The Herland Voice : v.23: no.2(2005)
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- The Herland Voice : v.23: no.2(2005)
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February 2005
Shirley Chisholm, RIP
November 30, 1924 - January 1, 2005
hirley Chisolm, the first black woman elected
to the U.S. Congress, as well as the first
woman to run for the presidency, died January 1, 2005. She was eighty years old.
Representative Chisholm served seven terms in
the House of Representatives, from 1969 until 1982.
In 1972, she sought the Democratic presidential
nomination.
S
Born in New York in 1924, Shirley Chisholm was
the eldest of four children of Caribbean immigrants to
America. She began her professional career as a
nursery school teacher, and soon became actively
involved in local politics with the Democratic Party.
She ran successfully for the New York State Assembly in 1964, before becoming the first black congresswoman - representing her native Brooklyn district - in
the House of Representatives five years later.
During her terms in office she campaigned tirelessly for women's and minority rights, and was also a
Don't forget the L Word-showing at Herland
Friday evenings at 7 pm. See Herland Calendar
inside this issue for details.
volume 23, number 2
staunch critic of the Vietnam War. Her failed presidential bid in 1972 was viewed as more symbolic than
practical. "I ran for the presidency, despite hopeless
odds, to demonstrate the sheer will and refusal to accept the status quo," she later wrote in her book The
Good Fight. She also said regarding that quixotic
race, "The United States was said not to be ready to
elect a Catholic to the Presidency when Al Smith ran
in the 1920's. But Smith's nomination may have
helped pave the way for the successful campaign
John F. Kennedy waged in 1960. Who can teH? What I
hope most is that now there will be others who will feel
themselves as capable of running for high political office as any wealthy, good-looking white male."
After retiring from Congress in1982, Representative
Chisholm remained active as a political figure, an educator, and a spokesperson for women's rights, and
held several university teaching positions. She also
created and chaired the National Political Congress of
Black Women, and served on the Advisory Council of
the National Organization for Women.
Herland has always held Shirley Chisholm in the
highest esteem; we mourn her passing and celebrate
her life, her courage and her wisdom. Here is a little
sample of that wisdom:
• Racism is so universal in this country, so widespread and deepseated, that it is invisible because it
is so normal.
• Of my two "handicaps" being female put more obstacles in my path than being black.
• That I am a national figure because I was the first
person in 192 years to be at once a congressman,
black and a woman proves, I think, that our society is
not yet either just or free.
• At present, our country needs women's idealism
and determination, perhaps more in politics than anywhere else.
• One distressing thing is the way men react to
women who assert their equality: their ultimate
weapon is to call them unfeminine. They think she is
anti-male; they even whisper that she's probably a les. bian.
(Continued on page 2)
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herland sister resources, 2312 nw 39th, oldahoma city, ok 73112
(405) 521-9696
email: herlandsisters@cox.net
bookstore hours: saturdays 1-5 pm
February 2005
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be made on the basis of merit, in conformity
with these principles of equal opportunity.
The County considers violation of this policy on
the basis of any of these categories to constitute
misconduct that undermines the integrity of the
employment relationship. Corrective action up to and
including termination of employment shall be taken
against individuals who violate any provision
of this policy.
(Continued from page 1)
• Rhetoric never won a
revolution yet.
• The emotional, sexual,
and psychological stereotyping of females begins
when the doctor says: It's a
girl.
• When morality comes
up against profit, it is seldom profit that loses.
• I am, was, and always
will be a catalyst for change.
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IA p r i l is nationally designated as Poetry Month,
~
j
and Herland has several poetry events
planned.
i First, our April issue of the Herland Voice will be
j devoted primarily to poetry. Submission deadline
ifor this issue is March 1, 2005. Please indicate if
Thanks, Jim!
T
he policy below was unanimously adopted by
the County of Oklahoma County in December
2004. On January 20, 2005, the policy was reaffirmed by the Oklahoma County Budget Board, who
voted down two proposals which would have removed
"gender orientation" from the policy. Credit and
thanks go to County Commissioner Jim Roth for getting this fine, inclusive non-discrimination policy
passed and reaffirmed. Additionally, we are grateful
to Wanda Jo Peltier, Nathaniel Batchelder, and long..:
time Oklahoma City civil rights leader Clara Luper, Jim
Nimmo, Phillippe Beaudette, and Ellen Kazmierczak,
among others, for speaking up for the policy; and to
the members of the community who flooded county
offices with emails and phone calls supporting the policy. And to Court Clerk Priscilla Pressley, who was
quoted as saying in regard to her votes to keep the
original language, "I have never had the moral clarity
that I feel today". Here's the new Oklahoma County
policy.
The County of Oklahoma County is committed to
ensuring that no employee, applicant, or independent
contractor, shall be discriminated against based
on sex, pregnancy, childbirth or related medical conditions, race, veteran status, religion, color, national origin or ancestry, physical or mental disability, medical
condition, marital status, age, gender orientation, use
of family medical leave, political affiliation, or any other
basis protected by federal or state law. This policy
shall apply to all employment practices.
It is the policy of the County of Oklahoma County
that equal employment opportunity is consistent with
the basic principle that all persons be afforded equal
access to positions in public service based on their
ability to do the job. Hiring will be made on the basis of
job-related criteria, and all employment decisions will
j you wish your name included, and if so, how you
j want it printed. Send submissions to Herland Sister j
!Resources, c/o Voice editor, 2312 NW 391h, OKC,
iOK
j
I
73112, or email to herlandsisters@cox.net with
j "Voice Poetry Issue" on the subject line.
~
·
Secondly, a Poetry Workshop "Moved by Words": 1
Using
j movement, meditation and poetry to connect with
:
self and others. A workshop in creating and appre- 1
!ciating poetry. Participants will write their own po- :
!etry, contribute to group poems, and share their
poetry at the evening's HERLAND poetry gather1ing. Our workshop facilitator is Carol Davis Koss; a
1well-known and respected Oklahoma poet. The
Workshop is limited to 15 participants, so please
~call Herland at 405/521-9696 to reserve your place;
or email herlandsisters@cox.net with "Poetry Work- 1
1
1 shop" on the subject line.
iSaturday April 9, 2005, 1 -4 pm at Herland.
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! Finally, a Poetry Gathering.; Saturday evening,
!April 9, 2005.
Participants from the workshop will
be encouraged to share their poetry, and all other
1members of the community, especially those who
have contributed to the Voice, are welcome to parj ticipate also. This will follow our monthly Supper
!Club, which will meet and dine at a location yet to
be determined.
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This Month's website of the month is:
www.projectwoman.org
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HERLAND EVENTS CALENDAR
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: February-Black History Month
Herland Supper Club
The February Supper Club will meet Saturday February
12th at 4:30 pm at The Java Joint-NW 39th and Donald in
Bethany. Those wishing to carpool can meet at Herland Sister Resources at 4:15 pm (Herland is located at 2312 NW
39th street in OKC). After the meal, all are invited to attend
the SNU women's basketball game at SNU. The game begins at 6 pm. The SNU women's basketball team are the
reigning NAIA champions so come see some of the region's
finest women players.
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• Tuesday. February 1 & 15: Marci and Skeeter will be
•
• running open mic night at Excuses starting at 8 pm. Bring :
•
: your instruments or just you.
• Tuesday. February 8: Peace House Mardi Gras Party 7 •
• to 9 pm at Mayflower Church. For info. call 524-5577.
:
: Monday. February 14: OGLPC Monthly Meeting at
•
•
• the Center, 2135 NW 39th, 7 pm.
Herland Sets Goal to Raise Social
• Friday, February 4: Fifth showing of the L Word at Her- :
: land-episodes 9 and 10 starting at 7 pm.
•
Conciousness
• Friday, February 11: Sixth showing of the L Word at
•
As part of a recent Herland Goal, we are adding a social
• Herland-episodes 11 and 12 starting at 7 pm.
:
consciouisness component to all of our activities. The Her: Saturday. February 12: Herland Hike at Martin Na- •
land board has chosen to adopt the YWCA Passageways
• ture Park, 5000 W. Memorial, 10 am.
•
Women's Shelter as a cause. We are asking those who are
: Saturday. February 12: Herland Supper Club will :
able to bring an item to donate to the shelter whenever they
• meet at The Java Joint-NW 39th and Donald•
attend a Herland event. Items can be new or used-used
• restaurant at 4:30 pm (4:15 at Herland to car•
items need to be in clean, usable condition. Following is a
• pool). After the meal, all are invited to attend the :
•• SNU women's basketball game.
partial list of needed items: Women's and children's socks,
•
bath towels, twin sheets and pillowcases, baby blankets,
• Friday. February 18: Seventh and last showing of the L •
women's slippers, hats, gloves, washcloths and women's two:
• Word at Herland-episodes 13 and 14 starting at 7 pm
piece clothing outfits. Donations to Passageways are not re: followed by the drawing for the L Word DVD set.
•
quired to attend Herland events but are welcome and encour- • Saturday. February 19: Herland Scrabble Night, 6 pm •
aged.
• Sunday. February 20: Herland Board Meeting at Her:
: land, 4 pm, everyone welcome.
•
The Voice is published monthly by Herland Sister Resources, Inc.
• Saturday, February 26: Herland Video Night, 7 pm •
• - Herland will be showing a special Video in honor •
2312 NW 39th, Oklahoma City, OK 73112. The Voice is offered as an
••
: of Black History Month.
open forum for community discourse. Articles reflect the opinions of
the author and not necessarily those of Herland Sister Resources.
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Unsolicited articles and letters to the editor are welcomed and must
be signed by the writer with full name and address. Upon request,
Native American Women
letters or articles may be printed under a pseudonym or anonymously.
Herland reserves the right to edit or not publish any article. SubscripOKC Two-Spirit Society is having meetings for lestions to The Voice are free upon request although a donation is rebian and bi-sexual women of Native American descent.
quested to meet publication and distribution costs.
Please call the OKC Two-Spirit Hotline number at ( 405)
317-7283 for information.
Don't Forget to Support the Voice!
WOO-women of Oklahoma OKC
Your contribution is important! Just $15 a year will
help us pay for the $300+ it costs every month to print
and mail the newsletter.
Women of Oklahoma (VVOO) meets the second Friday of each month at Partners from
6 PM - 9 PM. There is a $5 cover
charge for this "private party." The
money goes toward crackers and
cheese, paying the door person, the
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DJ and bartender. The rest of the
money goes toward a charity devoted to keeping women healthy,
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safe and independent.
By request of the organizers, most of the music is
60's and ?O's music.
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February 2005
Announcements
Soulforce in Oklahoma
S
oulforce in Oklahoma has established the Trevor
Project, a toll-free helpline (1-866-4-U-TREVOR)
( 1-866-488-7386) for gay and lesbian teens and
young adults. With anonymity and confidentiality guaranteed, a troubled youth can talk to someone who understands them, can advise them, and can reassure them
that they are neither evil or twisted, nor less than a man
or woman.
The teen years are very difficult; and even for the welladjusted, secure child the whole world is turned upside
down. Communication becomes difficult, and hormones
can produce moods that the youth cannot understand.
Shame often obscures life, and someone who does not
yet have adult judgment faces adult situations. Suicide
continues to be one of the three most common causes for
death for our young people.
Sexuality is often a volatile component of this time.
When the teen or young adult knows or fears that his/her
sexuality is oriented to the same sex rather than the opposite sex, the risk factor increases. A gay teen is three
times more likely to attempt suicide than his or her heterosexual counterpart, and for every successful suicide,
there are twenty who make the attempt. Of all successful
teen or young adult suicides, thirty percent involve homosexuality. Project Trevor hopes to have a positive impact
on these young people.
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
The Metro Gay and Lesbian Community Center, located at 2135 NW 39th Street in Oklahoma City, will be
sponsoring Purple Place, a coffeehouse held each Friday
and Saturday late evening in a smoke-free, non-alcoholic
environment beginning Friday, New Year's Eve
(December 31 51), 2004.
The coffeehouse will feature hosts gay youths Eric &
Julian, exquisite coffee and hot chocolate from Starbucks
Coffee, desserts from Dunkin Donuts, IHOP and MANY
OTHERS, and light snacks courtesy of Cici's Pizza.
The coffeehouse will run from 11 PM until 2AM each
Friday and Saturday night. Donations of $5 are suggested.
The 2005 Season Planning is
underway
The OKC LIGHTNING
practices for the 2005
season are starting on
January 22. Practice
time will be Saturday
from 1O:OOam to 1:OOpm
and Sunday from
3:00pm to 6:00pm.
Practices will also be held on Tuesday and
Thursday starting February 8, the times for these
practices will be from 6:00pm to 9:00pm.
Practices locations will be determined by
weather.
For more information contact Leonard "Coco"
Bulock at LeonardBullock@eaton.com or Tammy
Raiber at GM@okclightning.com
The OKC Lightning team is in need of Athletic
Trainer(s) with experience preferred to volunteer
time during practices and games. If you are interested, please contact Tammy Raiber at 405417-0334 or GM@okclightning.com.
The OKC Lightning are looking for Cheerleaders for the 2005 season. Girls between the age
of 5 and 12 that are interested can contact Kim
Harnett at 405-605-3355 or email kymmy6@cox.net.
We will have our parents meeting Saturday,
January 22nd at 2:00 pm.
Location: 2825 SW 66th St (right off of May)
Oklahoma City.
If you are interested in playing for the
OKC Lightning team, please
contact either Leonard
"Coco" Bulock at LeonardBullock@eaton.com or
Tammy Raiber at
GM@okclightning.com
We are members of the
National Women's Football
Association. ·
For further information call the Center at 524-6000.
Metro Gay and Lesbian Community Center
metrookccenter@yahoo.com
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• Diversity Ball - a gay-themed prom for lgbt youth
and their allies.
• National Coming Out Day activities - education
and support for those coming out; recognizing businesses that are gay-friendly.
• Pride - our annual celebration of pride in being
LGBT. The Center will support the plans and efforts
of OKC Pride.
• Emergency housing projects for youth (Diversity
House) and for adults (Lambda Living).
• Bayard Rustin Living Learning Project - an alternative education project for glbt youth who are unable or unwilling to attend traditional public school.
• Dining With Dignitaries - a political dinner where
lgbt youth and policy makers discuss policies that
affect the gay community.
• Organizational Meeting Space - serve as venue
for lgbt organizational meetings.
• Community Barbecue Series - a get together of
the gay community each summer month on a Saturday afternoon with live entertainment and, of course,
barbecue.
• Phone/Email Tree - a call to action/ rapid notification service using a network of phone numbers
and email addresses.
• Archives/History project - finding an appropriate
facility to archive the local gay/lesbian community
information including an oral history.
• Job board - a message board at the Center
space and in cyberspace that list jobs available or
people looking for employment.
Cartoon by Sue Clancey
New Metro OKC Gay and Lesbian
Community Center Forming
New efforts are underway to organize an OKC Gay
and Lesbian Community Center. An initial meeting
was held January 6, 2005 at the Center, 2135 NW
39th_ Core lgbt organizations were invited to send representatives to form an ad hoc committee that will advise the Board of Directors and work on special projects. The core organizations invited to participate include: The Center, Cimarron Alliance Foundation, Herland Sister Resources, Red Rock Behavioral Services,
Young Gay/Lesbian Alliance, Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, NAACP, Brother To Brother,
Inc., Two Spirit Society, College LBGT student organizations, ACLU, Oklahoma Gayly, DBAMetro, Central
Oklahoma Human Rights Alliance, Interfaith Alliance
of Oklahoma, Church of the Open Arms, and Womyn
of Color.
The incoming Board of Directors includes: Brad
Beatty, Vice President of Nursing at Bone and Joint
Hospital, who will serve as President; Keli Gillette,
Jannette Lynn, Mark Knight, Shonda Lewis, and Gary
Hooker.
Some initial programming for the upcoming year is
listed below:
Contact Toshav Storrs at 524-1311 or via email at
BTBOKCmetro@aol .com with comments, suggestions or questions.
February marks the beginning of Black History
Month - an annual celebration that has existed since
1926. But what are the origins of Black History Month?
Much of the credit can go to Harvard Scholar Dr.
Carter G. Woodson, who was determined to bring Black
IHistory into the mainstream public arena. Woodson de- ,
I voted his life to making "the world see the Negro as a
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participant rather than as a lay figure in history."
I
I In 1926 Woodson organized the first annual Negro His1 tory Week, which took place during the second week of
i
I February. Woodson chose this date to co-incide with the
birthdays of Frederick Douglass and Abraham Lincoln I, two men who had greatly impacted the black population.
Over time, Negro History Week evolved into the Black
IHistory Month that we know today - a four-week-long
I celebration of African American History.
1
• Information and Referral - serving as a clearinghouse for information on the gay community and services on the local, state, national and even international levels.
• Discussion groups/activities - weekly presentations by knowledgeable people on issues for the gay
community. (e.g. Marriage Amendment, GLBT health
issues, Adoption, Workplace discrimination).
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cere ignorance & conscientious stupidity."
Martin Luther King, Jr.
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February 2005
Shirley Chisholm, RIP
November 30, 1924 - January 1, 2005
hirley Chisolm, the first black woman elected
to the U.S. Congress, as well as the first
woman to run for the presidency, died January 1, 2005. She was eighty years old.
Representative Chisholm served seven terms in
the House of Representatives, from 1969 until 1982.
In 1972, she sought the Democratic presidential
nomination.
S
Born in New York in 1924, Shirley Chisholm was
the eldest of four children of Caribbean immigrants to
America. She began her professional career as a
nursery school teacher, and soon became actively
involved in local politics with the Democratic Party.
She ran successfully for the New York State Assembly in 1964, before becoming the first black congresswoman - representing her native Brooklyn district - in
the House of Representatives five years later.
During her terms in office she campaigned tirelessly for women's and minority rights, and was also a
Don't forget the L Word-showing at Herland
Friday evenings at 7 pm. See Herland Calendar
inside this issue for details.
volume 23, number 2
staunch critic of the Vietnam War. Her failed presidential bid in 1972 was viewed as more symbolic than
practical. "I ran for the presidency, despite hopeless
odds, to demonstrate the sheer will and refusal to accept the status quo," she later wrote in her book The
Good Fight. She also said regarding that quixotic
race, "The United States was said not to be ready to
elect a Catholic to the Presidency when Al Smith ran
in the 1920's. But Smith's nomination may have
helped pave the way for the successful campaign
John F. Kennedy waged in 1960. Who can teH? What I
hope most is that now there will be others who will feel
themselves as capable of running for high political office as any wealthy, good-looking white male."
After retiring from Congress in1982, Representative
Chisholm remained active as a political figure, an educator, and a spokesperson for women's rights, and
held several university teaching positions. She also
created and chaired the National Political Congress of
Black Women, and served on the Advisory Council of
the National Organization for Women.
Herland has always held Shirley Chisholm in the
highest esteem; we mourn her passing and celebrate
her life, her courage and her wisdom. Here is a little
sample of that wisdom:
• Racism is so universal in this country, so widespread and deepseated, that it is invisible because it
is so normal.
• Of my two "handicaps" being female put more obstacles in my path than being black.
• That I am a national figure because I was the first
person in 192 years to be at once a congressman,
black and a woman proves, I think, that our society is
not yet either just or free.
• At present, our country needs women's idealism
and determination, perhaps more in politics than anywhere else.
• One distressing thing is the way men react to
women who assert their equality: their ultimate
weapon is to call them unfeminine. They think she is
anti-male; they even whisper that she's probably a les. bian.
(Continued on page 2)
www.herlandsisters.org
herland sister resources, 2312 nw 39th, oldahoma city, ok 73112
(405) 521-9696
email: herlandsisters@cox.net
bookstore hours: saturdays 1-5 pm
February 2005
the Herland Voice
be made on the basis of merit, in conformity
with these principles of equal opportunity.
The County considers violation of this policy on
the basis of any of these categories to constitute
misconduct that undermines the integrity of the
employment relationship. Corrective action up to and
including termination of employment shall be taken
against individuals who violate any provision
of this policy.
(Continued from page 1)
• Rhetoric never won a
revolution yet.
• The emotional, sexual,
and psychological stereotyping of females begins
when the doctor says: It's a
girl.
• When morality comes
up against profit, it is seldom profit that loses.
• I am, was, and always
will be a catalyst for change.
r-···············································Po.ETrtv···M-o NTH·························-····· ·· ······· ··. ·1
IA p r i l is nationally designated as Poetry Month,
~
j
and Herland has several poetry events
planned.
i First, our April issue of the Herland Voice will be
j devoted primarily to poetry. Submission deadline
ifor this issue is March 1, 2005. Please indicate if
Thanks, Jim!
T
he policy below was unanimously adopted by
the County of Oklahoma County in December
2004. On January 20, 2005, the policy was reaffirmed by the Oklahoma County Budget Board, who
voted down two proposals which would have removed
"gender orientation" from the policy. Credit and
thanks go to County Commissioner Jim Roth for getting this fine, inclusive non-discrimination policy
passed and reaffirmed. Additionally, we are grateful
to Wanda Jo Peltier, Nathaniel Batchelder, and long..:
time Oklahoma City civil rights leader Clara Luper, Jim
Nimmo, Phillippe Beaudette, and Ellen Kazmierczak,
among others, for speaking up for the policy; and to
the members of the community who flooded county
offices with emails and phone calls supporting the policy. And to Court Clerk Priscilla Pressley, who was
quoted as saying in regard to her votes to keep the
original language, "I have never had the moral clarity
that I feel today". Here's the new Oklahoma County
policy.
The County of Oklahoma County is committed to
ensuring that no employee, applicant, or independent
contractor, shall be discriminated against based
on sex, pregnancy, childbirth or related medical conditions, race, veteran status, religion, color, national origin or ancestry, physical or mental disability, medical
condition, marital status, age, gender orientation, use
of family medical leave, political affiliation, or any other
basis protected by federal or state law. This policy
shall apply to all employment practices.
It is the policy of the County of Oklahoma County
that equal employment opportunity is consistent with
the basic principle that all persons be afforded equal
access to positions in public service based on their
ability to do the job. Hiring will be made on the basis of
job-related criteria, and all employment decisions will
j you wish your name included, and if so, how you
j want it printed. Send submissions to Herland Sister j
!Resources, c/o Voice editor, 2312 NW 391h, OKC,
iOK
j
I
73112, or email to herlandsisters@cox.net with
j "Voice Poetry Issue" on the subject line.
~
·
Secondly, a Poetry Workshop "Moved by Words": 1
Using
j movement, meditation and poetry to connect with
:
self and others. A workshop in creating and appre- 1
!ciating poetry. Participants will write their own po- :
!etry, contribute to group poems, and share their
poetry at the evening's HERLAND poetry gather1ing. Our workshop facilitator is Carol Davis Koss; a
1well-known and respected Oklahoma poet. The
Workshop is limited to 15 participants, so please
~call Herland at 405/521-9696 to reserve your place;
or email herlandsisters@cox.net with "Poetry Work- 1
1
1 shop" on the subject line.
iSaturday April 9, 2005, 1 -4 pm at Herland.
I
i
0
l
l
l
! Finally, a Poetry Gathering.; Saturday evening,
!April 9, 2005.
Participants from the workshop will
be encouraged to share their poetry, and all other
1members of the community, especially those who
have contributed to the Voice, are welcome to parj ticipate also. This will follow our monthly Supper
!Club, which will meet and dine at a location yet to
be determined.
i
l
l
This Month's website of the month is:
www.projectwoman.org
2
I
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HERLAND EVENTS CALENDAR
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: February-Black History Month
Herland Supper Club
The February Supper Club will meet Saturday February
12th at 4:30 pm at The Java Joint-NW 39th and Donald in
Bethany. Those wishing to carpool can meet at Herland Sister Resources at 4:15 pm (Herland is located at 2312 NW
39th street in OKC). After the meal, all are invited to attend
the SNU women's basketball game at SNU. The game begins at 6 pm. The SNU women's basketball team are the
reigning NAIA champions so come see some of the region's
finest women players.
•
•
•
•
•
•
•
• Tuesday. February 1 & 15: Marci and Skeeter will be
•
• running open mic night at Excuses starting at 8 pm. Bring :
•
: your instruments or just you.
• Tuesday. February 8: Peace House Mardi Gras Party 7 •
• to 9 pm at Mayflower Church. For info. call 524-5577.
:
: Monday. February 14: OGLPC Monthly Meeting at
•
•
• the Center, 2135 NW 39th, 7 pm.
Herland Sets Goal to Raise Social
• Friday, February 4: Fifth showing of the L Word at Her- :
: land-episodes 9 and 10 starting at 7 pm.
•
Conciousness
• Friday, February 11: Sixth showing of the L Word at
•
As part of a recent Herland Goal, we are adding a social
• Herland-episodes 11 and 12 starting at 7 pm.
:
consciouisness component to all of our activities. The Her: Saturday. February 12: Herland Hike at Martin Na- •
land board has chosen to adopt the YWCA Passageways
• ture Park, 5000 W. Memorial, 10 am.
•
Women's Shelter as a cause. We are asking those who are
: Saturday. February 12: Herland Supper Club will :
able to bring an item to donate to the shelter whenever they
• meet at The Java Joint-NW 39th and Donald•
attend a Herland event. Items can be new or used-used
• restaurant at 4:30 pm (4:15 at Herland to car•
items need to be in clean, usable condition. Following is a
• pool). After the meal, all are invited to attend the :
•• SNU women's basketball game.
partial list of needed items: Women's and children's socks,
•
bath towels, twin sheets and pillowcases, baby blankets,
• Friday. February 18: Seventh and last showing of the L •
women's slippers, hats, gloves, washcloths and women's two:
• Word at Herland-episodes 13 and 14 starting at 7 pm
piece clothing outfits. Donations to Passageways are not re: followed by the drawing for the L Word DVD set.
•
quired to attend Herland events but are welcome and encour- • Saturday. February 19: Herland Scrabble Night, 6 pm •
aged.
• Sunday. February 20: Herland Board Meeting at Her:
: land, 4 pm, everyone welcome.
•
The Voice is published monthly by Herland Sister Resources, Inc.
• Saturday, February 26: Herland Video Night, 7 pm •
• - Herland will be showing a special Video in honor •
2312 NW 39th, Oklahoma City, OK 73112. The Voice is offered as an
••
: of Black History Month.
open forum for community discourse. Articles reflect the opinions of
the author and not necessarily those of Herland Sister Resources.
•
•
•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••
Unsolicited articles and letters to the editor are welcomed and must
be signed by the writer with full name and address. Upon request,
Native American Women
letters or articles may be printed under a pseudonym or anonymously.
Herland reserves the right to edit or not publish any article. SubscripOKC Two-Spirit Society is having meetings for lestions to The Voice are free upon request although a donation is rebian and bi-sexual women of Native American descent.
quested to meet publication and distribution costs.
Please call the OKC Two-Spirit Hotline number at ( 405)
317-7283 for information.
Don't Forget to Support the Voice!
WOO-women of Oklahoma OKC
Your contribution is important! Just $15 a year will
help us pay for the $300+ it costs every month to print
and mail the newsletter.
Women of Oklahoma (VVOO) meets the second Friday of each month at Partners from
6 PM - 9 PM. There is a $5 cover
charge for this "private party." The
money goes toward crackers and
cheese, paying the door person, the
1
DJ and bartender. The rest of the
money goes toward a charity devoted to keeping women healthy,
"---....... .,,___/
safe and independent.
By request of the organizers, most of the music is
60's and ?O's music.
[ ] Enclosed is a contribution for $ _ _ __
[ ] Please add me to the mailing list for The Voice.
[ ]
Please change my address (new address below).
z
Name ----------------~
Street _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ __
City _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ State _ _ Zip _ __
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February 2005
Announcements
Soulforce in Oklahoma
S
oulforce in Oklahoma has established the Trevor
Project, a toll-free helpline (1-866-4-U-TREVOR)
( 1-866-488-7386) for gay and lesbian teens and
young adults. With anonymity and confidentiality guaranteed, a troubled youth can talk to someone who understands them, can advise them, and can reassure them
that they are neither evil or twisted, nor less than a man
or woman.
The teen years are very difficult; and even for the welladjusted, secure child the whole world is turned upside
down. Communication becomes difficult, and hormones
can produce moods that the youth cannot understand.
Shame often obscures life, and someone who does not
yet have adult judgment faces adult situations. Suicide
continues to be one of the three most common causes for
death for our young people.
Sexuality is often a volatile component of this time.
When the teen or young adult knows or fears that his/her
sexuality is oriented to the same sex rather than the opposite sex, the risk factor increases. A gay teen is three
times more likely to attempt suicide than his or her heterosexual counterpart, and for every successful suicide,
there are twenty who make the attempt. Of all successful
teen or young adult suicides, thirty percent involve homosexuality. Project Trevor hopes to have a positive impact
on these young people.
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
The Metro Gay and Lesbian Community Center, located at 2135 NW 39th Street in Oklahoma City, will be
sponsoring Purple Place, a coffeehouse held each Friday
and Saturday late evening in a smoke-free, non-alcoholic
environment beginning Friday, New Year's Eve
(December 31 51), 2004.
The coffeehouse will feature hosts gay youths Eric &
Julian, exquisite coffee and hot chocolate from Starbucks
Coffee, desserts from Dunkin Donuts, IHOP and MANY
OTHERS, and light snacks courtesy of Cici's Pizza.
The coffeehouse will run from 11 PM until 2AM each
Friday and Saturday night. Donations of $5 are suggested.
The 2005 Season Planning is
underway
The OKC LIGHTNING
practices for the 2005
season are starting on
January 22. Practice
time will be Saturday
from 1O:OOam to 1:OOpm
and Sunday from
3:00pm to 6:00pm.
Practices will also be held on Tuesday and
Thursday starting February 8, the times for these
practices will be from 6:00pm to 9:00pm.
Practices locations will be determined by
weather.
For more information contact Leonard "Coco"
Bulock at LeonardBullock@eaton.com or Tammy
Raiber at GM@okclightning.com
The OKC Lightning team is in need of Athletic
Trainer(s) with experience preferred to volunteer
time during practices and games. If you are interested, please contact Tammy Raiber at 405417-0334 or GM@okclightning.com.
The OKC Lightning are looking for Cheerleaders for the 2005 season. Girls between the age
of 5 and 12 that are interested can contact Kim
Harnett at 405-605-3355 or email kymmy6@cox.net.
We will have our parents meeting Saturday,
January 22nd at 2:00 pm.
Location: 2825 SW 66th St (right off of May)
Oklahoma City.
If you are interested in playing for the
OKC Lightning team, please
contact either Leonard
"Coco" Bulock at LeonardBullock@eaton.com or
Tammy Raiber at
GM@okclightning.com
We are members of the
National Women's Football
Association. ·
For further information call the Center at 524-6000.
Metro Gay and Lesbian Community Center
metrookccenter@yahoo.com
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• Diversity Ball - a gay-themed prom for lgbt youth
and their allies.
• National Coming Out Day activities - education
and support for those coming out; recognizing businesses that are gay-friendly.
• Pride - our annual celebration of pride in being
LGBT. The Center will support the plans and efforts
of OKC Pride.
• Emergency housing projects for youth (Diversity
House) and for adults (Lambda Living).
• Bayard Rustin Living Learning Project - an alternative education project for glbt youth who are unable or unwilling to attend traditional public school.
• Dining With Dignitaries - a political dinner where
lgbt youth and policy makers discuss policies that
affect the gay community.
• Organizational Meeting Space - serve as venue
for lgbt organizational meetings.
• Community Barbecue Series - a get together of
the gay community each summer month on a Saturday afternoon with live entertainment and, of course,
barbecue.
• Phone/Email Tree - a call to action/ rapid notification service using a network of phone numbers
and email addresses.
• Archives/History project - finding an appropriate
facility to archive the local gay/lesbian community
information including an oral history.
• Job board - a message board at the Center
space and in cyberspace that list jobs available or
people looking for employment.
Cartoon by Sue Clancey
New Metro OKC Gay and Lesbian
Community Center Forming
New efforts are underway to organize an OKC Gay
and Lesbian Community Center. An initial meeting
was held January 6, 2005 at the Center, 2135 NW
39th_ Core lgbt organizations were invited to send representatives to form an ad hoc committee that will advise the Board of Directors and work on special projects. The core organizations invited to participate include: The Center, Cimarron Alliance Foundation, Herland Sister Resources, Red Rock Behavioral Services,
Young Gay/Lesbian Alliance, Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, NAACP, Brother To Brother,
Inc., Two Spirit Society, College LBGT student organizations, ACLU, Oklahoma Gayly, DBAMetro, Central
Oklahoma Human Rights Alliance, Interfaith Alliance
of Oklahoma, Church of the Open Arms, and Womyn
of Color.
The incoming Board of Directors includes: Brad
Beatty, Vice President of Nursing at Bone and Joint
Hospital, who will serve as President; Keli Gillette,
Jannette Lynn, Mark Knight, Shonda Lewis, and Gary
Hooker.
Some initial programming for the upcoming year is
listed below:
Contact Toshav Storrs at 524-1311 or via email at
BTBOKCmetro@aol .com with comments, suggestions or questions.
February marks the beginning of Black History
Month - an annual celebration that has existed since
1926. But what are the origins of Black History Month?
Much of the credit can go to Harvard Scholar Dr.
Carter G. Woodson, who was determined to bring Black
IHistory into the mainstream public arena. Woodson de- ,
I voted his life to making "the world see the Negro as a
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participant rather than as a lay figure in history."
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I In 1926 Woodson organized the first annual Negro His1 tory Week, which took place during the second week of
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birthdays of Frederick Douglass and Abraham Lincoln I, two men who had greatly impacted the black population.
Over time, Negro History Week evolved into the Black
IHistory Month that we know today - a four-week-long
I celebration of African American History.
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• Information and Referral - serving as a clearinghouse for information on the gay community and services on the local, state, national and even international levels.
• Discussion groups/activities - weekly presentations by knowledgeable people on issues for the gay
community. (e.g. Marriage Amendment, GLBT health
issues, Adoption, Workplace discrimination).
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Martin Luther King, Jr.
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February 2005
Shirley Chisholm, RIP
November 30, 1924 - January 1, 2005
hirley Chisolm, the first black woman elected
to the U.S. Congress, as well as the first
woman to run for the presidency, died January 1, 2005. She was eighty years old.
Representative Chisholm served seven terms in
the House of Representatives, from 1969 until 1982.
In 1972, she sought the Democratic presidential
nomination.
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Born in New York in 1924, Shirley Chisholm was
the eldest of four children of Caribbean immigrants to
America. She began her professional career as a
nursery school teacher, and soon became actively
involved in local politics with the Democratic Party.
She ran successfully for the New York State Assembly in 1964, before becoming the first black congresswoman - representing her native Brooklyn district - in
the House of Representatives five years later.
During her terms in office she campaigned tirelessly for women's and minority rights, and was also a
Don't forget the L Word-showing at Herland
Friday evenings at 7 pm. See Herland Calendar
inside this issue for details.
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staunch critic of the Vietnam War. Her failed presidential bid in 1972 was viewed as more symbolic than
practical. "I ran for the presidency, despite hopeless
odds, to demonstrate the sheer will and refusal to accept the status quo," she later wrote in her book The
Good Fight. She also said regarding that quixotic
race, "The United States was said not to be ready to
elect a Catholic to the Presidency when Al Smith ran
in the 1920's. But Smith's nomination may have
helped pave the way for the successful campaign
John F. Kennedy waged in 1960. Who can teH? What I
hope most is that now there will be others who will feel
themselves as capable of running for high political office as any wealthy, good-looking white male."
After retiring from Congress in1982, Representative
Chisholm remained active as a political figure, an educator, and a spokesperson for women's rights, and
held several university teaching positions. She also
created and chaired the National Political Congress of
Black Women, and served on the Advisory Council of
the National Organization for Women.
Herland has always held Shirley Chisholm in the
highest esteem; we mourn her passing and celebrate
her life, her courage and her wisdom. Here is a little
sample of that wisdom:
• Racism is so universal in this country, so widespread and deepseated, that it is invisible because it
is so normal.
• Of my two "handicaps" being female put more obstacles in my path than being black.
• That I am a national figure because I was the first
person in 192 years to be at once a congressman,
black and a woman proves, I think, that our society is
not yet either just or free.
• At present, our country needs women's idealism
and determination, perhaps more in politics than anywhere else.
• One distressing thing is the way men react to
women who assert their equality: their ultimate
weapon is to call them unfeminine. They think she is
anti-male; they even whisper that she's probably a les. bian.
(Continued on page 2)
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be made on the basis of merit, in conformity
with these principles of equal opportunity.
The County considers violation of this policy on
the basis of any of these categories to constitute
misconduct that undermines the integrity of the
employment relationship. Corrective action up to and
including termination of employment shall be taken
against individuals who violate any provision
of this policy.
(Continued from page 1)
• Rhetoric never won a
revolution yet.
• The emotional, sexual,
and psychological stereotyping of females begins
when the doctor says: It's a
girl.
• When morality comes
up against profit, it is seldom profit that loses.
• I am, was, and always
will be a catalyst for change.
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and Herland has several poetry events
planned.
i First, our April issue of the Herland Voice will be
j devoted primarily to poetry. Submission deadline
ifor this issue is March 1, 2005. Please indicate if
Thanks, Jim!
T
he policy below was unanimously adopted by
the County of Oklahoma County in December
2004. On January 20, 2005, the policy was reaffirmed by the Oklahoma County Budget Board, who
voted down two proposals which would have removed
"gender orientation" from the policy. Credit and
thanks go to County Commissioner Jim Roth for getting this fine, inclusive non-discrimination policy
passed and reaffirmed. Additionally, we are grateful
to Wanda Jo Peltier, Nathaniel Batchelder, and long..:
time Oklahoma City civil rights leader Clara Luper, Jim
Nimmo, Phillippe Beaudette, and Ellen Kazmierczak,
among others, for speaking up for the policy; and to
the members of the community who flooded county
offices with emails and phone calls supporting the policy. And to Court Clerk Priscilla Pressley, who was
quoted as saying in regard to her votes to keep the
original language, "I have never had the moral clarity
that I feel today". Here's the new Oklahoma County
policy.
The County of Oklahoma County is committed to
ensuring that no employee, applicant, or independent
contractor, shall be discriminated against based
on sex, pregnancy, childbirth or related medical conditions, race, veteran status, religion, color, national origin or ancestry, physical or mental disability, medical
condition, marital status, age, gender orientation, use
of family medical leave, political affiliation, or any other
basis protected by federal or state law. This policy
shall apply to all employment practices.
It is the policy of the County of Oklahoma County
that equal employment opportunity is consistent with
the basic principle that all persons be afforded equal
access to positions in public service based on their
ability to do the job. Hiring will be made on the basis of
job-related criteria, and all employment decisions will
j you wish your name included, and if so, how you
j want it printed. Send submissions to Herland Sister j
!Resources, c/o Voice editor, 2312 NW 391h, OKC,
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j "Voice Poetry Issue" on the subject line.
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Using
j movement, meditation and poetry to connect with
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self and others. A workshop in creating and appre- 1
!ciating poetry. Participants will write their own po- :
!etry, contribute to group poems, and share their
poetry at the evening's HERLAND poetry gather1ing. Our workshop facilitator is Carol Davis Koss; a
1well-known and respected Oklahoma poet. The
Workshop is limited to 15 participants, so please
~call Herland at 405/521-9696 to reserve your place;
or email herlandsisters@cox.net with "Poetry Work- 1
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iSaturday April 9, 2005, 1 -4 pm at Herland.
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!April 9, 2005.
Participants from the workshop will
be encouraged to share their poetry, and all other
1members of the community, especially those who
have contributed to the Voice, are welcome to parj ticipate also. This will follow our monthly Supper
!Club, which will meet and dine at a location yet to
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• • • • 2005
• • •
•
•
HERLAND EVENTS CALENDAR
•
•
•
: February-Black History Month
Herland Supper Club
The February Supper Club will meet Saturday February
12th at 4:30 pm at The Java Joint-NW 39th and Donald in
Bethany. Those wishing to carpool can meet at Herland Sister Resources at 4:15 pm (Herland is located at 2312 NW
39th street in OKC). After the meal, all are invited to attend
the SNU women's basketball game at SNU. The game begins at 6 pm. The SNU women's basketball team are the
reigning NAIA champions so come see some of the region's
finest women players.
•
•
•
•
•
•
•
• Tuesday. February 1 & 15: Marci and Skeeter will be
•
• running open mic night at Excuses starting at 8 pm. Bring :
•
: your instruments or just you.
• Tuesday. February 8: Peace House Mardi Gras Party 7 •
• to 9 pm at Mayflower Church. For info. call 524-5577.
:
: Monday. February 14: OGLPC Monthly Meeting at
•
•
• the Center, 2135 NW 39th, 7 pm.
Herland Sets Goal to Raise Social
• Friday, February 4: Fifth showing of the L Word at Her- :
: land-episodes 9 and 10 starting at 7 pm.
•
Conciousness
• Friday, February 11: Sixth showing of the L Word at
•
As part of a recent Herland Goal, we are adding a social
• Herland-episodes 11 and 12 starting at 7 pm.
:
consciouisness component to all of our activities. The Her: Saturday. February 12: Herland Hike at Martin Na- •
land board has chosen to adopt the YWCA Passageways
• ture Park, 5000 W. Memorial, 10 am.
•
Women's Shelter as a cause. We are asking those who are
: Saturday. February 12: Herland Supper Club will :
able to bring an item to donate to the shelter whenever they
• meet at The Java Joint-NW 39th and Donald•
attend a Herland event. Items can be new or used-used
• restaurant at 4:30 pm (4:15 at Herland to car•
items need to be in clean, usable condition. Following is a
• pool). After the meal, all are invited to attend the :
•• SNU women's basketball game.
partial list of needed items: Women's and children's socks,
•
bath towels, twin sheets and pillowcases, baby blankets,
• Friday. February 18: Seventh and last showing of the L •
women's slippers, hats, gloves, washcloths and women's two:
• Word at Herland-episodes 13 and 14 starting at 7 pm
piece clothing outfits. Donations to Passageways are not re: followed by the drawing for the L Word DVD set.
•
quired to attend Herland events but are welcome and encour- • Saturday. February 19: Herland Scrabble Night, 6 pm •
aged.
• Sunday. February 20: Herland Board Meeting at Her:
: land, 4 pm, everyone welcome.
•
The Voice is published monthly by Herland Sister Resources, Inc.
• Saturday, February 26: Herland Video Night, 7 pm •
• - Herland will be showing a special Video in honor •
2312 NW 39th, Oklahoma City, OK 73112. The Voice is offered as an
••
: of Black History Month.
open forum for community discourse. Articles reflect the opinions of
the author and not necessarily those of Herland Sister Resources.
•
•
•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••
Unsolicited articles and letters to the editor are welcomed and must
be signed by the writer with full name and address. Upon request,
Native American Women
letters or articles may be printed under a pseudonym or anonymously.
Herland reserves the right to edit or not publish any article. SubscripOKC Two-Spirit Society is having meetings for lestions to The Voice are free upon request although a donation is rebian and bi-sexual women of Native American descent.
quested to meet publication and distribution costs.
Please call the OKC Two-Spirit Hotline number at ( 405)
317-7283 for information.
Don't Forget to Support the Voice!
WOO-women of Oklahoma OKC
Your contribution is important! Just $15 a year will
help us pay for the $300+ it costs every month to print
and mail the newsletter.
Women of Oklahoma (VVOO) meets the second Friday of each month at Partners from
6 PM - 9 PM. There is a $5 cover
charge for this "private party." The
money goes toward crackers and
cheese, paying the door person, the
1
DJ and bartender. The rest of the
money goes toward a charity devoted to keeping women healthy,
"---....... .,,___/
safe and independent.
By request of the organizers, most of the music is
60's and ?O's music.
[ ] Enclosed is a contribution for $ _ _ __
[ ] Please add me to the mailing list for The Voice.
[ ]
Please change my address (new address below).
z
Name ----------------~
Street _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ __
City _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ State _ _ Zip _ __
3
\
the Herland Voice
February 2005
Announcements
Soulforce in Oklahoma
S
oulforce in Oklahoma has established the Trevor
Project, a toll-free helpline (1-866-4-U-TREVOR)
( 1-866-488-7386) for gay and lesbian teens and
young adults. With anonymity and confidentiality guaranteed, a troubled youth can talk to someone who understands them, can advise them, and can reassure them
that they are neither evil or twisted, nor less than a man
or woman.
The teen years are very difficult; and even for the welladjusted, secure child the whole world is turned upside
down. Communication becomes difficult, and hormones
can produce moods that the youth cannot understand.
Shame often obscures life, and someone who does not
yet have adult judgment faces adult situations. Suicide
continues to be one of the three most common causes for
death for our young people.
Sexuality is often a volatile component of this time.
When the teen or young adult knows or fears that his/her
sexuality is oriented to the same sex rather than the opposite sex, the risk factor increases. A gay teen is three
times more likely to attempt suicide than his or her heterosexual counterpart, and for every successful suicide,
there are twenty who make the attempt. Of all successful
teen or young adult suicides, thirty percent involve homosexuality. Project Trevor hopes to have a positive impact
on these young people.
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
The Metro Gay and Lesbian Community Center, located at 2135 NW 39th Street in Oklahoma City, will be
sponsoring Purple Place, a coffeehouse held each Friday
and Saturday late evening in a smoke-free, non-alcoholic
environment beginning Friday, New Year's Eve
(December 31 51), 2004.
The coffeehouse will feature hosts gay youths Eric &
Julian, exquisite coffee and hot chocolate from Starbucks
Coffee, desserts from Dunkin Donuts, IHOP and MANY
OTHERS, and light snacks courtesy of Cici's Pizza.
The coffeehouse will run from 11 PM until 2AM each
Friday and Saturday night. Donations of $5 are suggested.
The 2005 Season Planning is
underway
The OKC LIGHTNING
practices for the 2005
season are starting on
January 22. Practice
time will be Saturday
from 1O:OOam to 1:OOpm
and Sunday from
3:00pm to 6:00pm.
Practices will also be held on Tuesday and
Thursday starting February 8, the times for these
practices will be from 6:00pm to 9:00pm.
Practices locations will be determined by
weather.
For more information contact Leonard "Coco"
Bulock at LeonardBullock@eaton.com or Tammy
Raiber at GM@okclightning.com
The OKC Lightning team is in need of Athletic
Trainer(s) with experience preferred to volunteer
time during practices and games. If you are interested, please contact Tammy Raiber at 405417-0334 or GM@okclightning.com.
The OKC Lightning are looking for Cheerleaders for the 2005 season. Girls between the age
of 5 and 12 that are interested can contact Kim
Harnett at 405-605-3355 or email kymmy6@cox.net.
We will have our parents meeting Saturday,
January 22nd at 2:00 pm.
Location: 2825 SW 66th St (right off of May)
Oklahoma City.
If you are interested in playing for the
OKC Lightning team, please
contact either Leonard
"Coco" Bulock at LeonardBullock@eaton.com or
Tammy Raiber at
GM@okclightning.com
We are members of the
National Women's Football
Association. ·
For further information call the Center at 524-6000.
Metro Gay and Lesbian Community Center
metrookccenter@yahoo.com
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• Diversity Ball - a gay-themed prom for lgbt youth
and their allies.
• National Coming Out Day activities - education
and support for those coming out; recognizing businesses that are gay-friendly.
• Pride - our annual celebration of pride in being
LGBT. The Center will support the plans and efforts
of OKC Pride.
• Emergency housing projects for youth (Diversity
House) and for adults (Lambda Living).
• Bayard Rustin Living Learning Project - an alternative education project for glbt youth who are unable or unwilling to attend traditional public school.
• Dining With Dignitaries - a political dinner where
lgbt youth and policy makers discuss policies that
affect the gay community.
• Organizational Meeting Space - serve as venue
for lgbt organizational meetings.
• Community Barbecue Series - a get together of
the gay community each summer month on a Saturday afternoon with live entertainment and, of course,
barbecue.
• Phone/Email Tree - a call to action/ rapid notification service using a network of phone numbers
and email addresses.
• Archives/History project - finding an appropriate
facility to archive the local gay/lesbian community
information including an oral history.
• Job board - a message board at the Center
space and in cyberspace that list jobs available or
people looking for employment.
Cartoon by Sue Clancey
New Metro OKC Gay and Lesbian
Community Center Forming
New efforts are underway to organize an OKC Gay
and Lesbian Community Center. An initial meeting
was held January 6, 2005 at the Center, 2135 NW
39th_ Core lgbt organizations were invited to send representatives to form an ad hoc committee that will advise the Board of Directors and work on special projects. The core organizations invited to participate include: The Center, Cimarron Alliance Foundation, Herland Sister Resources, Red Rock Behavioral Services,
Young Gay/Lesbian Alliance, Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, NAACP, Brother To Brother,
Inc., Two Spirit Society, College LBGT student organizations, ACLU, Oklahoma Gayly, DBAMetro, Central
Oklahoma Human Rights Alliance, Interfaith Alliance
of Oklahoma, Church of the Open Arms, and Womyn
of Color.
The incoming Board of Directors includes: Brad
Beatty, Vice President of Nursing at Bone and Joint
Hospital, who will serve as President; Keli Gillette,
Jannette Lynn, Mark Knight, Shonda Lewis, and Gary
Hooker.
Some initial programming for the upcoming year is
listed below:
Contact Toshav Storrs at 524-1311 or via email at
BTBOKCmetro@aol .com with comments, suggestions or questions.
February marks the beginning of Black History
Month - an annual celebration that has existed since
1926. But what are the origins of Black History Month?
Much of the credit can go to Harvard Scholar Dr.
Carter G. Woodson, who was determined to bring Black
IHistory into the mainstream public arena. Woodson de- ,
I voted his life to making "the world see the Negro as a
I
participant rather than as a lay figure in history."
I
I In 1926 Woodson organized the first annual Negro His1 tory Week, which took place during the second week of
i
I February. Woodson chose this date to co-incide with the
birthdays of Frederick Douglass and Abraham Lincoln I, two men who had greatly impacted the black population.
Over time, Negro History Week evolved into the Black
IHistory Month that we know today - a four-week-long
I celebration of African American History.
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• Information and Referral - serving as a clearinghouse for information on the gay community and services on the local, state, national and even international levels.
• Discussion groups/activities - weekly presentations by knowledgeable people on issues for the gay
community. (e.g. Marriage Amendment, GLBT health
issues, Adoption, Workplace discrimination).
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Martin Luther King, Jr.
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