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17 Winter Travel
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28 Quiz:

5 To the Editor
7 News

How Well Do You

11 What's Goin' On

Handle Being Alone?

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22 Whot A World,
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Dear Agnes
Graffiti Page
Poetry
Horoscope
Directory

37 Classifieds

humor by comedian
Nancy Ford

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o the Editor
APPLAUSE FOR NANCY

BE OUR VALENTINE
Dear Readers!

Dear Dimensions

"Read my lips!"
Every lime George Bush slapped us
with this bullying quip during this past

She says you can never have too much
Tupperware,I say I can't get enough of
her! Nancy Ford's column is the great
est, I just wish it lasted longer. No

campaign, I wanted to pull one of my
man friends up close to me, smack a
luscious kiss together and retort,"Read
Mv Lips, George!

Despite the bad press and the dismal
return on the money we pay our govern

ment, we all know that our lesbian/gay
love, our sexuality, our relationships,
our way of seeing and being in the
world,are potent and powerful. We are
also learning thatour love empowers us

matter how slow I read it, it's always
over too soon.

The rest of your magazine is great too Keep up the good work!
Sherry
Irving, TX

when we let the world see it, alive,

healthy, creative, even demanding!
Soon we'll be celebrating Valentine's

Day,a day oflove and lovers. This year
I'd like to inundate the White House,

Congress, the Supreme Court, ABC,
CBS, etc ... with Lesbian/Gay Valen
tine's wishes.So,I invite you all to play

along and head for your favorite les
bian/gay cardshop, find your favorite

postcards of men or women kissing,
color them with a few red hearts, in
scribe them with a "Read My Lips!"

and any other quips you fancy. Then
send them off to George Bush,Justices

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ews
From Around the Region,the Country & the World

Armstrong

Doctors Confirm
Kowaiski Can
Communicate

Amendment Struck
Down
WASHINGTON - U.S. District Judge

MINNESOTA - Sharon Kowaiski can
understand and communicate her needs

Royce Lamberth ruled that the U.S.
Congress does not have the
constitutional power to compel the

and wishes say three court appointed

District of Columbia and its council

Kowaiski was severely injured in an

members to enactlegislation,including
anti-gay legislation.
The amendment, sponsored by Sen.
William Armstrong (R-Colo), would
have allowed religiously associated
educational institution to discriminate

against"any person or persons that are
organized for, or engaged in,
promoting,encouraging,or condoning
any homosexual act, lifestyle,

doctors.

automobile accident in 1983 and has

been keptin a nursing home since 1985.
This is the first full evaluation for

competency since 1984 although such
testing was required annually for her
father to retain legal guardianship.
This is all in response to Kowalski's

parmer, Karen Thompson's, fight for
proper medical care for Kowaiski and
the right to visit and help care for her.
District court judge Robert Campbell

orientation, or belief."

Congress coerced the Washington D.C.

has ordered the Kowaiski be moved

City Council to pass the amendment by

from her present location to a

the end of 1988 or face the cutoff of all

rehabilitation

city funds.

communication rehabilitation. Visitors

unit

to

receive

Judge Lamberth held that council

will be allowed based on Kowalski's

members have the right to exercise their

wishes.

own judgement in voting for or against

Thompson and her attorneys were

legislation and that the U.S.
government has no right to force

elated with the evaluation.

council members to vote for any
legislation.

Oak Lawn

Counseling Center
Changes Name
DALLAS - Oak Lawn Counseling
Center has changed its name to Oak
Lawn Community Services (OLCS).

February 1989 • Dimensions • Page

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The change was official on January 1,
1989.

The name change reflects the growth of
the diversity ofservices offered. OLCS
now encompasses Health Services and
Public Information and Education in

addition to Counseling Services.
Health Services includes the Buddy
Project and PWA Care-A-Van

resource center is also expanding its
services to include free showings of
lesbian and gay films on the second and
fourth Friday of every month.
Herland is a women's collective that

provides a framework for a variety of
projects for the support and enjoyment
of Oklahoma City's women's
community.

transportation system.
Public Information and Education will

include a 24-hour bilingual AIDS
Hotline, all media relations and
publications within the OLCS, a

Gay Spirituality
Workshop Slated

speakers bureau and corporate
education.

AUSTIN - Daniel Helminiak will

The Counseling Services division
includes all group, individual, AIDS,
career and relationship counseling.

present an advanced workshop on gay

Also under this division are the

wellness programs, educational
seminars and the Oasis Recovery

Program for drug and alcohol abuse.
OLCS is also offering special programs
of interest to the lesbian community.
Women-only therapy groups, lesbian
AIDS education and space at the center
for lesbian organizations are just some
of the outreach programs planned.
If you would like more information on
workshops, events and services,
contact the OLCS at(214)520-8108.

spirituality
at
Metropolitan
Community Church of Austin, IKX)
Springdale Road, on Saturday,
February 18 from 10am to 4pm.
The workshop is designed for people
who are already religiously
comfortable being lesbian or gay and
who want to explore how their
sexuality can foster spiritual growth.
Although the program will touch on
issues specific to Christianity, the
workshop will be appropriate for any
person of good will, including those
who do not believe in God.

A ten-dollar donation is requested, but
no one will be turned away because of

Herland Sister

inability to pay. All proceeds go to the
MCCA building fund. Participants
should bring their own lunch.

Resources Moves Into

Dr. Daniel Helminiak is a Roman

New Building

Catholic priest and theologian. He is

OKLAHOMA CITY - Herland Sister
Resources is all moved in to their new

building at 2312 NW 39th. The new

author of The Same Jesus and Sniritual

Developmentand numerous articles on
psychology, theology,and spirituality.

Page 8 • Dimensions • February 1989

He has lectured nationally on sexuality

scheduled for late 1989 or early 1990.

and spirituality and is an instructor in
human sexuality at Austin Community
College. He is also the Director for
Spiritual Growth at Omega Point
Counseling Center in Austin. For

The conference envisioned is the first

further

information

about

the

workshop, call(512)338-0577.

ofits kind: broad based coalition effort

to set a lesbian agenda for social,
economic, and political change, to

increase lesbian visibility and to
acknowledge lesbian diversity and
common ground.
Regional planning meetings on the
national conference

National Lesbian

being

organized throughout the country in the

Conference in

months ahead. The first national

Planning Stages

steering committee meeting is set for
March 4-5 in Raliegh-Durham, NC.
Lesbians interested in getting involved

WASHINGTON,D.C. - According to
the

are

Herland

Sister

Resources

Newsletter, a group of east coast
lesbians convenved an open meeting to
begin to set goals and establish the
initial planning structure for an alllesbian conference tentatively

should

watch

for

future

announcements of planning meetings.
For more information write: National

Lesbian Conference, P.O. Box 3057,
Albany,NY 12203.

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SUNDAYS
$1 Well Drinks • $1 Beer • 75(t Schnapps
$1.50 Corona • $2 Call Drinks
ALL DAY & ALL NIGHT

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Treat Your Sweetheart to a Night Out at the

Valentine Headquarters!

TUESDAYS

Beer Bust • 7pm-Midnight • Dance Lessons

Pool Tournament Night, Everyone Welcome!
WEDNESDAYS

Happy Hour Drinks
THURSDAYS

Beer Bust • 7pm-Midnight

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Houston, TX
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IV

hat's c tain
A Monthy Listing of Speciai Evenb Aii Around Texas, Okiohoma & New Mexico
AUSTIN - PETTICOAT JUNCTION

themselves this month. On the 3rd

will be celebrating its 2nd
Anniversary on Ground Hog's Day,
Feb. 2nd! Happy Birthday PJ! If you

catch Shake Russell with opening act

Lennie & Sylvia. On the 16th, catch
Kate

Clinton.

A

Valentine

couldn't make it to New Orleans for

Celebration will be held on Tuesday

Mardi Gras, come celebrate at

the 14th.Be sure and check for topics of
Tuesday Night Discussion Sessions!

NEXUS/PJ's! The party starts on

Saturday and Sunday the 4th and 5th
and winds up on "Fat Tuesday" the

AUSTIN

7th! Ofcourse,a Valentine Ball will be

Brunch is planned for Feb. 5th at

held on Feb. 14th - dress up in your best

11am. Call Karen at 339-8508 or

duds and come on out!

Maria at 834-0933 for details. Don't

DALLAS - Well, ladies, you've got
your own bar at the Crossroads these

Valentine Dance to be held Sat. Feb

-

A

Lesbian

Mother's

miss the Austin Lambda and ALGPC

days - SUE ELLEN's opened officially
on Jan. 19th and they are going strong!
Monday thru Sat you can get 3-In-l's
(that's 3 shots in 1 drink) or Happy
Hour prices from 3pm-8pm and all

night long on Mondays! Be sure and
check out all the other drink specials
listed in the ad this month and say hello

to Kathy while you're there!
AUSTIN - Kate Clinton will be

appearing at the Amstin Opera House
on Friday, Fcbrutiry I7th - courtesy of
Live Wire Productions! Look for more
concerts and women's events coming

11th at the Unitarian Church!

FT. WORTH - Saturday, February
18th isKim's Birthday atDAMSELS!
In her honor, there will be a special
show with guests Nancy & Margaret,
Karen & Sharon & Claudia! Also,for

those of you who don't know,
DAMSELS now has600 square foot of
dance floor for you to play on!
DALLAS - Who's Those G iris? They
arc a Dallas-based professional all
women's revue that has been together
for years under various names. They

are unique because they not only have
hot women but live comedy and

in March & April!

character impersonations like Bette
SAN ANTONIO - The CIRCLE

always brings you the best in live
enteruiinment but they've outdone

Continued on Page 14

February 1989 • Dimensions • Page H

NOWvOPEN

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Welcomes The Women To The Crossroads
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SUNDAYS

12 Noon-8pm • $1 Juice Drinks & $2 Mimosas
500 Draft Beer 8pm-Close

Watch for Shows Coming Soon On Sunday Nights!
MONDAYS

3-ln-1's or Happy Hour Prices All Day and All Night
8 Ball Pool Tournament • 8pm • Gash Prizes
TUESDAYS

3-ln-Ts or Happy Hour Prices 3pm-8pm
Comedy Night • Roseanne Barr Show 7:30pm
WEDNESDAYS

3-ln-1's or Happy Hour Prices 3pm-8pm
$1 Well & Draft 8pm-Close
THURSDAYS

3-ln-1's or Happy Hour Prices 3pm-8pm
Country & Western Night

$1 Domestic Longnecks 8pm-Close
No Cover

FRIDAYS
3-ln-1's or Happy Hour Prices 3pm-8pm
SATURDAYS
3-ln-1's or Happy Hour Prices 3pm-8pm

Optional Beer Bust 12 noon-8pm

Open Mon-Fri 3pm • Sat & Sun 12 noon
After Hours Fri & Sat

3903 Cedar Springs Rd. * Dallas, TX * (214) 559-0707
February 1989 • Dimensions • Page 13

Saver Sundays! All day and all night,

Midler, Hank Williams, Jr. Crystal
Gayle and Kenny Rogers. On Feb.
18lh you can catch them at Damsels in

you'll find SI Well Drinks, SI Beer,
750 Schnapps, SI.50 Corona and S2

Ft. Worth ... watch this column for

Call Drinks! The RANCH is also

future dates!

planning to help you celebrate
Valentine's all week long, whatever
night you decide to treat your sweetie,
the RANCH will be ready! If you're
ready to learn how to dance a two-step,
you can learn on Tuesday nights while

FT. WORTH -

The gang at

PARTNERS would like to thank

Gloria for filling in and welcome
Kathy back to the DJ's spot! Gloria
will be the Sunday Guest DJ now that
Kathy is back on her foot! This month
atPARTNERS you can catch theDena

Kaye Show on February the 4th and a
special J. Christopher Valentine's
Show on February 11th. They will also
be opening at 12 noon on Sundays so
come on out and have some fun!

HOUSTON

-

The

RANCH

is

definitely the place to be on Super

you enjoy Beer Bust!
WICHITA FALLS - Don't miss out

on the drink specials at ODDS. On
Tuesday it's SI.50 Bottled Beer,
including Corona!, Wednesday you
can get SI.50 wine coolers, Thursday
and Sunday bring a S3 beer bust from
9pm to midnight with 500 Schnapps on
Sunday. You can also catch Happy
Hour every night from 7-9pm!

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The Jch ycu Save Hay Be Ycur lovers

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Write or call for brochure:
120 E. Atol St. P.O. Box 2326
South Padre Island, TX 78597

512-761-LYLE

ear^gnes
Answers to your questions obout love,
relationships & personal problems
Dear Agnes,
My lover and I have known each other
for 25 years, but we have been lovers
for almost9 years. I've always felt like
I was second in her life because of her

mother and family. But last year I felt
like 1 had had enough of this so 1 started
listening to lies about her from two
people that 1 thought were my friends.
I now realize they were not friends.
My lover and 1 had a bad year in '88.
She met another woman, but later de

cided this woman was not her type.She
decided 1 was her type.
She says she still has strong feelings for

through your feelings, and clear up
some of the confusion that you are
experiencing.
Consider individual counseling if your
lover refuses to go with you.It can give

you a new prospective on why you feel
second and offer new insight into the

conflicts you feel about your relation
ship, her family, friends, etc..
Oak Lawn Community Services offers
counseling in the DFW area.

Dear Agnes,

me, and we are seeing each other, but

My lover has a hobby that just drives
me crazy. She likes to hunt! Not only

she still talks with this woman some

does she like to hunt, when she isn't

times. 1 get very angry and upset when
1 find out. She says it doesn't hurt to
have friends and talk to them. She
thinks 1 should do the same. Go out and

make friends-that is.

Should 1 stand back and let this happen?

Hoping it will pass, or should 1 get on
with my life? She says with all the

things that have happened, she's con
fused too, but time will heal. In her

words, people break-up and go back
together all the time.

This is still going on with her family.
Second

hunting she is getting ready for the next
big hunt.Everything in her closet came
from LL Bean,she has enough guns to
start the next Civil War. It is like an

obsession. I swear it is getting worse
and worse the older she gets. We
bought a new freezer last winter after
she came home from Colorado because

there wasn't room in the one we had for
all the deer meat.

She has a hunting buddy,but there isn't
any hanky panky. I'm sure of it!
When we first started living together

she would go quail and dove hunting
two or three times a season and deer

Dear Second,

Relationship counseling could greatly
benefit your relationship, help you sort

hunting at least once, but now days it's
every damn weekend or vacation day
she has. Everything really revolves
around the next hunting trip. These are

February 1989 • Dimensions • Page 15

big expensive trips too.

bit obsessive. Buying a new freezer is

I will not hunt! I told her that when we

obsessive-unless the old one is on it's

first started living together. I don't
think there is anything wrong with it(if
you don't do it all the time like she
does). She comes from a family of

last leg.
There is not much you can do about this
situation except tell her how you feel.
And if you want to live with her after
she retires-get a hobby!

hunters.

What do you make of this situation?
What should I do? I don't care if she

hunts,but all the time? Soon I am afraid

we will be buying a new freezer.Do you
know that when she retires she wants to

Write to Dear

hunt-that's all she has planned.

Hunting Widow in East Texas

Agnes with
your problems or

Dear Hunting Widow,

comments at:

Your letter implies that as your lover's

Dimensions

income level has increased so has the

time and money she spends on her

P.O. Box 856

hunting trips. I would say that every
weekend and vacation are definitely a

Lubbock,TX 79408

TUESDAY
FEB. 14TH

FRIDAY
FEB. 3RD

Valentine
Celebration!

THURSDAY
FEB.16TH

Shake
Russell
With

Lennie &

IRCL

Sylvia

Kate
Clinton
Arts, Entertainment
& Cultural Center

8021 Pinebrook • San Antonio,TX • (512) 341-2818
Page 16 • Dimensions • February 1989

WINTER TRAVEL

FOR WOMEN

A Look At Lesbian/Gay Travel Opportunities In The Southern Rockies
by Tasha Sumner
I've attempted skiing a
couple of times and al
though I won't say I was

good,I will say I wasn't
too bad for someone
who never did master

the art of stopping.
Now, I always
claimed that skiing
was too expensive
and dangerous for a
klutz" like me,but I
just might be will
ing to try it again
since I've discov
ered a number of

lesbian and gay
guesthouses

sprinkled

Of course, downhill skiing isn't the
only thing you'll find to do! There's
also cross-country skiing, snow shoe

ing, tubing, sleigh rides, and of course
romantic nights by the fire with snow
piling up outside.
Listed on the following pages are some of
the guesthouses in Colorado and New
Mexico. You'll also find some winter activi

ties, events, and info for "family". So,get out
your snow chains,your gloves,your ski clothes,
and get ready!
COLUMBINE LODGE
P.O. Box 267,
Green Mountain Foils, CO 80819
(719)684-9062

Located about 8 miles west of Colorado Springs, the
Columbine.-^ Lodge offers very reaonab1e

throughout the
ski areas of the
Rockies.

February 1989 • Dimensions • Page 17

rates and lots of specials! S30 per
couple, per night is the basic rate. Over
Valentine's you can get a room for S2,5
per night or S.36 per night including
flowers, champagne, and a dance for

sweethearts! Things to do nearby in

clude: cross country skiing, sleigh
rides, ice skating, ice fishing, and

spa,and indoor sauna a Just some of the
amenities. Winter rates range from
S45-S90 and summer rates from S50-

S115. Women only times arc available
upon request.

PIKES PEAK PARADISE INN
Box 5760
Woodlond Park, CO 80666

downhill skiing just 20 minutes to an
hour and a half away. Summer fun

(719)687-6656

includes white water rafting, fishing,
hiking, etc. Owners Barbara and Marty
also plan women's music concerts,
dances and a group campout in the near

30 minutes west of Colorado Springs
and 1 hour from major ski areas,there is

future.

This bed & breakfast is predominantly
male oriented but welcomes women.

much to keep you entertained here. You
can also find cross-country skiing, ice

BRECKENRIDGE MT. HOUSE

skating, shopping, etc.

Breckenridge, CO

CORRALES INN
P.O. Box 1361

(303)453-6475

This is a little different concept. You
can rent this 2 1/2 bedroom plus a loft

house for a minimum of four, or up to
ten women. Rates vary between winter

and summer. Winter rates run approxi

mately 5275 per night(327.50 per per
son based on a group of ten), summer

rates are S120 and up,depending on the
number in your group. All the linens,
cooking utensils, etc. are provided, but
you must bring your own food (and
cook). The house is about 1 mile from
the ski area and from the town ofBreck
enridge.
THEGALISTEO INN
Box 4

Galisteo, NM 87540
(505)982-1506

Corroles, NM 87048
(505)897-4422
15 Minutes from the heart of Albuquer

que and 40 minutes from Santa Fe
you'll find this charming little bed &
breakfast. In a great location for day

trips, you can find downhill and cross
country skiing, horseback riding, hot
air ballooning and a natural hot springs
all within an hours drive. Rates are S45

per person, 550 per couple with an
optional breakfast for a small amount.
There is a hot tub in the courtyard, as

well as, a fireplace and library in the
common room.

WINTER SPORTS TRIPS

Just minutes from Santa Fe, you'll find
this little Inn. Of course, you'll be
within driving distance of ski areas,
shopping and sight seeing, but you'll
also be right on the spot for cross
country skiing, horseback riding etc...

WOODSVVOMEN, a women's ad

The main house is 250 years old and
situated on 8 acres. A heated lap pool.

offered in Colorado February 11 th thru

venture travel organization also offers
much in the way of winter activities.
The Yellowstone Ski Extravaganza

happens February 25th thru March 4th
and a Cross Country Powder Ski is
the 18th. Woodswomen also offers ski

Page 18 • Dimensions • February 1989

and children are welcome on most trips.
If you would like more details, write

rants, etc. Bars are rated on a "four-

star" basis on what percentage of their

Woodswomen at 25 West Diamond

clientele are gay women.

Lake Rd., Minneapolis, MN 55419.

PLACES OF INTEREST
TO WOMEN

I couldn't reach ARTEMIS WIL
DERNESS TOURS for a list of their

specific activities but I can tell you that
they offer cross-country ski trips as

P.O. Box 35575
Phoenix, AZ 85032

A guide book for lesbian women lists
bars, accomodations, organizations,

well as backpacking,rafting, canoeing
and whalewatching trips to locations all

etc. Also listings for women events

across the Southwest. You can reach

including conferences, trips and music

them at (505) 758-2203 or write P.O.

festivals.

Box 1178, Taos, New Mexico 87471

GAYELLOW PAGES

for dates and cost information.

P.O. Box 292

Village Station, NY, NY 10014
(212)674-0120

THINGS OF NOTE

Gay and lesbian guide book covering
Other information of note for lesbians

the U.S. and Canada. Lists bars, busi

and gay men planning a winter vaca

nesses, organizations etc.

tion:

ASPEN has no lesbian or gay accom
modations. However, Aspen has had a
non-discrimination policy since 1976
and there should be no problems with
lodging for same-sex couples.
GAY SKI WEEK is offered yearly in
Aspen. It is paditionally held the last
week in January but you should call the

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Dena Kaye Sho^
February 4th

Christopher

Aspen Gay/Lesbian Group at (303)
468-1956 for specific dates and details.

Although it's too late this year, plan on
1990! This has been a predominantly

gay male event but organizers would
like to see more women participate.
Also ofinvaluable interest to those who

travel are the guide books for lesbians

and gays.Three ofthe biggest are listed
below. Here are some addresses - write
to them or check your favorite book

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Lovehunt '89
by Nancy Ford
Happy, Happy Valentine's Day to all
my little Sapphic cherubs out there in

LIVING INDEPENDENT

Dimensions-land!

COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP,

Ah yes, Valentine's Day - taken from
the Latin valen meaning"love gift"and
tine meaning"prong ofeating utensil".
Translated, Valentine's Day is the
annual celebration of forking over a
token of affection to your Loved One,
be that Loved One your Husband,Wife,

AND PERFECTLY CONTENT IN

OF

A

THE REALITY IS THAT ONE DAY
THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE WILL
WALK THROUGH THAT DOOR
AND PUT NEW MEANING INTO

THE I4TH DAY OF FEBRUARY

FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES.
WE'LL SEE.

Significant Other,or even the One you

I know this is true because my mother

actually love.
This celebration of the heart can be the

told me so. Verbatim. It's called the

most heartwarming of holidays,
providing, of course, that one of the

above is actually in your possession.

(Note to psych majors: Usage of the
word "Possession" is merely
descriptive terminology — not a
Freudian slip. Chill out already.)
Conversely, for those who have no

"One Day Your Prince Will Come"
theory, developed by mothers of
unwed, thirty-ish (but remarkably

youthful-looking considering what
they've been through) daughters.
And who am I to argue? Underscoring

the validity ofthis hypothesis is the fact
that my parents were married on

Significant Other, Valentine's is that
predisposed Day set apartas a reminder

Valentine's Day. They were,I swear. I
wouldn't make something like this up.
Perhaps now you understand better my

that THERE IS NO SHAME IN

obsession with this, the real V.D.

LIVING

BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH WE

The thing we Unwed Offspring know
that our Hopeful Parents do not is the

MAY BE QUITE PROSPEROUS

fact that keeping a Valentine is no big

ALONE

FOR

NOW

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trick (you should pardon the pun). It's
finding one that presents the problem.
So,for all those intcrc.stcd in Lovchunt

Personals are the best place to look for
people without partners. Too harsh?
Probably so. Sorry, but this love stuff is

'89 (and I'm not referring to another
game show hosted by Bob Eubanks,)
here arc a few suggestions to assist you
in your tjuest for the Ultimate

harsh business sometimes.

Valentine. Read,heed,and ladies, siari
you engines.

Smile Alot Wherever You Go

Who could resist those dimples? This is
another of my mother's theories, not
mine. However, I have seen it work.
Just a.sk my wife.

Avoid the Obvious

Do not rely on the bars as your sole
source of serious relationship-type
contacts, even if they do provide a
complimentary happy hour buffet.

Certainly not all, but many patrons of
these

establishments

arc

there

primarily to display padded wardrobes,
layered makeup, mundane opening
lines,and behavior that makes mothers

mad enough to organize and have
bumper stickers printed. Truly, these

Nancy Ford's Column,
"What A World,
What A World"

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places are little more than meat
markets.

Visit Your

Neighborhood Meat Market
Take a number and strike up a

nancy ford

conversation with a fellow carnivore

about the ascending price of rump roast
and its influence on our social attitudes.

People who eat red meat know about
the.se things,or at the very least have an

comedy
residential • commercial

opinion. But, best of all, in a real meat
market there is no blaring, computer-

for booking info

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coll or write:

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Read the Personals

Next to the obituary columns, the

February 1989 • Dimensions • Page 23

the

offee

A Discussion of Lesbian Literature Both New and Old
This month T. Sumner Reviews:

w

by Katherine
Sturtevant

This winter has been so warm that I

haven't been able to do one of my

thought so. Margaret literally runs into
Amy Dudley,a mysterious woman and

favorite things - sit in front of the

talented actress,and both their lives are

window with a good book and a cup of
get to sit down with a good book - just

forever changed.
Romance develops and blossoms as
Margaret vows to write a masterpiece

the snow and the hot chocolate were

to launch Amy to stardom. But, Amy

missing. The book is A Mistress
Moderately Fair by Katherine

come to light, both she and Margaret

hot chocolate and watch it snow. I did

Sturtevant (Alyson Publications, Inc,

$8.95). With the seventeenth-century

has a secret and should her past ever

could be delivered to the gallows.
Amy never reveals her secret to

London theater district as a backdrop,

Margaret in fear that she will no longer

we meet Margaret Featherstone, a
widow who manages her own affairs
and is a playwright. While we may not
think this is so shocking, 17th century
London would have undoubtedly

love her. When she can no longer keep
her secret, she disappears leaving
Margaret bewildered and hurt.
Margaret retreats into her shell and
vows to write her finest play. The new

Page 24 • Dimensions • February 1989

work demands a great actress and all
believe that only Amy can play the part.
The rush to find her leads to a very
surprising conclusion.
Lesbian literature has been in need of a

A MistressModerately Fairis available
for Alyson Publications, Inc., 40
Plympton St., Boston, Mass 02118 for
S8.95.or from your favorite bookstore.
Complete catalogs are available upon

good historical novel since Patience

request.

and Sarah and think I've found it.

Historically correct in both language
and manner, Ms. Sturtevant has placed
two

wonderful characters in an

accurate setting.

A Mistress Moderately Fair is
Sturtevant's first novel but, she has

In the gay rights movement, we try
to emphasize that we are the
same as everyone else except for
what we do in bed. The American

published stories in Sinister Wisdom
and Calyx as well as reviews in the San
Francisco Chronicle and the San Jose

Indian cultures I studied do just the

Mercury News.She has also written an,
as yet unpublished, travel book.

difference, but instead of seeing

Women's Walks: A Feminist Guide to
Historical London.

Sturtevant is a native Califomian

although she has traveled to England to
research material for Women's Walks.
I would recommend this novel to

everyone but particularly those who
enjoy history or the history of theater.
I hope Ms.Sturtevant will bless us with

opposite; they emphasize the
that difference as abnormal,

deviant or threatening, they see it
as a "specialness," an extra gift.
-Walter Williams

author of The Spirit and the Flesh:
Sexual Diversity in American Indian
Culture, 1987
From Unnatural Quotations

by Leigh W. Rutledge
Alyson Pulications

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Around this time every year, the

focus is on love,togetherness and
romance. But, what about the

other side? How well do you
handle being alone? Answer the
following questions to find out

how emotionally independent
you are.

1. When faced with the

prospect of spending a day or
an evening alone, you:
a. panic, you hate to be alone.
b. aren't worried, even though
you'd rather be with someone.
c. look forward to it, you don't

get enough time to yourself.
2. When you are alone, you
keep the volume on the stereo:
a. turned up loud
b. about medium
c. turned down low

3. Do you have one or more

hobbies that you can do alone?
a. Yes
b. No

4. Are you always calling
people on the phone for no

tlW

reason?
a. Yes
b.No

5. Are you unhappy when you
have to go shopping or run
errands by yourself?
a. Yes

eio

Alone?

b.No

6. Do you plan time to be by
yourself on purpose?
a. Yes
b. No

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7. Do you crave something to eat or
drink all the time when you are
alone?

a. Yes

9-16
Generally speaking, you don't mind
being left to your own devices. You
may feel lonely at times but this is

a. Yes

probably force of habit more than any
thing else. You have a tendency to get
restless and enjoy work that brings you
in contact with people but you can get
by just fme with your won company

b. No

when necessary.

b.No

8. Are you generally happy with your
job and home life?

9. When you are faced with stress or
boredom, you;
a. find something to do - read a book,
work around the house, etc.
b. complain to whoever will listen.
c. go to sleep.

a-a
You are one of those people who love
anything loud, exciting and crowded.
You don't like being alone and take
extreme measures to avoid it. Try

spending a few moments each day by
yourself, you may just find that it isn't

SCORING

as bad as you think!

Give yourself points as follows
1.a-0, b-1, c-2
2. a-0, b-1, c-2
3. a-3, b-0
4. a-0, b-3
5. a-0, b-3
6. a-3, b-0
7. a-0, b-3
8. a-3, b-0
9. a-3, b-0, c-0

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oelry.
It's Never Too Late -

It's Always Too Late

>

Disappointment icoms heavy;
No grandchildren?
Our friends?

Why?

Where'd we go wrong?
You must be sick.

Definitely not sane,
it's just not right!
They won't see.
They can't.

The burdens ore huge;
1 love you,
I love her, too.
Please understand.

It's not your fault,
I tried,

It Is right,
Right for me.

I won't apologize.

I can't.
Weeks, months,years pass.
It wakes me up

Ringing and ringing.
What? Dead? When?

In my sleepy haze.
The words finally cameI'm sorry,,.

About everything.
In her grief.
The words finally camePlease come home,,.
She's welcome too,

Kaye Hunter
Lewisville, TX

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portY of the Ceiitaf

oroscope
What's in the Stars for You this month?

AQUARIUS

off. The 24th to the 28th love will

(Jan 20th - Feb 18th)
Love and money are the center focus

continue to be the focal point in your
thoughts. Don't be careless with your
involvements. If you are in a relation

for Aquarians this February. In fact
your head may be in the clouds. Do be

ship this could be an excellent time for

realistic or you could find yourself in a

a little time away together.

mess. The 9th to the 16th is an excel

lent time for planning and decision

making. Take advantage because plans
made now can affect you throughout
1989 and beyond.The 17th to the 23rd
be on guard, there is always a "trouble

maker" waiting to cause problems.
Don't leave yourself open to criticism it could affect your work or romance perhaps both. The 24th to 28th could

find you flirting with thoughts of a

ARIES
(Mar 21st - Apr 19th)
"Aloof probably best describes you as
Febraary gets underway.. Stay away

from people who do not have your best
interest in mind. All is not as it appearsno matter how flattering a person may
be. The 9th to the 16th your time can

best be spent planning for the future.
Make long range plans that include

commitment. This is an excellent time

savings and consider new investments.

for decisions.'89 is off to a good start if

The 17th to the 23rd may be a stressful
time in your love life. Be realistic and

you spend wisely and follow your in
stincts.

think things through before speaking or
you could hurtfeelings.The 24th to the
28th be open-minded in your relation

PISCES
(Feb 19th - Mar 20th)
The first week of February may find

you longing for a love that is not there.
Relationships may be stressful.Friends
are your best assets, remember that.

ship with friends, lovers, and business
associates. Remember that everyone

has an opinion and yours is not always
right. Take care to protect you home
this month.

The 9th thru the 16th romance may be

the highlight of your week. Beware of

TAURUS

your temper, especially if you are
drinking. The 17th to the 23rd don't

(Apr 20th - May 20th)
Social activities may overwhelm you

neglect business for romance. Keep

your belongings safely locked - double

the first part ofFebruary.This is a good
time to pick and choose what you do;

check your home.This is a good time to
decorate or paint or make the changes

keep.The 7th to the 16th your love life

in your environment that you have put

don't make commitments you won't
may be at odds. Don'tlet yourselfin for

February 1989 • Dimensions • Page 31

anything you aren't sure of. Stick to
your budget especially toward the end

that may move closer to romance later
in 1989. Be attentive to your health and

of the week. The 17th to the 23rd a

body from the 24th to month's end.
Surround yourself with positive, sup
portive people.

romance you had given up as a lost
cause may surprise you. The 24th to
month's end,keep a keen eye on your
finances and listen to the advice of

professionals. Rely on your communi
cation skills and be ready for change.
Remember your actions and decisions
may have long range effects.

GEMINI

LEO
(July 23rd - Aug 22nd)

February begins a positive romantic
trend for the lion. Beware of gossip and

jealousy,both can cause you problems.
The 9th to the 16th relationships con

tinue to be the main force in your life.

(May 21st-June 21st)
Relationships are the primary focus as

This is a great time to 'catch up' with

February gets underway don't neglect
friends, lovers, or social responsibili

not absolutely necessajry or finances
could be a mess by the end ofthe month.

ties with co-worker. The 9th to the

The 17th to the 23rd you may feel

old friends. Put off purchases that are

16th conflicts at work may leave you

pressured to make a decision concern

stressed out. Do keep abreast of ever

ing a lover. Don't commit to anything,

changing situations that may arise.
Lean on friends for emotional support.
The 17th to the 23rd avoid people with
over inflated egos or there will be prob

until you weigh your priorities care

fully. This may not be the best time for
a decision. The 24th to month's end

lems either at woric or in social situ

could find you the center of gossip.
Rely on friends for emotional support

ations. The 24th to month's end your

and don't shut out the people who care

social calender will be full. Your affairs

about you.

at home should be on good footing.
Pick your activities discriminately.

VIRGO

CANCER

Love and sex may be the key ingredi

(June 22ncl - July 22ncl)
Relationships with family,friends,and

ents of your life the first week ofFebru

(Aug 23rd - Sept 22nd)

co-workers are the main focus the first

week in February. Work on improving
your communications-the key to all
sound relationships. The 9th to the
16th try to keep your attention on oth
ers and off yourself. Make every effort
to control your financial future. Now is
the perfect time for shopping,but resist
the urge to over spend. The 17th to the
23rd could find a binding friendship

ary. Enjoy yourself, but don t open
yourself up to critics. The 9th to the
16th problems may arise in your love
life. In fact you may question your
whole lifestyle and feel more comfort
able in the company of friends. The
17th to the 23rd the emotional ups and
downs of last week will smooth outand

you will feel less pressured.Slow down
and take some time for yourself. The
24th to the end ofthe month may hold
some new adventures and romance is at

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SAGITTARIUS

the center of all this excitemenL

people come your way and there may

(Nov 23rd - Dec 21st)
Don'tmake hasty decisions concerning
your home Ufe the first week ofFebru
ary; things will get back to normal. The
9th to the 16th tie up loose endsat work

be romantic undertones involved but

and keep a close check on your money.

business and work may also be af
fected. The 9th to the 16th things may
not work out to your expectations for a

tion and delayed decisions can cause

LIBRA
(Sept 23rd - Oct 23rd)
The first week of February important

Both may need your immediate atten

social function this week, but don't let

problems. The 17th to the 23rd - be
happy! This may be easier said than

the situation stress you out Travel is
favored the first half of February, but

done,but with a litUe effort you can do
it. Friends can be of particular value to

keep a ready supply of cash on hand.
The 17th to the 23rd a relationship
may unravel abruptly, try to concen
trate your energies on work or a hobby

you right now. The 24th to the 28th
don't get so involved in a project you
forget to pay attention to the people

that you enjoy. The 24th to month's
end, don't neglect financial or health

of the month a lover may need some
emotional support. Be there!

around you. Esptecially toward the end

matters that need attention. This is an

excellent time to get involved in a long
term health plan-diet and exercise.

SCORPIO
(Oct 24tti - Nov 22nd)
The first week ofFebruary is an excel
lent time for planning long range
goals-a possible move is involved.The
9th to the 16th be extra careful of your
actions and words otherwise a contro

versy could result. The 17th to the
23rd there may still be conflict sur

rounding your life. Talk to a friend or
advisor who can give you an objective

opinion about how to handle this situ
ation. From the 24th to the 28th life
should start to smooth out and some of

the questions about all the controversy
from the previous week will fall into
place. Don't be pressed for answers,

they will come when all the facts are in.

CAPRICORN
(Dec 22nd - Jan 19th)
The first week of February everything
should be going your way. Don't get
carried away. Moderation is the key to
yotir continued successin both love and
money.The9th to the 16th you may be
emotionally swept up in a new and
captivating person to the exclusion of
all else- including home and work.
Don't make any hasty changes in your
life-all is not as it seems. The 17th to

the 23rd will follow pretty much the
same pattern as the previous week.
Focus on organizing your thoughts and
making long range plans for your fu
ture. The 24th to month's end don't

shy away from taking the lead in a
special project. You have the right stuff
to make it work.Keep a high profile and
take your bows for a job well done.

Keep your personal goals and ambi
tions clearly in perspective this month.

Febajaryl989 • Dimensions • Page 33

Irectory
A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
ARLINGTON,TX (area cede 51?)
organizations
Gay/Lesbian Association of UTA
P.O. Box 19348-77, UTA St. 76019
794-5140

organizations
Affirmation (Methodist)
P.O. Box 225831 75222 • 948-1546
AIDS Resource Center

3920 Cedar Springs 75219
Dallas Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 190712 75219 .528-4233

clubs

Dallas Gay/Lesbian Historic Archives
3930 Cedar Springs • 821-1653
Dallas Gay Youth Group

Nexus/Petticoat Junction

300 Turtle Creek Plaza #116.307-7203

401 & 401-B E. 2nd •495-9553

Dallas Outdoors
P.O. Box 35474 75235 • 276-5270
Dallas Tavern Guild
3900 Lemmon Ave. #220 • 526-5292

AUSTIN, TX (area code 512)

organizations
Affirmation (Mettiodist)
7403 Stioal Creek •451-2329
Austin Lambda
P.O. Box 5455 78763

Gay/Lesbian Student
Association at UT Austin • 458-3971
Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338

Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby
P.O. Box 2505 78768

Metropolitan Community Church
1100 Springdoie Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Ministry
5555 N. Lamer Blvd. #L101 •441-9191

Waterloo Counseling Cent-?:
507 Powell 78703• 322-9654

Texas Human Rights Foundation
2201 N. Lamor # 203 78705 • 479-8473

AIDS Legal Assistance 1-800-828-6417

Foundation for Human Understanding
528-4233

Gay Community Center
3920 Cedar Springs •528-4233
Gay/Lesbian Young Adults
528-4233

Grace Fellowship in Christ Jesus
2727 Oak Lawn 75219.528-2811
Lesbian Information Line (LiL)
P.O. Box 191443 75219.528-2426

Lesbian/Gay Rights Advocates
528-4233
Lesbian Visionaries

P.O. Box 191443 75219 • 521-9642
Oak Lawn Community Services
3000 Turtle Creek Plaza. Suite 116
75219-5311.520-8108

Oak Lawn Symphonic Band

DALLAS,TX (area code 214)

P.O. Box 190973 75219 • 986-1751

accomodations

Womyn Together
3920 Cedar Springs.528-4233

Plantation Inn • 520-3131

businesses
Business Delivery Systems
14902 Preston Rd. 75240 • 733-1108
Crossroads Market

3930 Cedar Springs

FT. WORTH (area code 817)
businesses
Kim& Kay's Painting • 735-9641

521-8919 or l-BOO-992-6404

Clubs

Curious Times - women's books, etc.

Partners
1612 Park Place.924-2519
Damsels

4008-D Cedar Springs 75219 • 528-4087
Clubs
Sue Ellen's

1101 E. Seminary Dr..924-5354

3903 Cedar Springs Rd.• 559-0707

organizations

Rumors

Affirmation (Methodist).478-7837

5039 Willis Ave.• 828-4471

HOUSTON,TX (area code 713)

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National Gay/Lesbian Clearinghouse

clubs
Ranch • 9125 S. Main

666 Broadway 4th Floor

666-3464

NY, NY 10012

organizations

National Gay/Lesbian Crisisline

AIDS Foundation

1-800-221-7044

3400 Montrose #700 • 524-AIDS

The Fund for Human Dignity
666 Broadway 4th Floor
NY, NY 10012

AIDS HOTLINE

c/o Switchboard • 529-3211
Gay/Lesbian Students
University of Houston
4800 Caihoun • 529-3211

NORMAN,OK (area code 405)
organizations

Gay & Lesbian Switchboard
P.O. Box 66591 77266 • 529-3211

Women's Resource Center
P.O. Box 5089 73070

Houston Gay Political Caucus
P.O. Box 66664 77266 * 521-1000
Houston Thurday Nite Mixers
Bowling League

OKLAHOMA CITY, OK
(area code 405)
organizations

Steve: 699-3732 or Phii: 688-6970

Kingdom Community Church
614 E. 19th * 862-7533

Affirmation (Methodist)

Lambda ALANON

P.O. Box 56725 * 949-9704

Lambda Center for Alchoholics
1214 Joanne * 521-9772

2135 NW 39th 73112 * 525-AiDS

Oasis the Community Center

Lesbian/Gay Students
University of Houston - Clear Lake
2700 Bay Area 77058
Lesbian Mothers Group • 864-3098
Montrose Pool League/Biiiiords

Heriand Sister Resources, Inc.
2312 NW 39th 73112 * 794-7464

SAN ANTONIO,TX
(area code 512)

PJ 863-8482
PWA Coalition - Houston

clubs

3327 Essex Lane, Suite #16 77027

The Circle

623-4436

8021 Pinebrook * 341-2818

Women's Lobby Alliance

organizations

4 Chelsea • 521-0439

Dignify /San Antionio
202 N. St. Mary's * 349-3632
Integrity/San Antonio

Women's Softball League
6431 Rneshade • 868-6256

LUBBOCK.TX (area code 806)
organizations
Lubbock Lesbian/Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 64746 79464 • 796-2403
West Texas Aids Foundation, Inc.
P.O. Box 93120 * 794-1757

P.O. Box 150006 78212 • 684-4920
LISA (Lesbian Information SA)
828-LiSA (5472)
San Antonio AIDS Foundation
P.O. Box 120113 78212-9313
San Antonio Tavem Guild • 822-2823

SOUTH PADRE ISLAND, TX
NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS

(area code 512)

Affirmation: United Methodists for

Lesbian/Gay Concerns

accomodations
Lyie's Deck

P.O. Box 1021 • Evanston, IL 60204
AIDS Action Council

P.O. Box 2326 78597 * 761-LYLE

120 E. Atoi St.

729 Eighth St. S.E. Suite 200

Washington, DC 20003 *(202) 547-3101
AIDS 800 • 1-800-221-7044

Ntl. Gay Alliance for Young Adults, Inc.
P.O. Box 190426

Dallas, TX 75219-0426 * (214) 307-7203

WICHITA FALLS, TX
(area code 817)
clubs
Odds * 711 10th * 761-2822

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