The Herland Voice : v.10: no.1(1993)
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- The Herland Voice : v.10: no.1(1993)
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- The Herland Voice is the monthly publication of Herland Sister Resources, a womanist organization with a strong lesbian focus based in Oklahoma City.
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- 1993-01
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- All rights reserved by Herland Sister Resources. Contact UCO Archives & Special Collections for the permission policy on the use, reproduction or distribution of these materials.
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- Herland Voice
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- Herland Sister Resources
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January, 1993
MORTGAGE
PAYOFF
SCHEDULED
Representatives of the Herland Board of Directors will meet with
our mortgage holder on January 5 to make the final balloon payment on
the Her land mortgage. Over $20,000 has been donated to the building
fund and a member of our community has offered to loan Herland the
balance needed for the $31 ,000 payoff. The response to the final
Holiday Gift campaign has been nothing short of sensational. In
August, 1992, the building fund had just over $7,000. In the past four
months $13,000 has been donated -- mostly in $200 pledges.
When the Herland Board decided five years ago that it was time
Herland had a place of our own where no landlord could say what we
could or couldn't do, it was a difficult and somewhat intimidating
decision. When the only financing available bad a large final balloon
payment, we had doubts about our ability to meet that payment.
However, with faith in our community's support for Her land, the
building was purchased.
Today, it is apparent that faith was justified. The many women
of Her land and our male friends have rallied to the challenge. The
contributions, large and small, have come from all over Oklahoma and
around the United States making it clear that Herland is important to
many people. The balloon payment which once seemed impossible will
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be paid.
NOTE BURNING PARTY
SATURDAY
JANUARY
16, 1993
HERLAND SISTER RESOURCES
2312 N.W. 39
Great Food, Great Folks, Live Music
Much Fun and Frivolity
BRING A FRIEND AND JOIN IN THE CELEBRATION.
CHRYSTOS IS COMING!
by Judith Rycroft
Chrystos, the Native American poet, artist, and activist, is coming
to read to us at Herland on Friday, January 22 at 8:00 P.M. and at the
PortholeJanuary24, starting at6:30P.M: Peggy Johnson will punctuate
the Porthole poetry with her own Music-to-Grow-By.
In between those two events for the Herland Legal Defense Fund,
Chrystos will do a workshop on Saturday, January 23, 1-5 pm in Rm.
319 Gittinger Hall. (Gittinger is on the OU campus, 7 60 Asp Avenue,
next to the University Book Store.) This will be a writing/speaking
workshop during which participants will talk about their own writing
andthekindofwritingtbey like to do and workonanactualproject. This
workshop is sure to bea sell-out, so register throughHerland (521-9696)
as soon as possible. The fee is $30.00.
If you are not acquainted withChrystos' work, pull out last month's
HERLAND VOICE and read two of her poems. That will make you
want to hear/read more. Her most recent book is Dream On (Press Gang
Publishers, Vancouver, 1991), which will be available in Herland
library as soon as I can let it go!
Dream On is a "hot number." In it, Chrystos' works dance, burn,
leap, warm, illuminate, and consume--each poem is a flame. feeding on
her soul fuel.
The more I read, the more I "saw" Dream On as a unicorn, one of
almost-fantastic beauty flying on featherwings with moondust in its
mane-This Horse has paisley swirls of breath
crystal in the fog
This is a black wet silk rainy night horse
This is a dawn satin pony
whose rump is dappled with stars
(from "EARS TO THE HEART OF THE WIND")
(continued on pa[7 7)
Volume 10 Number 1
Herland Sister Resources
2312 N.W. 39, OKC, OK 73112
S T . SYBIL
(Sybil L udington, Matron Saint of the Forgotten Woman, is an
occasional contributor to this space.)
Dear St: Sybil,
What's all this uproar over guys in the military? We've always had
guys in the military, and I don't think it would be fair to keep them out
- it would hurt their chances for a good education, medical care, low
mortgages, better jobs, train_ing, a good future -all of that stuff; and
besides, :it wouldn't be fair for only gals to have to serve their country
in Somalia or Panama or wherever -for Pete's sake, I'm not even sure
the Saudis and Kuwaitis would accept an all-gal force to do their
fighting for them. These people against guys in the service had better get
real, don't you think?
Yours in outrage and disgust,
Rose
Dear Rose,
That's "gays".
Fondly,
Sybil
Dear Sybil,
Whatever.
Luv ya,
Rose
to private behavior, he can try to address the problems of service-related
sexual harassment, as in the Tailhook scandal, the ban on gays,
"date"rape, and gender discrimination, in a bill only a fool (Hi, Eddie)
would be willing to openly criticize.
A bill of this sort won't be written overnight; and you are quite right
and nice and reasonable not to hector him into immediate action; be has
a lo ton his plate. But remember, Al, this was a promise of his, a promise
that helped win him a lot of hard working volunteers, money and energy,
so go ahead, be a little"selfish", and don't let up on him altogether. Don't
let him think for a minute that life will be easier if he lets this one slip.
He's a good guy, as politicians go, but as politicians go .....:uiu know.
Fondly,
Sybil
Dear St. Sybil,
My New Year's Resolutions are to give up smoking, give up
drinking, lose twenty pounds, and quit running around. Do you think
I can do it?
Signed,
Anxious
Dear Anxious,
Of course you can do it. We all do it. Are you sure you want to do
it? It's called dying. See you soon,
Love,
Sybil
Dear St. :)ybil,
Seriously now, what do you think President Clinton should do
about Gays in the military? I want desperately for him to lift the ban,
but from everything I read in the local newspaper it will be dangerous
for him to do so - it might imperil all of his programs, and I don't want
to be selfish.
Worriedly,
Al Truistic
Sybil sends her best wishes to Herland Voice Readers for a
wonderful new year, full of challenges and achievements, joy and
growth. May you be as gentle to and demanding of yourself as you are
with others, no more, no less; may your righteousness be tempered with
tolerance, your dedication and sobriety balanced with levity, and your
courage never fail you.· Blessings and good fortune be yours. Love. 0
Dear Al,
First of all, remember that the local newspaper you read is the
OCBL - the Oklahoma City Birdcage Liner; not everybody in the
country is as upset at the prospect of gays in the military as is that
pathetic little man with the ironic name - Eddie Gaylord, mercy me.
Secondly, remember: when one person is oppressed, no one
is free. Your own freedom is as important as anyone else's!
Thirdly, let's look at Mr. Clinton's options.
(1) He could bow to pressure from bigots and homophobes and
do nothing. Now, he's a politician, but he's not a snake, and he won't
do that. Such a course of inaction would leave a majority of his
supporters disappointed and furious; and, besides, from all appearances he really is firmly, personally, committed to lifting the ban one
way or another.
(2) He could sign an executive order at any time overturning the
ban; and that would be it. If he did, it would lead to an outcry of the same
sort (and from the same sort, of course) as arose when Truman racially
integrated the services. Now, itwouldmostlikelydieoutjustas quickly,
and in a number of years people would be shaking their heads at the very
thought that allowing gays in the military was ever controversial. But
it would be nasty while it lasted, and while he's not a snake, he is a
politician, and he probably won't do it that way either.
(3) Look for him to do something broadly cooperative and conciliatory, that will address and be ameliorative toward many groups and
problems. He has indicated that he is looking at a plan to ban wrongful
behavior, not attitude or preference. By focusing on public as opposed
MARTIN LUTHER KING
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llerland Voice, January,
1993
C ELEBRATION
Supporters of racial harmony and justice will march on Monday,
January 20, 1993 , in honor of the birthday of Martin Luther King, Jr.
The march will k ick off at 9:00 a.m. with a rally at the Ralph Ellison
Library at 23rd and Martin Luther King Boulevard.
Following a short ceremony at the library, where the Troupe Youth
Choir will lead the assembly in "Lift Every Voice", participants will
march to the Oklahoma Historical Building, where Governor Walters
will ring the Freedom Bell at 11 :00 a.m. This bell ringing will coincide
with a cacophony of bells across the nation and the world. in a
worldwide salute to Dr. King.
The marchers will then cross the street to the South Steps of the
Capitol (inside if the weather is inclement) for the main program. which
will include poetry and drumming by Jahruba and Company, and a
series of short addresses by a rainbow representation of the local Human
Ju~lice movement. These speakers will be the Rev . Lynn Mims, Richard
Whitman of the Alliance of Indigenous People: Vinh Tranh. Wilfredo
Santos-Rivera, and the Rev. Donna Compton.
Herland is proud to be one of the sponsors of this parade, and a
contingent from Herland will march behind the Herland banner. All
friends of Herland are invited to come march with us. and be a visible,
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vocal witness for freedom , equal ity and justice .
SOUTHWEST UNITARIAN UNIVERSAL/ST
WOMEN'S CONFERENCE
The First Unitarian Church of Oklahoma City is proud to be
hosting the annual Southwest Unitarian Universalist Women's Conference January 29 through 31, 1993. The powerful women's gathering
will be held at the Lincoln Plaza Hotel, 4545 North Lincoln Boulevard
in Oklahoma City. The theme of this year's conference is "The Rhythms
of Life: Heroines' Journeys: Each Day A Coming of Age."
Twenty-five local and regional presenters will offer 28 workshops
designed to nurture the spiritual and creative empowerment of women .
Some of the workshops cover such areas as reclaiming images and
stories of the Divine Female, the mythology of pre-patriarchal times,
creating our own rituals, the ancient art of belly dancing, honoring the
cycles of our lives, becoming a social activist, and jam sessions for
musicians and would-be musicians. Miss Brown to You will provide
entertainment Saturday night.
As in past conferences, there will be an in-gathering on Friday
evening guaranteed to raise your energy level with drumming, chanting
and dancing. Bringa seed or seeds to offer in this ritual created to affinn
woman-defined spirituality.
The registration fee, after December 29th, is $65.00 . It includes
two continental breakfasts and one buffet dinner. Lunch Saturday is on
your own.
A bazaar of arts, crafts, books and jewelry will be offered on
Saturday. If you would like to display your unique wares, contact
Karen Haney Beard at 1208 N.W. 34th Street, Oklahoma City, 73118.
For more information on how to register and what workshops are
available, contact Anne Murray at 4 78-1176. Home hospitality is
available on request. Child care and activities are being planned. Please
let us know if you will be needing this free service.
This conference promises to be one of the most powerful gatherings
in Oklahoma. It will be a great opportunity for sharing women's
community.
D
MoRE Gooo NEws FROM NoRTH OF
THE BORDER
The Ontario government will not appeal September's landmark
provincial Human Rights Commission ruling that the term "conjugal
relationship" in the Human Rights Code applies to gay couples .
The ruling came in a lawsuit over survivor benefits for lovers of
provincial gay employees, but it extends to all government entities and
private businesses , mandating they offer benefits to gay employees'
partners. The government will also have to rewrite discriminatory laws
on wills, estates, child custody, adoption and many other matters.
"Ontario is about to recognize the homosexual union, and families
led by homosexuals, as one normal social relationship among many in
a complex society," summed up The Toronto Star.
One quick response to the ruling came at the Toronto YMCA,
which extended its family discount to gay couples and their children,
after seven years of refusing to do so.
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