Dimensions : v.2: no.8(1988:Mar.)
- Title
- Dimensions : v.2: no.8(1988:Mar.)
- Description
- Dimensions was a lesbian lifestyle magazine published in Lubbock, TX from July 1986 until the end of 1996. Content includes national news, poetry, book reviews, advice columns, and horoscopes.
- Publisher
- en_US Visions Publishing Co.
- Date Issued
- 1988-03
- Relation
- Dimensions
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- All rights reserved by Visions Publishing Co. Reproduced in collaboration with J.D. Doyle's Houston LGBT History Archive.
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- Dimensions
- Creator
- en_US Visions Publishing Co.
- Contributor
- Hunter, Roxanne
- Date
- 2018-09-07T20:27:11Z
- Date Available
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- Provenance
- File digitized by Chambers Library from original issue donated by Herland Sister Resources.
- Subject
- Lesbians
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Table of Contents
Vol.2 Issues
March 1988
IFIEATTTOES
LESBIAN...
MOTHER
15
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the Coffee Club:
Book Reviews
1
20
QUIZ: Are You A Good
Money Manager?
23
IRIEGILJILA.IR
IFIEATTHJEIES
To the Editor
News
What's Coin' On
5
6
9
It's Time To
Dear Agnes
VOTE
Graffiti Page
Horoscope
Directory
22
26
30
Classifies
33
March 8th
Super Tuesday
12
Tmtry 0'fuiim
'Poetry
25
OiimsiocB is puUisbcd by VtsioKS PuHshing Co., P.O. Box 856, Labbock, TX 79406, Phcoe:(806) 797-9647. Opinioos expressed
by crJonmistB do not neceaiarily reflect those of DiisensiaDsa'its staff.Publtcationof the names ofasypeistziDrai^ajuzaUcm Uootcn
indicatkn of scxtial gjeraatioD. Subscription Rales; 6 mos.$12.00, 1 yr. $24.00. Payment most uctxnpany all snbscriptiOD onfers.
Copyright G 1988 by Visions PuHishing Co. All righls reserved. Reproducdcc in whcfe or in pan is strictly prohibifcd.
Any letter received by Dimensions will be assumed for publication. All Icticis must indtidc si^iaturo. address and p>v»w» mnAicr. We
reserve the ri^ to edit leQcrs as we feel iBoesxary.The writers name will be withheld if so requested.
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Contributing Editors:
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OPRAH BLOWS IT
Dear Roxanne:
Geez! Did you see the Oprah Winfrey
show on Lesbianism which aired on
February 9, 1988? Please, let us speak out
about our reaction to this show. I have
already composed a letter and am en
couraging everyone to write. I taped the
show, so my friends who missed it will
soon be seeing it,
I had hoped that the representatives chosen
for this show would be good rep
resentatives of the Lesbian Community.
This is my community being put in the
limelight I watched the show hoping to
find satisfaction in the message which was
being portrayed to a National pre
dominantly non-understanding audience. I
had faith that Optrah would handle the topic
tastefully and in a positive manner.
I expected entirely too much. She took
two extremes and tried to cram them into
an hotir show. The pwlitical issue focused
on was "Hatred of Men." No impwrtant
that letters will pxiur in. It's time we took
a stand and let the world know that we are
tired of having to misrepresent ourselves
to families and co-workers on a daily
basis. We need legal rights and protection.
Unless we make society as a whole aware
of our needs, we won't have our needs
fulfilled. Spjeak our and let your voice be
heard.
If you missed the show, transcripts are
available for $3 each by calling 1-800USA TEXT or writing to Oprah
Transcripts, 267 Broadway 3rd Floor New
York, NY 10007.
It's your community. It's your voice. It's
your life. It's your oppwrtunity to state
your opinion. Please do not procrastinate.
Impact is made with a flood of letters not
a slow drip.
Christine Johansen
San Antonio, TX
X)Ff TH€
I/I
issues surfaced. What about my job
security? What about that time when my
lover of 20 years passes away and her
family, who hasn't spwken to her in those
20 years, comes in to take "our" car or
"our" house? Where is a platform for a
voice that cries out "This isn't a fair pnice
to pjay for loving someone?
Please, if you saw the show, write to her.
An avenue of communication has been
opened to us. If we take advantage of this
opjportunity, we may, at long last, be
heard. If you saw the show and thought it
to be a fair representation of your personal
m
GNIQCJE GIFTS
T-SHIRTS
HDULT & OCCASION
CfiRDS
beliefs as a lesbian-WRTTE!
I am busy collecting letters from Lesbians
in San Antonio. I plan to collect as many
as ptossible, throw them all in a box and
Federal Expiress them to the studio in
which her show is pjroduced. I am hop)cful
OPEN
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3921 CEDAR SPGS.
DALLAS, TX
214-521-9051
explained that "we've been looking for
more ways to help in the fight against
AIDS, and this seemed like a good
one. For every dollar that comes to us
in the mail during March, from
individuals buying books,one third of
it will be divided equally between the
Austin Lambda
Reopens
Austin - Austin Lambda reopened it's
doors at 4107 Medical Parkway #205
on February 18th.
The
organization
discontinued
meetings and discussion groups last
year because of a lack of funds and
American
Foundation
a C.P.A. based in Boston, will certify
the process.
"In addition to getting money to two
Phone lines are still not operating and
will not be re-established until a later
date.
important AIDS groups, we hoi» to
Austin Lambda is a non-profit
educational and service organization
serving the gay community of Austin
and surrounding areas.
Some of the activities coming up
include a Hayride on March 11th at
7;00pm at Pioneer Farms, a Lambda
Garage Sale and the Lambda Prom.
If you would like to donate some of
your time or money to Austin
set a precedent for AIDS fundraising,"
Alyson continued. "In the past, I've
often contributed to an AIDS benefit,
only to leam later that a
disappointingly small percentage of
what I paid actually went toward
AIDS work. I think it's great for
businesses to donate a part of their
sales to imfX)rtant causes, but I d like
to see such announcements always
Lambda, write to P.O. Box 5455,
Austin, TX 78763.
accompanied by a statement of exactly
what ftercentage of the gross amount
received will go to what organization.
Where a substantial amount of money
is involved, I think the contribution
should also be audited by a C.P.A."
Publisher to
Donate March
A catalogue of books available from
Alyson Publications is free on
request Write or phone Alyson
Income to AIDS
Boston - AIDS organizations will
receive one-third of all direct-mail
Publications, 40
income
5679.
by
Plympton
Sl,
Boston, Mass. 02118 (617)-542-
Alyson
Publications during the month of
March.
Sasha Alyson, the company president.
AIDS
Alyson also noted that Ray Faulkner,
volunteers.
received
for
Research and the PWA Coalition."
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first undertaking is to publish a
volume of photography com
Food Pantry
Seeks
Donations
memorating the October'87 March on
Dallas - The AIDS Resources Center
Food Pantry is currently seeking
donations of the following items:
paper towels, toilet paper, liquid
bleach, hand lotion, deodorant,
aluminum
foil, laundry soap,
detergent, shampoo, pasta meals in
jars, spaghetti sauce, fresh vegetables
& fruit, jelly & jams, tuna, juices,
peanut butter, cereal, etc... Take your
donations to the
AIDS Resource
Center, 3920 Cedar Springs or call
Washington.
Lesbian themed pictures, special
events and aerial shots are especially
needed. All proceeds from the sales of
this book will go to benefit AIDS
^•ojects.
If you have photos you would like to
contribute, contact: Out of the Closet
Foundation, P.O. Box
20084,
Cherokee Station, New York, NY
10028 or call (212) 288-4351.
Lesbian
Sorority Given
University
521-5124.
HGLPC
Sanction
Sponsors
Houston - The Houston Gay and
Los Angeles - The University of
California at Los Angeles has given
approval to the lesbian sorority,
Lesbian
Lambda Delta Lambda. It is believed
Food Drive
Political
Caucus
is
sponsoring a food drive for the Stone
Soup Food Pantry Saturday, April 2.
Donations will be accepted from 10
a.m. until 6 p.m. in the parking lot
of Mary's Lounge, 1022 Westheimer.
to be the first lesbian sorority to be
established in the United States.
University officials and established
Greek organizations seem pleased
with the decision.
Gay men at UCLA are now planning
Photos of
March on
Washington
to establish a fraternity within the
next few weeks. (Ed. Note: Founders
ofLambda Delta Lambda could not be
reached for comment at press time
- more next month!)
Needed
(817)566-9910
1215E. L/niuers/ly
Denton, TX
Foundation fw the Gay Community
TJ's
and AIDS Concerns is seeking photos
of March on Washingtcm.
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don't miss St Pat's Day, March
17th when KA's will be serving
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Also, there's gonna be a Mean
Green Party on St. Patrick's
Day, March 17th. We also have this
bit of late breaking news ... Lotus, an
all female band from Tulsa, Ok will
be in concert at Partners on March
26th! Don't miss it!
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specials to get you in the Mood 0'
DALLAS - Get Ready! Steak Out
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DELL's! Plus, all Imported Beer
the Irish!
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HOUSTON - Everybody's favorite
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13th, there's going to be a
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keep checking at the bar for dates and
details.
TULSA - Terri and the gang at
TL's CLUB would like to wish Lynn
a speedy recovery. Lynn was
hospitalized recently for surgery on
her leg and everybody at TL's and here
at Dimensions hope she's up and
feeling better soon!
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Dear Agnes,
I have been with my lover fw a year
and a half. We live together, have
good jobs, and are usually very
happy. My lover, I'll call her Pat, is
immediately. ALANON is a group for
an alcoholic. She had been sober for
the friends and relatives of alcoholic s.
two years before 1 met her. She
attended A.A.regularly and seemed to
It will help you beuer understand, and
cope. Let me know how you are
be doing great.
doing and good luck.
not help themselves!
I strongly urge you to find an
ALANON group and begin attending
Two months ago, we went to a party
and Pat had a beer. She said she was
tired of being in social situations and
not drinking. Pat also said she felt
like she could control her drinking
now.
She's drunk every night by eight
o clock She hasn t gone but two days
without getting smashed. She always
feels guilty the next morning, but
insists she doesn't have a problem.
Dear Agnes,
I've been dating Jill for about 5
months. We are beginning to talk
about a commitment to each other. If
this happens, we won t live together
right away, but I imagine eventually
we will. She is a nice, intelligent,
caring woman. We get along great
The problem is I am a very neat
person. My house is always spotless,
When she is drunk, she is verbally
abusive but never remembers a thing
she said or did the next day. I can't get
complete opposite. She throws her
her to go to A.A. again. 1 don't know
up when she does laundry. She never
what to do. I can not stand watching
the woman I love destroy herself. I
also hate living with the verbal abuse
How can I help her to quit drinking
again?
What to do?
Houston, TX
as well as, my car-
clothes on the floor and picks them
washes a dish until everything in the
house is dirty. I have never seen her
bed when it is made up. Her car looks
like a dumpster on wheels — old
bottles, candy wrappers, fast food
trash.. I could go on and on, but I'm
sure you get the picture.
If we live together, I don't know what
Dear What,
we would do. 1 haven't ever said
You can not help anyone who will -12- anything about her "house keeping"
because I don't want to hurt her
housekeeping make it plain what you
feelings. Besides, we don't live
together yet. It might never work
out, but I feel like we have a really
expect. Sometimes it helps to have a
room that is all yours. Then if she
good relationship that can last. I
don't worry about it. Just close the
don't want to make her angry or
door.
wants to trash hers out, let her and
defensive. Should I go ahead and take
a chance by bringing it up with her?
Wondering
Abilene, TX
Dear Wonder,
Discuss it before you move in
together. Be as tactful as possible
and don't hurt her feelings. Some
people have more of a tolerance for
messiness than others and in the
same household it can mean war if
there are two opposites living
together.
Unless you are willing to do all the
Write to Dear
Agnes witti
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or comments
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LESBIAN,..
MOTHER
Introduction to Rocking the Cradle
by Debra Chasnoff & Kim Klausner
In 1982, when we were beginning our
research for Choosing Children, a
documentary film about lesbians who
become parents after coming out, we
Children, we knew only a handful of
lesbians in the Boston area who'd had
children since coming out There were
perhaps a couple of hundred on the
set out to track down everything we
west coast and others scattered across
could find about lesbian and gay
pamphlets about donor insemination,
the country. These women were true
pioneers. They had a vision and
fulfilled it against all odds — social
mores, legal impediments and other
obstacles. They were determined and
some legal information about custody
battles, a short story here and there in
anthologies of lesbian fiction.
Rocking the Cradle had just been
creative. They had to be, because
society certainly didn't support them
and for the most part the lesbian
community barely knew they existed.
published and it stood out as one of
For most lesbians and gay men, being
homosexual still was synonymous
parenting experiences and options. We
were surprised at how little there was
to read —
a few out-of-print
the only places gay and straight
readers could turn for real life stories
that addressed the complexities of
with not being able to have children.
lesbian parenting.
Since then, lesbian communities have
become much more aware of the
Publications about the reality of any
minority group's lives play an
and early eighties male children were
important role in diminishing their
mothers in our midst. In the seventies
only lesbian wanting children, only
excluded from women's community
events, childcare was frequently
unavailable and many younger
activists just had no appreciation for
the responsibilities of motherhood.
images with which one can identify
can enhance a person's pride and self-
to change: more women have decided
to parent; networks of lesbian
mothers have solidified in some areas;
internalized oppression. Over and over
we have heard people say,"I thought I
was the only one (only black lesbian,
woman sexually abused by her father,
etc.) until I read..." Finding words or
Gradually these attitudes have begun
respect and, consequendy, sense of
personal power. This is especially
a political base in the community is
true for lesbian parents and their
children, who have been particularly
significant percentage of the baby
boom generation now having babies
invisible in the mainstream media.
is lesbian. The sheer numbers of
beginning to form. A small but
When we started work on Choosing .^5. lesbians who are now parents (or
planning to be or whose close friends
are) have pushed parenting issues to
the lack of significant, long-standing
change in the lives of lesbian mothers
the forefront of the lesbian and gay
political agenda.
since Rocking The Cradle was fust
published. In spite of all the people
Hundreds of thousands of us have
who've come out to families, co-
marched in Lesbian and Gay Pride
demonstrations for over fifteen years,
workers, and others, and the increased
media coverage of gays, most people
fought repressive legislation, and
become visible in other political
are still unfamiliar with or hostile to
the concept of gay parenting.
Rocking The Cradle tells many
movements.
Along
with
strengthening a rich culture of our
stories about custody battles. When
we first read this book, the strength of
the lesbian and gay liberation
movement was such that we thought
own, we've made some small inroads
in mainstream culture as well. The
public is more aware of us as people
vicious
that the time would come when a
stereotypes have been weakened in the
and
some
of the
most
parent's sexual preference would be
minds of many.
irrelevant in determining the best
interests of a child in custody cases.
Sadly, the increased exposure and
activism of lesbians and gays has
Today, women continue to get
paralleled a rightward shift in the
married, have children,and then come
out And lesbian mothers still fight
bitter custody battles with exhusbands, the state, or grandparents
mood and mores of the country
(symbolized by the election and re
election of Ronald Reagan). So, while
it's now possible to walk into a
who feel a gay sexual orientation is
damaging to children. We're still
losing more of these fights than we're
mainstream bookstore in any major
city and fmd a "gay studies" section,
the Supreme Court is ruling that it is
permissible fw states to outlaw gay
winning.
In the last few years, some of these
sex. And the AIDS crisis and the
legal battles reflect new issues facing
government's slow response to it has
escalated many people's fear and hatred
our community. A
of gay men. The Right is alarmed at
changing family structures and the
in
husband's visitation rights with their
daughters using the pretext that she
gains of the women's and gay
liberation movements. In reaction,
was afraid of them catching AIDS
from him (even though he was
they have tried to narrow the range of
what is considered acceptable
sexuality and lifestyle. Unfortunately,
these values have begun to permeate
perfectly healthy and the vuiis can t be
transmitted casually anyway). A
lesbian in Northern California didn t
have a clear contract with the man she
all levels of society. Even many of
our straight friends are choosing to
marry when ten years ago they
used as a sperm donor. Soon after her
baby was bom, the donor decided he
wanted to be the social father as well
and was awarded visitation rights by a
questioned the concept of the nuclear
family.
It is this renewed homophobia and
social repression which accounts for
woman
Chicago tried to challenge her gay ex-
judge. She now has to share parenting
with a virtual stranger. And a lesbian
,, mom in Denver suffered through the
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death of her lover and then the loss of
tolerant
her child to the parents of that woman
— the biological mother.
There is great diversity within the
lesbian and gay community in the
way we are setting up childbearing. It
seems that the largest number of new
parents are starting off in couples, but
lesbian's right to parent will not be
of
lesbian
mothers;
a
improving the services and support
that all parents and children need.
many of us are raising children on our
own, out of choice or because of a
like Rocking The Cradle help us take
the small steps needed to get there.
break-up of a relationship. Lesbians
are sharing parenting with men on a
continuum ranging from absolutely
no involvement to sharing a
household and splitting parenting
responsibilities 50/50. Increasingly,
groups of friends are exploring ways
to share parenting even though they
San Francisco, 1987
Debra Chasnoff
questioned; and lesbian parents will be
able to concentrate their energy on
Whiles we still have along way to go
until this vision is realized, books
Kim Klausner
Copyright © 1987 by Kim Klausner and Debra
Chasnoff. Reprinted with permission form
Rocking The Cradle: Lesbian Mothers(Boston:
Alyson Publication, Inc.)
don't share romantic attachments.
Slowly, more gay men are able to
become parents themselves in ways
other than marriage; they are
occasionally able to adopt or become
foster parents and sometimes they find
a woman to bear a child for them.
In many areas,lesbian-headed families
are part of a wider group of families
which
don't
mesh
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sterotypical nuclear family model.
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incidence of divorce and remarriage
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are being parented by adults with
whom they have no biological ties.
Lesbians' children aren't the only ones
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It would be terrific if, ten years from
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A Discussion ofLesbian Literature Both New and Old
This month T. Sumner Reviews:
The Other Side of Venus
by Shirley Verel
To The Lightning
by Catherine Ennis
This is not usually the time of year
lesbianism
you think about reading, after all,
spring fever makes you want to do
viable alternative for young women in
things like fly kites or play frisbee.
was not considered
a
1955.
But, I've got two books this month
There are many forces working
against them including friends,
that are definitely worth taking time
out for. Besides, it will give you
relatives and co-workers. These people
something
but will they stay separated? You'll
to
do
when
the
eventually manage to pull them apart
thunderstorms start pounding on the
have to read the book to find out
dow!
I especially enjoyed this book because
Let's start with TTie Other Side of
there is no trace of the bulch/femrne
ygoUiS by Shirley Verel (Naiad Press,
role-playing which is so common m
novels from this era. I did ave a
$8.95). This novel was written and
^t in the mid-1950's. In one sense, it
is a classic stc^ of love gone wrong,
in another, it is the story of an era in
lesbian history.
pie story revolves around Judith
Allan, a fairly wealthy woman who
has recently ended her marriage, and
Diana Quendon, a young novelist.
.3oth women are struggling against
tl.eir love for one another, after all.
problem wading through the irst ew
chapters, but, once I got '"p
liked it So, if you are one of those
people who won't read a book unless
it grabs your attention in the first few
pages, this one isn't for you. If you
can wait a little bit for the story to
unfold, I would definitely suggest The
Other Side of Venus.
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immediate
excitement.
To
The
Lighming by Catherine Ennis (Naiad
Press,
$8.95)
is
the
one
to read. It's got adventure, mystery,
and a good dose of sensuality.
The main characters, Chris and Merry
start off on a weekend camping trip as
and intelligently written book. I read
it in a single setting and passed it
onto my roommate who did the same.
I felt tense the entire time I was
reading it wondering what would
happen next Ms. Ennis does,
however, manage to relieve the
friends. A ferocious thunderstorm
tension from time to time with her
catches them off guard and when
Chris wakes up, she finds that they
are in an unfamiliar valley with no
sign of civilization to be found. This
sarcastic wit
is where the adventure, and the love
story, begin.
Where are they? How did they get
there? How are they going to survive?
Will they be rescued? I can't tell you
any of that, but I can say that the
answers are much more intriguing
than the questions.
To The Lightning is an exciting
To The Lightning is going on my
"A" List... now all I'm waiting for is
a sequel! This is Ms. Ennis' first
novel and we should be seeing more
of her in the future (and that suits me
fine)!
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from Naiad Press, P.O. Box 10543,
Tallahassee, PL 32302. A complete
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A GOOD
MONEY
MANAGER?
"Everybody makes a mistake now and
then." It is a phrase that is often used
c. you wait until you get a cutoff
when we bounce a check, forget to
6. When it comes to saving money:
pay a bill or get involved in a lousy
a. You put something in savings
investment. There are, however,some
every paycheck
people
b. when you have money left over
who
"mistakes"
make
alot
more
these
often
notice.
little
than
after bills
others. Are you one of them? Answer
the 15 questions below and find out
just how good you are at managing
c. when you think about it
d. never do
7. Do you know how much interest
your money.
your money is earning?
a. Yes
1. You balance your checkbook:
b. No
a. Every month
8. You are always on the look out for
b. Every 2 or 3 months
c. When you bounce a check
new investments that are safe and
profitable.
d. Never
a True
b. False
2. You shop:
9. If you had a choice, you'd rather
a. When you want to look around
b. When you feel good
c. When you are depressed
have a job that pays:
a. hourly
b. salary
c. salary + commission
d. commission only
d. When you need something
3. When you do go shopping, you:
a. know what you want, buy it and
10. When you buy clothes, you buy:
leave
4. On average, you bounce a check:
a. the least expensive you can find
b. well-made, medium priced clothing
c. expensive, designer label clothing,
regardless of quality
a. never
11. When grocery shopping, you:
b. once a year
a. make a list and stick to it
c. once a month
b. make a list but usually come home
b. are a comparison shopper
c. spend hours in the mall and can't
resist a "bargain"
5. When paying bills:
with some exbas
a. you always pay on time
b. you are usually a little late
c. just go and look for what you need
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or want
12. When making a majw purchase
(car, ^jpliances, etc.) do you:
V check as many as apply
a. buy based on appearance
b. comparison shop
c. buy what's on sale
(L check on quality and reliability
e. consider friends' advice
f. buy only a brand you know
g. check into warranties, service, etc.
h. buy from a reputable dealer
13. When you make credit card
purchases, you:
a pay them off every month
b. pay as much as possible
c. pay only the minimum payment
14. Would you be able to "get by" if
you didn't have your credit cards?
a Yes
While friends and family may struggle
with unexpected bills or emergencies,
you generally have a little stash put
back just in case something goes
wrong. You probably save even when
it is isn't affordable. If you aren't an
investor now, the potential is there
and you have the discipline and
temprament to go for iL
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Money management is probably
your strongest asset, but it is
something you worry about
much. You probably plan more
not
not
too
for
vacation than taxes. You save off and
on. Once you see something you
want (stereo, car, new coat, etc..)
there goes the savings account. If you
problems, etc.) would you have the
do find yourself in hot water, work
out a budget and stick to it Include
savings and don't be tempted to spend
frmds on hand to cover the expense
it Invest in a CD or credit union and
without cutting into your normal
monthly expenses?
leave your money alone. You will be
surprised how fast it grows.
b.No
15. In the event of an emergency (car
a Yes
b. No
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If you feel like money slips through
SCORING
your hands, it is probably because
does. Managing money is not just
something that happens; it takes
commitment and planning. No one is
Give yourself points as follows
1. a-5, b-2, c-0, d-0, 2. a-2, b-1, c-0,
d-4 3. a-3, b4,c-0 4. a-5, b-2, c-0
5. a-5, b-2, c-0 6. aA, b-2, c-1, d-0
7. a-7, b-0 8. a-7, b-0 9. a-0, b-2, c-
3, d-2 10. a-0, b-7, c-0 11. a4, b-2,
c-1 12. one point for each checked
13. a4,b-2, c-1 14. a-7, b-0
15. a-7, b-0
If You Scored:
54-81
You are an excellent money manager
and take direct responsibility for your
financial future. You know where
your dollars go and what they go for.
bom knowing how to manage their
money, but it is something everyone
can learn. There are some excellent
books dedicated to the subject and
that's a good place to start. Plan a
budget, and set aside some of your
check each and every pay day for
savings. Pay off credit cards and keep
them paid off. If you have a friend
who is a good money manager ask
them for help. Today is an excellent
day to start and you can do it.
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Eve of *85
Empty road sparkles like
some walkway to the sky,
and falling snow winks
at the lanterns
high over a cold parking lot.
In some other world
crashing glasses
and drunken kisses
hail the new year,
but here Heaven
pours the momentsweetly
into the laps
of two people
in a parked cor
drinking champagne
out of paper cups.
-Nell Garden
Richfield, Minnesota
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What's in the Stars for you this Month?
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Love, Money,Trovei
workers for granted. This could cause
some major upset that won't be
settled until April.
PISCES
(Feb 19th-Mar 20th)
Friendship is in the spotlight during
the first week of March. You will feel
TAURUS
like doing things for those around you
and their appreciation is all you need
(April 20th - May 20th)
as reward. From the 9th thru the 16th
Watch your tongue when discussing
political or religious matters during
although your schedule will be hectic
you may be feeling bored by all of it
right now. Take time for yourself.
From the 17th thru the 23rd you will
find yourself making all the right
the first week of March. You could
offend someone you care about From
the 9th thru the 16th you may feel
walled into a current relationship. Try
talking it out with you loved one,
you'll feel much better when you get
this out in the open. From the 17th
thru the 23rd you could be the victim
of some vicious gossip. Take care and
don't say to much in defending
decisions in love and finances. Mix
this with a little luck and you just
might hit the jackpot in both areas!
From the 24th thru the 31st you will
have to work hard to keep fte right
balance between work and social
yourself, you could be misquoted and
start the cycle all over again. From
activities.
the 24th thru month's end a stranger
ARIES
could be interfering in your love life.
(Mar 21st-Apr 19th)
Don't jump to conclusions, it is
probably just a passing phase.
The first week of March is not a good
time to go on intuition in any area.
Get the facts and make an informed
GEMINI
decision or you may find yourself in
(May 21st-June 21st)
hot water. From the 9th thru the 16th
you
may
encounter
some
Romance is in the air during the first
week of March. Be careful though,
minor
criticism but you will rise above it
there may be jealous eyes watching
you that could make trouble. From
and prove that you are in the right.
From the 17th thru the 23rd a short
trip could be just what you need to
the 9th thru the 16th you may find
yourself receiving money from an
unexpected source. Be kind to those
around you who are insecure about
your feelings for them. From the 17th
help you relax. If you can't get away,
content yourself with some phone
calls or letters to far away friends.
From the 24th thru the 31st be careful
not to take your loved ones or co-
thru the 23rd the person whose
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VIRGO
jealousy you aroused during the first
of the month could confiont you right
(Aug 23rd - Sept 22nd)
now. From the 24th thru the 31st
Try to relax and not take on more
your intellectual powers are at their
than you can handle during the first
best Use them to your advantage in
your career. They will carry you far
during this time.
week of March. Someone who is
interested in you physically but not
mentally should be avoided. From the
9th thru the 16th it would be best to
CANCER
(June 22nd - July 22nd)
Your charm and charisma can bring
you money during the first week of
March. You are lucky in both love
and money right now. From the 9th
thru the 16th you'll be more interested
stay home and enjoy some time with
your loved ones. From the 17th thru
the 23rd you will feel slightly
annoyed at those around you even
though everything is going well right
now. Your financial picture is
looking especially bright From the
in pleasurable activities but you'll
also manage to finish a very
important project that could bring you
driving force. A new romance could
keep your spirits up through a trying
a raise or promotion. From the 17th
time with family and friends.
thru the 23rd the pace on the job and
in romance will be picking up and
you will be accomplishing more and
more. From the 24th thru the 31st
24th thru the 31st love is your
LIBRA
(Sept 23rd -Oct 23rd)
romance is definitely in the air, your
Change is in the air for Libra during
charming wit will give you the
force things, let them hapi^n at their
ability to pick and choose among
those who interest you.
the first week of March. Don't try to
own pace and the results will be much
better. From the 9th thru the 16th
you can expect some sudden luck in
LEO
(July 23rd - Aug 22nd)
Avoid competing with those around
you during the first week of March.
Any competition or challenges you
take on will not come out in your
financial matters. Behind the scenes
events could lead to a windfall. From
the 17th thru the 23rd you should try
to see both sides of a money issue, if
you don't it could turn into a big
argument between you and a loved
favor. From the 9th thru the 16th a
one. From the 24th thru the 31st
raise or promotion could be coming
your way, if you have been thinking
social arrangements could have you
on the run, you will be happiest
about asking for a transfer, ask for it
surrounded with friends.
now! From the 17th thru the 23rd
your work schedule will be busy but
you'll be able to find time for
romance too! From the 24th thru the
31st support from friends and family
can help you get ahead in financial
matters. Self-confidence
strong point now.
is
your
SCORPIO
(Oct 24th - Nov 23rd)
You will feel lucky in all matters
during the first week of March. Go
ahead and follow your intuitions, you
can't lose. From the 9th thru the 16th
-27- you can benefit from some fresh ideas
implementing them or you could
and it will go away. From the 24th
thru the 31st you will be on a roll,
not only in your social life but in
make them feel left out. From the
financial matters. Take time to listen
17th thru the 23rd you could be
to others opinions before you go
feeling like you're the rope in a tug-of-
through with a plan.
at home and on the job. Be sure to
talk to those around you before
between work and home. Slow
down so that you can keep both sides
AQUARIUS
happy. From the 24th thru the 31st
(Jan 20th - Feb 18th)
you should consult friends or business
You'll need to slow down the pace of
your life during the first week of
March. This is not a good time for
quick decisions or change. From the
9th thru the 16th you'll be able to
associates before making a major
decision, left on your own you could
take the wrong direction.
SAGGIHARIUS
(Nov 24th - Dec 21st)
Something new could be making
itself felt in your love life during the
first week of March and it is a nice
feeling. From the 9th thru the 16th
you feel confident about most areas of
your life and it shows! Now is the
time to go for what you want... and
get it! From the 17th thru the 23rd
you could be feeling adventurous but
don't let it get out of hand or you
could get yourself into trouble. From
the 24th thru the 31st you should
spend time with your family or love
interest. Be sure not to ignwe your
friends though or there could be hurt
feelings.
push ahead on all the things you put
off last week. Time spent with a lover
will be exciting and fun. From the
17th thru the 23rd guard against
taking love and/or money for granted.
This could cause problem you hadn't
considered and you could get in ajam.
From the 24th thru the 31st your love
life will seem like magic but be
careful, magic can backfire.
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CAPRICORN
(Dec 22nd - Jon 19th)
Your success at work during the first
week of March depends on your not
criticizing co-workers. From the 9th
thru the 16th you could be making
the wrong judgement about a loved
one. Sit down and talk it out, you'll
both feel better if you do. From the
17th thru the 23rd be generous with
compliments to those around you.
There may be some gossip involving
you going around right now,ignore it
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120E.AtolSt.
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761-LYLE
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IFIEATTTOES
LESBIAN...
MOTHER
15
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the Coffee Club:
Book Reviews
1
20
QUIZ: Are You A Good
Money Manager?
23
IRIEGILJILA.IR
IFIEATTHJEIES
To the Editor
News
What's Coin' On
5
6
9
It's Time To
Dear Agnes
VOTE
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Horoscope
Directory
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Classifies
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OPRAH BLOWS IT
Dear Roxanne:
Geez! Did you see the Oprah Winfrey
show on Lesbianism which aired on
February 9, 1988? Please, let us speak out
about our reaction to this show. I have
already composed a letter and am en
couraging everyone to write. I taped the
show, so my friends who missed it will
soon be seeing it,
I had hoped that the representatives chosen
for this show would be good rep
resentatives of the Lesbian Community.
This is my community being put in the
limelight I watched the show hoping to
find satisfaction in the message which was
being portrayed to a National pre
dominantly non-understanding audience. I
had faith that Optrah would handle the topic
tastefully and in a positive manner.
I expected entirely too much. She took
two extremes and tried to cram them into
an hotir show. The pwlitical issue focused
on was "Hatred of Men." No impwrtant
that letters will pxiur in. It's time we took
a stand and let the world know that we are
tired of having to misrepresent ourselves
to families and co-workers on a daily
basis. We need legal rights and protection.
Unless we make society as a whole aware
of our needs, we won't have our needs
fulfilled. Spjeak our and let your voice be
heard.
If you missed the show, transcripts are
available for $3 each by calling 1-800USA TEXT or writing to Oprah
Transcripts, 267 Broadway 3rd Floor New
York, NY 10007.
It's your community. It's your voice. It's
your life. It's your oppwrtunity to state
your opinion. Please do not procrastinate.
Impact is made with a flood of letters not
a slow drip.
Christine Johansen
San Antonio, TX
X)Ff TH€
I/I
issues surfaced. What about my job
security? What about that time when my
lover of 20 years passes away and her
family, who hasn't spwken to her in those
20 years, comes in to take "our" car or
"our" house? Where is a platform for a
voice that cries out "This isn't a fair pnice
to pjay for loving someone?
Please, if you saw the show, write to her.
An avenue of communication has been
opened to us. If we take advantage of this
opjportunity, we may, at long last, be
heard. If you saw the show and thought it
to be a fair representation of your personal
m
GNIQCJE GIFTS
T-SHIRTS
HDULT & OCCASION
CfiRDS
beliefs as a lesbian-WRTTE!
I am busy collecting letters from Lesbians
in San Antonio. I plan to collect as many
as ptossible, throw them all in a box and
Federal Expiress them to the studio in
which her show is pjroduced. I am hop)cful
OPEN
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3921 CEDAR SPGS.
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explained that "we've been looking for
more ways to help in the fight against
AIDS, and this seemed like a good
one. For every dollar that comes to us
in the mail during March, from
individuals buying books,one third of
it will be divided equally between the
Austin Lambda
Reopens
Austin - Austin Lambda reopened it's
doors at 4107 Medical Parkway #205
on February 18th.
The
organization
discontinued
meetings and discussion groups last
year because of a lack of funds and
American
Foundation
a C.P.A. based in Boston, will certify
the process.
"In addition to getting money to two
Phone lines are still not operating and
will not be re-established until a later
date.
important AIDS groups, we hoi» to
Austin Lambda is a non-profit
educational and service organization
serving the gay community of Austin
and surrounding areas.
Some of the activities coming up
include a Hayride on March 11th at
7;00pm at Pioneer Farms, a Lambda
Garage Sale and the Lambda Prom.
If you would like to donate some of
your time or money to Austin
set a precedent for AIDS fundraising,"
Alyson continued. "In the past, I've
often contributed to an AIDS benefit,
only to leam later that a
disappointingly small percentage of
what I paid actually went toward
AIDS work. I think it's great for
businesses to donate a part of their
sales to imfX)rtant causes, but I d like
to see such announcements always
Lambda, write to P.O. Box 5455,
Austin, TX 78763.
accompanied by a statement of exactly
what ftercentage of the gross amount
received will go to what organization.
Where a substantial amount of money
is involved, I think the contribution
should also be audited by a C.P.A."
Publisher to
Donate March
A catalogue of books available from
Alyson Publications is free on
request Write or phone Alyson
Income to AIDS
Boston - AIDS organizations will
receive one-third of all direct-mail
Publications, 40
income
5679.
by
Plympton
Sl,
Boston, Mass. 02118 (617)-542-
Alyson
Publications during the month of
March.
Sasha Alyson, the company president.
AIDS
Alyson also noted that Ray Faulkner,
volunteers.
received
for
Research and the PWA Coalition."
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first undertaking is to publish a
volume of photography com
Food Pantry
Seeks
Donations
memorating the October'87 March on
Dallas - The AIDS Resources Center
Food Pantry is currently seeking
donations of the following items:
paper towels, toilet paper, liquid
bleach, hand lotion, deodorant,
aluminum
foil, laundry soap,
detergent, shampoo, pasta meals in
jars, spaghetti sauce, fresh vegetables
& fruit, jelly & jams, tuna, juices,
peanut butter, cereal, etc... Take your
donations to the
AIDS Resource
Center, 3920 Cedar Springs or call
Washington.
Lesbian themed pictures, special
events and aerial shots are especially
needed. All proceeds from the sales of
this book will go to benefit AIDS
^•ojects.
If you have photos you would like to
contribute, contact: Out of the Closet
Foundation, P.O. Box
20084,
Cherokee Station, New York, NY
10028 or call (212) 288-4351.
Lesbian
Sorority Given
University
521-5124.
HGLPC
Sanction
Sponsors
Houston - The Houston Gay and
Los Angeles - The University of
California at Los Angeles has given
approval to the lesbian sorority,
Lesbian
Lambda Delta Lambda. It is believed
Food Drive
Political
Caucus
is
sponsoring a food drive for the Stone
Soup Food Pantry Saturday, April 2.
Donations will be accepted from 10
a.m. until 6 p.m. in the parking lot
of Mary's Lounge, 1022 Westheimer.
to be the first lesbian sorority to be
established in the United States.
University officials and established
Greek organizations seem pleased
with the decision.
Gay men at UCLA are now planning
Photos of
March on
Washington
to establish a fraternity within the
next few weeks. (Ed. Note: Founders
ofLambda Delta Lambda could not be
reached for comment at press time
- more next month!)
Needed
(817)566-9910
1215E. L/niuers/ly
Denton, TX
Foundation fw the Gay Community
TJ's
and AIDS Concerns is seeking photos
of March on Washingtcm.
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through Saturday and at 2pm on
Sunday. Some of the special events
The program is a collection of works
by women filmmakers from Austria,
Canada, Chile, China and America
& Rose playing C&W on the 3rd
with emphasis on the Dallas area. The
festival is programmed by Liatris
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4pm-7pm it's the HIGH COUNTRY
Women & Their Work, A Texas
Fundraiser with 250 Hot Dogs and
non-profit organization.
500 Draw Beer. Mahogany will be
hosting a show beginning at 5pm
and a TV will be given away! There
will be a $2 cover. Be sure to give
Carla and Pearl a hello while your
For ticket
information, contact Janetta Walls at
214-922-9393 or Shirley Neff at 214360-9195.
this month include Lisa Michaels
and 4th. Show starts at 7pm so get
there early! On Sunday the 6th from
Team
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Softball
AUSTIN - Feeling like a little Jazz
there!
or R&B after work? Head to
NEXUS/PETTICOAT
JUNCTION
and check out their new Happy
Hour format! Happy Hour at
NEXUS/PJ's
happens
Tuesday
fdling up the roster this month at
through Saturday from 6pm-9pm and
it's the perfect place to relax after a
long hard day on the job!
country and pop tunes. On the 18th,
HOUSTON ■ Are you lotting for a
way to liven up your Wednesday
nights? Well, the RANCH has got
the answer
Disco
Rock 'N' Roll &
Night
March 9th
starts
and
Wednesday
continues every
Wednesday thereafter. So,put on your
disco Queen outfit and get on out "9-
HOUSTON - Live entertainment is
KINDRED SPIRITS . On the 4th and
the 25th, it's Debbie Rodgers and
Straight Up playing contempwary
catch
Anna
Marie
&
Chesire
Katz live and on-stage. On top of all
this live entertainment, you can find
Movies on Mcmday nights, some
psychic phenomenon with Tarot
Card Readings on Tuesdays and
create your own live entertainment on
Thursdays
Night!
with
Open
Stage
OKLAHOMA
CITY
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Ooooh,
What Fun! KA's is planning a
Pajama Party on March 4th! Drag
out your "feetie-pajamas", your
favorite sexy night gown or T-shirt
& boxer shorts and head on out! Also,
don't miss St Pat's Day, March
17th when KA's will be serving
Green Beer All Day and All
Also, there's gonna be a Mean
Green Party on St. Patrick's
Day, March 17th. We also have this
bit of late breaking news ... Lotus, an
all female band from Tulsa, Ok will
be in concert at Partners on March
26th! Don't miss it!
Night plus a whole bunch of other
specials to get you in the Mood 0'
DALLAS - Get Ready! Steak Out
starts back up March 10th at LOMA
DELL's! Plus, all Imported Beer
the Irish!
will be $1 for who knows how long!
HOUSTON - Everybody's favorite
woman, Narene Kee has reopened
DALLAS Mark it on your
calendar... RUMORS has alot going
the ROCK 'N' HORSE at her new
on! On the 8th, you can catch
location,
Barbara Humphries performing
live on the RUMORS stage. On the
13th, there's going to be a
1220
TafL
A
Grand
Opening Party is set for March so
keep checking at the bar for dates and
details.
TULSA - Terri and the gang at
TL's CLUB would like to wish Lynn
a speedy recovery. Lynn was
hospitalized recently for surgery on
her leg and everybody at TL's and here
at Dimensions hope she's up and
feeling better soon!
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Badminton
Tournament.
And,
since owner Barbara is Irish, you
can bet that the St. Patrick's Day
Party on the 18th will be a blast
Plus, you can nurse you hangover at
the Recovery Party on the 18th!
The
20th
brings
a
Dart
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Dear Agnes,
I have been with my lover fw a year
and a half. We live together, have
good jobs, and are usually very
happy. My lover, I'll call her Pat, is
immediately. ALANON is a group for
an alcoholic. She had been sober for
the friends and relatives of alcoholic s.
two years before 1 met her. She
attended A.A.regularly and seemed to
It will help you beuer understand, and
cope. Let me know how you are
be doing great.
doing and good luck.
not help themselves!
I strongly urge you to find an
ALANON group and begin attending
Two months ago, we went to a party
and Pat had a beer. She said she was
tired of being in social situations and
not drinking. Pat also said she felt
like she could control her drinking
now.
She's drunk every night by eight
o clock She hasn t gone but two days
without getting smashed. She always
feels guilty the next morning, but
insists she doesn't have a problem.
Dear Agnes,
I've been dating Jill for about 5
months. We are beginning to talk
about a commitment to each other. If
this happens, we won t live together
right away, but I imagine eventually
we will. She is a nice, intelligent,
caring woman. We get along great
The problem is I am a very neat
person. My house is always spotless,
When she is drunk, she is verbally
abusive but never remembers a thing
she said or did the next day. I can't get
complete opposite. She throws her
her to go to A.A. again. 1 don't know
up when she does laundry. She never
what to do. I can not stand watching
the woman I love destroy herself. I
also hate living with the verbal abuse
How can I help her to quit drinking
again?
What to do?
Houston, TX
as well as, my car-
clothes on the floor and picks them
washes a dish until everything in the
house is dirty. I have never seen her
bed when it is made up. Her car looks
like a dumpster on wheels — old
bottles, candy wrappers, fast food
trash.. I could go on and on, but I'm
sure you get the picture.
If we live together, I don't know what
Dear What,
we would do. 1 haven't ever said
You can not help anyone who will -12- anything about her "house keeping"
because I don't want to hurt her
housekeeping make it plain what you
feelings. Besides, we don't live
together yet. It might never work
out, but I feel like we have a really
expect. Sometimes it helps to have a
room that is all yours. Then if she
good relationship that can last. I
don't worry about it. Just close the
don't want to make her angry or
door.
wants to trash hers out, let her and
defensive. Should I go ahead and take
a chance by bringing it up with her?
Wondering
Abilene, TX
Dear Wonder,
Discuss it before you move in
together. Be as tactful as possible
and don't hurt her feelings. Some
people have more of a tolerance for
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LESBIAN,..
MOTHER
Introduction to Rocking the Cradle
by Debra Chasnoff & Kim Klausner
In 1982, when we were beginning our
research for Choosing Children, a
documentary film about lesbians who
become parents after coming out, we
Children, we knew only a handful of
lesbians in the Boston area who'd had
children since coming out There were
perhaps a couple of hundred on the
set out to track down everything we
west coast and others scattered across
could find about lesbian and gay
pamphlets about donor insemination,
the country. These women were true
pioneers. They had a vision and
fulfilled it against all odds — social
mores, legal impediments and other
obstacles. They were determined and
some legal information about custody
battles, a short story here and there in
anthologies of lesbian fiction.
Rocking the Cradle had just been
creative. They had to be, because
society certainly didn't support them
and for the most part the lesbian
community barely knew they existed.
published and it stood out as one of
For most lesbians and gay men, being
homosexual still was synonymous
parenting experiences and options. We
were surprised at how little there was
to read —
a few out-of-print
the only places gay and straight
readers could turn for real life stories
that addressed the complexities of
with not being able to have children.
lesbian parenting.
Since then, lesbian communities have
become much more aware of the
Publications about the reality of any
minority group's lives play an
and early eighties male children were
important role in diminishing their
mothers in our midst. In the seventies
only lesbian wanting children, only
excluded from women's community
events, childcare was frequently
unavailable and many younger
activists just had no appreciation for
the responsibilities of motherhood.
images with which one can identify
can enhance a person's pride and self-
to change: more women have decided
to parent; networks of lesbian
mothers have solidified in some areas;
internalized oppression. Over and over
we have heard people say,"I thought I
was the only one (only black lesbian,
woman sexually abused by her father,
etc.) until I read..." Finding words or
Gradually these attitudes have begun
respect and, consequendy, sense of
personal power. This is especially
a political base in the community is
true for lesbian parents and their
children, who have been particularly
significant percentage of the baby
boom generation now having babies
invisible in the mainstream media.
is lesbian. The sheer numbers of
beginning to form. A small but
When we started work on Choosing .^5. lesbians who are now parents (or
planning to be or whose close friends
are) have pushed parenting issues to
the lack of significant, long-standing
change in the lives of lesbian mothers
the forefront of the lesbian and gay
political agenda.
since Rocking The Cradle was fust
published. In spite of all the people
Hundreds of thousands of us have
who've come out to families, co-
marched in Lesbian and Gay Pride
demonstrations for over fifteen years,
workers, and others, and the increased
media coverage of gays, most people
fought repressive legislation, and
become visible in other political
are still unfamiliar with or hostile to
the concept of gay parenting.
Rocking The Cradle tells many
movements.
Along
with
strengthening a rich culture of our
stories about custody battles. When
we first read this book, the strength of
the lesbian and gay liberation
movement was such that we thought
own, we've made some small inroads
in mainstream culture as well. The
public is more aware of us as people
vicious
that the time would come when a
stereotypes have been weakened in the
and
some
of the
most
parent's sexual preference would be
minds of many.
irrelevant in determining the best
interests of a child in custody cases.
Sadly, the increased exposure and
activism of lesbians and gays has
Today, women continue to get
paralleled a rightward shift in the
married, have children,and then come
out And lesbian mothers still fight
bitter custody battles with exhusbands, the state, or grandparents
mood and mores of the country
(symbolized by the election and re
election of Ronald Reagan). So, while
it's now possible to walk into a
who feel a gay sexual orientation is
damaging to children. We're still
losing more of these fights than we're
mainstream bookstore in any major
city and fmd a "gay studies" section,
the Supreme Court is ruling that it is
permissible fw states to outlaw gay
winning.
In the last few years, some of these
sex. And the AIDS crisis and the
legal battles reflect new issues facing
government's slow response to it has
escalated many people's fear and hatred
our community. A
of gay men. The Right is alarmed at
changing family structures and the
in
husband's visitation rights with their
daughters using the pretext that she
gains of the women's and gay
liberation movements. In reaction,
was afraid of them catching AIDS
from him (even though he was
they have tried to narrow the range of
what is considered acceptable
sexuality and lifestyle. Unfortunately,
these values have begun to permeate
perfectly healthy and the vuiis can t be
transmitted casually anyway). A
lesbian in Northern California didn t
have a clear contract with the man she
all levels of society. Even many of
our straight friends are choosing to
marry when ten years ago they
used as a sperm donor. Soon after her
baby was bom, the donor decided he
wanted to be the social father as well
and was awarded visitation rights by a
questioned the concept of the nuclear
family.
It is this renewed homophobia and
social repression which accounts for
woman
Chicago tried to challenge her gay ex-
judge. She now has to share parenting
with a virtual stranger. And a lesbian
,, mom in Denver suffered through the
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death of her lover and then the loss of
tolerant
her child to the parents of that woman
— the biological mother.
There is great diversity within the
lesbian and gay community in the
way we are setting up childbearing. It
seems that the largest number of new
parents are starting off in couples, but
lesbian's right to parent will not be
of
lesbian
mothers;
a
improving the services and support
that all parents and children need.
many of us are raising children on our
own, out of choice or because of a
like Rocking The Cradle help us take
the small steps needed to get there.
break-up of a relationship. Lesbians
are sharing parenting with men on a
continuum ranging from absolutely
no involvement to sharing a
household and splitting parenting
responsibilities 50/50. Increasingly,
groups of friends are exploring ways
to share parenting even though they
San Francisco, 1987
Debra Chasnoff
questioned; and lesbian parents will be
able to concentrate their energy on
Whiles we still have along way to go
until this vision is realized, books
Kim Klausner
Copyright © 1987 by Kim Klausner and Debra
Chasnoff. Reprinted with permission form
Rocking The Cradle: Lesbian Mothers(Boston:
Alyson Publication, Inc.)
don't share romantic attachments.
Slowly, more gay men are able to
become parents themselves in ways
other than marriage; they are
occasionally able to adopt or become
foster parents and sometimes they find
a woman to bear a child for them.
In many areas,lesbian-headed families
are part of a wider group of families
which
don't
mesh
with
the
sterotypical nuclear family model.
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Millions of women are raising
children without a man in the home
(because of divorce, separation, or
never having married). The high
incidence of divorce and remarriage
has meant that millions of children
are being parented by adults with
whom they have no biological ties.
Lesbians' children aren't the only ones
growing up with a "non-biological
mother" or parent.
It would be terrific if, ten years from
now. Rocking The Cradle could be
reissued again, but this time as a
historical
book,
captunng
the
challenges lesbians used to face as
parents. In a future such as that,
everyone will be familiar with and
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A Discussion ofLesbian Literature Both New and Old
This month T. Sumner Reviews:
The Other Side of Venus
by Shirley Verel
To The Lightning
by Catherine Ennis
This is not usually the time of year
lesbianism
you think about reading, after all,
spring fever makes you want to do
viable alternative for young women in
things like fly kites or play frisbee.
was not considered
a
1955.
But, I've got two books this month
There are many forces working
against them including friends,
that are definitely worth taking time
out for. Besides, it will give you
relatives and co-workers. These people
something
but will they stay separated? You'll
to
do
when
the
eventually manage to pull them apart
thunderstorms start pounding on the
have to read the book to find out
dow!
I especially enjoyed this book because
Let's start with TTie Other Side of
there is no trace of the bulch/femrne
ygoUiS by Shirley Verel (Naiad Press,
role-playing which is so common m
novels from this era. I did ave a
$8.95). This novel was written and
^t in the mid-1950's. In one sense, it
is a classic stc^ of love gone wrong,
in another, it is the story of an era in
lesbian history.
pie story revolves around Judith
Allan, a fairly wealthy woman who
has recently ended her marriage, and
Diana Quendon, a young novelist.
.3oth women are struggling against
tl.eir love for one another, after all.
problem wading through the irst ew
chapters, but, once I got '"p
liked it So, if you are one of those
people who won't read a book unless
it grabs your attention in the first few
pages, this one isn't for you. If you
can wait a little bit for the story to
unfold, I would definitely suggest The
Other Side of Venus.
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immediate
excitement.
To
The
Lighming by Catherine Ennis (Naiad
Press,
$8.95)
is
the
one
to read. It's got adventure, mystery,
and a good dose of sensuality.
The main characters, Chris and Merry
start off on a weekend camping trip as
and intelligently written book. I read
it in a single setting and passed it
onto my roommate who did the same.
I felt tense the entire time I was
reading it wondering what would
happen next Ms. Ennis does,
however, manage to relieve the
friends. A ferocious thunderstorm
tension from time to time with her
catches them off guard and when
Chris wakes up, she finds that they
are in an unfamiliar valley with no
sign of civilization to be found. This
sarcastic wit
is where the adventure, and the love
story, begin.
Where are they? How did they get
there? How are they going to survive?
Will they be rescued? I can't tell you
any of that, but I can say that the
answers are much more intriguing
than the questions.
To The Lightning is an exciting
To The Lightning is going on my
"A" List... now all I'm waiting for is
a sequel! This is Ms. Ennis' first
novel and we should be seeing more
of her in the future (and that suits me
fine)!
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A GOOD
MONEY
MANAGER?
"Everybody makes a mistake now and
then." It is a phrase that is often used
c. you wait until you get a cutoff
when we bounce a check, forget to
6. When it comes to saving money:
pay a bill or get involved in a lousy
a. You put something in savings
investment. There are, however,some
every paycheck
people
b. when you have money left over
who
"mistakes"
make
alot
more
these
often
notice.
little
than
after bills
others. Are you one of them? Answer
the 15 questions below and find out
just how good you are at managing
c. when you think about it
d. never do
7. Do you know how much interest
your money.
your money is earning?
a. Yes
1. You balance your checkbook:
b. No
a. Every month
8. You are always on the look out for
b. Every 2 or 3 months
c. When you bounce a check
new investments that are safe and
profitable.
d. Never
a True
b. False
2. You shop:
9. If you had a choice, you'd rather
a. When you want to look around
b. When you feel good
c. When you are depressed
have a job that pays:
a. hourly
b. salary
c. salary + commission
d. commission only
d. When you need something
3. When you do go shopping, you:
a. know what you want, buy it and
10. When you buy clothes, you buy:
leave
4. On average, you bounce a check:
a. the least expensive you can find
b. well-made, medium priced clothing
c. expensive, designer label clothing,
regardless of quality
a. never
11. When grocery shopping, you:
b. once a year
a. make a list and stick to it
c. once a month
b. make a list but usually come home
b. are a comparison shopper
c. spend hours in the mall and can't
resist a "bargain"
5. When paying bills:
with some exbas
a. you always pay on time
b. you are usually a little late
c. just go and look for what you need
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or want
12. When making a majw purchase
(car, ^jpliances, etc.) do you:
V check as many as apply
a. buy based on appearance
b. comparison shop
c. buy what's on sale
(L check on quality and reliability
e. consider friends' advice
f. buy only a brand you know
g. check into warranties, service, etc.
h. buy from a reputable dealer
13. When you make credit card
purchases, you:
a pay them off every month
b. pay as much as possible
c. pay only the minimum payment
14. Would you be able to "get by" if
you didn't have your credit cards?
a Yes
While friends and family may struggle
with unexpected bills or emergencies,
you generally have a little stash put
back just in case something goes
wrong. You probably save even when
it is isn't affordable. If you aren't an
investor now, the potential is there
and you have the discipline and
temprament to go for iL
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Money management is probably
your strongest asset, but it is
something you worry about
much. You probably plan more
not
not
too
for
vacation than taxes. You save off and
on. Once you see something you
want (stereo, car, new coat, etc..)
there goes the savings account. If you
problems, etc.) would you have the
do find yourself in hot water, work
out a budget and stick to it Include
savings and don't be tempted to spend
frmds on hand to cover the expense
it Invest in a CD or credit union and
without cutting into your normal
monthly expenses?
leave your money alone. You will be
surprised how fast it grows.
b.No
15. In the event of an emergency (car
a Yes
b. No
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If you feel like money slips through
SCORING
your hands, it is probably because
does. Managing money is not just
something that happens; it takes
commitment and planning. No one is
Give yourself points as follows
1. a-5, b-2, c-0, d-0, 2. a-2, b-1, c-0,
d-4 3. a-3, b4,c-0 4. a-5, b-2, c-0
5. a-5, b-2, c-0 6. aA, b-2, c-1, d-0
7. a-7, b-0 8. a-7, b-0 9. a-0, b-2, c-
3, d-2 10. a-0, b-7, c-0 11. a4, b-2,
c-1 12. one point for each checked
13. a4,b-2, c-1 14. a-7, b-0
15. a-7, b-0
If You Scored:
54-81
You are an excellent money manager
and take direct responsibility for your
financial future. You know where
your dollars go and what they go for.
bom knowing how to manage their
money, but it is something everyone
can learn. There are some excellent
books dedicated to the subject and
that's a good place to start. Plan a
budget, and set aside some of your
check each and every pay day for
savings. Pay off credit cards and keep
them paid off. If you have a friend
who is a good money manager ask
them for help. Today is an excellent
day to start and you can do it.
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Eve of *85
Empty road sparkles like
some walkway to the sky,
and falling snow winks
at the lanterns
high over a cold parking lot.
In some other world
crashing glasses
and drunken kisses
hail the new year,
but here Heaven
pours the momentsweetly
into the laps
of two people
in a parked cor
drinking champagne
out of paper cups.
-Nell Garden
Richfield, Minnesota
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What's in the Stars for you this Month?
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Love, Money,Trovei
workers for granted. This could cause
some major upset that won't be
settled until April.
PISCES
(Feb 19th-Mar 20th)
Friendship is in the spotlight during
the first week of March. You will feel
TAURUS
like doing things for those around you
and their appreciation is all you need
(April 20th - May 20th)
as reward. From the 9th thru the 16th
Watch your tongue when discussing
political or religious matters during
although your schedule will be hectic
you may be feeling bored by all of it
right now. Take time for yourself.
From the 17th thru the 23rd you will
find yourself making all the right
the first week of March. You could
offend someone you care about From
the 9th thru the 16th you may feel
walled into a current relationship. Try
talking it out with you loved one,
you'll feel much better when you get
this out in the open. From the 17th
thru the 23rd you could be the victim
of some vicious gossip. Take care and
don't say to much in defending
decisions in love and finances. Mix
this with a little luck and you just
might hit the jackpot in both areas!
From the 24th thru the 31st you will
have to work hard to keep fte right
balance between work and social
yourself, you could be misquoted and
start the cycle all over again. From
activities.
the 24th thru month's end a stranger
ARIES
could be interfering in your love life.
(Mar 21st-Apr 19th)
Don't jump to conclusions, it is
probably just a passing phase.
The first week of March is not a good
time to go on intuition in any area.
Get the facts and make an informed
GEMINI
decision or you may find yourself in
(May 21st-June 21st)
hot water. From the 9th thru the 16th
you
may
encounter
some
Romance is in the air during the first
week of March. Be careful though,
minor
criticism but you will rise above it
there may be jealous eyes watching
you that could make trouble. From
and prove that you are in the right.
From the 17th thru the 23rd a short
trip could be just what you need to
the 9th thru the 16th you may find
yourself receiving money from an
unexpected source. Be kind to those
around you who are insecure about
your feelings for them. From the 17th
help you relax. If you can't get away,
content yourself with some phone
calls or letters to far away friends.
From the 24th thru the 31st be careful
not to take your loved ones or co-
thru the 23rd the person whose
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VIRGO
jealousy you aroused during the first
of the month could confiont you right
(Aug 23rd - Sept 22nd)
now. From the 24th thru the 31st
Try to relax and not take on more
your intellectual powers are at their
than you can handle during the first
best Use them to your advantage in
your career. They will carry you far
during this time.
week of March. Someone who is
interested in you physically but not
mentally should be avoided. From the
9th thru the 16th it would be best to
CANCER
(June 22nd - July 22nd)
Your charm and charisma can bring
you money during the first week of
March. You are lucky in both love
and money right now. From the 9th
thru the 16th you'll be more interested
stay home and enjoy some time with
your loved ones. From the 17th thru
the 23rd you will feel slightly
annoyed at those around you even
though everything is going well right
now. Your financial picture is
looking especially bright From the
in pleasurable activities but you'll
also manage to finish a very
important project that could bring you
driving force. A new romance could
keep your spirits up through a trying
a raise or promotion. From the 17th
time with family and friends.
thru the 23rd the pace on the job and
in romance will be picking up and
you will be accomplishing more and
more. From the 24th thru the 31st
24th thru the 31st love is your
LIBRA
(Sept 23rd -Oct 23rd)
romance is definitely in the air, your
Change is in the air for Libra during
charming wit will give you the
force things, let them hapi^n at their
ability to pick and choose among
those who interest you.
the first week of March. Don't try to
own pace and the results will be much
better. From the 9th thru the 16th
you can expect some sudden luck in
LEO
(July 23rd - Aug 22nd)
Avoid competing with those around
you during the first week of March.
Any competition or challenges you
take on will not come out in your
financial matters. Behind the scenes
events could lead to a windfall. From
the 17th thru the 23rd you should try
to see both sides of a money issue, if
you don't it could turn into a big
argument between you and a loved
favor. From the 9th thru the 16th a
one. From the 24th thru the 31st
raise or promotion could be coming
your way, if you have been thinking
social arrangements could have you
on the run, you will be happiest
about asking for a transfer, ask for it
surrounded with friends.
now! From the 17th thru the 23rd
your work schedule will be busy but
you'll be able to find time for
romance too! From the 24th thru the
31st support from friends and family
can help you get ahead in financial
matters. Self-confidence
strong point now.
is
your
SCORPIO
(Oct 24th - Nov 23rd)
You will feel lucky in all matters
during the first week of March. Go
ahead and follow your intuitions, you
can't lose. From the 9th thru the 16th
-27- you can benefit from some fresh ideas
implementing them or you could
and it will go away. From the 24th
thru the 31st you will be on a roll,
not only in your social life but in
make them feel left out. From the
financial matters. Take time to listen
17th thru the 23rd you could be
to others opinions before you go
feeling like you're the rope in a tug-of-
through with a plan.
at home and on the job. Be sure to
talk to those around you before
between work and home. Slow
down so that you can keep both sides
AQUARIUS
happy. From the 24th thru the 31st
(Jan 20th - Feb 18th)
you should consult friends or business
You'll need to slow down the pace of
your life during the first week of
March. This is not a good time for
quick decisions or change. From the
9th thru the 16th you'll be able to
associates before making a major
decision, left on your own you could
take the wrong direction.
SAGGIHARIUS
(Nov 24th - Dec 21st)
Something new could be making
itself felt in your love life during the
first week of March and it is a nice
feeling. From the 9th thru the 16th
you feel confident about most areas of
your life and it shows! Now is the
time to go for what you want... and
get it! From the 17th thru the 23rd
you could be feeling adventurous but
don't let it get out of hand or you
could get yourself into trouble. From
the 24th thru the 31st you should
spend time with your family or love
interest. Be sure not to ignwe your
friends though or there could be hurt
feelings.
push ahead on all the things you put
off last week. Time spent with a lover
will be exciting and fun. From the
17th thru the 23rd guard against
taking love and/or money for granted.
This could cause problem you hadn't
considered and you could get in ajam.
From the 24th thru the 31st your love
life will seem like magic but be
careful, magic can backfire.
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CAPRICORN
(Dec 22nd - Jon 19th)
Your success at work during the first
week of March depends on your not
criticizing co-workers. From the 9th
thru the 16th you could be making
the wrong judgement about a loved
one. Sit down and talk it out, you'll
both feel better if you do. From the
17th thru the 23rd be generous with
compliments to those around you.
There may be some gossip involving
you going around right now,ignore it
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521-9772
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2700 Bay Area 77058
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Mothers Group
The Jezebel
864-3098
8755Wurzbach Rd.
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697-0413
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PWA Coalition - Houston
623-4436
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P.O.Box 120113 78212-9313
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4 Cheisea
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