The Herland Voice : v.23: no.4(2005)
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- The Herland Voice : v.23: no.4(2005)
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- The Herland Voice is the monthly publication of Herland Sister Resources, a womanist organization with a strong lesbian focus based in Oklahoma City.
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April 2005
Special Poetry Issue
Herland Poetry Month Events
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pril is nationally designated as Poetry Month,
and Herland has several poetry events
planned.
First, this April issue of the Herland Voice is devoted primarily to poetry from our very own community.
Secondly, Herland is hosting "Moved by Words",
a workshop in creating and appreciating poetry:
Saturday April 9, 2005, 1 - 4 pm at Herland. This
workshop uses movement, meditation and poetry to
connect with self and others. Participants will write
their own poetry, contribute to group poems, and
share their poetry at the evening's HERLAND poetry
gathering. Our workshop facilitator is Carol Davis
Koss, a well-known and respected Oklahoma poet.
This FREE Workshop is limited to 15 participants, so please call Her/and at 405/5219696 to reserve your place, or email herlandsisters@cox.net with "Poetry Workshop" on
the subject line.
Finally, there will be a Poetry Gathering at Herland
at 7:30 pm Saturday evening, April 9, 2005. Participants from the workshop will be encouraged to share
their poetry and all other members of the community,
especially those who have contributed to the Voice,
are welcome to participate also. This will follow our
monthly Supper Club, which will meet and dine at Pei
Wei Asian Diner.
Book Art Classes at Herland
H
erland will be offering a series of 6 book art
classes from noon to 3 pm on the following
Sundays: April 17 & 24; May 1 & 22; June
12 & 19.
The classes will be taught by esteemed local artist,
Connie Seabourn who says "I believe that the interest
in book art has been growing for some time. There
was a thesis on book art that presented some statistics about how female artists dominate this field (and
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speculation as to why). There are many ways that
this particular art form would especially promote emotional health and social bonding. I love books and
visual art, and this combines both."
Pre-registration is required. Tuition (which benefits
Herland) is $20.00 per class or $100.00 for all 6
classes if paid in advance-which gets you one class
free. The classes are limited to 10 students, so register early. Supplies will cost about $20.00-or as
much more as you care to spend. Once registered,
you will receive information about purchasing supplies.
To register, call (405) 521-9696 and give your
name and a number where you can be reached or
email Herland at: herlandsisters@cox.net.
Tuition can be mailed to Herland Sister Resources,
2312 NW 39th, OKC, OK 73112, or brought by Herland on Saturdays between 1 and 5 pm.
Herland Spring Retreat
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Ian now to attend the annual Herland Spring
Retreat, May 13 -:-- 15 at Roman Nose State
Park. Pre-registration is due by May 61h - see
registration form on page 2. Accommodations include rustic group cabins with bunk beds, a group
bath house with restrooms and hot showers, and a
meeting hall with group kitchen. Meals include a
light Friday night supper, Saturday breakfast, Saturday lunch on your own, Saturday evening potluck
(bring a dish to share) and Sunday morning breakfast.
There is always a lot to do during this weekend getaway, including tent camping, horseback riding,
workshops, bird and nature hikes, Frisbee, softball,
Scrabble, Trivia Pursuit and many other games. We
also have campfire gatherings for stories, singing and
roasting marshmallows and an open mike for poetry,
singing or other tafent.
The Saturday night concert will feature the band Iris
and Sharlene will do a workshop on personality, Sat.
at 10:00 am, focusing on temperament types.
Your early registration helps our volunteers plan
this huge event.
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(405) 521-9696
email: herlands1sters@cox.net
bookstore hours: saturdays 1-5 pm
April 2005
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Herland Spring Women's Retreat Registration Form
Roman Nose State Park - May 13, 14 & 15, 2005
Below are guidelines to help you select an appropriate registration amount. Deadline for pre-registration is May 6th. Please
remember that dogs are welcome but must remain on leashes and are not allowed in the dining hall.
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$25
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She will communicate directly with responders after April
30th to coordinate the best time and place. Beginners
OKC L1ghtmng Women 5 2005
Football Schedule
Welcome!!
All games start at 7:00 pm
bell hooks to speak
April 16th-OKC Lightning@ KC Krunch
April 23rd - BYE
April 30th - Austin Outlaws @ OKC Lightning
May 14th -OKC Lightning@ Denton Stampede
May 21 - Dallas Rage@OKC Lightning
May 281h - OKC Lightning @ Austin Outlaws
June 4th - Denton Stampede @ OKC Lightning
June 11th - OKC Lightning @ Dallas Rage
June 18th - Denton Stampede @ OKC Lightning
The Oklahoma State University Women's Studies Program invites you to a lecture by bell hooks, 7pm, Tuesday,
March 29, 2005, in the Student Union Little Theatre, in
Stillwater. Ms. hooks will speak on the topic of "Creating
the Beloved Community: Ending Domination". The lecture
is free and open to the public; for more information contact
Trish Long at 405-744-7575
bell hooks is an internationally recognized author and
lecturer. She will discuss issues of gender, race, class, and
culture in her talk. While known primarily as a feminist
thinker, hooks is well known for her interdisciplinary writings on a number of topics including gender, race, class,
culture, teaching, and the significance of media for contemporary culture. Her work emphasizes the interconnectedness of these issues, especially the myriad forms of racism
and sexism, both subtle and blatant, in the United States.
Centering her arguments on the black female experience,
hooks has thrown down the gauntlet to both the feminist
and antiracist movements, which have historically been at
odds with each other.
The OKC Lightning will play their home games at Taft
Stadium, located at NW 27th and May Ave With kickoff
time for all games being 7:00 PM.
Support women's sports!!!
Calling All Women Golfers!!
(and wannabe golfers)
Herland is organizing a golf outing for all interested women who would like to get together with
others for 18 holes. If you are interested in playing golf with a group some Saturday or Sunday in
June, please email Judy at jawber@lycos.com or
call 721-6578 by May 15th, 2005. She will coordi-
This Month's website of the month is:
http://oklahomawomen.blogspot.com/
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Elie Wiesel to Speak in OKC
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Nobel Peace Prize recipient and world-renowned human
rights activist Elie Wiesel will speak at Oklahoma City University, Wednesday, April 20, at 8 pm, in the Freede Wellness Center, NW 27th and Florida. There is no admission
fee, and seating is first come first served. Wiesel's address is sponsored by the OCU Distinguished Speaker
Series.
Wiesel was fifteen years old when he and his family
were deported to Auschwitz by the Nazis. There, his
mother and younger sister perished, his two older sisters
survived. Elie and his father were later transported to
Buchenwald, where his father died just before the camp
was liberated in April, 1945.
President Jimmy Carter appointed Elie Wiesel Chairman
of the President's Commission on the Holocaust in 1978.
He has received over 100 honorary degrees from institutions of higher learning.
For his literary and human rights activities, he has received numerous awards including the Presidential Medal
of Freedom, the U.S. Congressional Gold Medal and the
Medal of Liberty Award, and the rank of Grand-Croix in
the French Legion of Honor. In 1986, Elie Wiesel won the
Nobel Prize for Peace. A few months later, Marion and
Elie Wiesel established The Elie Wiesel Foundation for
Humanity.
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2312 NW 39th, Oklahoma City, OK 73112. The Voice is offered as an
open forum for community discourse. Articles reflect the opinions of
the author and not necessarily those of Herland Sister Resources.
Unsolicited articles and letters to the editor are welcomed and must
be signed by the writer with full name and address. Upon request,
letters or articles may be printed under a pseudonym or anonymously.
Herland reserves the right to edit or not publish any article. Subscriptions to The Voice are free upon request although a donation is requested to meet publication and distribution costs.
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Friday. April 1: Informal showing of the second season
of The L WORD, at 7 pm. This is a free event.
Friday. April 8: Informal showing of the second season
of The L WORD, at 7 pm. This is a free event.
Saturday, April 9: Herland Hike at Martin Nature
Park, 5000 W. Memorial, 10 am.
Saturday, April 9: "Moved By Words" - Free Herland
poetry workshop 1 to 4 pm. See article page 1.
Saturday. April 9: Herland Supper Club will
meet at Pei Wei Asian Diner for dinner at 5: 15 pm,
followed by Poetry Night at Herland at 7:00 pm.
Pei Wei is located at 1841 Belle Isle Blvd.
Monday. April 11: OGLPC Monthly Meeting at the
Center, 2135 NW 39th, 7 pm.
Friday, April 15: Informal showing of the second season
of The L WORD, at 7 pm. This is a free event.
Saturday. April 16: Badminton at Herland starting at
2pm.
SUnday. April 17: First Book Art workshop at Herland, noon to 3 pm. See article page 1.
Sunday, April 17: Herland Board Meeting at Herland, 4
pm. Everyone welcome.
Monday. Aoril 18: OKC Pride meeting (at The Center,
2135 NW 39th, third Monday of each month at 7:30 pm.).
Friday, April 22: Informal showing of the second season
of The L WORD, at 7 pm. This is a free event.
Saturday. April 23: Herland Video Night, 7 pmfilm to be announced.
Friday. April 29: Informal showing of the second season
of The L WORD, at 7 pm.
Friday. April 29: bell hooks at OSU---see article page 2.
Saturday. April 30: Herland scrabble night, 6 pm.
Your contribution is important! Just $15 a year will
help us pay for the $300+ it costs every month to print
and mail the newsletter.
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October 28-30: Herland Fall Retreat at Eufaula State
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April 2005
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Poetry
II
-A Reply to an
Absent Friend
by Cory Elizabeth Middleton
This time drips
Not slips
As the last few drops
From the faucet
I won't get out until
It falls, drips
Time passing in drips in
Plashes on my toes and
The tops of my feet
Lolling, rolling under the
Faucet
In this room I thought of
Her champagne bubbles
Her silky lingerie
Trite Tonight
By JR
There must be something new to say,
or at least a new way to handle
the same old stuff
that's been around forever,
or at least since Eve
discovered sin and pain
and learned you can live with both
(although I'd rather not).
Love, you, I, love, you ... one thing
leads to another, they say.
But I don't know if love led me to you
or you led me to love or I, loving,
led you down that rutted garden path
and left you there, worrying too much
about the crop of weeds to be able
to see the flowers.
A new way ... must be a way.
It'll be a shame when I-love-you
is finally worn out from having been
hauled out too often from a pocket
of the soul and handed over
as down payment on hire-purchase
happiness.
Repossession's bad for credit ratings
with both the bank and self.
Wishing time would perform
For me that way
In this room
Under this faucet
With water between my toes
Oh God how it goes
From here
Writing for my
Dreaming of my
Bleeding for my
Time to begin
While life plashes on
The tops of my feet
I won't get out until it drips
Or stops
In time I miss her
Smile
Light
Her water laugh
Dripping and plashing on
Her southern men
Latin men
Lingual men
All in lines behind her laugh
And these plashes on my toes
In this room
Have dripped away the
Minutes and days
And the time for work
Is now·
But my mind is full
Of her
Champagne bubbles
Her silky lingerie
Wishing time would
Pass for me
That way
l. .. love ... you ...
there's something encompassing
about those three short words,
and pages of search for an alternative
won't come up with a better foundation
for life - a three syllable poem
of monogometric promise.
I love you.
THE LOVE OF MY UFE
by Becky Jolly
To everything there is a season, or so that's what they say ...... my
Heart has waited for so long to finally meet this day .....
Every night & day I spent just hoping I would meet
the other part of me to make my life become complete.
Longings of the heart are sometimes cursed & sometimes blessed, &
Over all the years, these longings wouldn't give me rest ...... I
Vowed to one day, find some peace to put within my soul, but
Every time I thought I had, I still
was not made whole.
Only God could know the pain & loneliness inside, & give to me
Fulfillment, after everything I tried .....
And all that emptiness that made my heart so cold & bare, was
Merely just a "waiting place" till God could put
You there .. .... .
And now my
Life has meaning; the pain remains to cease, &
In its place, I have a heart of reassuring peace ....
For I was given all the things to make a fresh, new start .. .for
Every part of me is now connected to your heart ...... .
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Poetry
THE BROKEN VESSEL
AND WONDERED IF l'D EVER SEE THE
VESSEL WHOLE AGAIN.
By Becky Jolly
I SAW A TINY VESSEL; PRECIOUS CHINA
FROM AFAR. ...
THE VESSEL, I COULD NOT REPAIR, NO
MATTER HOW I TRIED .. .
SO BEAUTIFUL & FRAGILE ... NOT A
BLEMISH NOR A MAR.
UNABLE NOW TO LAY THE BROKEN BITS
OF IT ASIDE.
I WANTED JUST TO TAKE IT FROM THE
TINY, LITTLE STAND ...
THIS TINY, LITTLE VESSEL HAD
DISTURBED MY ENTIRE LIFE,
AND PULL IT SAFELY NEXT TO ME & HOLD
IT IN MY HAND.
CAUSING ME TO HAVE NO PEACE .. .JUST
CONSTANT, NAGGING STRIFE.
I FELT SO DRAWN TO HOLD IT, BUT NOT
REALLY KNOWING WHY,
I RECALLED THE LITTLE STAND ON
WHICH THE VESSEL LAID,
WHEN THE VESSEL DROPPED &
SHATTERED ... THEN I BEGAN TO CRY.
AND WENT BACK TO THE PLACE WHERE I
KNEW IT HAD BEEN MADE ....
I SLOWLY WALKED TOWARDS IT, NOW
PIECES EVERYWHERE,
THE ONE WHO MADE THE VESSEL WAS
STANDING AT THE DOOR,
AND PICKED THEM UP, EACH ONE BY
ONE. .. MY INSIDES FEELING BARE.
AND SEEMED TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I
HAD COME THERE FOR. ...
THE TINY, LITTLE VESSEL I COULD NOW
NO LONGER SEE. ..
MEEKLY, I WALKED UP TO HIM, A LITTLE
BIT AFRAID,
BUT WITH LOVE, I CLUTCHED THE PIECES
RIGHT UP NEXT TO ME.
AND HANDED HIM THE PIECES OF THE
VESSEL HE HAD MADE.
NOT REALLY UNDERSTANDING
THE CONNECTION THAT WAS MADE,
HE TOOK THE PIECES, ONE BY ONE AND
HELD THEM IN HIS HAND ...
CONFUSION AND UNCERTAINTY MADE
EMOTIONS SLOWLY FADE.
THEN PLACED THE VESSEL, WHOLE AND
NEW BACK ON ITS LITTLE STAND.
I WASN'T SURE WHAT ALL THE PIECES I
WAS HOLDING MEANT,
AS I BEHELD THE BEAUTY I HAD SEEN SO
LONG AGO,
BUT I CARRIED EVERY PIECE WITH ME,
EVERYWHERE I WENT.
THE MAKER LOOKED AT ME AND SAID,
"NOW YOUR HEART CAN GROW,
I HID THEM IN MY POCKETS AND
NEVER TOLD A SOUL,
FOR ALL THE PIECES YOU HAVE HELD
WERE ALL JUST PARTS OF YOU,
BUT LONGED TO SEE THE VESSEL MADE
COMPLETE AND WHOLE.
AND BECAUSE YOU GAVE THEM ALL TO
ME, I HAVE MADE YOU NEW."
I ADMIRED THE TINY PIECES AS l'D HOLD
THEM IN MY HAND,
"Taken Awayn
by Stephanie Foote
The separation is startling
nothing can stop it
in the blink of an eye
never ending thoughts race the mind
too painful to think about
too wonderful to have to end,
No sound or smell
a whole new surrounding
Something is missing
it's out of touch
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So far away
waiting and wondering
if it will ever come back
A final decision
for total separation.
April 2005
the Herland Voice
Poetry
Hollywood circa 1650
Judas-like KISS
by Lila Pettyjohn
by M.E.C.
Sometimes I feel like you don't hear what I say, It's like when I
fall to my knees and I pray,
The words hit the ceiling or go into the floor. It's like you don't
want to know or hear what I'm saying nomore.
The churches are preaching that I cannot love, if it's not in
accordance with what they preach from above.
God will not hear any words from your mind, and praying to
God is just wasting of time.
God is not love he hates faggots, not whores, he hates gay men
and women, but not the spiritually poor,
He hates sodomites, lesbians, transgendered and queer, but the
adulterous fornicators, who are straight, He will hear.
Proud sinners of Satan that's what we are called, Smoke of our
incense to his nostrils applaud.
Only straight haters of faggots will be in Heaven above, Only
straight haters of faggots really know what is love.
Love is not for us people who are doomed in our sin, but my
question is simple: How does your love begin?
The stars sparkle
Like shattered glass
On the moonless night
Over a sea of grass
Which hisses from the passing air
Redolent with scents so fair
Of pine wood, sage and other rare
And wondrous smells
Not found where mankind dwells.
The cloak of darkness swells
To engulf the prairie where deer sleep
And rabbits leap
And creatures of the night creep
Out of hiding to greet their day
And make their way
Through the grass
In search of prey.
Thank You
by JR
It was only a kiss in celebration ...
of what? I don't remember The dawning of another year?
the ending of December?
I know my love is easy, we just treat people right, and resist all
the arrows in this spiritual fight.
Two friends, not lovers-safe and warm,
compatible and fun .
I'm not sure where it comes from, my strength to resist, but I
don't think it came from the Judas-like kiss.
A resting place from pain when the ties
that bound my life came undone.
How do I say •••
I'd wrapped myself in a synthetic shell
around, below, above .. .
by Anita Sullivan
How do I say...
Words can't describe,
You open my thoughts,
That I meticulously hide.
Miles away,
yet, you have this gift,
To make me smile,
My spirits lift.
You brighten my day,
You warm me deeply,
How do I say .. .
That you complete me!
But, in that moment, that touch, that kiss,
I remembered love.
Untitled
by Diedra Murray
I WROTE DOWN YOUR STORY, HOW TIGHTLY WOUND OUR MINDS
THE WAY YOU PROTECTED ME WHEN YOU SAW I WAS WOUNDED,
YOUR SOOTHING VOICE LIKE VELVET DRAPED ACROSS MY HEART
HOW YOU MADE A PERMANENT PATH
YET YOU WOULDN'T LET ME UNDO THE HURT OR UNTANGLE OUR LIVES
THE BRIEF MOMENT WHEN YOU ACCIDENTLY LET ME STEP IN
AND HOW WE LAUGHED AT HOW EASY IT IS TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE
WHEN EVERYTHING, EVEN RAIN, WAS WHY
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NOW THAT I AM ALONE
by M.E.C.
Now that I am alone
I walk with the arms of life around my waist
The only thing
The head of wisdom on my shoulder
by Peggy Johnson
The feet of adventure in step with my steps.
The only thing
you have to be jealous of
is Death itself
Which will steal me away from you
so clean and complete
You won't know what hit you
The arms of life hold me securely
The head of wisdom tells me all things
The feet of adventure keep me company
Down the road of the rest of my days.
Untitled
It won't be like all those other lovers
who took my attention
and my time
and pieces of my heart.
by LaRue Starr
I feel our love settling in
Becoming sure-footed on a path
That becomes more familiar with each hike,
A road traveled frequently,
Your body becoming accustomed to my touch,
Knowing with confidence
That it will take you where you want to go.
Death
The possessive lover
The all-consuming,
smothering co-dependent.
I feel our love settling in
There is no need to fear
another broken heart.
You will join me
eventually
in Death
Like a favorite pair of jeans,
Soft, worn and fitting just right,
We fit together like spoons with circling arms
And walk in step,
Our hips swaying
To the beat of an inner rhythm.
Or I, you,
According to its will.
I feel our love settling in
And know the confidence
That comes with the trust that is building,
The feelings that are deepening,
And the joy that we're sharing
As our love settles in.
For I, too, find myself
Being jealous at Death
Which will take you
from me
Without so much
as a request
much less
a permission slip
or a deference to our love.
Untitled
by LaRue Starr
I stay
And yet I wonder if to go
Is not an answer,
To hermitize, retreat
Someplace where moods are mists
Instead of downpours.
Perhaps a nod
Or a tip of the hat?
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Poetry
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THE MOON LETS I N ENOUGH
Crisco
by Deidra Murray
by Denise Fox
Its easy to identify the beginning of a storm,
The thick air blocking your view,
This night is not long enough
To fit your dreams
You say: no regrets:
But I wonder
The wariness of bittersweet
A familiar taste
The heat of jazz rises between my legs
When desire came- beforeWithout explanation
My history a flame beneath my heart
When mystery was a cheap book
When the mind becomes a traitor
To desire,
Each detail tearing love apart,
A crisis of belief
Life was a riot, a howl,
Not a yawn,
Or middle of the night flight.
There was a later
And whether it ever existed
Is beside the point,
The moon lets in enough light.
Life was jazz, not opera.
That Crisco - what a player!
She muscles her way inside the lane,
dislodging thin women left and right.
Lauded silly farm girl were you hurt when you found
out that your appellation was an insult?
Or did you laugh at yourself like the others?
You sure took one for the team,
sacrificing your heart on a bed
of fruit cocktail,
you waited.
Surely he'll come tonight.. ..
Marriage, sigh ... the true endurance sport ... .
Psyching yourself up with sexy negligee,
you check into the game, but your opponent plays dirty.
Quarters 1,2, and 3 come and go.
Pleading with the referee, you cry,
'What is wrong with me? Am I so ugly?"
But your private sobs convince no one,
not even you. The game ends
with a score of husband - sane: wife losing her mind.
Secretly you wonder what your name is,
and like all old sports legends,
you corner anyone who will listen "They called me Crisco."
Little Foot
By Tex
Coming out of Wal-Mart,
a little girl I see.
She's holding a kitten,
she's looking at me.
A smile on her lips
and hope in her eyes,
she holds the kitten out to me.
It's Free-
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I just can't say no,
I think,
as I take the ball of fluff.
Just what I need,
another Little One.
The little thing
cuddles in my arms
and purrs the biggest purr
I have ever heard.
It is night now,
sleep is hard for me.
Its lonely in this bed
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that used to hold two.
A little ball of fluff,
too light to dent the covers,
comes to me.
He curls his little body
into my hand,
the one she used to put
her head on.
My hand warms,
and so does my heart.
Then the purred lullaby starts.
Well, maybe I do
need another little one,
I think, as I drift off to sleep.
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My Healing Place
By Tex
Pain, my heart aches.
Once there were two,
now only one.
The Pain.
I find myself walking.
my mind is full of words,
painful words,
words said by the one
I gave my heart to.
Heartache.
I walk, the sun warms me.
The wind softly caresses my face.
My steps are heavy,
the weight of loneliness is great.
I must go to my healing place.
The trees close in around me,
their leaves shading me.
The sun's light touches me
every now and then.
I am still here, it says.
A path I take, a path barely seen.
To the crest of a ravine,
then down almost to the bottom, I go.
I settle on a big flat rock.
Land of Perpetual Fear
It sings: listen to me.
This is the place to be.
Leave your pain with me.
It will pass, you'll see.
Soon your heart will be free.
by Donna J. High
Quietly the pain awakes me
Silently my eyes search empty space
As pain reaches into my soul
This pain of the midnight air
I am at peace.
Here, hurting words
have no meaning.
Here the pain flows out.
Here I am not lonely.
I am one.
The caress of the wind has stopped
The warmth of street lights dim
The wish of stars retreats
And my body rebels with fear
The wind touches me again,
setting the leaves in motion.
The sun's light slips through
and dances on the water.
You must come back to the world,
The glimmering light says.
I sigh as I rise,
my ache will return, I say,
as I turn back to the world .
But, not as bad as before,
the water says.
And, when the pain
becomes too much to bear,
come back to me,
Your healing place.
Quietly I sit.
It's cool here
quiet, too.
The sound of wind whispers through the trees.
Mother's windy fingers ruffle my hair.
Her whisper quiets the hurtful words
running in my mind.
I need you now this silent night
I need your arms to comfort
And you are gone so far away
With pain instead my companion
Time to wear the mask again
The mask of eternal smiles
And try to protect the heart once more
From this land of perpetual fear
Copyright © Donna J. High
From "Confessions"
by JR
I'm not much good
at reality.
My special brand of talent is
a particular form of cowardice
perfected in a vain attempt
to be the Me
that others see.
"Imagine"
by Stephanie Foote
I sit,
lonely and in pain,
wondering, will it ever go away?
Our imagination is the most
important faculty we possess.
It can be our greatest resource
or our most formidable misfortune.
It is thro.ugh our imagination that
we find possibilities and options.
Imagination is the deepest voice
of the soul,
and can be heard clearly, only,
through guidance and careful attention.
A relationship with our imagination
is a relationship
with our deepest self.
Silence closes around me.
A rhythm, a small sound.
a tiny wonder I hear.
Water,
a soft melody it makes
as it travels on its way.
Its slow beat reaches me,
Soothing me like a lullaby.
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Ode to a Small Feline
by Donna J. High
The Plunge
By Paula Sophia
You may say that I am getting ready to take a plunge,
a lunge straight into hell...
I might as well jump off the Empire State Building ...
But I say that wouldn't be so bad
a good time could be had,
and right now as I contemplate the trip
I feel the pull of gravity ... magnetic
a gigantic force that I no longer have the will to fight.
It ignites a curiosity
enticing me to see if I could survive such a dramatic dive
into what might be - oblivion ...
Or I might get caught up in the weather and float like a feather
in the drafty winds that blow about,
here and there,
up and down,
hovering above the town where the lights twinkle bright
a delight to my sight.. .calming my fright
as I lean further than sanity allows ...
I rele~se my grasp to embrace my fateI'm not sure what kind of trip I'll have ...
\; Such is life ...
Could it be terminal, an enc;I initself?
Or could it be something like eternity - sl.lsp~nded in a moment forever ,in a breath, < ·
nothing like Heath orJife
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Worshipped in Egypt
Jn past centuries
Now parked on top
My computer
Japanese believed the calico
A good luck symbol
For me I now see you
Questionable critter
Splashed with many colors
Glowing eyes ofgolden beams
Does mystery lie behind those?
Small demi-dreamer
Sporting with me you actually dare
Antiques bite the dust again
Food changed, again and again
Whatever her oneriness pleases
A thousand and one meows I hear
As you mirror my voice in time
We travel together, but just out of reach
My furfYr elusive companion
Once in a while, a great while it's true
You actually seem to be trying
To understand this human owner
Who feeds and houses and loves you
Most of the time, but an overseer
Moving from room to room
Behind me you watch and anticipate
Before dropping into sleep contentment
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You would approve
I'm sure
Of what I attribute
To you
rd
I saw you at the windo~, on the 83 floor.
I heard youjell,
"How's your trip to hell?"
And I yell back,
the wind engulfing my lungs
riding the breeze,
feeling the ease as the burden of decision gets left behind.
"I don't know," I scream. "But the view looks good from here"
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CATNAP
by M.E.C.
Tell me, what do cats dream of?
Do they dream of feline love?
Do they watch the sky above
For robins, wrens or the turtledove?
When their whiskers twitch, then their feet
Are they chasing some good thing to eat?
Or washing their fur so they'll be neat
When they awake from slumber and retreat
From dreams of feline love
And that elusive turtledove?
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Hopes and Dreams
By CJohnson
I have so many hopes and dreams for our present and our future.
I hope the small farmer will still have a place to farm and be able to sell his
crops and animals without the big corporate farms driving him out of business.
I dream car manufacturers will break away from the wants of big oil and
develop more vehicles which use alternative and renewable sources of energy.
I hope we quit confusing weapons with liberty and make ourselves a little bit safer
by overcoming our fears.
I dream of the day when we all feel valued just for being ourselves. A day when
plastic surgery is only used by those whose health is compromised, because we
are all secure in our own self worth.
I hope I live to see the day when the masses are motivated by a genuine caring
for each other instead of greed on a daily basis not just during times of crises.
I dream of people having an open dialogue with one another, through this we
will achieve tolerance and acceptance of each others differences.
I hope we get past the medias lies; learn how to live happily without creating so
much waste.
I dream of peace and justice for all. Each of us has the same wants and needs.
I hope we can do away with labels, look underneath the wealth or poverty, realize
it doesn't matter what color someone is, what church they go to, who they voted for or
even who they love. These things do not define that individual.
When we can do all of that we will have realized there is no us and them. just us.
Just us. Just us for all.
Justice for all.
Mohandas K Gandhi once said " You must be the change you wish to see in
the world."
So this woman is working on her hopes and dreams one day at a time.
I hope others will see that I am, and share my dreams with me.
Happiness
is love;
is a friend;
is the fullness of silence;
is time-without-end
Together.
How I resent the secret
uncommissioned campaigns
of the depths of my mind.
Battles for sanity, so I'm told;
but in the sweeping siege
to clear my mind of that
not easily borne
have been dashed those moments
that made all things
bearable.
Love Which
Laughs
by Donna J. High
Your eyes hold the ,
twinkle of mischief
The breath of your
soul seems to live there
Metapoetry Samples
Words flow
From heart
To head
To paper
Byes watch
Themind
Move forth
Jn time
Quick record
Before they
Are forgotten
And gone
Truth living
On theedge
When privacy
Is lost
Words flow
From head
To heart
To paper
Editing time
To reflect
To perfect
to question. ..
The rise of yellow
Energy and power
The evergreen of
Life peeks through cues
I gasp at the
Palette of this world
For I'm held by the
Power of those eyes
So drifting, half dreaming
Astonished by the love
To feel laughter
Escape with a gasp
Copyright© Donna J. High
. Copyright © Donna J. High
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and Herland has several poetry events
planned.
First, this April issue of the Herland Voice is devoted primarily to poetry from our very own community.
Secondly, Herland is hosting "Moved by Words",
a workshop in creating and appreciating poetry:
Saturday April 9, 2005, 1 - 4 pm at Herland. This
workshop uses movement, meditation and poetry to
connect with self and others. Participants will write
their own poetry, contribute to group poems, and
share their poetry at the evening's HERLAND poetry
gathering. Our workshop facilitator is Carol Davis
Koss, a well-known and respected Oklahoma poet.
This FREE Workshop is limited to 15 participants, so please call Her/and at 405/5219696 to reserve your place, or email herlandsisters@cox.net with "Poetry Workshop" on
the subject line.
Finally, there will be a Poetry Gathering at Herland
at 7:30 pm Saturday evening, April 9, 2005. Participants from the workshop will be encouraged to share
their poetry and all other members of the community,
especially those who have contributed to the Voice,
are welcome to participate also. This will follow our
monthly Supper Club, which will meet and dine at Pei
Wei Asian Diner.
Book Art Classes at Herland
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erland will be offering a series of 6 book art
classes from noon to 3 pm on the following
Sundays: April 17 & 24; May 1 & 22; June
12 & 19.
The classes will be taught by esteemed local artist,
Connie Seabourn who says "I believe that the interest
in book art has been growing for some time. There
was a thesis on book art that presented some statistics about how female artists dominate this field (and
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speculation as to why). There are many ways that
this particular art form would especially promote emotional health and social bonding. I love books and
visual art, and this combines both."
Pre-registration is required. Tuition (which benefits
Herland) is $20.00 per class or $100.00 for all 6
classes if paid in advance-which gets you one class
free. The classes are limited to 10 students, so register early. Supplies will cost about $20.00-or as
much more as you care to spend. Once registered,
you will receive information about purchasing supplies.
To register, call (405) 521-9696 and give your
name and a number where you can be reached or
email Herland at: herlandsisters@cox.net.
Tuition can be mailed to Herland Sister Resources,
2312 NW 39th, OKC, OK 73112, or brought by Herland on Saturdays between 1 and 5 pm.
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Retreat, May 13 -:-- 15 at Roman Nose State
Park. Pre-registration is due by May 61h - see
registration form on page 2. Accommodations include rustic group cabins with bunk beds, a group
bath house with restrooms and hot showers, and a
meeting hall with group kitchen. Meals include a
light Friday night supper, Saturday breakfast, Saturday lunch on your own, Saturday evening potluck
(bring a dish to share) and Sunday morning breakfast.
There is always a lot to do during this weekend getaway, including tent camping, horseback riding,
workshops, bird and nature hikes, Frisbee, softball,
Scrabble, Trivia Pursuit and many other games. We
also have campfire gatherings for stories, singing and
roasting marshmallows and an open mike for poetry,
singing or other tafent.
The Saturday night concert will feature the band Iris
and Sharlene will do a workshop on personality, Sat.
at 10:00 am, focusing on temperament types.
Your early registration helps our volunteers plan
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Football Schedule
Welcome!!
All games start at 7:00 pm
bell hooks to speak
April 16th-OKC Lightning@ KC Krunch
April 23rd - BYE
April 30th - Austin Outlaws @ OKC Lightning
May 14th -OKC Lightning@ Denton Stampede
May 21 - Dallas Rage@OKC Lightning
May 281h - OKC Lightning @ Austin Outlaws
June 4th - Denton Stampede @ OKC Lightning
June 11th - OKC Lightning @ Dallas Rage
June 18th - Denton Stampede @ OKC Lightning
The Oklahoma State University Women's Studies Program invites you to a lecture by bell hooks, 7pm, Tuesday,
March 29, 2005, in the Student Union Little Theatre, in
Stillwater. Ms. hooks will speak on the topic of "Creating
the Beloved Community: Ending Domination". The lecture
is free and open to the public; for more information contact
Trish Long at 405-744-7575
bell hooks is an internationally recognized author and
lecturer. She will discuss issues of gender, race, class, and
culture in her talk. While known primarily as a feminist
thinker, hooks is well known for her interdisciplinary writings on a number of topics including gender, race, class,
culture, teaching, and the significance of media for contemporary culture. Her work emphasizes the interconnectedness of these issues, especially the myriad forms of racism
and sexism, both subtle and blatant, in the United States.
Centering her arguments on the black female experience,
hooks has thrown down the gauntlet to both the feminist
and antiracist movements, which have historically been at
odds with each other.
The OKC Lightning will play their home games at Taft
Stadium, located at NW 27th and May Ave With kickoff
time for all games being 7:00 PM.
Support women's sports!!!
Calling All Women Golfers!!
(and wannabe golfers)
Herland is organizing a golf outing for all interested women who would like to get together with
others for 18 holes. If you are interested in playing golf with a group some Saturday or Sunday in
June, please email Judy at jawber@lycos.com or
call 721-6578 by May 15th, 2005. She will coordi-
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Wiesel was fifteen years old when he and his family
were deported to Auschwitz by the Nazis. There, his
mother and younger sister perished, his two older sisters
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of Freedom, the U.S. Congressional Gold Medal and the
Medal of Liberty Award, and the rank of Grand-Croix in
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of The L WORD, at 7 pm. This is a free event.
Friday. April 8: Informal showing of the second season
of The L WORD, at 7 pm. This is a free event.
Saturday, April 9: Herland Hike at Martin Nature
Park, 5000 W. Memorial, 10 am.
Saturday, April 9: "Moved By Words" - Free Herland
poetry workshop 1 to 4 pm. See article page 1.
Saturday. April 9: Herland Supper Club will
meet at Pei Wei Asian Diner for dinner at 5: 15 pm,
followed by Poetry Night at Herland at 7:00 pm.
Pei Wei is located at 1841 Belle Isle Blvd.
Monday. April 11: OGLPC Monthly Meeting at the
Center, 2135 NW 39th, 7 pm.
Friday, April 15: Informal showing of the second season
of The L WORD, at 7 pm. This is a free event.
Saturday. April 16: Badminton at Herland starting at
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SUnday. April 17: First Book Art workshop at Herland, noon to 3 pm. See article page 1.
Sunday, April 17: Herland Board Meeting at Herland, 4
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Monday. Aoril 18: OKC Pride meeting (at The Center,
2135 NW 39th, third Monday of each month at 7:30 pm.).
Friday, April 22: Informal showing of the second season
of The L WORD, at 7 pm. This is a free event.
Saturday. April 23: Herland Video Night, 7 pmfilm to be announced.
Friday. April 29: Informal showing of the second season
of The L WORD, at 7 pm.
Friday. April 29: bell hooks at OSU---see article page 2.
Saturday. April 30: Herland scrabble night, 6 pm.
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-A Reply to an
Absent Friend
by Cory Elizabeth Middleton
This time drips
Not slips
As the last few drops
From the faucet
I won't get out until
It falls, drips
Time passing in drips in
Plashes on my toes and
The tops of my feet
Lolling, rolling under the
Faucet
In this room I thought of
Her champagne bubbles
Her silky lingerie
Trite Tonight
By JR
There must be something new to say,
or at least a new way to handle
the same old stuff
that's been around forever,
or at least since Eve
discovered sin and pain
and learned you can live with both
(although I'd rather not).
Love, you, I, love, you ... one thing
leads to another, they say.
But I don't know if love led me to you
or you led me to love or I, loving,
led you down that rutted garden path
and left you there, worrying too much
about the crop of weeds to be able
to see the flowers.
A new way ... must be a way.
It'll be a shame when I-love-you
is finally worn out from having been
hauled out too often from a pocket
of the soul and handed over
as down payment on hire-purchase
happiness.
Repossession's bad for credit ratings
with both the bank and self.
Wishing time would perform
For me that way
In this room
Under this faucet
With water between my toes
Oh God how it goes
From here
Writing for my
Dreaming of my
Bleeding for my
Time to begin
While life plashes on
The tops of my feet
I won't get out until it drips
Or stops
In time I miss her
Smile
Light
Her water laugh
Dripping and plashing on
Her southern men
Latin men
Lingual men
All in lines behind her laugh
And these plashes on my toes
In this room
Have dripped away the
Minutes and days
And the time for work
Is now·
But my mind is full
Of her
Champagne bubbles
Her silky lingerie
Wishing time would
Pass for me
That way
l. .. love ... you ...
there's something encompassing
about those three short words,
and pages of search for an alternative
won't come up with a better foundation
for life - a three syllable poem
of monogometric promise.
I love you.
THE LOVE OF MY UFE
by Becky Jolly
To everything there is a season, or so that's what they say ...... my
Heart has waited for so long to finally meet this day .....
Every night & day I spent just hoping I would meet
the other part of me to make my life become complete.
Longings of the heart are sometimes cursed & sometimes blessed, &
Over all the years, these longings wouldn't give me rest ...... I
Vowed to one day, find some peace to put within my soul, but
Every time I thought I had, I still
was not made whole.
Only God could know the pain & loneliness inside, & give to me
Fulfillment, after everything I tried .....
And all that emptiness that made my heart so cold & bare, was
Merely just a "waiting place" till God could put
You there .. .... .
And now my
Life has meaning; the pain remains to cease, &
In its place, I have a heart of reassuring peace ....
For I was given all the things to make a fresh, new start .. .for
Every part of me is now connected to your heart ...... .
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THE BROKEN VESSEL
AND WONDERED IF l'D EVER SEE THE
VESSEL WHOLE AGAIN.
By Becky Jolly
I SAW A TINY VESSEL; PRECIOUS CHINA
FROM AFAR. ...
THE VESSEL, I COULD NOT REPAIR, NO
MATTER HOW I TRIED .. .
SO BEAUTIFUL & FRAGILE ... NOT A
BLEMISH NOR A MAR.
UNABLE NOW TO LAY THE BROKEN BITS
OF IT ASIDE.
I WANTED JUST TO TAKE IT FROM THE
TINY, LITTLE STAND ...
THIS TINY, LITTLE VESSEL HAD
DISTURBED MY ENTIRE LIFE,
AND PULL IT SAFELY NEXT TO ME & HOLD
IT IN MY HAND.
CAUSING ME TO HAVE NO PEACE .. .JUST
CONSTANT, NAGGING STRIFE.
I FELT SO DRAWN TO HOLD IT, BUT NOT
REALLY KNOWING WHY,
I RECALLED THE LITTLE STAND ON
WHICH THE VESSEL LAID,
WHEN THE VESSEL DROPPED &
SHATTERED ... THEN I BEGAN TO CRY.
AND WENT BACK TO THE PLACE WHERE I
KNEW IT HAD BEEN MADE ....
I SLOWLY WALKED TOWARDS IT, NOW
PIECES EVERYWHERE,
THE ONE WHO MADE THE VESSEL WAS
STANDING AT THE DOOR,
AND PICKED THEM UP, EACH ONE BY
ONE. .. MY INSIDES FEELING BARE.
AND SEEMED TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I
HAD COME THERE FOR. ...
THE TINY, LITTLE VESSEL I COULD NOW
NO LONGER SEE. ..
MEEKLY, I WALKED UP TO HIM, A LITTLE
BIT AFRAID,
BUT WITH LOVE, I CLUTCHED THE PIECES
RIGHT UP NEXT TO ME.
AND HANDED HIM THE PIECES OF THE
VESSEL HE HAD MADE.
NOT REALLY UNDERSTANDING
THE CONNECTION THAT WAS MADE,
HE TOOK THE PIECES, ONE BY ONE AND
HELD THEM IN HIS HAND ...
CONFUSION AND UNCERTAINTY MADE
EMOTIONS SLOWLY FADE.
THEN PLACED THE VESSEL, WHOLE AND
NEW BACK ON ITS LITTLE STAND.
I WASN'T SURE WHAT ALL THE PIECES I
WAS HOLDING MEANT,
AS I BEHELD THE BEAUTY I HAD SEEN SO
LONG AGO,
BUT I CARRIED EVERY PIECE WITH ME,
EVERYWHERE I WENT.
THE MAKER LOOKED AT ME AND SAID,
"NOW YOUR HEART CAN GROW,
I HID THEM IN MY POCKETS AND
NEVER TOLD A SOUL,
FOR ALL THE PIECES YOU HAVE HELD
WERE ALL JUST PARTS OF YOU,
BUT LONGED TO SEE THE VESSEL MADE
COMPLETE AND WHOLE.
AND BECAUSE YOU GAVE THEM ALL TO
ME, I HAVE MADE YOU NEW."
I ADMIRED THE TINY PIECES AS l'D HOLD
THEM IN MY HAND,
"Taken Awayn
by Stephanie Foote
The separation is startling
nothing can stop it
in the blink of an eye
never ending thoughts race the mind
too painful to think about
too wonderful to have to end,
No sound or smell
a whole new surrounding
Something is missing
it's out of touch
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So far away
waiting and wondering
if it will ever come back
A final decision
for total separation.
April 2005
the Herland Voice
Poetry
Hollywood circa 1650
Judas-like KISS
by Lila Pettyjohn
by M.E.C.
Sometimes I feel like you don't hear what I say, It's like when I
fall to my knees and I pray,
The words hit the ceiling or go into the floor. It's like you don't
want to know or hear what I'm saying nomore.
The churches are preaching that I cannot love, if it's not in
accordance with what they preach from above.
God will not hear any words from your mind, and praying to
God is just wasting of time.
God is not love he hates faggots, not whores, he hates gay men
and women, but not the spiritually poor,
He hates sodomites, lesbians, transgendered and queer, but the
adulterous fornicators, who are straight, He will hear.
Proud sinners of Satan that's what we are called, Smoke of our
incense to his nostrils applaud.
Only straight haters of faggots will be in Heaven above, Only
straight haters of faggots really know what is love.
Love is not for us people who are doomed in our sin, but my
question is simple: How does your love begin?
The stars sparkle
Like shattered glass
On the moonless night
Over a sea of grass
Which hisses from the passing air
Redolent with scents so fair
Of pine wood, sage and other rare
And wondrous smells
Not found where mankind dwells.
The cloak of darkness swells
To engulf the prairie where deer sleep
And rabbits leap
And creatures of the night creep
Out of hiding to greet their day
And make their way
Through the grass
In search of prey.
Thank You
by JR
It was only a kiss in celebration ...
of what? I don't remember The dawning of another year?
the ending of December?
I know my love is easy, we just treat people right, and resist all
the arrows in this spiritual fight.
Two friends, not lovers-safe and warm,
compatible and fun .
I'm not sure where it comes from, my strength to resist, but I
don't think it came from the Judas-like kiss.
A resting place from pain when the ties
that bound my life came undone.
How do I say •••
I'd wrapped myself in a synthetic shell
around, below, above .. .
by Anita Sullivan
How do I say...
Words can't describe,
You open my thoughts,
That I meticulously hide.
Miles away,
yet, you have this gift,
To make me smile,
My spirits lift.
You brighten my day,
You warm me deeply,
How do I say .. .
That you complete me!
But, in that moment, that touch, that kiss,
I remembered love.
Untitled
by Diedra Murray
I WROTE DOWN YOUR STORY, HOW TIGHTLY WOUND OUR MINDS
THE WAY YOU PROTECTED ME WHEN YOU SAW I WAS WOUNDED,
YOUR SOOTHING VOICE LIKE VELVET DRAPED ACROSS MY HEART
HOW YOU MADE A PERMANENT PATH
YET YOU WOULDN'T LET ME UNDO THE HURT OR UNTANGLE OUR LIVES
THE BRIEF MOMENT WHEN YOU ACCIDENTLY LET ME STEP IN
AND HOW WE LAUGHED AT HOW EASY IT IS TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE
WHEN EVERYTHING, EVEN RAIN, WAS WHY
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NOW THAT I AM ALONE
by M.E.C.
Now that I am alone
I walk with the arms of life around my waist
The only thing
The head of wisdom on my shoulder
by Peggy Johnson
The feet of adventure in step with my steps.
The only thing
you have to be jealous of
is Death itself
Which will steal me away from you
so clean and complete
You won't know what hit you
The arms of life hold me securely
The head of wisdom tells me all things
The feet of adventure keep me company
Down the road of the rest of my days.
Untitled
It won't be like all those other lovers
who took my attention
and my time
and pieces of my heart.
by LaRue Starr
I feel our love settling in
Becoming sure-footed on a path
That becomes more familiar with each hike,
A road traveled frequently,
Your body becoming accustomed to my touch,
Knowing with confidence
That it will take you where you want to go.
Death
The possessive lover
The all-consuming,
smothering co-dependent.
I feel our love settling in
There is no need to fear
another broken heart.
You will join me
eventually
in Death
Like a favorite pair of jeans,
Soft, worn and fitting just right,
We fit together like spoons with circling arms
And walk in step,
Our hips swaying
To the beat of an inner rhythm.
Or I, you,
According to its will.
I feel our love settling in
And know the confidence
That comes with the trust that is building,
The feelings that are deepening,
And the joy that we're sharing
As our love settles in.
For I, too, find myself
Being jealous at Death
Which will take you
from me
Without so much
as a request
much less
a permission slip
or a deference to our love.
Untitled
by LaRue Starr
I stay
And yet I wonder if to go
Is not an answer,
To hermitize, retreat
Someplace where moods are mists
Instead of downpours.
Perhaps a nod
Or a tip of the hat?
I/
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April 2005
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Poetry
II
THE MOON LETS I N ENOUGH
Crisco
by Deidra Murray
by Denise Fox
Its easy to identify the beginning of a storm,
The thick air blocking your view,
This night is not long enough
To fit your dreams
You say: no regrets:
But I wonder
The wariness of bittersweet
A familiar taste
The heat of jazz rises between my legs
When desire came- beforeWithout explanation
My history a flame beneath my heart
When mystery was a cheap book
When the mind becomes a traitor
To desire,
Each detail tearing love apart,
A crisis of belief
Life was a riot, a howl,
Not a yawn,
Or middle of the night flight.
There was a later
And whether it ever existed
Is beside the point,
The moon lets in enough light.
Life was jazz, not opera.
That Crisco - what a player!
She muscles her way inside the lane,
dislodging thin women left and right.
Lauded silly farm girl were you hurt when you found
out that your appellation was an insult?
Or did you laugh at yourself like the others?
You sure took one for the team,
sacrificing your heart on a bed
of fruit cocktail,
you waited.
Surely he'll come tonight.. ..
Marriage, sigh ... the true endurance sport ... .
Psyching yourself up with sexy negligee,
you check into the game, but your opponent plays dirty.
Quarters 1,2, and 3 come and go.
Pleading with the referee, you cry,
'What is wrong with me? Am I so ugly?"
But your private sobs convince no one,
not even you. The game ends
with a score of husband - sane: wife losing her mind.
Secretly you wonder what your name is,
and like all old sports legends,
you corner anyone who will listen "They called me Crisco."
Little Foot
By Tex
Coming out of Wal-Mart,
a little girl I see.
She's holding a kitten,
she's looking at me.
A smile on her lips
and hope in her eyes,
she holds the kitten out to me.
It's Free-
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I just can't say no,
I think,
as I take the ball of fluff.
Just what I need,
another Little One.
The little thing
cuddles in my arms
and purrs the biggest purr
I have ever heard.
It is night now,
sleep is hard for me.
Its lonely in this bed
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that used to hold two.
A little ball of fluff,
too light to dent the covers,
comes to me.
He curls his little body
into my hand,
the one she used to put
her head on.
My hand warms,
and so does my heart.
Then the purred lullaby starts.
Well, maybe I do
need another little one,
I think, as I drift off to sleep.
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Poetry
II
My Healing Place
By Tex
Pain, my heart aches.
Once there were two,
now only one.
The Pain.
I find myself walking.
my mind is full of words,
painful words,
words said by the one
I gave my heart to.
Heartache.
I walk, the sun warms me.
The wind softly caresses my face.
My steps are heavy,
the weight of loneliness is great.
I must go to my healing place.
The trees close in around me,
their leaves shading me.
The sun's light touches me
every now and then.
I am still here, it says.
A path I take, a path barely seen.
To the crest of a ravine,
then down almost to the bottom, I go.
I settle on a big flat rock.
Land of Perpetual Fear
It sings: listen to me.
This is the place to be.
Leave your pain with me.
It will pass, you'll see.
Soon your heart will be free.
by Donna J. High
Quietly the pain awakes me
Silently my eyes search empty space
As pain reaches into my soul
This pain of the midnight air
I am at peace.
Here, hurting words
have no meaning.
Here the pain flows out.
Here I am not lonely.
I am one.
The caress of the wind has stopped
The warmth of street lights dim
The wish of stars retreats
And my body rebels with fear
The wind touches me again,
setting the leaves in motion.
The sun's light slips through
and dances on the water.
You must come back to the world,
The glimmering light says.
I sigh as I rise,
my ache will return, I say,
as I turn back to the world .
But, not as bad as before,
the water says.
And, when the pain
becomes too much to bear,
come back to me,
Your healing place.
Quietly I sit.
It's cool here
quiet, too.
The sound of wind whispers through the trees.
Mother's windy fingers ruffle my hair.
Her whisper quiets the hurtful words
running in my mind.
I need you now this silent night
I need your arms to comfort
And you are gone so far away
With pain instead my companion
Time to wear the mask again
The mask of eternal smiles
And try to protect the heart once more
From this land of perpetual fear
Copyright © Donna J. High
From "Confessions"
by JR
I'm not much good
at reality.
My special brand of talent is
a particular form of cowardice
perfected in a vain attempt
to be the Me
that others see.
"Imagine"
by Stephanie Foote
I sit,
lonely and in pain,
wondering, will it ever go away?
Our imagination is the most
important faculty we possess.
It can be our greatest resource
or our most formidable misfortune.
It is thro.ugh our imagination that
we find possibilities and options.
Imagination is the deepest voice
of the soul,
and can be heard clearly, only,
through guidance and careful attention.
A relationship with our imagination
is a relationship
with our deepest self.
Silence closes around me.
A rhythm, a small sound.
a tiny wonder I hear.
Water,
a soft melody it makes
as it travels on its way.
Its slow beat reaches me,
Soothing me like a lullaby.
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the Herland Voice
Poetry
II
Ode to a Small Feline
by Donna J. High
The Plunge
By Paula Sophia
You may say that I am getting ready to take a plunge,
a lunge straight into hell...
I might as well jump off the Empire State Building ...
But I say that wouldn't be so bad
a good time could be had,
and right now as I contemplate the trip
I feel the pull of gravity ... magnetic
a gigantic force that I no longer have the will to fight.
It ignites a curiosity
enticing me to see if I could survive such a dramatic dive
into what might be - oblivion ...
Or I might get caught up in the weather and float like a feather
in the drafty winds that blow about,
here and there,
up and down,
hovering above the town where the lights twinkle bright
a delight to my sight.. .calming my fright
as I lean further than sanity allows ...
I rele~se my grasp to embrace my fateI'm not sure what kind of trip I'll have ...
\; Such is life ...
Could it be terminal, an enc;I initself?
Or could it be something like eternity - sl.lsp~nded in a moment forever ,in a breath, < ·
nothing like Heath orJife
Being / w·
.:'.,.,.:·,,,.·,
I look dow~ to the ~tre~i!
timeto ra · .·.
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Worshipped in Egypt
Jn past centuries
Now parked on top
My computer
Japanese believed the calico
A good luck symbol
For me I now see you
Questionable critter
Splashed with many colors
Glowing eyes ofgolden beams
Does mystery lie behind those?
Small demi-dreamer
Sporting with me you actually dare
Antiques bite the dust again
Food changed, again and again
Whatever her oneriness pleases
A thousand and one meows I hear
As you mirror my voice in time
We travel together, but just out of reach
My furfYr elusive companion
Once in a while, a great while it's true
You actually seem to be trying
To understand this human owner
Who feeds and houses and loves you
Most of the time, but an overseer
Moving from room to room
Behind me you watch and anticipate
Before dropping into sleep contentment
".'< ''
< ,: '.',; ,. · .. ·
You would approve
I'm sure
Of what I attribute
To you
rd
I saw you at the windo~, on the 83 floor.
I heard youjell,
"How's your trip to hell?"
And I yell back,
the wind engulfing my lungs
riding the breeze,
feeling the ease as the burden of decision gets left behind.
"I don't know," I scream. "But the view looks good from here"
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CATNAP
by M.E.C.
Tell me, what do cats dream of?
Do they dream of feline love?
Do they watch the sky above
For robins, wrens or the turtledove?
When their whiskers twitch, then their feet
Are they chasing some good thing to eat?
Or washing their fur so they'll be neat
When they awake from slumber and retreat
From dreams of feline love
And that elusive turtledove?
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IFrom "Confessions"
, byJR
Hopes and Dreams
By CJohnson
I have so many hopes and dreams for our present and our future.
I hope the small farmer will still have a place to farm and be able to sell his
crops and animals without the big corporate farms driving him out of business.
I dream car manufacturers will break away from the wants of big oil and
develop more vehicles which use alternative and renewable sources of energy.
I hope we quit confusing weapons with liberty and make ourselves a little bit safer
by overcoming our fears.
I dream of the day when we all feel valued just for being ourselves. A day when
plastic surgery is only used by those whose health is compromised, because we
are all secure in our own self worth.
I hope I live to see the day when the masses are motivated by a genuine caring
for each other instead of greed on a daily basis not just during times of crises.
I dream of people having an open dialogue with one another, through this we
will achieve tolerance and acceptance of each others differences.
I hope we get past the medias lies; learn how to live happily without creating so
much waste.
I dream of peace and justice for all. Each of us has the same wants and needs.
I hope we can do away with labels, look underneath the wealth or poverty, realize
it doesn't matter what color someone is, what church they go to, who they voted for or
even who they love. These things do not define that individual.
When we can do all of that we will have realized there is no us and them. just us.
Just us. Just us for all.
Justice for all.
Mohandas K Gandhi once said " You must be the change you wish to see in
the world."
So this woman is working on her hopes and dreams one day at a time.
I hope others will see that I am, and share my dreams with me.
Happiness
is love;
is a friend;
is the fullness of silence;
is time-without-end
Together.
How I resent the secret
uncommissioned campaigns
of the depths of my mind.
Battles for sanity, so I'm told;
but in the sweeping siege
to clear my mind of that
not easily borne
have been dashed those moments
that made all things
bearable.
Love Which
Laughs
by Donna J. High
Your eyes hold the ,
twinkle of mischief
The breath of your
soul seems to live there
Metapoetry Samples
Words flow
From heart
To head
To paper
Byes watch
Themind
Move forth
Jn time
Quick record
Before they
Are forgotten
And gone
Truth living
On theedge
When privacy
Is lost
Words flow
From head
To heart
To paper
Editing time
To reflect
To perfect
to question. ..
The rise of yellow
Energy and power
The evergreen of
Life peeks through cues
I gasp at the
Palette of this world
For I'm held by the
Power of those eyes
So drifting, half dreaming
Astonished by the love
To feel laughter
Escape with a gasp
Copyright© Donna J. High
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Special Poetry Issue
Herland Poetry Month Events
A
pril is nationally designated as Poetry Month,
and Herland has several poetry events
planned.
First, this April issue of the Herland Voice is devoted primarily to poetry from our very own community.
Secondly, Herland is hosting "Moved by Words",
a workshop in creating and appreciating poetry:
Saturday April 9, 2005, 1 - 4 pm at Herland. This
workshop uses movement, meditation and poetry to
connect with self and others. Participants will write
their own poetry, contribute to group poems, and
share their poetry at the evening's HERLAND poetry
gathering. Our workshop facilitator is Carol Davis
Koss, a well-known and respected Oklahoma poet.
This FREE Workshop is limited to 15 participants, so please call Her/and at 405/5219696 to reserve your place, or email herlandsisters@cox.net with "Poetry Workshop" on
the subject line.
Finally, there will be a Poetry Gathering at Herland
at 7:30 pm Saturday evening, April 9, 2005. Participants from the workshop will be encouraged to share
their poetry and all other members of the community,
especially those who have contributed to the Voice,
are welcome to participate also. This will follow our
monthly Supper Club, which will meet and dine at Pei
Wei Asian Diner.
Book Art Classes at Herland
H
erland will be offering a series of 6 book art
classes from noon to 3 pm on the following
Sundays: April 17 & 24; May 1 & 22; June
12 & 19.
The classes will be taught by esteemed local artist,
Connie Seabourn who says "I believe that the interest
in book art has been growing for some time. There
was a thesis on book art that presented some statistics about how female artists dominate this field (and
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speculation as to why). There are many ways that
this particular art form would especially promote emotional health and social bonding. I love books and
visual art, and this combines both."
Pre-registration is required. Tuition (which benefits
Herland) is $20.00 per class or $100.00 for all 6
classes if paid in advance-which gets you one class
free. The classes are limited to 10 students, so register early. Supplies will cost about $20.00-or as
much more as you care to spend. Once registered,
you will receive information about purchasing supplies.
To register, call (405) 521-9696 and give your
name and a number where you can be reached or
email Herland at: herlandsisters@cox.net.
Tuition can be mailed to Herland Sister Resources,
2312 NW 39th, OKC, OK 73112, or brought by Herland on Saturdays between 1 and 5 pm.
Herland Spring Retreat
P
Ian now to attend the annual Herland Spring
Retreat, May 13 -:-- 15 at Roman Nose State
Park. Pre-registration is due by May 61h - see
registration form on page 2. Accommodations include rustic group cabins with bunk beds, a group
bath house with restrooms and hot showers, and a
meeting hall with group kitchen. Meals include a
light Friday night supper, Saturday breakfast, Saturday lunch on your own, Saturday evening potluck
(bring a dish to share) and Sunday morning breakfast.
There is always a lot to do during this weekend getaway, including tent camping, horseback riding,
workshops, bird and nature hikes, Frisbee, softball,
Scrabble, Trivia Pursuit and many other games. We
also have campfire gatherings for stories, singing and
roasting marshmallows and an open mike for poetry,
singing or other tafent.
The Saturday night concert will feature the band Iris
and Sharlene will do a workshop on personality, Sat.
at 10:00 am, focusing on temperament types.
Your early registration helps our volunteers plan
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Herland Spring Women's Retreat Registration Form
Roman Nose State Park - May 13, 14 & 15, 2005
Below are guidelines to help you select an appropriate registration amount. Deadline for pre-registration is May 6th. Please
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Football Schedule
Welcome!!
All games start at 7:00 pm
bell hooks to speak
April 16th-OKC Lightning@ KC Krunch
April 23rd - BYE
April 30th - Austin Outlaws @ OKC Lightning
May 14th -OKC Lightning@ Denton Stampede
May 21 - Dallas Rage@OKC Lightning
May 281h - OKC Lightning @ Austin Outlaws
June 4th - Denton Stampede @ OKC Lightning
June 11th - OKC Lightning @ Dallas Rage
June 18th - Denton Stampede @ OKC Lightning
The Oklahoma State University Women's Studies Program invites you to a lecture by bell hooks, 7pm, Tuesday,
March 29, 2005, in the Student Union Little Theatre, in
Stillwater. Ms. hooks will speak on the topic of "Creating
the Beloved Community: Ending Domination". The lecture
is free and open to the public; for more information contact
Trish Long at 405-744-7575
bell hooks is an internationally recognized author and
lecturer. She will discuss issues of gender, race, class, and
culture in her talk. While known primarily as a feminist
thinker, hooks is well known for her interdisciplinary writings on a number of topics including gender, race, class,
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Poetry
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-A Reply to an
Absent Friend
by Cory Elizabeth Middleton
This time drips
Not slips
As the last few drops
From the faucet
I won't get out until
It falls, drips
Time passing in drips in
Plashes on my toes and
The tops of my feet
Lolling, rolling under the
Faucet
In this room I thought of
Her champagne bubbles
Her silky lingerie
Trite Tonight
By JR
There must be something new to say,
or at least a new way to handle
the same old stuff
that's been around forever,
or at least since Eve
discovered sin and pain
and learned you can live with both
(although I'd rather not).
Love, you, I, love, you ... one thing
leads to another, they say.
But I don't know if love led me to you
or you led me to love or I, loving,
led you down that rutted garden path
and left you there, worrying too much
about the crop of weeds to be able
to see the flowers.
A new way ... must be a way.
It'll be a shame when I-love-you
is finally worn out from having been
hauled out too often from a pocket
of the soul and handed over
as down payment on hire-purchase
happiness.
Repossession's bad for credit ratings
with both the bank and self.
Wishing time would perform
For me that way
In this room
Under this faucet
With water between my toes
Oh God how it goes
From here
Writing for my
Dreaming of my
Bleeding for my
Time to begin
While life plashes on
The tops of my feet
I won't get out until it drips
Or stops
In time I miss her
Smile
Light
Her water laugh
Dripping and plashing on
Her southern men
Latin men
Lingual men
All in lines behind her laugh
And these plashes on my toes
In this room
Have dripped away the
Minutes and days
And the time for work
Is now·
But my mind is full
Of her
Champagne bubbles
Her silky lingerie
Wishing time would
Pass for me
That way
l. .. love ... you ...
there's something encompassing
about those three short words,
and pages of search for an alternative
won't come up with a better foundation
for life - a three syllable poem
of monogometric promise.
I love you.
THE LOVE OF MY UFE
by Becky Jolly
To everything there is a season, or so that's what they say ...... my
Heart has waited for so long to finally meet this day .....
Every night & day I spent just hoping I would meet
the other part of me to make my life become complete.
Longings of the heart are sometimes cursed & sometimes blessed, &
Over all the years, these longings wouldn't give me rest ...... I
Vowed to one day, find some peace to put within my soul, but
Every time I thought I had, I still
was not made whole.
Only God could know the pain & loneliness inside, & give to me
Fulfillment, after everything I tried .....
And all that emptiness that made my heart so cold & bare, was
Merely just a "waiting place" till God could put
You there .. .... .
And now my
Life has meaning; the pain remains to cease, &
In its place, I have a heart of reassuring peace ....
For I was given all the things to make a fresh, new start .. .for
Every part of me is now connected to your heart ...... .
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Poetry
THE BROKEN VESSEL
AND WONDERED IF l'D EVER SEE THE
VESSEL WHOLE AGAIN.
By Becky Jolly
I SAW A TINY VESSEL; PRECIOUS CHINA
FROM AFAR. ...
THE VESSEL, I COULD NOT REPAIR, NO
MATTER HOW I TRIED .. .
SO BEAUTIFUL & FRAGILE ... NOT A
BLEMISH NOR A MAR.
UNABLE NOW TO LAY THE BROKEN BITS
OF IT ASIDE.
I WANTED JUST TO TAKE IT FROM THE
TINY, LITTLE STAND ...
THIS TINY, LITTLE VESSEL HAD
DISTURBED MY ENTIRE LIFE,
AND PULL IT SAFELY NEXT TO ME & HOLD
IT IN MY HAND.
CAUSING ME TO HAVE NO PEACE .. .JUST
CONSTANT, NAGGING STRIFE.
I FELT SO DRAWN TO HOLD IT, BUT NOT
REALLY KNOWING WHY,
I RECALLED THE LITTLE STAND ON
WHICH THE VESSEL LAID,
WHEN THE VESSEL DROPPED &
SHATTERED ... THEN I BEGAN TO CRY.
AND WENT BACK TO THE PLACE WHERE I
KNEW IT HAD BEEN MADE ....
I SLOWLY WALKED TOWARDS IT, NOW
PIECES EVERYWHERE,
THE ONE WHO MADE THE VESSEL WAS
STANDING AT THE DOOR,
AND PICKED THEM UP, EACH ONE BY
ONE. .. MY INSIDES FEELING BARE.
AND SEEMED TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I
HAD COME THERE FOR. ...
THE TINY, LITTLE VESSEL I COULD NOW
NO LONGER SEE. ..
MEEKLY, I WALKED UP TO HIM, A LITTLE
BIT AFRAID,
BUT WITH LOVE, I CLUTCHED THE PIECES
RIGHT UP NEXT TO ME.
AND HANDED HIM THE PIECES OF THE
VESSEL HE HAD MADE.
NOT REALLY UNDERSTANDING
THE CONNECTION THAT WAS MADE,
HE TOOK THE PIECES, ONE BY ONE AND
HELD THEM IN HIS HAND ...
CONFUSION AND UNCERTAINTY MADE
EMOTIONS SLOWLY FADE.
THEN PLACED THE VESSEL, WHOLE AND
NEW BACK ON ITS LITTLE STAND.
I WASN'T SURE WHAT ALL THE PIECES I
WAS HOLDING MEANT,
AS I BEHELD THE BEAUTY I HAD SEEN SO
LONG AGO,
BUT I CARRIED EVERY PIECE WITH ME,
EVERYWHERE I WENT.
THE MAKER LOOKED AT ME AND SAID,
"NOW YOUR HEART CAN GROW,
I HID THEM IN MY POCKETS AND
NEVER TOLD A SOUL,
FOR ALL THE PIECES YOU HAVE HELD
WERE ALL JUST PARTS OF YOU,
BUT LONGED TO SEE THE VESSEL MADE
COMPLETE AND WHOLE.
AND BECAUSE YOU GAVE THEM ALL TO
ME, I HAVE MADE YOU NEW."
I ADMIRED THE TINY PIECES AS l'D HOLD
THEM IN MY HAND,
"Taken Awayn
by Stephanie Foote
The separation is startling
nothing can stop it
in the blink of an eye
never ending thoughts race the mind
too painful to think about
too wonderful to have to end,
No sound or smell
a whole new surrounding
Something is missing
it's out of touch
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So far away
waiting and wondering
if it will ever come back
A final decision
for total separation.
April 2005
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Poetry
Hollywood circa 1650
Judas-like KISS
by Lila Pettyjohn
by M.E.C.
Sometimes I feel like you don't hear what I say, It's like when I
fall to my knees and I pray,
The words hit the ceiling or go into the floor. It's like you don't
want to know or hear what I'm saying nomore.
The churches are preaching that I cannot love, if it's not in
accordance with what they preach from above.
God will not hear any words from your mind, and praying to
God is just wasting of time.
God is not love he hates faggots, not whores, he hates gay men
and women, but not the spiritually poor,
He hates sodomites, lesbians, transgendered and queer, but the
adulterous fornicators, who are straight, He will hear.
Proud sinners of Satan that's what we are called, Smoke of our
incense to his nostrils applaud.
Only straight haters of faggots will be in Heaven above, Only
straight haters of faggots really know what is love.
Love is not for us people who are doomed in our sin, but my
question is simple: How does your love begin?
The stars sparkle
Like shattered glass
On the moonless night
Over a sea of grass
Which hisses from the passing air
Redolent with scents so fair
Of pine wood, sage and other rare
And wondrous smells
Not found where mankind dwells.
The cloak of darkness swells
To engulf the prairie where deer sleep
And rabbits leap
And creatures of the night creep
Out of hiding to greet their day
And make their way
Through the grass
In search of prey.
Thank You
by JR
It was only a kiss in celebration ...
of what? I don't remember The dawning of another year?
the ending of December?
I know my love is easy, we just treat people right, and resist all
the arrows in this spiritual fight.
Two friends, not lovers-safe and warm,
compatible and fun .
I'm not sure where it comes from, my strength to resist, but I
don't think it came from the Judas-like kiss.
A resting place from pain when the ties
that bound my life came undone.
How do I say •••
I'd wrapped myself in a synthetic shell
around, below, above .. .
by Anita Sullivan
How do I say...
Words can't describe,
You open my thoughts,
That I meticulously hide.
Miles away,
yet, you have this gift,
To make me smile,
My spirits lift.
You brighten my day,
You warm me deeply,
How do I say .. .
That you complete me!
But, in that moment, that touch, that kiss,
I remembered love.
Untitled
by Diedra Murray
I WROTE DOWN YOUR STORY, HOW TIGHTLY WOUND OUR MINDS
THE WAY YOU PROTECTED ME WHEN YOU SAW I WAS WOUNDED,
YOUR SOOTHING VOICE LIKE VELVET DRAPED ACROSS MY HEART
HOW YOU MADE A PERMANENT PATH
YET YOU WOULDN'T LET ME UNDO THE HURT OR UNTANGLE OUR LIVES
THE BRIEF MOMENT WHEN YOU ACCIDENTLY LET ME STEP IN
AND HOW WE LAUGHED AT HOW EASY IT IS TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE
WHEN EVERYTHING, EVEN RAIN, WAS WHY
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NOW THAT I AM ALONE
by M.E.C.
Now that I am alone
I walk with the arms of life around my waist
The only thing
The head of wisdom on my shoulder
by Peggy Johnson
The feet of adventure in step with my steps.
The only thing
you have to be jealous of
is Death itself
Which will steal me away from you
so clean and complete
You won't know what hit you
The arms of life hold me securely
The head of wisdom tells me all things
The feet of adventure keep me company
Down the road of the rest of my days.
Untitled
It won't be like all those other lovers
who took my attention
and my time
and pieces of my heart.
by LaRue Starr
I feel our love settling in
Becoming sure-footed on a path
That becomes more familiar with each hike,
A road traveled frequently,
Your body becoming accustomed to my touch,
Knowing with confidence
That it will take you where you want to go.
Death
The possessive lover
The all-consuming,
smothering co-dependent.
I feel our love settling in
There is no need to fear
another broken heart.
You will join me
eventually
in Death
Like a favorite pair of jeans,
Soft, worn and fitting just right,
We fit together like spoons with circling arms
And walk in step,
Our hips swaying
To the beat of an inner rhythm.
Or I, you,
According to its will.
I feel our love settling in
And know the confidence
That comes with the trust that is building,
The feelings that are deepening,
And the joy that we're sharing
As our love settles in.
For I, too, find myself
Being jealous at Death
Which will take you
from me
Without so much
as a request
much less
a permission slip
or a deference to our love.
Untitled
by LaRue Starr
I stay
And yet I wonder if to go
Is not an answer,
To hermitize, retreat
Someplace where moods are mists
Instead of downpours.
Perhaps a nod
Or a tip of the hat?
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THE MOON LETS I N ENOUGH
Crisco
by Deidra Murray
by Denise Fox
Its easy to identify the beginning of a storm,
The thick air blocking your view,
This night is not long enough
To fit your dreams
You say: no regrets:
But I wonder
The wariness of bittersweet
A familiar taste
The heat of jazz rises between my legs
When desire came- beforeWithout explanation
My history a flame beneath my heart
When mystery was a cheap book
When the mind becomes a traitor
To desire,
Each detail tearing love apart,
A crisis of belief
Life was a riot, a howl,
Not a yawn,
Or middle of the night flight.
There was a later
And whether it ever existed
Is beside the point,
The moon lets in enough light.
Life was jazz, not opera.
That Crisco - what a player!
She muscles her way inside the lane,
dislodging thin women left and right.
Lauded silly farm girl were you hurt when you found
out that your appellation was an insult?
Or did you laugh at yourself like the others?
You sure took one for the team,
sacrificing your heart on a bed
of fruit cocktail,
you waited.
Surely he'll come tonight.. ..
Marriage, sigh ... the true endurance sport ... .
Psyching yourself up with sexy negligee,
you check into the game, but your opponent plays dirty.
Quarters 1,2, and 3 come and go.
Pleading with the referee, you cry,
'What is wrong with me? Am I so ugly?"
But your private sobs convince no one,
not even you. The game ends
with a score of husband - sane: wife losing her mind.
Secretly you wonder what your name is,
and like all old sports legends,
you corner anyone who will listen "They called me Crisco."
Little Foot
By Tex
Coming out of Wal-Mart,
a little girl I see.
She's holding a kitten,
she's looking at me.
A smile on her lips
and hope in her eyes,
she holds the kitten out to me.
It's Free-
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I just can't say no,
I think,
as I take the ball of fluff.
Just what I need,
another Little One.
The little thing
cuddles in my arms
and purrs the biggest purr
I have ever heard.
It is night now,
sleep is hard for me.
Its lonely in this bed
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that used to hold two.
A little ball of fluff,
too light to dent the covers,
comes to me.
He curls his little body
into my hand,
the one she used to put
her head on.
My hand warms,
and so does my heart.
Then the purred lullaby starts.
Well, maybe I do
need another little one,
I think, as I drift off to sleep.
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My Healing Place
By Tex
Pain, my heart aches.
Once there were two,
now only one.
The Pain.
I find myself walking.
my mind is full of words,
painful words,
words said by the one
I gave my heart to.
Heartache.
I walk, the sun warms me.
The wind softly caresses my face.
My steps are heavy,
the weight of loneliness is great.
I must go to my healing place.
The trees close in around me,
their leaves shading me.
The sun's light touches me
every now and then.
I am still here, it says.
A path I take, a path barely seen.
To the crest of a ravine,
then down almost to the bottom, I go.
I settle on a big flat rock.
Land of Perpetual Fear
It sings: listen to me.
This is the place to be.
Leave your pain with me.
It will pass, you'll see.
Soon your heart will be free.
by Donna J. High
Quietly the pain awakes me
Silently my eyes search empty space
As pain reaches into my soul
This pain of the midnight air
I am at peace.
Here, hurting words
have no meaning.
Here the pain flows out.
Here I am not lonely.
I am one.
The caress of the wind has stopped
The warmth of street lights dim
The wish of stars retreats
And my body rebels with fear
The wind touches me again,
setting the leaves in motion.
The sun's light slips through
and dances on the water.
You must come back to the world,
The glimmering light says.
I sigh as I rise,
my ache will return, I say,
as I turn back to the world .
But, not as bad as before,
the water says.
And, when the pain
becomes too much to bear,
come back to me,
Your healing place.
Quietly I sit.
It's cool here
quiet, too.
The sound of wind whispers through the trees.
Mother's windy fingers ruffle my hair.
Her whisper quiets the hurtful words
running in my mind.
I need you now this silent night
I need your arms to comfort
And you are gone so far away
With pain instead my companion
Time to wear the mask again
The mask of eternal smiles
And try to protect the heart once more
From this land of perpetual fear
Copyright © Donna J. High
From "Confessions"
by JR
I'm not much good
at reality.
My special brand of talent is
a particular form of cowardice
perfected in a vain attempt
to be the Me
that others see.
"Imagine"
by Stephanie Foote
I sit,
lonely and in pain,
wondering, will it ever go away?
Our imagination is the most
important faculty we possess.
It can be our greatest resource
or our most formidable misfortune.
It is thro.ugh our imagination that
we find possibilities and options.
Imagination is the deepest voice
of the soul,
and can be heard clearly, only,
through guidance and careful attention.
A relationship with our imagination
is a relationship
with our deepest self.
Silence closes around me.
A rhythm, a small sound.
a tiny wonder I hear.
Water,
a soft melody it makes
as it travels on its way.
Its slow beat reaches me,
Soothing me like a lullaby.
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Ode to a Small Feline
by Donna J. High
The Plunge
By Paula Sophia
You may say that I am getting ready to take a plunge,
a lunge straight into hell...
I might as well jump off the Empire State Building ...
But I say that wouldn't be so bad
a good time could be had,
and right now as I contemplate the trip
I feel the pull of gravity ... magnetic
a gigantic force that I no longer have the will to fight.
It ignites a curiosity
enticing me to see if I could survive such a dramatic dive
into what might be - oblivion ...
Or I might get caught up in the weather and float like a feather
in the drafty winds that blow about,
here and there,
up and down,
hovering above the town where the lights twinkle bright
a delight to my sight.. .calming my fright
as I lean further than sanity allows ...
I rele~se my grasp to embrace my fateI'm not sure what kind of trip I'll have ...
\; Such is life ...
Could it be terminal, an enc;I initself?
Or could it be something like eternity - sl.lsp~nded in a moment forever ,in a breath, < ·
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Worshipped in Egypt
Jn past centuries
Now parked on top
My computer
Japanese believed the calico
A good luck symbol
For me I now see you
Questionable critter
Splashed with many colors
Glowing eyes ofgolden beams
Does mystery lie behind those?
Small demi-dreamer
Sporting with me you actually dare
Antiques bite the dust again
Food changed, again and again
Whatever her oneriness pleases
A thousand and one meows I hear
As you mirror my voice in time
We travel together, but just out of reach
My furfYr elusive companion
Once in a while, a great while it's true
You actually seem to be trying
To understand this human owner
Who feeds and houses and loves you
Most of the time, but an overseer
Moving from room to room
Behind me you watch and anticipate
Before dropping into sleep contentment
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You would approve
I'm sure
Of what I attribute
To you
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I saw you at the windo~, on the 83 floor.
I heard youjell,
"How's your trip to hell?"
And I yell back,
the wind engulfing my lungs
riding the breeze,
feeling the ease as the burden of decision gets left behind.
"I don't know," I scream. "But the view looks good from here"
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CATNAP
by M.E.C.
Tell me, what do cats dream of?
Do they dream of feline love?
Do they watch the sky above
For robins, wrens or the turtledove?
When their whiskers twitch, then their feet
Are they chasing some good thing to eat?
Or washing their fur so they'll be neat
When they awake from slumber and retreat
From dreams of feline love
And that elusive turtledove?
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IFrom "Confessions"
, byJR
Hopes and Dreams
By CJohnson
I have so many hopes and dreams for our present and our future.
I hope the small farmer will still have a place to farm and be able to sell his
crops and animals without the big corporate farms driving him out of business.
I dream car manufacturers will break away from the wants of big oil and
develop more vehicles which use alternative and renewable sources of energy.
I hope we quit confusing weapons with liberty and make ourselves a little bit safer
by overcoming our fears.
I dream of the day when we all feel valued just for being ourselves. A day when
plastic surgery is only used by those whose health is compromised, because we
are all secure in our own self worth.
I hope I live to see the day when the masses are motivated by a genuine caring
for each other instead of greed on a daily basis not just during times of crises.
I dream of people having an open dialogue with one another, through this we
will achieve tolerance and acceptance of each others differences.
I hope we get past the medias lies; learn how to live happily without creating so
much waste.
I dream of peace and justice for all. Each of us has the same wants and needs.
I hope we can do away with labels, look underneath the wealth or poverty, realize
it doesn't matter what color someone is, what church they go to, who they voted for or
even who they love. These things do not define that individual.
When we can do all of that we will have realized there is no us and them. just us.
Just us. Just us for all.
Justice for all.
Mohandas K Gandhi once said " You must be the change you wish to see in
the world."
So this woman is working on her hopes and dreams one day at a time.
I hope others will see that I am, and share my dreams with me.
Happiness
is love;
is a friend;
is the fullness of silence;
is time-without-end
Together.
How I resent the secret
uncommissioned campaigns
of the depths of my mind.
Battles for sanity, so I'm told;
but in the sweeping siege
to clear my mind of that
not easily borne
have been dashed those moments
that made all things
bearable.
Love Which
Laughs
by Donna J. High
Your eyes hold the ,
twinkle of mischief
The breath of your
soul seems to live there
Metapoetry Samples
Words flow
From heart
To head
To paper
Byes watch
Themind
Move forth
Jn time
Quick record
Before they
Are forgotten
And gone
Truth living
On theedge
When privacy
Is lost
Words flow
From head
To heart
To paper
Editing time
To reflect
To perfect
to question. ..
The rise of yellow
Energy and power
The evergreen of
Life peeks through cues
I gasp at the
Palette of this world
For I'm held by the
Power of those eyes
So drifting, half dreaming
Astonished by the love
To feel laughter
Escape with a gasp
Copyright© Donna J. High
. Copyright © Donna J. High
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