address to the driver — she's
not coherent enough to do it herself—
number,she asks ifshe may take you to
and head for the nearest nightclub —
ex-girlfriend or an obsession with cats,
you figure you've caught a live one.
dinner later in the week. As it's still
solo.
early, you have no clue as to her true
Now I'm not saying that a one night
stand — started early enough — with a
nature.
Imagine your first date with this new
woman. She insists on picking you up
for dinner at 5:30. Although that's just
past your usual lunchtime, you are
flattered that she can't wait to see you
and do your best to put yourself
together before the firstcommuter train
pulls into suburbia.She arrives right on
time, armed with candy and flowers.
You smile when she turns down you
morning person isa bad idea,butdo you
really want to spend your life with
someone who whistles as she gels her
hair and considers 9am late morning?
Granted, she is the type to serve you
breakfast in bed, but it is liable to be
oatmeal — and she'll expect you to eat
it.
To a person who grunts and growls if
spoken to before noon and believes that
Page 18 • Dimensions • September 1989
7am garbage collections are a
communist plot, the early rising
specimen is anathema. Envision the
scenario: you are miles deep under
thick, warm comforters on one rainy
Sunday morn. Hazy Technicolor
visions of candlelight dinners and
staying up till nine watching reruns of
The Loveboat. Just as you begin to
show signs of life, she's got about as
much energy as Secretariat after
running the Kentucky Derby.
Now don't get me wrong. The
building's not on fire, you're dead
relationship won't be all misconnected
energy and grief. There is one hour of
the day—between about2and 3pm —
when yotir biorhythms match and you
are both on the upswing. It's only 60
minutes, but that's 3600 seconds of
magic.Think hard before you pass that
meat!" It's HER on the phone, merrily
up.
white sandy beaches drift through your
subconscious when suddenly,
Alexander Graham Bell interrupts yotir
ecstasy. You reach for the offending
instrument and threaten, "if the
chirping,"oh gee,did 1 wake you? It's
already past seven and I thought we
'Johnny Carson in an article by Paul
could walk around town, hit a few
Rosenfield, "The Off-Camera
Carson,"Los Angeles Times Calendar,
museums, and have an early
lunch."You throw the phone against
the wall and burrow deeper under the
July 6,1986, p.4.
covers.
You waken hours later, way past the
time when the sun has passed its zenith
in the sky. Your idea ofthe perfect way
to start a lazy Sunday is with a late
brunch, as close to dinner time as
possible. After some window shopping
for things you can't afford, you're
dying for a horseback ride through the
park, a brisk swim in the pool, or an
invigorating game of raquetball. Your
adrenaline is high and you are ready to
conquer the world. She, unfortunately,
can't keep her eyelids open sans
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relationship won't work. It's late
afternoon by the time you resemble a
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human being;she's yawning and ready
to take a nap. You've got a workout at
Personnel Dept.
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your heels till dawn on the agenda. Her
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FlEiSTA WFBKEAD
vSeptember 15,16 &.17 at I^exus &.P«I's
FeattiringLara Linette• Friday the 15th • 6pin
Who's Those Girls • All-Female Review From Dallas
Sunday the 17th • 10pm
Friday, September 8th,9pm
Lisa. Bpysou of Dallas
"One Woman Show" in Nexus
Wednesday, September 13th, 10pm
His Boy Elroy
Wednesday, September 27th, 10pm
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September 8th — Nancy Ford • Comedy & Music • 7pm
Septmeber 15th — Lara Linette •6pm
Setpember 22nd — Alison Goodgame •6pm
September 29th — Birdie •6pm
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 21
hat A World,
hat A World!
Make A Wist)
by Nancy Ford
The other day on The Andy Grijfith
Show, Barney and Opie found an
Aladdin-like lamp and subsequently
were granted three wishes,all of which
came true. Watching this episode set
Miss Texases never say out loud but
always think.
me to thinkin' (that's Mayberry talk,)
about wishes, and reminded me of the
X that my friends would agree that it is
at least a remote possibility that the
time my sister Susan advised me of the
correct procedure to follow should I
ever be granted three wishes. I was to
spend the first two wishes in whatever
popular laser-tag game, in which
people themselves become human
game pieces, is not only futuristic
manner I desired,but must be sure that
also a guerilla U-aining program for an
my third wish was always for three
more wishes. Not unlike, lather, rinse,
army of laser warriors in the there-and-
repeat. It could go on forever.
X
With that in mind I have compiled the
detectors in airports.
following list of wishes should I ever
X three more wishes.
I further wish —
entertainment in the here-and-now,but
later.
keys that don't set off metal
happen to stumble upon a lamp of the
wish-granting genre. If it can happen to
Barney and Opie, it can happen to any
of us, and I want to be ready.
X that the French had a name for eggs
other than I'oeuf. It makes French
breakfast dishes taste lik®
I wish —
X for world peace
X an end to hunger.
sponges.
X thatIhadnot,asachild,decidedthat
old age was determined by whether or
not blue,root-like veins were visible on
X three more wishes. Now on to the
the back of one's hands.
good stuff; the wishes that potential
X three more wishes.
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^ that Jaclyn Smith would realize
that we don't believe for one minute
that she wears K-Mart clothes in real
life.
that Miss Crump would be my
teacher again next year. No, wait, that
was Opie's wish.
X an alarm clock that automatically
postpones ringing until after I've
completed any dream with Kim
Bassinger in it. No matter how late it
gets.
Stop in Houston September 12-17,and
every Thursday night at RiMarks
Cabaret with Randy Jobe in
"Performer's Showcase". Anyone
interested in auditioning for stage time
(singers, musicians, etc.) should call
Randy at 522-9485
Nancy Ford's column.
What A World,
What A World,
X three more wishes.
oppeors every
month right here in
X Endust really did.
X a permanent that really is.
Dimensions!
X three more wishes.
X the address of Cher's tattoo parlour.
X the time of her next appointment.
X three more wishes.
(to be continued in another issue.)
<S
nancy ford
Nancy Ford will be starring as Dorothy
Gale Storm in "The Wizard of
• comedy •
Montrose" or "Go To Hell, Dorothy
Gale", a musical comedy revue
' residential • commercial •
examining Houston's 1989 mayoral
race.The show will open on September
11th at RiMarks Cabaret, 2715
Waughcrest in Houston, and run'
Monday and Tuesday nights through
November.
Reservations
are
suggested. Call(713)524-2333.
Nancy will also be appearing at Nexus
in Austin on September 8th,at the Laff
for booking info
coii or write:
You'll See Productions
2990 Richmond #316
Houston,Texas 77098
(713) 721-4125
(713)520-7237
September 1989 • Dimensions• Page 23
the
offee f^lub
A Discussion of Lesbian Literature Both New and Old
This month, T. Sumner Reviews:
^lea
sures
hy Ulobhi Sommers
Edgewise
by Camariri Grae
I'll start out this month with Pleasures
(Naiad, Inc., S8.95) by Robbi
Sommers.This is a collection of"erotic
stories" for lesbians.
Frankly, I was bored. The first two or
many of these stories, the sex did not
enhance the plot.It wasas if the sex was
thrown in as an afterthought so that the
stories could be labeled "erotica".
1 also did not appreciate the selfpromotion ofPleasures in the last story
three were all right, but I found myself
skimming through the sex scenes as I
read through the rest. They all started to
"cutesy" and condescending that my
sound alike after awhile. All the women
intelligence was insulted.
seemed to have "ice-blue eyes" and a
"musky scent of womanhood".
Ms.Sommers does have talent, but it is
Some of the stories would have been
very good if it were not for the
"gratuitous"sex. By that I mean- that in
in the book. It was an ending so
not suited to this format. I probably
would have liked these stories if they
weren't all together in one book where
the flaws are magnified by repetition.
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There is a need in lesbian literature for
leaders of the Circle Edge community.
good erotica and there are a few
S he also discovers that her arrival in the
wonderful
community has been foretold and thatit
supposedly signals the beginnings of a
volumes
out
there.
Unfortunately, this isn't one I would
recommend. Many of the stories were
wonderful, but the sex only proved to
world-changing time.
As she gets more and more involved
be a distraction.
with the women of Circle Edge,Jude's
Now,in a totally different vein, we'll
look into Edgewise by Camarin Grae
(Naiad,Inc.,$9.95). The story revolves
lover and their friends become more
around Jude Alta who returns home to
danger in a symbolic ritual.
and more concerned . . . especially
when they learn that her life may be in
a small town in Colorado to visit her
Camarin Grae's novels are always
dying friend, Rosalie. The entire town
is awaiting word on how Rosalie's vast
wealth and property will be distributed.
intriguing but 1 found this one
The women of Circle Edge, a
mysterious feminist community
outside of town is also awaiting
Rosalie's death and disposition of her
wealth.
The women of Circle Edge have been
around as long as Jude can remember,
but neither she nor the town folk know
much about them. That is until Jude is
invited to visit their community.
Soon,Jude finds herself being taken in
by the religious beliefs and charismatic
especially so! She puts enormous
energy into creating situations and
personalities that are out of the norm —
this is especially true of Edgewise and
the Kwo-Amian religion Ms. Grae has
invented for it. This book is thoroughly
enjoyable and extremely well written. 1
highly recommend it to any lover of
intrigue and good fiction.
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Tallahasee, PL 32302. Please enclose
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September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 25
Stephanie
Knowlond has
the power...
What does
your ex-lover
meon to you?
Are you best friends? Enemies? Do
you provide emotional support for
Even as a child, Stephanie realized
that her psychic abilities set her
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revenge on Stephanie and her
lover. Stephanie's power Eilone is
not enough to save them against
the psychopath who has decided to
play a fiendish cat-and-mouse
game with the two women.
THE
CRYSTAL CURTAIN
one another . . . or have you lost
contact? Through dozens of per
sonal interviews with lesbians and
their ex-lovers, Carol Becker has
charted the course that a break-up
may take. She shows how the end of
a relationship can provide a time for
important personal growth, and
how former lovers can also serve as
the foundation for new forms of
family and community.
UNDROKEN TIES:
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by Carol Decker
by Sandy Doyar
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9?
oefry
Not A Day Goes By ...
1 grant myself ten minutes to bask
in the iime-green,adoiescent glow,and
my heart striking xyiophone-ribs, but
i help your hand,anyway.
My shower runs like the one
you liked so much in San Antonio,
just in case you surprise me
and come by.
The realist in me shrugs,
takes one iast look for the day -
time and distance make dreams ragged
and more remnants drift away.
i share my iove with someone,now.
We don't know where we are going, but
she trusts and loves me in ways
I've never known.
And so that's good,
and . . . not a day goes by
that I don't think of you.
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McKinney, TX
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oroscope
What's in the Stars for You this month?
VIRGO
SCORPIO
(August 23rd- Sept 22nd)
You may be worried aboutjob security
during the first week of September.
Things will be looking up by week's
end and an idea of yours could even
lead to extra money.From the 9th thru
the 16th try to control your tendency to
be possessive and your love life will be
much happier. From the 17th thru the
23rd everything seems to fall in place
and you will be feeling in control again.
Problems with a partner will be worked
(Oct 24tti -Nov 22nd)
Affairs of the heart are accented during
the first week of September. Every
thing is going good at home and at
work.From the 9th thru the 16th a bad
situation at work could be getting
worse. This could lead to problems in
your personal life if you take out yoiu:
frustrations on loved ones. From the
17th thru the 23rd positive changes
will be on the horizon at work. Things
will improve in your relationship and
out if both sides make an effort. From
you will be more involved with others.
the 24th to the 30th you will be well on
your way to working through all your
problems and your outlook will be
From the 24th thru the 30th your
home life and career may,once again,
positive.
LIBRA
be competing with each other.You may
have tojuggle your time and energies to
keep everyone happy, but you'll come
through all right
(Sept 23rd - Oct 23rd)
Your love life is looking up during the
first week of September. Either yoiu
current romance is heating up or a new
one is just around the comer! From the
9th thru the 16th a career decision
SAGIHARIUS
(Nov23-Dec21)
The first week of September is a good
time for setting goals, both for career
and romance.Try to make them reason
should be put on hold. Time and per
able and accessible so that you don't get
spective could change your mind about
a goal you made in the past From the
in over your head. From the 9th thru
the 16th your love life will be in the
17th thru the 23rd don't let a co-
forefront. Your relationship with that
worker get in the way of your success
on the job. Someone could be trying to
special person will be strong and se
cure. Keep a conservative view on fi
sabotage your work. From the 24th
thru the 30th your social life is back in
fullswing and you can't waittojump in!
Your energy is high and you're ready to
play!
the 23rd you will be feeling very laidback. Keep in mind that curiosity can
get you in trouble and mind your own
nancial matters. From the 17th thru
business at work. From the 24th thru
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Property of the Center
the 30th you may be feeling nervous
think through important decisions.
and restless. Get out with friends or
plan some special activities to get you
out of the house.
PISCES
(Feb 19th-Mar 20th)
During the first week ofSeptember, it
is hard for anything to go wrong.Love,
CAPRICORN
(Dec 22nd - Jon 19lh)
Money matters could be taking up all
your dme during the first week of
September. A new, unexpected
romance could also heat up this week.
From the 9th thru the 16th everything
is going your way, as long as you
remember to put your career first. Work
may seem tedious but the rewards will
be plentiful. From the 17th to the 23rd
you may be thinking seriously
seriously about committing yourself to
a relationship. Don't go too fast, you
may still have your head in the clouds.
From the 24th thru the 30th be sure to
keep your emotions under control. A
problem in your relationship could
have you feeling down but things will
be back on track be the last day of the
month.
money, career, and social life are all
positive. The 9th thru the 16th will
prove to be a most productive week for
you,both at work and in your love life.
Your self-confidence will bring
positive reactions from those around
you. From the 17th to the 23rd you
may be feeling irresponsible and
irritated; but the latter part of the week
will find you more responsible,caring,
and playful. The 24th thru the 30th
may be full of emotional ups and
downs. You will come to realize how
importantanother person is to you.But,
at the same time, you may discover
some deception in a close personal
relationship. Try to rely on your
intuition. It won't steer you wrong.
ARIES
(Mar 21st-April 19)
AQUARIUS
The first week of September will find
(Jan 20th - Feb 18th)
The first week ofSeptember may find
move ahead. Don't expect too much,
you planning your career and how to
you re-assessing some persona!
you may have to return to the drawing
relationship, either at work or at home.
You will be at the center of attention
board several times to get everything
squared away. The 9th thru the 16th
from the9th thru the 16th.You maybe
could see your plans take off, don t be
feeling successful in every way, but
don't take on too much or you'll find
afraid to push for what you want.
yourselfswamped next week.From the
17th thru the 23rd you will be busy
planning personal goals and activities.
There could also be an exciting new
a new romance. From the 17th to the
let those you love know how you feel.
romance in the works. From the 24th
The 24th to the 30th may be
thru the 30th you should try to keep
emotionally trying, but don't let it get
you down. The last three days of the
month will bring both luck and love.
your positive attitude no matter what
you encounter. Make time this week to
Things may not be what they appear in
23rd you may be more concerned with
domestic affairs. Now is a fine time to
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 31
TAURUS
(April 20th-May 20th)
You may not find time for travel during
the first week of September, but that
will not make the lu'ge go away! Yoiu"
career is taking an upward turn thanks
to the attention ofa higher-up and it will
keep you firmly attached to your desk.
From the 9th thru the 16th romance
and social activities will have to be cut
back due to extra stress at work. From
CANCER
(June 22th - July 22th)
Social activities seem especially
attractive during the first week of
September. Romance will also spice
up your life.It may seem like all fun and
games but remember your
commitments and responsibilities.
From the 9th thru the 16th you may
feel like you are on a roller-coaster.
Maintain your charm and poise and it
will see you through these trying times.
the 17th thru the 23rd,yotir social and
romantic life will come back into play
and the feeling of isolation you have
been experiencing will go away. From
the 24th thru the 30th you may find
social calendar can leave you
you do not share the same romantic
emotionally drained. The week of the
feelings as someone you have been
seeing. The love and support offriends
24th thru the 30th will be exciting and
Be cautious with your money now.
From the 17th thru the 23rd it will be
best to stay home and relax. A full
may be more satisfying than that of a
rewarding. Your charm and charisma
could put you in the role of trendsetter
lover.
as well as filling your social calendar!
GEMINI
(May 21st - June 21st)
LEO
(July 23rcl - August 22nd)
Confidence and control are yoiu key
The first week of September could
assets during the first week of
find you moving ahead and making
September. Calm and poise will be
plans for your future. Be cautious with
your ticket to success. You will
your money - do not take any
unnecessary financial risks. The 9th to
succeed as long as you keep the
eccentric side of your nature under
the 16th will bring high energy,
control.The9th thru the 16th will find
you with a full social calendar and the
romance, and a full social calendar.
prospect of a new and exciting
romance. Control the urge to
overspend. You may have some
your temper and not insist on having
everything your way.From the 17th to
decisions to make about a relationship
firom the 17th to the 23rd. You could
find yourself pulled between the
This can be fun but you'll have to watch
the 23rd your thoughts will be torn
between yourpastand future. Don'tlet
a friend slip away because she will
prove to be very important to you later
carefree single life and an intense
on. From the 24th thru the 30th your
romantic involvement. From the 24th
career may seem to be going downhill,
but be patient, everything will work
out. This is a good time to relax with
thru the 30th you will have a tendency
to overreact both emotionally and
physically. Keep a short rein on your
loved ones.
temper.
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Irecfory
A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
ARLINGTON,TX (area code 817)
P.O. Box 225831 75222 • 948-1546
AIDS Resource Center
clubs
Britches & Bloomers
3920 Cedar Springs 75219
Dallas Gay Alliance
809 N. Collins • 860-8717
P.O. Box 190712 75219 .528-4233
organizations
Dallas Gay/Lesbian Historic Archives
3930 Cedar Springs « 821-1653
Dallas Gay Youth Group
Goy/Lesblcn Association of UTA
P.O. Box 19348-77. UTA St. 76019
794-5140
300 Turtle Creek Plaza #116 * 307-7203
Dallas Outdoors
P.O. Box 35474 75235• 276-5270
AUSTIN, TX (area code 512)
Dallas Tavern Guild
clubs
Nexus/Petticoat Junction
3900 Lemmon Ave. #220 • 526-5292
Foundation for Hurrran Understanding
401 & 401-B E. 2nci.495-9553
528-4233
organizations
528-4233
GayAesbian Young Adults
Affirmation (f^ethodist)
7403 Shoo! Creek • 451-2329
Grace Fellowship in Christ Jesus
2727 Oak Lawn 75219 .528-2811
Lesbian Information Line (LIL)
P.O. Box 191443 75219.528-2426
Austin Lambda
P.O. Box 5455 78763
Gay/Lesbian Student
Association at UT Austin •458-3971
Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338
Lesbia/Gay Political Coalition
P.O. Box 224424 75222.828-9882
Lesbian/Gay Rights Advocates
Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby
528-4233
P.O. Box 2505 78768
Lesbian Visionaries
Metropolitan Community Church
P.O. Box 191443 75219.521-9642
1100 Springdole Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Ministry
Metropiex Republicans
5555 N. Lomar Blvd. #L101 • 441-9191
Waterloo Counseling Center
P.O. Box 191033 75219.941-8114
Oak Lawn Community Services
3000 Turtie Creek Pldza, Suite 116
507 Powell 78703• 322-9654
75219-5311.520-8108
Texas Human Rights Foundation
Oak Lawn Symphonic Band
2201 N. Lomar # 203 78705•479-8473
P.O. Box 190973 75219.986-1751
Womyn Together
AIDS Legal Assistance 1-800-828-6417
3920 Cedar Springs.528-4233
DALLAS, TX (area code 214)
businesses
DENTON,TX (area code 817)
Business Delivery Systems
organizations
14902 Preston Rd. 75240 • 733-1108
Crossroads Market
3930 Cedar Springs
521-8919 or 1-800-992-6404
Curious Times - Women's Books etc.
COURAGE, Lesbian Gay Student Org.
4008-D Cedar Springs 75219 • 528-4087
c/o Student Activities Center
P.O. Box 5067 76203.382-3813
FT. WORTH (area code 817)
clubs
ciubs
Jugs •3810 Congress
Partners
1612 Park Place.924-2519
Sue Ellen's
3903 Cedar Springs • 559-0707
Desert Moon • 5903 Willis • 828-4471
organizations
Affirmation (Methodist).478-7837
organizations
Affirmation (Methodist)
September 1989 • Dimensions • Page 33
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HOUSTON,TX (area code 713)
clubs
Keystroke
Keystroke Hotline 785-9258
Ranch • 9125 S. Main •666-3464
organizallorts
AIDS Foundation
3400 Montrose #700• 524-AIDS
AIDS HOTLINE
c/o Switchboard • 529-3211
Gay/Lesbian Students
University of Houston
4800 Coihoun • 529-3211
Gay & Lesbian Switchboard
P.O. Box 66591 77266 • 529-3211
Houston Gay Political Caucus
P.O. Box 66664 77266 • 521-1000
Kingdom Community Church
614 E. 19th.862-7533
Lambda ALANON
Lambda Center for Aichohoiics
1214 Joanne • 521-9772
Inc.P.O. Box 190426
Dallas, TX 75219-0426 •(214) 307-7203
National Gay/Lesbian Clearinghouse
666 Broadway 4th Floor
NY, NY 10012
National Gay/Lesbian Crisisline
1-800-SOS-GAYS
National Gay/Lesbian Task Force
1517 U Street NW
Washington D.C. 20009 • 202-332-6483
The Fund for Human Dignity
666 Broadway 4th Floor
NY, NY 10012
NORMAN,OK (area code 405)
organizations
Women's Resource Center
P.O. Box 5089 73070
OKLAHOMA CITY, OK
(area code 405)
Lesbian/Gay Students
University of Houston - Clear Lake
2700 Bay Area 77058
Montrose Pool League/Billiards
organizations
PJ 863-8482
PWA Coalition - Houston
3327 Essex Lane *623-4436
2312 NW 39th 73112 • 794-7464
Womynspace
P.O. Box 980601 77098-0601
880-9517 or 521-0780
Women's Softball League
6431 Pineshade • 868-6256
LUBBOCK,TX (area code 806)
organizations
Oasis the Community Center
2135 NW 39th 73112.525-AiDS
Herland Sister Resources, Inc.
SAN ANTONIO,TX
(area code 512)
clubs
The Circle
8021 Pinebrook « 341-2818
Memories
6402 Coiiaghan Road
organizations
Names Project/Lubbock
Dignity/San Antonio
202 N. St. Mary's • 349-3632
Integrity/San Antonio
796-1800 or 744-1957
P.O. Box 150006 78212.684-4920
Lubbock Lesbian/Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 64746 79464• 796-2403
River City Living Metropolitan
Community Church
202 Holland 78212 • 822-1121
NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS
Affirmation: United Methodists for
LISA (Lesbian Information SA)
828-LISA (5472)
Lesbian/Gay Concerns
P.O. Box 1021 • Evanston, IL 60204
AIDS Action Council
San Antonio AIDS Foundation
P.O. Box 120113 78212-9313
San Antonio Tavern Guild • 822-2823
729 Eighth St. S.E. Suite 200
Washington. DC 20003 .(202) 547-3101
AIDS 800 • 1-800-221-7044
Conference For Catholic Lesbians
P.O. Box 436, Planetarium Station
New York, New York 10024
SOUTH PADRE ISLAND,TX
(area code 512)
accomodations
Lyie's Deck • 120 E. Atol St.
Ntt Gay Alliance for Young Adults,
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