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Serving the womyn' s
community
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Her/ iid Voicesincel
volume twenty-seven number four

Herland gets a Face Lift
On January 31st the Herland Board had a planning
meeting for the year, and several committees have been
formed to address the problems identified by board
members.
A committee to redecorate the inside of the Herland
library is hard at work, having completed the painting of
3 rooms. The new colors are wonderful, thanks to Kara,
Andy, Margy and Deborah.
They will tackle the job of moving books,
replacing sagging shelving, adding light fixtures, and
replacing uncomfortable seating in the near future ... and
they need your help!! Anyone with library experience
who is willing to help move the books safely, and in
order, to and from the shelves, please contact Herland!
The committee will be listing their selections on
certain store gift registries, for easy shopping in and out
of state. When you have time, drop by on a Saturday and
give us your feedback on what has been done, what
needs to be done, and what you can do to help!
A volunteer committee has also been formed to
identify Herland's needs, and recruit new volunteers.
Some that have been ongoing are: staffing the bookstore
on Saturdays, mowing the yard, clearing tree and shrub
limbs, and other general maintenance. These tasks don't
sound like much fun, but working as a group we manage
to make them fun. Other volunteers really do have fun,
decorating for fund raisers and organizing games for the
Retreats!
You are the reason that Herland exists, and your
needs and concerns matter. Let us hear from you!

april 2009

.

rev1ew
I recently read the article "Lesbian Nation,
when gay women took to the road" by Ariel Levy
in the March 2, 2009 issue of "The New Yorker"
magazine.
She writes, "The lesbian separatists of a generation ago created a shadow society devoted to
living in an alternate, penisless reality .... There
were outposts of Women's Land all over the
United States and Canada ... men, and even male
children were banned from Women's Land (and
they often spelled it "wimmin" or "womyn," in
an attempt to keep men out of their words as
well as their worlds). "
Levy goes on to tell about the Van Dykes, who
went around the country as "van-driving vegans
who shaved their heads... and lived on the highways only stopping on Women's Land. Some of
the founders of the Van Dykes wrote a recruitment song, to the tune of "Mr. Sandman":
Would-be Van Dykes
Bring us your dreams
Make them the clearest that they've ever been
Give us a sign, like nickels and dollars
And tell us that it's just a matter of hours
Till we find our
Land in the sun
With killer dykes there, all having real fun
Plan tin' grains and hoeing beans
Please turn on and cook up some schemes!

Given that Herland ascribes to many of the
dreams of the Van Dykes, even using the word
"womyn" on the masthead of this newsletter,
and that our retreats maintain the safe haven of
the Women's Land of the late 1970's, does that
mean we are out of touch, or does that mean
that we have been in touch with a wonderful
dream for 25 years? I think it is the latter!
Jeanne Flanigan

The Herland Voice is a publication of Herland Sister Resources, 2312 NW 39th, OKC, OK 73112. Our bookstore/lending library is
open Saturdays from 1-5 pm. Call us at (405) 521-9696 or email us at herland@herlandsisters.org. Visit us on the web at
www.herlandsisters.org.

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Saturdays from 1-5 HSR open for reading, meeting & greeting
Saturday the 11th at 5:30: HSR Supper Club at Lin's Chinese Restaurant,
6300 SW 3rd St, Oklahoma City (near Reno & MacArthur)
Sunday the 19th at 4 pm:

HSR Board meeting, everyone welcome

Wednesday the 22nd at 5:30 pm:

fold the "Voice" for mailing

Saturday the 25th at 7 pm: Women's Scrabble & Game Club,
games and snacks provided

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Saturday the 9th at 5:30: HSR Supper Club at Spaghetti Warehouse in Bricktown
Friday the 15th to Sunday the 17th: Herland Spring Retreat
at Roman Nose State Park (registration form on last page)
Saturday the 16th:

HSR Board meeting, time TBA, at the Retreat

JUNE EVENTS
Saturday the 13th at 5:30: HSR Supper Club, in Norman
At Sandalwood & Sage, hosted by owners Natasha Rice and Deb Clark
Includes concert by local musicians
Saturday the 20th at 4 pm: HSR Board meeting
Saturday the 27th at 5:30 pm: Annual Herland Pride Picnic

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news briefs
Research debunks myth of gay, lesbian elite
LGBT people aren't necessarily "affluent"- lesbian couples have a greater chance of living in
poverty than married, straight couples, and the children of gay and lesbian parents are twice as
likely to be poor as their peers in families with married, straight parents, a groundbreaking study
from UCLA's Williams Institute has found.
A study examining wealth and poverty in LGBT people sheds light on the economic challenges facing this community, and could prove helpful in the formulation of LGBT political strategy, according to Dr. Gary Gates, a co-author of the report. "LGBT political involvement in
'mainstream' policy initiatives may help to strengthen ties to a wide range of diverse organizations
and individuals," Gates writes.
(sources: Gay & Lesbian Leadership SmartBrief.com: USA Today, Washington Blade, and The Bilerico Project)

U.S. signs on to United Nations gay-rights declaration
The Obama Administration on Wednesday (March 18) announced its formal endorsement of a
United Nations declaration calling on .member nations to put an end to the criminalization of homosexuality. In joining the 66 other countries that support the motion, the U.S. reversed the stance
held under then-President George W. Bush. (AP)

Victory Fund 9th annual champagne brunch April 19
The Victory Fund Brunch is a spring tradition. Celebrate openly LGBT political leaders and
help the Victory Fund elect more of them in 2009. (The Victory Fund has supported Rep. Al
McAffrey and others) The Brunch at the Mayflower Hotel, Washington, D.C., will feature Rep. Jared Polis of Colorado, the first openly gay man ever to be elected to congress as a freshman. We'll
also welcome Rep. Kendrick Meek of Florida and Speaker Christine Quinn of the New York City
Council. For information about how you can get tickets, or be an event sponsor, call 202-842-7301

Mister US of A Male Illusionist 2009 Crowned in Oklahoma
March 12 to 15th marked the 25th anniversary of the Mister US of A pageant for Male Illusionist 2009, at Angles Club in OKC. Thirty-two contestants from 28 states competed in Talent, Creative Eveningwear, and Interview in front of a packed audience. Seven Judges made their choices
of the 15 finalists on Sunday night, and selected 5 national winners. Contestants entertained with
elaborate props, groups of dancers, and unique costumes.
·
The winners are: Richard Cranium, Indiana, Mister US of AM.I. 2009; Owen McCord, First
Alternate; Amedeus Karmanii York, Texas, Second Alternate; Luke Mihway, Arizona, Third Alternate; and Justin, Fourth Alternate. For more information on the competition, contestants, and
photos of the pageant, go to www.misterusofami.org or www.myspace.com/misterusofami.
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UPCOMING EVENTS
community events
Second Friday of the month: POW (Professional Okla. Women) at Partner's
2805 NW 36th St., Music and snacks from 6-9 $5 entry
Friday April 3 at 7 pm: Mary and Louise at Full Circle Book Store
In 50 Penn Place Mall, NW 5oth and Penn
April 3-5: Spring Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas
Iris is performing for their 10th year at Chelsea's
Contact Iris at: iristheband@yahoo.com
Tuesday April 7 at 7 pm: PFLAG-OKC
Church of the Open Arms, 3131 N Penn, 525-9555
Thursday April 9 at 7 pm: PFLAG-Norman
St. Stephen's United Methodist Church, 1801 W Brooks, 360-4497
Monday April 13 at 6: 30 pm: OGLPC general meeting, Neighborhood Alliance
Tuesday April 14 at 8 pm: Louise and Mary at Galileo's on the Paseo
Thursday April 16 at 5:30 pm: Group Tour with Church of the Open Arms,
of the "Harlem Renaissance" exhibit at the OKC Museum of Art
Saturday April 18 from 9-5: Cimarron Foundation Leadership Conference
Downtown Library, $20 admission includes lunch
Sunday April 19 from 3-5 pm: Cathedral of Hope Health Fair
First Unitarian Church Fellowship Hall, NW 11th and Walker
Monday April 20 at 6 pm: The Equality Coalition of OKC general meeting
(LGBT community center organizers) at Church of the Open Arms
June 27-28, OKC Pride Parade and Festival, for details
Go to www.okcpride.org

arts events
Friday April 3 from 6-10 pm: First Friday on the Paseo, art gallery openings
April 3-5 from 9 am-7 pm: Norman Medieval Fair, Reaves Park
Friday April 10 from 7-10 pm: Norman Art Walk, art gallery openings
April 21-26 from 9 am-7 pm:

OKC Festival of the Arts, downtown

August 4-9: Michigan Womyn's Music Festival: www.michfest.com

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Sage/ MRP Confere nee
In 2008 SAGE (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders) and AARP
(American Assoc. for Retired People) stepped onto the national stage together through AARP's sponsorship
of SAGE's Fourth National Conference on LGBT Aging. This partnership, developed through a series of invigorating inter-agency discussions, marks an important moment in SAGE's national advocacy efforts as the
leading voice addressing the issues affecting LGBT older adults.
Consistent with the Conference's theme, "It's About Time: LGBT Aging in a Changing World," SAGE
stands ready to leverage its three decades of experience to provide skilled, reality-based assistance for all
efforts to transform this country's aging policies to encompass the needs, interests, and contributions of
our nation's older LGBT adults.
Nearly 600 people attended, where ideas, advocacy and research about LGBT aging were shared and
expounded upon. Presenters and participants came from as far away as Australia and London, and from all
over the USA.
Most importantly, the conference brought together professionals in the field with older LGBT people
themselves.
Over and over, presenters emphasized the need to develop and enforce policies that outlaw discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender expression or identity; support important innovations
that effectively address the needs of LGBT older adults; and provide relevant training, data collection and
research that includes the LGBT community.
AARP will sponsor a "Diversity and Aging" conference this June in cooperation with SAGE. For more
information go to www.sageusa.org
exerpted from Winter 2009 "SAGE Matters" newsletter
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Norman

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Norman

7:00 p.m. CT

04/04/09

vs. Nebraska

Norman

2:00 p.m. CT

04/05/09

vs. Nebraska

Norman

1 :00 p.m. CT

04/08/09

vs. Arkansas

Norman

5:00 p.m. CT

04/10/09

at Kansas

Lawrence, Kan.

7:00 p.m. CT

04/11/09

at Kansas

Lawrence, Kan.

1:00 p.m. CT

04/15/09

vs. Oklahoma State l!!J

Norman

7:00 p.m. CT

04/18/09

vs. Texas A&M

Norman .

2:00 p.m. CT

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Norman

12:00 p.m. CT

04/22/09

at North Texas

Denton, Texas

6:00 p.m. CT

04/25/09

at Missouri

Columbia, Mo.

2:00 p.m. CT

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Herland Spring Retreat
Roman Nose State Park, Watonga, OK
May 15-17, 2009
Are you ready for a weekend full of relaxation, good friends, good music, good food, and lots of fun? Well you're in luck!
The Herland Spring Retreat will be at Roman Nose State Park (near Watonga), Friday, May 15 to Sunday, May 17.
For those of you that have never been to a Herland retreat, now is the time to give it a try! Whether you come solo or with
friends, are a certified camper or city grrrl, or come from near or far, it's a perfect, affordable opportunity to meet new friends,
catch up with old friends, play board games and sports, explore nature, learn something new at a workshop, or simply relax in an
incredibly supportive environment .
. For this retreat, on Friday night, consider joining us for the Meet and Greet. We had a blast last time, and Kara has been busy
organizing more fun for this retreat . On Saturday, Jeanne will be leading us in more of the now famous, Bra Games. Everyone
· that was there last fall, knows just how much fun this was! Also on Saturday, our Bartlesville & Tulsa friends will be leading a
Salsa Dancing Workshop! In addition to all this, we'll have the Open Mic for you to showcase any talent you'd like to share, and
the Saturday evening Potluck Supper is a perfect opportunity to show off your culinary skills. On Saturday night, we're in for a
treat, as Oklahoma City's own TARA HENRY will be performing the Concert! Tara has an incredible spirit that will have you
rockin', rollin', and singin' the blues! After the concert, there is always singing and story telling around the campfire. This is only
a slight glimpse of what the retreats are all about and what all there is to do.
If you have a hobby you'd like to share with other awesome women , or have an idea for a workshop, email Sannie at
SAHatwork@aol.com and we'll get it planned. Be creative with this - anything goes!

The Herland Retreat is whatever we make it. Let's make it great!
If you'd like to register now, just mail back the registration form with your check. A retreat packet (including a map) will be
mailed back to you. There will be more information and another registration form in next month's Voice; however, the time between when you receive the next Voice and the registration deadline is close . Do yourself a favor, and register now, while you're
thinking about it!

Her/and Spring Retreat Registration Roman Nose State Park, Watonga, OK May 15-17, 2009

Deadline for pre-registration is May 9. Please return registration form and check to:
Herland Sister Resources, 2312 NW 39th Street, Oklahoma City, OK 73112.
A retreat packet with all information will be mailed to you.
Name(s): - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Address:
City:
Email (optional): - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - P h o n e : _ _ _ _ _ _ __
Total Registration Fee $_ _ _ _ _ enclosed.
) I need a work scholarship to attend.
to help provide scholarships.
) I'm enclosing an additional S
children (girls of aH ages and boys under age 10 are welcome).
) I'm bringing
dogs that will be kept on leashes at all times and I and will sign a
) I'm bringing
waiver stating I am completely responsible for any injury or damage caused by my dog(s).
) I have a disability and need the following if possible:

Sliding Scale Registration Fee (for entire weekend)
Annual Income
( ) under S13, 300
( ) $13,300-$30,000
( ) over $30,000

PER PERSON
$30
$45
$60

) All Day Saturday $25 (includes Concert)
) Saturday Night Concert Only $10
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Serving the womyn' s
community
983

Her/ iid Voicesincel
volume twenty-seven number four

Herland gets a Face Lift
On January 31st the Herland Board had a planning
meeting for the year, and several committees have been
formed to address the problems identified by board
members.
A committee to redecorate the inside of the Herland
library is hard at work, having completed the painting of
3 rooms. The new colors are wonderful, thanks to Kara,
Andy, Margy and Deborah.
They will tackle the job of moving books,
replacing sagging shelving, adding light fixtures, and
replacing uncomfortable seating in the near future ... and
they need your help!! Anyone with library experience
who is willing to help move the books safely, and in
order, to and from the shelves, please contact Herland!
The committee will be listing their selections on
certain store gift registries, for easy shopping in and out
of state. When you have time, drop by on a Saturday and
give us your feedback on what has been done, what
needs to be done, and what you can do to help!
A volunteer committee has also been formed to
identify Herland's needs, and recruit new volunteers.
Some that have been ongoing are: staffing the bookstore
on Saturdays, mowing the yard, clearing tree and shrub
limbs, and other general maintenance. These tasks don't
sound like much fun, but working as a group we manage
to make them fun. Other volunteers really do have fun,
decorating for fund raisers and organizing games for the
Retreats!
You are the reason that Herland exists, and your
needs and concerns matter. Let us hear from you!

april 2009

.

rev1ew
I recently read the article "Lesbian Nation,
when gay women took to the road" by Ariel Levy
in the March 2, 2009 issue of "The New Yorker"
magazine.
She writes, "The lesbian separatists of a generation ago created a shadow society devoted to
living in an alternate, penisless reality .... There
were outposts of Women's Land all over the
United States and Canada ... men, and even male
children were banned from Women's Land (and
they often spelled it "wimmin" or "womyn," in
an attempt to keep men out of their words as
well as their worlds). "
Levy goes on to tell about the Van Dykes, who
went around the country as "van-driving vegans
who shaved their heads... and lived on the highways only stopping on Women's Land. Some of
the founders of the Van Dykes wrote a recruitment song, to the tune of "Mr. Sandman":
Would-be Van Dykes
Bring us your dreams
Make them the clearest that they've ever been
Give us a sign, like nickels and dollars
And tell us that it's just a matter of hours
Till we find our
Land in the sun
With killer dykes there, all having real fun
Plan tin' grains and hoeing beans
Please turn on and cook up some schemes!

Given that Herland ascribes to many of the
dreams of the Van Dykes, even using the word
"womyn" on the masthead of this newsletter,
and that our retreats maintain the safe haven of
the Women's Land of the late 1970's, does that
mean we are out of touch, or does that mean
that we have been in touch with a wonderful
dream for 25 years? I think it is the latter!
Jeanne Flanigan

The Herland Voice is a publication of Herland Sister Resources, 2312 NW 39th, OKC, OK 73112. Our bookstore/lending library is
open Saturdays from 1-5 pm. Call us at (405) 521-9696 or email us at herland@herlandsisters.org. Visit us on the web at
www.herlandsisters.org.

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APRIL E·VEN.TS

Saturdays from 1-5 HSR open for reading, meeting & greeting
Saturday the 11th at 5:30: HSR Supper Club at Lin's Chinese Restaurant,
6300 SW 3rd St, Oklahoma City (near Reno & MacArthur)
Sunday the 19th at 4 pm:

HSR Board meeting, everyone welcome

Wednesday the 22nd at 5:30 pm:

fold the "Voice" for mailing

Saturday the 25th at 7 pm: Women's Scrabble & Game Club,
games and snacks provided

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Saturday the 9th at 5:30: HSR Supper Club at Spaghetti Warehouse in Bricktown
Friday the 15th to Sunday the 17th: Herland Spring Retreat
at Roman Nose State Park (registration form on last page)
Saturday the 16th:

HSR Board meeting, time TBA, at the Retreat

JUNE EVENTS
Saturday the 13th at 5:30: HSR Supper Club, in Norman
At Sandalwood & Sage, hosted by owners Natasha Rice and Deb Clark
Includes concert by local musicians
Saturday the 20th at 4 pm: HSR Board meeting
Saturday the 27th at 5:30 pm: Annual Herland Pride Picnic

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news briefs
Research debunks myth of gay, lesbian elite
LGBT people aren't necessarily "affluent"- lesbian couples have a greater chance of living in
poverty than married, straight couples, and the children of gay and lesbian parents are twice as
likely to be poor as their peers in families with married, straight parents, a groundbreaking study
from UCLA's Williams Institute has found.
A study examining wealth and poverty in LGBT people sheds light on the economic challenges facing this community, and could prove helpful in the formulation of LGBT political strategy, according to Dr. Gary Gates, a co-author of the report. "LGBT political involvement in
'mainstream' policy initiatives may help to strengthen ties to a wide range of diverse organizations
and individuals," Gates writes.
(sources: Gay & Lesbian Leadership SmartBrief.com: USA Today, Washington Blade, and The Bilerico Project)

U.S. signs on to United Nations gay-rights declaration
The Obama Administration on Wednesday (March 18) announced its formal endorsement of a
United Nations declaration calling on .member nations to put an end to the criminalization of homosexuality. In joining the 66 other countries that support the motion, the U.S. reversed the stance
held under then-President George W. Bush. (AP)

Victory Fund 9th annual champagne brunch April 19
The Victory Fund Brunch is a spring tradition. Celebrate openly LGBT political leaders and
help the Victory Fund elect more of them in 2009. (The Victory Fund has supported Rep. Al
McAffrey and others) The Brunch at the Mayflower Hotel, Washington, D.C., will feature Rep. Jared Polis of Colorado, the first openly gay man ever to be elected to congress as a freshman. We'll
also welcome Rep. Kendrick Meek of Florida and Speaker Christine Quinn of the New York City
Council. For information about how you can get tickets, or be an event sponsor, call 202-842-7301

Mister US of A Male Illusionist 2009 Crowned in Oklahoma
March 12 to 15th marked the 25th anniversary of the Mister US of A pageant for Male Illusionist 2009, at Angles Club in OKC. Thirty-two contestants from 28 states competed in Talent, Creative Eveningwear, and Interview in front of a packed audience. Seven Judges made their choices
of the 15 finalists on Sunday night, and selected 5 national winners. Contestants entertained with
elaborate props, groups of dancers, and unique costumes.
·
The winners are: Richard Cranium, Indiana, Mister US of AM.I. 2009; Owen McCord, First
Alternate; Amedeus Karmanii York, Texas, Second Alternate; Luke Mihway, Arizona, Third Alternate; and Justin, Fourth Alternate. For more information on the competition, contestants, and
photos of the pageant, go to www.misterusofami.org or www.myspace.com/misterusofami.
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UPCOMING EVENTS
community events
Second Friday of the month: POW (Professional Okla. Women) at Partner's
2805 NW 36th St., Music and snacks from 6-9 $5 entry
Friday April 3 at 7 pm: Mary and Louise at Full Circle Book Store
In 50 Penn Place Mall, NW 5oth and Penn
April 3-5: Spring Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas
Iris is performing for their 10th year at Chelsea's
Contact Iris at: iristheband@yahoo.com
Tuesday April 7 at 7 pm: PFLAG-OKC
Church of the Open Arms, 3131 N Penn, 525-9555
Thursday April 9 at 7 pm: PFLAG-Norman
St. Stephen's United Methodist Church, 1801 W Brooks, 360-4497
Monday April 13 at 6: 30 pm: OGLPC general meeting, Neighborhood Alliance
Tuesday April 14 at 8 pm: Louise and Mary at Galileo's on the Paseo
Thursday April 16 at 5:30 pm: Group Tour with Church of the Open Arms,
of the "Harlem Renaissance" exhibit at the OKC Museum of Art
Saturday April 18 from 9-5: Cimarron Foundation Leadership Conference
Downtown Library, $20 admission includes lunch
Sunday April 19 from 3-5 pm: Cathedral of Hope Health Fair
First Unitarian Church Fellowship Hall, NW 11th and Walker
Monday April 20 at 6 pm: The Equality Coalition of OKC general meeting
(LGBT community center organizers) at Church of the Open Arms
June 27-28, OKC Pride Parade and Festival, for details
Go to www.okcpride.org

arts events
Friday April 3 from 6-10 pm: First Friday on the Paseo, art gallery openings
April 3-5 from 9 am-7 pm: Norman Medieval Fair, Reaves Park
Friday April 10 from 7-10 pm: Norman Art Walk, art gallery openings
April 21-26 from 9 am-7 pm:

OKC Festival of the Arts, downtown

August 4-9: Michigan Womyn's Music Festival: www.michfest.com

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Sage/ MRP Confere nee
In 2008 SAGE (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders) and AARP
(American Assoc. for Retired People) stepped onto the national stage together through AARP's sponsorship
of SAGE's Fourth National Conference on LGBT Aging. This partnership, developed through a series of invigorating inter-agency discussions, marks an important moment in SAGE's national advocacy efforts as the
leading voice addressing the issues affecting LGBT older adults.
Consistent with the Conference's theme, "It's About Time: LGBT Aging in a Changing World," SAGE
stands ready to leverage its three decades of experience to provide skilled, reality-based assistance for all
efforts to transform this country's aging policies to encompass the needs, interests, and contributions of
our nation's older LGBT adults.
Nearly 600 people attended, where ideas, advocacy and research about LGBT aging were shared and
expounded upon. Presenters and participants came from as far away as Australia and London, and from all
over the USA.
Most importantly, the conference brought together professionals in the field with older LGBT people
themselves.
Over and over, presenters emphasized the need to develop and enforce policies that outlaw discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender expression or identity; support important innovations
that effectively address the needs of LGBT older adults; and provide relevant training, data collection and
research that includes the LGBT community.
AARP will sponsor a "Diversity and Aging" conference this June in cooperation with SAGE. For more
information go to www.sageusa.org
exerpted from Winter 2009 "SAGE Matters" newsletter
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vs. Baylor

Norman

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Norman

7:00 p.m. CT

04/04/09

vs. Nebraska

Norman

2:00 p.m. CT

04/05/09

vs. Nebraska

Norman

1 :00 p.m. CT

04/08/09

vs. Arkansas

Norman

5:00 p.m. CT

04/10/09

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Lawrence, Kan.

7:00 p.m. CT

04/11/09

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Lawrence, Kan.

1:00 p.m. CT

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Norman

7:00 p.m. CT

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Norman .

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Norman

12:00 p.m. CT

04/22/09

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Denton, Texas

6:00 p.m. CT

04/25/09

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Columbia, Mo.

2:00 p.m. CT

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Herland Spring Retreat
Roman Nose State Park, Watonga, OK
May 15-17, 2009
Are you ready for a weekend full of relaxation, good friends, good music, good food, and lots of fun? Well you're in luck!
The Herland Spring Retreat will be at Roman Nose State Park (near Watonga), Friday, May 15 to Sunday, May 17.
For those of you that have never been to a Herland retreat, now is the time to give it a try! Whether you come solo or with
friends, are a certified camper or city grrrl, or come from near or far, it's a perfect, affordable opportunity to meet new friends,
catch up with old friends, play board games and sports, explore nature, learn something new at a workshop, or simply relax in an
incredibly supportive environment .
. For this retreat, on Friday night, consider joining us for the Meet and Greet. We had a blast last time, and Kara has been busy
organizing more fun for this retreat . On Saturday, Jeanne will be leading us in more of the now famous, Bra Games. Everyone
· that was there last fall, knows just how much fun this was! Also on Saturday, our Bartlesville & Tulsa friends will be leading a
Salsa Dancing Workshop! In addition to all this, we'll have the Open Mic for you to showcase any talent you'd like to share, and
the Saturday evening Potluck Supper is a perfect opportunity to show off your culinary skills. On Saturday night, we're in for a
treat, as Oklahoma City's own TARA HENRY will be performing the Concert! Tara has an incredible spirit that will have you
rockin', rollin', and singin' the blues! After the concert, there is always singing and story telling around the campfire. This is only
a slight glimpse of what the retreats are all about and what all there is to do.
If you have a hobby you'd like to share with other awesome women , or have an idea for a workshop, email Sannie at
SAHatwork@aol.com and we'll get it planned. Be creative with this - anything goes!

The Herland Retreat is whatever we make it. Let's make it great!
If you'd like to register now, just mail back the registration form with your check. A retreat packet (including a map) will be
mailed back to you. There will be more information and another registration form in next month's Voice; however, the time between when you receive the next Voice and the registration deadline is close . Do yourself a favor, and register now, while you're
thinking about it!

Her/and Spring Retreat Registration Roman Nose State Park, Watonga, OK May 15-17, 2009

Deadline for pre-registration is May 9. Please return registration form and check to:
Herland Sister Resources, 2312 NW 39th Street, Oklahoma City, OK 73112.
A retreat packet with all information will be mailed to you.
Name(s): - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Address:
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Total Registration Fee $_ _ _ _ _ enclosed.
) I need a work scholarship to attend.
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children (girls of aH ages and boys under age 10 are welcome).
) I'm bringing
dogs that will be kept on leashes at all times and I and will sign a
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waiver stating I am completely responsible for any injury or damage caused by my dog(s).
) I have a disability and need the following if possible:

Sliding Scale Registration Fee (for entire weekend)
Annual Income
( ) under S13, 300
( ) $13,300-$30,000
( ) over $30,000

PER PERSON
$30
$45
$60

) All Day Saturday $25 (includes Concert)
) Saturday Night Concert Only $10
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