Dimensions-v3-no02-1988-08.pdf
- Title
- Dimensions-v3-no02-1988-08.pdf
- extracted text
-
PROPERTY OF
HERLAND LIBRARY
Property of tfin Confrr Volume 3, Issue 2
August 1988
'i/v\D5iqf)
able of l^ontents
Volume 3, Issue 2
August 1988
eotures
17 A Bog Of Tricks
A Discussion Of The
"One-Night Stand"
22 the Coffee Club
lesbian & gay literature
eportments
25 Quiz: What
5 From the Editor
Would You Do If
6 To the Editor
You Were The Boss?
8 News
12 What's Goin' On
Dear Agnes
24 Graffiti Page
28 Poetry
29 Horoscope
34 Directory
15
37 Oiassifieds
32 Gone Fishin'?
Fiction
Dimensions is published by Visions Publishing Co.,P.O.Box 856,Lubbock,TX 79408,Phone(806)
797-9647. Opinions expressed by columnists do not necessarily reflect those of Dimensions or its
staff Publication of the names of any person or organization is not an indication of sexual orientation.
Subscription Rates: 6 mos. 312.00, 1 yr. $24.00. Payment must accompany aU subscription orders.
Copyright ©1988 Visions Publishing Co. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or in part is
strictly prohibited.
Any letter received by Dimensions will be assumed for publication. All letters must include signature,
address and phone number. We reserve the right to edit letters as we feel necessary. The writers name
will be withheld if so requested.
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page
3
^^mensions
DO YOU
P.O. Box 856
Lubbock.TX 79408
HAVE
(806) 797-9647
Office Hrs:
lpm-6pm Mon-Saf
Roxanne Hunter
Editor
INFORMATION
FOR THE NEWS
OR WHAT'S
GOIN' ON
Kelly Chambers
Assistant Editor
Tosha Sumner
Advertising & Art Director
COLUMNS?
Roxanne Hunter
News Editor
Contributing Editors:
Stionnon Lacy
Keiiy Ctiambers
Linda Monroe
We are interested in
what is happening in
your community.
Cameron Taylor
Judy Smith
Call or Write:
Suzanna Reilly
Production Manager
Cameron Taylor
Southwest Distribution
Shannon Lacy
Staff Photographer
DIMENSIONS
P.O. Box 856
Lubbock,TX
79408
For Advertising
Information & Rates,
Call or Write
Tosho Sumner of:
P.O. Box 856
Lubbock, TX 79408
(806) 797-9647
Page 4 • Dimensions • August 1988
Please Include Your NameAddress. Phone Number &
rom the 4 editor
With one political convention behind us and another still ahead,I find myselftired ofall
the politics. I believe the politicians of this country will tell us anything we want to hear
to get into office; "Yes, I'll endorse women's rights....Yes, I'll help the middle class
taxpayer..Yes,I'll work to change the laws in your favor(whoever you are)...No,I won't
raise taxes (that's the classic)..." but once they get into office, everything runs in the
same old ruts as always.
I recently attended a corporate meeting that addressed Political Action Committees
(PAC's),now I've attended these meetings before,but this one left me mad as hell. Not
only did they want my money for this conservative organization,but their lobbyistdidn t
talk about issues, he talked about all the"homosexuals and drunks" that grace the Texas
Legislature in Austin. To explain PAC's the way they were explained at this meeting(in
the conservative fashion),everyone gives a little money to the PAC(that way no one has
to give alot) and then the PAC makes donations to certain political candidate's
campaigns.Once the PAC"gives",that candidate is more likely to lend an ear when the
organization you support has an interest in a bill that is before the legislature.
Now,if"paying" for laws sounds like so much bull to you - it is! But that, my friends,
is how the system works.The only way we are going to bring change to our community
is with money,because unfortunately,that is the key to the American political system.
Donations are something easily put-off, but the next time you pay your bills just make
a check out to the PAC committee in your area. It takes a few minutes, but it is time and
money well spent. It is for your future and the future of the lesbian/gay community.
In Texas: Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby Of Texas,P.O. Box 2505, Austin, TX 78768
In Oklahoma: Oklahoma Gay Political Caucus,P.O. Box 904126, Tulsa, OK 741
In New Mexico: New Mexico Lesbian/Gay Political Alliance, Box 25191, Albuquer
que,NM 87126 • New Mexico Pro-Pac, Box 36874, Albuquerque, NM 87176 ^
In Louisiana: Louisiana Gay Political Action Caucus(LAGPAC), Box
.
Orleans, LA 70112
Timing is everything and with an election coming up in November(they
had to remind us of this at the meeting),I urge you to put this month s
vour bills and make a check out to the PAC of your choice. Don t wait unti you
to sit through a meeting with a right-wing conservative discussing homosexua i y
make vou mad enough to donate money.
If you have questions or do not know the location of the PAC's in your state or area
consult the 1988 Gayellow Pages or call the Dimension's office(office hours are Ip.m.
to 6 p.m. Mon.-Sat.,(806) 797-9647). We will be glad to assist.
Roxanne Hunter
Editor
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page
5
7.o the Editor
"VACATIONS" A HIT
FEELING CONNECTED
Dear Dimensions,
Dear Dimensions,
This is another letter to thank you for
your"Summer Vacations for Women"
I live in a very small town in East Texas
and I want you to know how much I
article(May 1988,VoIume2,Issue 10).
love your publication. When it comes
I have always wanted to take a vacation
in the mail every month, it makes me
with a group of lesbians or go to a
lesbian resort but was never quite sure
feel connected to the lesbian commu
where to look. Since that issue came
out, I have made reservations at the
in the outside world. 1 don't get to the
Galisteo Inn and I am thinking about
nity and lets me know what is going on
city often, but when I do, it's nice to
know what's happening at the different
going on your Getaway Weekend at
bars and about other activities.
Lyle's Deck.
I also have two friends that share my
Your publication is notonly very enter
copy ofDimensions. We have often felt
taining, it is also a great resource for
women like me to find out aboutoppor-
forgotten and isolated but your maga
tunities and happenings in our commu
nity. Thanks!
zine has helped us realize that we are
not alone! Keep up the good work!
Name and Address Withheld
Anne H.
Dallas, TX
If You Have A Comment
Or Question,
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!
Send Us A Letter!
Dear Dimensions,
All letters must Include name,
I just wanted to write and congratulate
Dimensions on its second anniversary.
I have to admit, I was fairly skeptical
when I first started picking up your
publication at Kindred Spirits. I had
seen many lesbian publications come
and go, usually within six months.
I am very glad that you seem to be doing
address & signature. Names will be
withheld If so requested.
well and are still here to tell about it.
Music That Comes to You for
The lesbian community needs its own
voice and you have given us that. Thank
you and congratulations!
Anniversaries, Weddings,
^MOBILE
J 0MELODIES
Amarillo, TX
Reunions, Get Togethers
Mention that you saw this ad in Dimensions
and receive a 5% Discount!
Name Withheld
Jenny Baca & Kay Dodd
Houston,TX
(806) 353-4636 or (806)874-2326
Page 6 • Dimensions • August 1988
Subscribe
And Get A
FREE CLASSIFIED II!
Get A Free, 20 word Classified when you
subscribe to Dimensions. Your od will run for 2
months with a 12 month subscription and 1
month when you subscribe for 6 months!
We Protect Your Privacy
Dimensions is maiied in a piain brown enveiope with only our box number
OS a return address. We moii first class to preserve your privacy and our
moiling lists are never sold.
□Please start my 6 month subscription right away! Enclosed is my check or
money order for S12.00
□Please start my 12 month subscription right away! Enciosed is my check or
money order for $24.00
Name
Address
City
State
Zip
Please Print Your Classified Ad In Ttie Spaces Below
Please indicate ttie classification in which you would like your ad to appear;
Complete form and mail to:
DIMENSIONS
P.O. Box 856 • Lubbock, TX 79408 • (806)797-9647
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page
7
%
ews
From Around the Region,the Country & the World
THRF Supports Suit Ctiarging Parkland
Hospital with AIDS Discrimination
been actively involved in the case
AUSTIN - The Texas Human Rights
Foundation(THRF)Board of Trustees
strategy development since its
has acted unanimously to participate in
inception.
the AIDS discrimination lawsuit
State District Judge John Marshall has
brought against Parkland Memorial
granted a preliminary motion to order
changes in hospital procedure while the
lawsuit is pending. That order has been
appealed by Parkland. The THRF
Board,in recognition of the state-wide
importance of this case,has committed
to raise an initial amountof$2000.00 to
Hospital of Dallas. The litigation seeks
to halt illegal limitations on health
services delivered to persons with
AIDS.
Parkland had been the only public
hospital in the state with a waiting list
for persons with AIDS who need AZT
therapy. It also has limited the number
of beds used by persons with AIDS at
any given time and declined to provide
Pentamidine ( an experimental drug
often given to HIV-positive persons to
prevent pneumonia) to indigent
patients.
help fund the costs of filing fees,
depositions and other immediate
expenses.
"A victory in this case will set an
important legal precedent and send a
clear message to other public
institutions that they cannot
discriminate against people with
AIDS," said Taft. "This case is very
important not only in Texas but
In recent months,leaders of the Dallas
Gay Alliance (DGA) worked with
nationally."
Parkland administrators in an effort to
correct the discriminatory policies.
Other THRF involvement in the case
When early promises to modify
hospital procedures were not fulfilled,
depositions ofstate health officials who
may include assistance in taking
have information concerning
DGA, acting through Dallas attorney
district court. THRF President Lee Taft
administration of AZT programs at
other public institutions.
and Vice President Mike Anglin have
Nelson is also a member of the THRF
M. William Nelson, filed suit in state
Page 8 • Dimensions • August 1988
Council of Cooperating Attorneys.
Contributions towards support of the
case may be sent to THRF,1014-G N.
Lamar, Austin, Texas 78703.
Reprinted with permission from
theTHRF News, Volume 1,Issue No.2.
Lesbian Mothers
Forming
Organization
HOUSTON - Lesbian mothers in the
Houston area are forming an
Antonio. It is a volunteer run telephone
organization of their own."Dykes with
Dykes" will be a support group for
lesbian mothers, their co-parents and
any other lesbian that is either
considering motherhood or in the
process of becoming a mother.
According to the organization's press
information service called Lesbian
release, "there are gay women, and
Lesbian Info Line
In Service In SA
SAN ANTONIO
- A new lesbian
information line is in service in San
Information San Antonio, or L.I.S.A.
men, that feel a woman is not a "true"
Thenumberis(512)828-LISA (828-
lesbian ifshe has borne a child." One of
5472).
the goals of this organization is to
change that perception.
If you are interested in Becoming a
member of this organization, please
contact (713)772-4406.
Callers will receive a list of weekly
meetings and events happening in the
San Antonio area and some national
listings. L.I.S.A. will also serve as a
network resource for businesses.
Business owners who would like to be
on the referral list leave a name and
phone number with LISA. Businesses
will be given any names and numbers
of women looking for their services
rather than giving the business number
directly to the person, unless otherwise
specified by the business.
LISA is currently looking for events,
business listings, and volunteers to
return messages. Donations of any of
the above can be sent to: L.I.S.A., P.O.
Box 12327, San Antonio, TX 78212.
Abortion Law
Before House
WASHINGTON, D.C.- A bill before
the House of Representatives could
radically change the health care options
of 44 million women who depend on
the federally funded health care
system. Under the current system,
abortion is an option only if the
mother's life is endanger or because of
incest.
The Reproductive Health Equity Act
(RHEA) - HR 4168 would give
government employed women and
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 9
poor women the freedom to choose
books, or recordings that meet this
abortion if they so elect.
criteria,please contact: Austin Lambda
,P.O. Box 5455, Austin, TX 78763.
Austin Lambda
Seeking
THRF
Employment Tips
Voiunteers
THRF has received numerous
Austin - Austin Lambda, a non-profit
telephone calls related to employment
educational, social and cultural
discrimination against lesbians, gay
organization, is looking for volunteers
to help with newsletter production,
specifically paste-up and ad sales. If
you are interested in helping, contact
Dianne Draper at(512)471-5931.
Austin Lambda is also updating their
educational files. Information will be
used for student research, newsletter
staff writing, and Lambda's speaker's
bureau.
Submissions
of
articles
on;
homosexuality, AIDS,alcoholism and
drug abuse, lesbian/gay relationships,
gay parenting,etc.. are welcome.If you
have articles(magazine or newspaper).
men and persons with HIV infection.
A few words of advice about han
dling employment problems:
1. Do not answer employer questions
about your private life. These
questions are usually innappropiate
and in no way relate to your ability to
do the job.
2. Do not resign. A voluntary
resignation will often prevent you
from seeking legal remedies for the
way you were treated on the job.
3. Seek legal counsel if you believe
your job is in jeopardy.
From the THRF News,
Volume 1, issue No.2
'TCzfie
Professional All-Breed Grooming with Tender Love & Core ^
Other services inciude Boarding & Obedience
Call and let us mail you our brochure.
Merttion that you saw this ad
||ih;D|md^dhs:,^
For Grooming, call Kris
Seiving the Dallas/Ft, Worth Area
Metro 379-0737
Page 10 • Dimensions • August 1988
THE COUNTRY
EXPRESS BAND
Friday,August 12th
9PM-1AM
bring in your ASTROS TICKET STUB AND
REDEEM IT FOR A SUPER HAPPY HOUR DRINK!
TUESDAYS • BEER BUST
WEDNESDAYS • HAPPY HOUR DRINKS
THURSDAYS • BEER BUST • AMATEUR NIGHT
GREAT DRAG SHOWS!
HOUSTON
(713)666-3464 • 91503. Mdn^l
The COOL Home of HOT Country
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 11
hat's i tain
A Monthy Listing of Special Events Aii Around Texas, Oklahoma & New Mexico
NEW ORLEANS - Just in time for the
Tuesdays with Beer Bust, Wednes
Republican Convention ...(I'm sure
they'll appreciate it) Dimensions is
now being distributed in Louisiana! At
this point in time, we are only in bars in
days you can catch Happy Hour,
New Orleans, but we're working on
veporL And,speaking ofNew Orleans,
RANCH'S big beautiful dance floor.
On Friday, August 12th be sure and
catch the Country Express Band from
THE OTHER SIDE has recently
9pm to lam. And be sure to hang on to
Thursdays it's Beer Bust and Ama
teur Night and Friday and Saturday
you can dance the night away on the
Baton Rouge, Alexandria and Shre-
opened a Coffee House called the
your Astros ticket stub, it's good for a
DAILY GRIND! Ya'll be sure and stop
Super Happy Hour Drink!
in and be sure to say"Hi!"from Dimen
sions!
DALLAS - Well, Brandi said we
caught her show on a night when she
AUSTIN - The place to get ready for
"wasn't in the best humor", but that
fall is NEXUS &PETnCOAT JUNC
didn't keep us from enjoying it! She is
TION! On Thursday, August25th, you
the hostess of HIGH COUNTRY'S
can catch the"Girls will be Girls" Fall
Thursday and Sunday night shows and
boy is she exciting! We would also like
to apologize to her girlfriend, Uneak
for getting her name wrong on last
month's Graffiti Page - Sorry! Be sure
and check out all the specials at HIGH
Vintage Fashion Show.Thefollowing
weekend,Friday & Saturday the 26th &
27th,getready for the Fabulous Dress-
up Weekend.Get out your tux,or your
ball gown, or whatever it is you wear
when you dress up,and get on out there
and party! TGRA will be holding the
Official State Meeting on Sept. 3rd at
COUNTRY that happen every week;
Monday is Steakout, Tuesday & Fri
day you can get 250 Draft,Wednesday
10am at NEXUS. And, last but not
is$3 Beer Bust,Thursday is 750 Draft
least, catch Last Splash on Sunday,
Sept.4th at Hippy Hollow! Also,while
8pm. You can't beat it with a stick!
and Sunday is Happy Hour from 2-
you are at PETTICOAT JUNCTION,
be sure to get your boots shined at
HOUSTON - On August 4th be sure
Debbie Does Boots - Debbie will be at
and come out to KINDRED SPIRITS
for the Colt 45 Benefit with Rebecca
PJ's every Wednesday, Friday and
Saturday night.
HOUSTON - Don't miss out on all the
great weekly specials at the RANCH
this month!Start your week out righton
Page 12 • Dimensions • August 1988
Thurman. Also, catch the AIDS
Foundation Benefits on the 14th &
28th. Be sure and come out to cool off
on Mondays & Tuesdays for $1 Cape
Cods
and
Screwdrivers
and
Wednesday Happy Hour all day & all
HOUSTON - If you are in the mood for
night. The staff at KINDRED SPIRITS
will always show you a good time, and
where else can you play Free Pool
comedy, you can catch comedienne
beginning at 4pm Friday thru Sunday?!
will be music,comedy and lots offun
NANCY FORD every Sunday night in
August at Jonathan's Cabaret! There
so be sure and be there! NANCY will
FT.WORTH - We Would like to thank
Barbara and everybody else atPART
NERS for their hospitality and the great
time we had in Ft. Worth recently! If
you haven't been,you really should go!
On the 21St, you can catch the Dena
Kaye Show and,coming in September,
it's J. Christopher! Also, don't forget
that PARTNERS has drink specials
every night all week, check their ad in
this month's issue for details!
SAN ANTONIO - Things are really
hopping at BLUE ANGEL WEST! On
Tuesdays it's Country & Western
Night with $1 Well Drinks and $1
Longnecks - ya'Il come! Thursday is
Amateur Night with lots offun and en
tertainment. And,on Sundays,there's a
Free Buffet starting at 7pm with drink
specials all night!
also be starting a tour in Louisiana in
August. The tour will be called, "A
Girl in Trouble is a Temporary
Fling" and will feature a variety of
guest hosts.
SOUTH PADRE - Don & Lyie at
LYLE'S DECK tell me they've had
alot of inquiries for the Women's
Getaway Weekend coming up in Oc
tober, so if you are planning on going,
you better sign up fast! There's gonna
be lots of fun, including a welcoming
cocktail party with free margaritas
on Friday,a Saturday,come as you are
lunch and a trip to Mexico Saturday
night! Of course,if you just want to lay
on the beach and do nothing,that's OK
too! For more information, and reser
vations,check out the back cover of this
issue - See ya'll there!
<S
DIMENSIONS WELCOMES THE WOMEN OF
LOUISIANA TO OUR DISTRIBUTION AREA!
byiE
Convenient Air Connections to
Horiingen Airport
If IAS
AQUESTIIGUS
Women Meet Women
3rd Full Weekend
& 3rd Week
of Each Month
Write or caii for brochure:
120^. Atoi St. P.O. Box 2326
South Padre isiand.TX 78597
(512) 761-LYLE
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 13
Fabulous Shows
Thursday & Sunday
with Your Host BRANDil
MONDAY — Steakout
TUESDAY & FRIDAY - 250 Draft
WEDNESDAY - $3 Beer Bust
THURSDAY - 750 Draft
SUNDAY — 2pnn-8pm - Happy Hour
75C Bloody Mary's & Screwdrivers • $3 Beer Bust
OPEN 7 DAYS A WEEK!
5pm-2ann Tuesday - Saturday
2pnn-2ann Sunday
3121 Inwood
Page 14 • Dimensions • August 1988
Dallas • 351-2278
ear/tgnes
Answers to your questions about love.
Dear Agnes,
I have never seen a letter in your
column like the one I am about to write,
since the first night Kay and I met for
cocktails. Kay is not sleeping either. I
but here goes. I hope you'll print it.
have not been tested and neither has
Maybe it will save someone the
Kay. Do you have any suggestions? I
sleepless nights I have suffered the last
know I should tell my lover, but every
six months.
time I start to, I chicken out.
I have lived in a relationship for the past
Sleepless
five years. Now, monogamy is not my
specialty and never has been. The first
two years I lived in this relationship I
was sleeping with another woman. It
was no secret that I was sleeping with
her and things were OK. I ended up
giving up my other lover and settling
into a more or less monogamous
relationship. I have been very happy
and so has the woman I live with.
Everything was fine until about six
months ago. I got a call at work,from
Kay (not her real name) and she
desperately needed to talk with me. I
thought she was trying to pull one over
on me,but I finally agreed to meet her
over cocktails that evening. We met at
a place we both knew and ordered
drinks and then Kay dropped the bomb.
Another one of her ex-lovers, whom
she was sleeping with the same time as
me has been diagnosed as HIV positive.
Needless to say,I felt the floor drop out
Dear Sleepless,
First off,tell your lover.I can definitely
understand your being "chicken", but
news like this should never be kept
from a lover. It directly affects her and
you should sit down and explain the
entire situation immediately.
As I see it, perhaps the best option
available to you, Kay and your lover
may be to seek counseling. You could
also choose testing, but this is strictly
your decision. Weight it carefully.
Unfortunately, the lesbian community
has lulled itself into believing that they
are somehow mysteriously immune to
the AIDS
virus. AIDS does not
discriminate and the sooner we decide
that lesbians aren't special or
superhuman the better for all
concerned. Safe sex is for everyone.
The "free" love of the sixties and
seventies is over, at least for a long,
from under me and the rest of the world
long time. The sooner we start taking
fall with it.
responsible steps for our long term
well-being, the better for all of us.
I have not told my lover about this
incident, but I have seen Kay since
then. I haven't got a good nights sleep
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 15
Dear Agnes,
Dear Between,
My younger sister, who is also a
lesbian, has a drug problem. She is
addicted to cocaine. Right now she is
living in another state with her lover of
two years who is also an addict.
It is generous of you to extend a helping
hand to your sister, but you are not
responsible for her or her lover. It is
your house and therefore, you call the
She has asked to come and live with me
and try to get off the drugs, but she
wants to bring "Jill" with her.I have no
objections to having my sister live with
me and would like to help her getoff the
shots. Your cards are on the table, so
you sister needs to decide if she wants
to play - your way.
If she refuses you offer, don't let her
make you feel guilty. You have done all
you can do.
drugs. However,!don'tfeel I should be
responsible for her lover. Not only is
she not my responsibility, I also feel
Write to Dear
that they reinforce this behavior in each
other and that it will be much harder for
Agnes witti
both of them to quit if they are together.
I have told my sister how I feel about
this and she is angry.I'm not sure what
to do now,I would gladly help my sister
your problems or
comments at:
but don't feel I should have to play host
Dimension
to all her drug addict friends. What do
you think?
P.O. Box 856
Between A Rock And A Hard Place
Lubbock,TX 79408
Dallas, TX
Business □eliv/erLj Sgstems
• DOCUMENTS
• PACKAGES
• FREIGHT
• IMMEDIATE PICKUP
AND DELIVERY
BONDED & INSURED
RADIO DISPATCHED
MONDAY THRU FRIDAY
8:00 AM TO 5:00 PM
14902 Preston Road 733-1108
Dallas, Tx 75240
Pager # 432-2391 At tone dial your number and then number sign (#).
Page 16 • Dimensions • August 1988
A BAG
OF TRICKS
A Discussion of the "One-Night Stand"
by Kelly Chambers
Once,a long time ago,when I was much younger,much thinner and just
aut of the cioset, I was a novelty in the bar in my hometown. Of course,
there was only one bar and i was the youngest of it's patrons, i suppose
youth, in itself, was enough to moke me "desirable". Every time the bar
closed I wasswamped with offers of breakfast,after-hours parties and sex
(only the most forthright would actually state this as their goal).
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 17
Now,in the naivety of my youth,
I thought it was great fun to have
at least three girlfriends at one
time, as well as, a "trick" every
now and then. Of course, this
didn't lastlong.Eventually I was
found out,and by then there were
newer,prettier faces to play with.
Obviously I can't claim to be a
They seem to be
playing some
mixed up version
of musical beds when the music
monogamous saint but neither
stops...jump in!
am I a"bad" person. In my case,
of people. Not
so! Besides,
AIDS isn't the
only sexually
transmitted
disease
around. You
also have to
consider the
risk of con
tracting her
I feel it was probably a period of
exploration. The old rules of marriage
pes, syphilis,
gonorreah, etc. Not a pleasant topic of
and children, or even something as
conversation to be sure, but once you
simple as holding hands in public,
have contacted one of these diseases;
didn't apply anymore. I was trying to
leam a new system,learn what I could
the reality is much less pleasant.
In the past, there was more of a stigma
get away with, and what was out of
attached to the one night stand in the
bounds. Oh,I learned alright, but at the
lesbian community than in the gay-
expense of many,who might have been
male community,but that has changed
friends,had I notslept with everyone in
somewhat with the advent of AIDS.
sight.
Most gay men no longer consider it
kosher to pick up a trick, but lesbians
seem to be doing it more all the time.No
matter how much I try to tell some of
Now that you have heard my confes
sion,I'll getright to the point - lesbians
do sleep around. You aren't surprised?
You shouldn't be. Despite the view of
some that lesbians are monogamous,
basically non-sexual beings,there sure
is alotofbed-hopping going on.1 would
like to throw outsome ideas discussing
the pros and cons ofthe one night stand,
r m not going to moralize on the virtues
of safe-sex, you've heard itbefore - but
h is a good
my friends about the dangers of dis
ease, they go along their merry way.
They seem to playing some mixed-up
version of musical beds - when the mu
sic stops...jump in! I wouldn't deny
them their fun, but a little discretion
never hurt anybody.
Another question thatcomes to mind,is
one of maturity.There are many
considering a
Many lesbians
who believe that sleeping
around is a definite sign of
one night stand.
have the
immaturity. Monogamy is the
mistaken idea
my mind, monogamy and ma
turity do not necessarily go
point
when
Many lesbians
have the mis
taken idea that
they are some
how "immune"
that they are
somehow
to AIDS or that
immune" to the
lesbians are a
AIDS virus...
"chosen"group
Page 18 • Dimensions • August 1988
grown-up thing to do,right? In
hand-in-hand. Emotional ma
turity means not only knowing
when to stay, but when to go.
For some people,that may mean
the next morning.
You decide who is the more mature: the
woman who has many partners for one
night only,or the woman who is in love
(and monogamous) with a different
woman every three months? Person
BUY
GAY.
ally, I would rather find her gone in the
morning than to find her on my door
step with a suitcase and her wall-hang
ings in hand after only one night in the
sack.
Monogamy also does notalways add up
to love. Many people stay faithful for a
variety of reasons which may or may
*74®
Seive
not include love. These reasons range
from financial and emotional security,
'Tfeucn-
to prestige, to low self-esteem, to fear.
I won't argue with the fact that many
women are in loving, monogamous
relationships, but one does not always
lead to the other.
Last but not least, I have noticed that
many women believe a relationship can
be built on one drunken night in bed.
Needless to say,many wonderful,long-
lasting relationships have started out
just that way,but there has to be a much
firmer foundation to hold a relationship
together. Sure, you can find that
The Dena Kaye Show
August 21st
Coming In September - The J. Christopher Show
foundation after a night in bed, but one
night, in itself, is not enough to build
IT'S BACK! IT'S HOT!
Partners Famous Thursday NIte "BEER BUST"
With Guest Dj"Spanky"
-anything Goes tonightl
on. A few days between sleeping to
gether and living together is usually
well advised (sarcasm intended).
O.K. - now maybe I've made some of
you mad and maybe I've made some of
you laugh but mostly I hope I've made
you think. I'm certainly not one to
judge anyone and I truly believe every
one should do what makes them happy,
as long as they don't harm anyone in the
process. If you have different views, I
would certainly like to hear them. Who
knows,maybe we'll find something we
can all agree on!
,
Daily Daily Specials
Cocktail Hour
$2.00 Pitcher
$1.00 Beer
$1,25
Well
754
Draw
SUN; $1 Well
$2 Pitcher
WON: 504 Draw
TUES: $2 Beer Bust
WEDS 504 Schnapps
; $1 Well
THUDS; Beer Bust
AJso Drink Specials Aii MsoAend.'
DJ — Thurs: Fri: Sat; Sun
The Hottest Party Spot In all ol Texas!
<S
1612 Park Place » Ft.Woith » (817)927-9546
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 19
and
Happy Houj^
6-9pm • Tues.-Sat.
Tuesdays
"Girls Only" Pool Tourney
$50 First • $30 Second
8:30pin • $1 Draft
jM
Wednesdays
I
Pitcher Nite • S3 Pitcher
C&W Dance Lessons.8^
Thursdays Jb
Steak Night 7-9pm
™
(j
T^'FabnloUS^
\ ^Dress-*ip
vX
Bring Yo Meat!
$ 1.50 Well Drinks & Margaritas
Fridays
Pool Tourney •8pm i
Jv
^TX
$50 First. $30 Second
r
©ts
DJ Drink Specials
Saturdays
After Hours 'til 4am
Sundays
Beer Bust •6pm
Hot Dogs on the Patio
DEBBIE
DOES BOOTS
Wed, FrI & Sat In PJ's
oonnKJS
""l*
f'
Austin
(512)472-2
'•5>Petticoat
Coming
Thursday, August 25th
iris will be Girls"
Fall Vintage Fashion Show
i E. 2nd St.
X 78701
9 or 495-9553
the
offee
A Discussion of Lesbian Literature Both New and Old
This month T. Sumner Reviews:
You CAN Do
Something
About AIDS
edited by
Sasha Alvson
|ai dsI
■
■
The Crystal
Curtain
by Sandy Bayer
The first book we're going talk about
this month is, You CAN Do Something
About AIDS, a free paperback pro
duced entirely through donations from
the publishing and bookselling com
You CAN Do Something About AIDS
is not an AIDS prevention manual or
safe-sex guide, it simply makes a great
numberofsuggestions on whataverage
people can do to make a difference in
munities. The book is published by the
Stop AIDS Project which was estab
the lives of those who have AIDS and
lished to coordinate the effort.
In addition to countless recommenda
The book is edited by Sasha Alyson,
head of Alyson Publications, and con
tains many short chapters written by
politicians,activists,PWA'sand celeb
tions and ideasfrom the many contribu
tors,there is also a handy appendix that
lists national, state and local organiza
tions that are involved in AIDS preven
tion, legislation, counseling and serv
ices. There is also a bibliography listing
rities. Some of the authors included are:
Elizabeth Taylor, Surgeon General C.
Everett Koop, Whoopi Goldberg,
help educate and inform others.
additional reading materials.
Cleve Jones of the Names Project and
You can pick up a free copy of You
many others.
CAN Do Something About AIDS at
Page 22 • Dimensions • August 1988
when Frank escapes and vows to "kill
the bitch" that put him in jail. Thus
begins a seductive, terrifying game of
Waldenbooks or B.Dalton Bookstores.
For inquiries and contributions, write
to: The Stop AIDS Project, c/o Sasha
Alyson, 40 Plympton St., Boston,
Mass. 02118 or call(617) 542-5679.
Now,let's talk about The Crystal Cur
tain. a novel by Sandy Bayer (Alyson
"cat and mouse" that will make your
skin crawl.
Ms. Bayer has created some memo
rable characters in The Crystal Curtain.
Her unique combination of detective
story and psychological thriller is
Publications, $7.95). The story re
volves around Stephanie Nowland and
her lover Marian Damiano. Stephanie
something I hope to see repeated.
Stephanie and Marian seem like old
has psychic abilities thatshe sometimes
friends by the end of the book and you
uses to track down murder victims and
murderers. She is called on by an out of
can't help but hope you will see them
again.
The Crystal Curtain is available from
state police department to help find the
missing Betty Jean Warren. When
Stephanie finds her, she has been bru
Alyson Publication, Inc., Dept. ,40
Plympton St., Boston Mass.02118 for
$7.95 plus $1.00 postage and handling.
A complete catalog is available upon
tally raped and fatally stabbed. She
eventually leads police to Betty Jean's
killer, Frank Talbot, who is prosecuted
and sent tojail. The action really begins
request.
f VIDEO
^
RENTALS
Lesbian Titles
1 Tape $4,2 topes $7,3 tapes $10
fLEATHER
BOARDS
AMEX
MC
VISA
DC
CARTE BLANCHE
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 23
uOr ^t^c^mLyj
'
■ iLeA^
Liis^ 2)^..aiC.
(2
youL..
OtT.I'jo!
tooups m^sM
<=L
■Mt
fif\JC)e-ueji.
ft ^ ^
Yf-"
R.1^ f TS
^^
k cM.
-o
-
CU
iXltUfdvVhb^OJ^
(LyjiaJ:;, ^ cudM J
QJLujajjC,
PUT YOUR MESSAGE ON THE 6I5AFFITI PASE F0I5 F[5EEI
Say "Happy Birthday", tell a Joke, tell somebody to "Get Lost"!
Whatever you want, we'll print It right here for rx5 charge!
No explicit language please.
Graffiti will be printed on a first cxime, first serve basis.
Send your Graffiti today! Send It to:
Dimensions • Graffiti Page • P.O. Box 856 • Lubbock, TX 79408
Page 24 • Dimensions • August 1988
What Would
You Do If You
UIZ
Were The Boss?
Some bosses are overly demanding,
some could care less what you do as
long as you leave them alone. What
kind of boss would you be? Would you
take all the credit for your employee's
work or spread the glory around? An
swer the 10 questions below and find
a. Start looking for dependable
people to help you get things going.
b. Panic because you don't know if
you'll be able to handle aU of the
details by yourself.
c. Are glad to have the chance to
show off your organizing abilities.
out. Remember,in this quiz, there are
d. Feel pressured and aren't sure you
no right or wrong answers,just differ
are up to the task.
ent styles.
1. Your boss comes up with an idea
that you don't think will work. You
tell her that;
a. She should bring it up at the next
staff meeting and see how it goes
over.
b. She is wrong and then give a
detailed explanation of why you think
so.
c. Her idea has it's points but may
need some work.
d. Although you think it sounds good,
you aren't in a position to judge.
3. An employee that works under you
has not been handling her job well
and you have to fire her. You:
a. Tell her you are sorry and try to
make the dismissal as un-stressful as
possible.
b. Tell her why she is being fired and
that maybe she can leam from her
mist^lcGS.
c. Enjoy the chance to tell her what a
lousy employee she was.
d.Put a note on her desk and avoid
talking to her at all.
4. A friend at the company where
2. You are asked to organize the
you are applying for a job tells you
annual client Christmas party. You:
that, to get the job, you must be
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 25
aggressive during the interview. You
a. Just be yourself, you don't want a ■
job where you have to be something
you aren't.
b. Act aggressive and forceful even
though you are usually soft spoken.
c. Don't change a thing - you are very
aggressive anyway.
d. Try to act aggressively but without
first step.
c. Get rid of everyone in top positions
and replace them with "your own"
people.
d. Ask everyone in a decision-making
position to present proposals on how
to improve operations.
8. A woman you just hired has come
in more than thirty minutes late on
success.
three occasions. You:
5. You have just delegated a big
a. Tell her how angry her tardiness
makes you.
project to an employee under your
supervision. The work must be done
by a deadline. You:
a. Check on her progress regularly.
b. Make sure you are in the reception
area every time she comes in so she
will know that you are watching.
c. Tell her that if she is late again, she
b. Help her along to make sure
everything is done right.
will be fired.
d. Tell her that it doesn't bother you,
c. Threaten her with dismissal if it
isn't done on time.
but if vour boss finds out, she will be
d. Move up the deadline to make sure
fired.
it is done on schedule.
to hire an assistant. You look for
9. You have hired a decorator to
redecorate your office. To make sure
a good job is done on time and within
someone:
the budget, you:
6. Because of a promotion, you have
a. Who is not necessarily the most
a. Stay out of the way but keep a
experienced person, but the one who
close eye on the progress.
demonstrated the most natural ability.
b. Supervise their work closely to
b. With the right education, experi
make sure everything is done the way
ence and outstanding qualifications.
you want it.
c. With the attitude of a subordinate
c. Explain, in explicit terms, what you
and that will do what they are told.
want done, and leave them to do their
d. With the best personality and that
work.
you feel you can work well with.
d. Let them know that if they do a
good job on this project, you will
7. You are in charge of reorganizing
your division of the company. To get
recommend them for bigger, future
projects.
things rolling, you:
a. Try to convey a feeling of unity
SCORING
that extends to all comers of the
department.
b. Study all your possible options
very carefully before you take the
Page 26 • Dimensions • August 1988
Mark your answers on the tally sheet on
the next page and add up the total for
each column.
B
but it is an exceptionally good style for
D
•entrepreneurs. If you are feeling over
worked, try delegating work to some
one else and try to trust theirjudgement.
1..
2..
3..
4..
You may find out your employees are
much more trustworthy and capable
5..
6..
7..
8..
than you thought.
Column C
9.
You are the stereotypical boss. Youjust
love wielding your authority like an
iron fist. Nothing suits you better than
totals
to give orders, make demands and
Now,read the answer for the column in
generally make people uneasy. Your
which your score is highest.If you have
less than 3 points between your two top
leadership style is great for dictators,
military officers and coaches and, on
answers, read both those answers.
occasion, business executives. How
ever, while you are enjoying using your
Column A
Even though you may be the boss, you
are also a team player in every sense of
the word. In this day and age, your
leadership style is favored in many
companies. You know how to delegate,
not only work, but authority. You al
ways involve those that work under you
in the decision making process. You
know when and how to use your author
ity to discipline your subordinates, but
you also know how to make them feel
like they are part of the team.
Column B
You live by the old adage;"If you want
something done right, do it yourself."
You are great at "being the boss" but
you aren't very good at delegating. As
a consequence, you may find yourself
authority, you may overlook rule num
ber one, getting your job done effec
tively. You may even be called"power-
hungry"by some.Try to find a sense of
humor - and relax! You'll find diat this
can make you much more effective than
before.
Column D
You may not really like being the boss,
you would rather avoid authority than
handle it. You may have a tendency to
make suggestions instead of telling
someone what you want done. Even
though you may think you me being
nice, you may actually be hurting your
employees more than you are helping
them. They cannot read your mind and
your lack of direction leaves them un
sure of what to do next. Try to be a little
mired in work. Even when you do dele
more forceful, tell your employees
gate a task to someone else, you may
take so much time checking over their
what you want done and then follow
that up with support. You will not only
work that you could have done it your
self. There are many successful execu
tives who have this style of leadership.
feel better about yourself but your
employees will like you better too.
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 27
oetry
1 am the rock,
the caretaker.
I maintain the balance,
though sometimes precarious,
that you may walk
on steady feet
wherever your spirit leads you,
I minister to your wounds,
external scrapes and
the less tangible ones inside,
a gentle kiss
to anesthetize the sting
and a Wonder Woman bond-aid
to moke a painful reminder
i nourish you,
making you take three bites
of everything
(just in cose you might like
the green stuff)
making you finish dinner
something worth taking
for show-ond-teii.
before dessert,
sustaining your body
through your days of wonder
and adventure.
i tuck you in
at night
with a tender kiss
and a soft iuiiobye
watching you fight sleep
with determined, droopy eyes,
giving you a warm bed
from which your happy soul
con dream
giving you a safe harbor
to which your dream ships
can return
giving you a special love
to always call
Home.
-Koti Shantz
Austin, TX
Would you like to see your poetry or short stories In print? Send us a copy!
Please Include your name, address, phone number & signature. All poetry received
will be assumed for publication. Your signature grants Dimensions permission to
publish and verifies that you are the author/owner of said poetry or writings.
Be sure and tell us if you want to use your real name or what pen name you prefer.
Page 28 • Dimensions • August 1988
oroscope
What's in the Stars for You this month?
get away from routine matters. A short
vacation could help relieve stress and
help you avoid an angry blow-up at
LEO
(July 23rcl - August 22nd)
Don't let anyone stand in the way of
your success during the first week of
August. You may get off to some false
home.
starts on a project at work,but once you
LIBRA
get things going, you'll be hard to stop.
From the 9th thru the 16th you may
(Sept. 23rd - Oct. 23rd)
You may not feel like working during
find yourself with some new friends.
the first week of August,butit's best to
One of these may be influential to your
get organized and get going! The work
will only pile up more if you ignore it.
career. From the 17th thru the 23rd
you could be feeling the urge for
From the 9th thru the 16th there could
be a social affair that is related to work.
change either at work or at home. A
change in decor or to a new position
could be just the change you are look
Put on your brightest smile and go, it
will keep you in good stead with the
boss and help your career. From the
ing for. From the 24th thru the 31st a
friend could let you down and change
your plans for the weekend abruptly.
17th thru the 23rd a problem in a
Your best bet is to stay at home and
otherwise perfect week. Your finances
enjoy a romance that has been brewing.
VIRGO
(August 23rd - Sept. 22nd)
Don't try to rekindle an old love affair
during the first week of August. You
will be better offjust to remain friends
with this person.From the 9th thru the
16th a conflict of interest could make
your head spin. You may have tojuggle
time to meet all your personal and
personal relationship could cloud an
are getting better and your charisma is
atits peak.From the 24th thru the 31st
avoid dwelling on the past,the future is
looking bright and you should get right
down to the business of enjoying it!
SCORPIO
(Oof. 24th - Nov. 22nd)
Be diplomatic with those you deal with
on a daily basis during the first week of
August. Bossing people around will
get you nowhere right now. From the
business obligations. From the 17th
thru the 23rd your finances take a turn
for the better but you should still stick to
a budget. You have the ability to do
outfor fun! All work and no play makes
Jill a very grouchy girl. Outdoor activi
wonders with limited funds right now.
From the 24th thru the 31st you should
down.From the 17th thru the 23rd be
9th thru the 16th you should take time
ties will especially help you wind
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 29
careful what you wish for - you just
might get it! You will certainly be in the
limelight right now but be sure and
keep a sharp eye on financial matters.
From the 24th thru the 31st you might
luxury right now.This is a better time to
increase income than to spend. Work
responsibilities increase around
week's end.
want to visit relatives or old friends.
AQUARIUS
You may not realize how long it has
been since you've seen them.
Your pride may have taken a fall during
SAGIHARIUS
the first week of August because of
either work or personal problems.Even
(Nov. 23rcl - Dec. 21st)
You may find that your shoulder is in
demand for crying on during the first
week in August. Be sympathetic and
optimistic, you will not only lift the
spirits ofa friend,but your own as well.
(Jan. 20th - Feb. 18th)
though you aren't entirely at fault, you
still catch most of the blame. From the
9th thru the 16th take advantage of
your good mood and get involved in
some social activities. A new romance
or rekindling of an old one will add to
From the 9th thru the 16th there don't
the fun. From the 17th thru the 23rd
seem to be any clouds on your horizon.
financial matters will be looking up,
This is a fun time and your finances can
stand the strain ofsome extravagances.
however, you should stick to your
budget. There may be an unexpected
From the 17th thru the 23rd don't mix
expense come up at week's end. From
love and money. If you go to fast, you
the 24th thru the 31st there will be
could be left out ofboth.From the 24th
many demands on you. Try to meet
your obligations but don't ignore loved
thru the 31st some juicy gossip could
liven up an otherwise dull week. Even
though your social life is full right now,
you may be getting a little bored with it
ones, they will help alleviate stress.
CAPRICORN
PISCES
(Feb. 19th - Mar. 20th)
Your personal life takes precedence
over work during the first week of
(Dec. 22nd - Jan. 19th)
Don't allow your emotions to affect
new romance or spice up your current
all.
your health during the first week of
August. You are probably just upset
about a passing problem. From the 9th
thru the 16th everything is looking up.
August. Social activities can bring a
one. From the 9th thru the 16th let
your logic, and not your emotions,
guide you. A raise or promotion could
be in the cards right now.From the 17th
thru the 23rd your love life and your
Love and money are right on track but
don't get too excited - you could set
yourself up for a fall if you go too far.
finances are looking bright and you
From the 17th thru the 23rd your love
great lime to go on vacation or change
and personal lives are on good footing
and you can concentrate on a financial
the 24th thru the 31st you may have to
matter that needs your attention. From
the 24th thru the 31st don't indulge in
resolve a dispute at home. Don't feel
sorry for yourself, you can get things
Page 30 • Dimensions • August 1988
have high hopes for the future. This is a
your routine to add in some fun. From
Property of the Center
back on track if you will think out your
priorities.
ARIES
March 21st - April 19th
You may be having problems with
GEMINI
(May 21st - June 21st)
Change may be in the air during the
first week of August and the quicker
you adjust to it, the better off you'll be.
From the 9th thru the 16th you should
mood swings as August gets underway.
Try to relax and don't spread yourself
too thin or make promises you can't
get all your pressing business out of the
way early in the week. Fun activities
deliver.From the 9th thru the 16th you
the week.From the 17th thru the 23rd
will keep you occupied for the rest of
will feel more comfortable with the
you could be feeling a little scattered
hectic pace of your social life. How
out. With all the demands on your time
right now,you would be well advised to
ever, you will need to take time to be
with your loved ones. The 17th thru
refuse a few invitations so you can
the 23rd is good time to take a combi
nation vacation/business trip. You
could meet someone very important to
your career or a new love. From the
catch your breath. From the 24th thru
the 31st don't set your sights too high
for a project you've been working on.
Missed deadlines or a mistake could
24th thru the 31st it's time to slow
throw things off course.
down again. Find the time to do things
that you really want to do even if it
means rearranging your schedule. You
will feel like a new person after some
time away from the social whirl.
CANCER
(June 22nd - July 22nd)
Avoid making impulsive or emotional
decisions during the first week of Au
gust,they could lead to the downfall of
TAURUS
April 20th - May 20th
You may get caught up in social activi
ties during the first week of August,
but it may get you into trouble at home
and on the financial front. From the 9th
thru the 16th you'll be feeling in more
of a stay-at-home mood.This is a good
an importantproject.From the 9th thru
the 16th your luck will change for the
better. Pay attention to details at work
and you could be on your way to a raise
or promotion. From the I7th thru the
23rd someone who was important to
you in past could make a return appear
time to work around the house or gar
ance, even if the old attraction is still
there,itis best not to getinvolved again.
den or have a garage sale. From the
From the 24th thru the 31st some
17th thru the 23rd your career can get
a boostif you will apply yourself.Don't
plans for the weekend may fail to come
through, but don't worry, there are
take any financial risks and avoid los
plenty of fun things to do around your
ing your temper with loved ones and
home base and it will be much more
co-workers. From the 24th thru the
relaxing.
31st you could be feeling bored. Spice
up your life with some unusual social
activities or a short trip.
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 31
Short Story by Cameron Taylor
It's young love and our first trip. We are
traveling in two vehicles, me in the truck
with the camper, Jean in the car. We are
headed for my favorite lake to camp and
fish.Our first stop is atmy Aunt's to borrow
down on my back and Jean continues to
her boat.
"Will this tire make it to the lake?," I ask
growing. What else can go wrong?
We head for the other camp with Jean in the
looking over a tire that is paper thin.
"Sure, Honey, we drove it in that way,"
lead, she heads the wrong direction and I
signal her to pull over. She turns around and
question my thirty minute disappearance.
Not only are all the campsites taken, all the
cabins are full. We decide to drive to the
other side of the lake. My irritation is
replies my Aunt.
starts in the opposite direction without stop
The lake is thirty miles away and I have my
ping. Obviously,I'm not the only one who
doubts about the tire, but I have the boat.
Five miles out of town, I am balanced on a
is irritated, I think as I turn around to follow
lug wrench trying to break the lug nuts off
the boat trailer. No doubt they were the
originals and had never been off . Jean
screams,"Fluffy has afishhookinherpaw."
After ten minutes of Jean crying and the dog
yelping,I get the fish hook out with a pair of
pliers. I go back to the boat trailer where my
lug wrench is bent into a perfect "S" and
finally manage to get the tire off and the
spare on.I throw my bent lug wrench half
way across a North Texas pasture over
Jean's objection,"You'll need that."
I wonder if this means something? After all,
her. I am right behind Jean,but then I notice
- the boat isn't behind me anymore.
I get out and walk to the back of the truck.
Only half the hitch is there, and no boat. I
panic,jump in the truck and roar back down
the road.There, as I top thehill,is my Aunt's
boat in the middle of the road. She'd die if
she knew this,I think as I get outofthe truck.
No,she'd kill me.I get the boat off the road
and onto the edge of some guy's yard.
Jean is gone. I get back in the truck to hunt
her, wondering if the boat will be ok.I find
her in the next camp waiting on me and
wanting to know,"Where have you been?"
bad luck will end.
Now, had I known her longer I would have
lost my temper, but love has a way of
The lake is as rough as the Atlantic Ocean.
keeping our best foot forward for a long
It is pouring rain and as I follow Jean toward
camp something feels strange. When I look
time. I explain what happened to the boat.
We drove to town and rented a motel. The
in the rear view mirror, the boat is pointing
next moming I waslucky enough(if you can
call anything on this trip lucky) to find a
this is our first trip together. But maybe our
skyward instead of sitting on the trailer. I
stop immediately. The rain is steadily get
ting worse, Jean's car is no where in sight,
and I am in mud up to my ankles trying to
"unlaunch" the boat. After twenty minutes
trailer hitch. I had to chisel on the old hitch
for two and a half hours to get it off.
We never launched the boat. By then,I was
afraid to put it in the lake. It might've sunk.
of struggling , I have it strapped down and
Yes, it was our first trip. We went on many
I'm driving around hunting Jean.
She's parked in a full campsite. She's starts
more after that. Some eight years later, as I
look back on that relationship and that trip,
in,"Where have you been ?"
I am wondering if this young relationship
will survive this fishing trip.
I realize that, if I ever meet a woman who
brings me that kind of luck on a fishing trip
again, when I lose her I won't hunt her.
I lean in the car window while the rain beats
Page 32 • Dimensions • August 1988
T-Shirts"^
Long-Sleeved T's
Sweatshirts • Golf Cops
Available in Hot Pink, Lavender,
Dove Grey And White.
50% Cotton/50% Polyester
PRICES
T-Shlris
$12.00 ea.
Long Sleeved T's
$15.00 ea.
Sweatshirts
$17.00 ea.
Golf Caps
$7.00 ea.
Please Include $2.50 Postage & Handling
Texas Residents Please Add 7 1/2% Sales Tax
Fill Out Form & be sure to include check or money order for whole amount
Circle Color(P=Pink, L=Lavender, W=White)and Size. Fill in quantity.
T-Shirt
Pink, Lavender, Grey, White - S, M, L, XL - #
Long 8. T©©
Pink, Lavender, Grey, White - S, M, L, XL - #
Sw©Otshirt
Pink, Lavender, Grey, White - S, M, L, XL - #
Golf Cop
Pink, Lavender, Grey, White - S, M, L, XL - #
If you wish to order in different colors please nut information on a seperate_sl^t.|
Norn©
.City
Aclcir©ss
Stot©
-Zip
Phon©
Please allow 3 to 4 weeks for delivery
Mail to: Dimensions, P.O. Box 856, Lubbock,TX 79408
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 33
irectory
A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
AMARILLO,TX (area code 806)
businesses
P.O. Box 710135 75371
Dallas Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 190712 75219 .528-4233
Mobile Melodies
Dallas Gay/Lesbian Historic Arclilves
353-4636 or 874-2326
3930 Cedar Springs » 821-1653
Dallas Gay Youtti Group
AUSTIN, TX (area code 512)
300 Turtle Creek Plaza #1 16.307-7203
Dallas Outdoors
clubs
Nexus/Petticoat Junction
P.O. Box 35474 75235• 276-5270
401 & 401-B E. 2nd • 495-9553
3900 Lemmon Ave. #220 « 526-5292
organizations
Austin Lambda
P.O. Box 5455 78763
Gay/Lesbian Student
Association at UT Austin
Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338
458-3971
Lesbian/Gay Rigtits Lobby
P.O. Box 2505 78768
Metropolitan Community Ctiurcti
1100 Springdale Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Ministry
5555 N. Lamer Blvd. #L101 • 441-9191
Waterloo Counseling Center
507 Powell 78703 • 322-9654
Texas Human Rigtits Foundation
1014-G N. Lomor 78703• 479-8473
Dallas Tavern Guild
Foundation for Human Understanding
528-4233
Gay Community Center
3920 Cedar Springs » 528-4233
Gay/Lesbian Young Adults
528-4233
Grace Fellowstilp In Ctirist Jesus
2727 Oak Lawn 75219 • 528-2811
Lesbian Information Line (LIL)
528-2426
Lesbian/Gay Rigtits Advocates
528-4233
Lesbian Visionaries
P.O. Box 710185 75371
Oak Lawn Counseling Center
3000 Turtle Creek Plaza, Suite 116
75219-5311.520-8108
Oak Lawn Symptionic Band
P.O. Box 190973
DALLAS, TX (area code 214)
businesses
Business Delivery Systems
14902 Preston Rd. 75240 • 733-1108
Crossroads Market
75219• 986-1751
Womyn Togettier
3920 Cedar Springs « 528-4233
FT. WORTH (area code 817)
clubs
3930 Cedar Springs
528-4620 or 1-800-992-6404
Kennel Kare Grooming Salon
Partners
1612 Park Place • 924-2519
379-0737
Off ttie Street
HOUSTON, TX (area code 713)
3921 Cedar Springs • 521-9051
businesses
Clubs
Higti Country
Lobo Bookstore
3121 inwood.351-2278
Rumors
5039 Willis Ave.• 828-4471
organizations
AIDS Resource Center
3920 Cedor Springs 75219
Among Friends
Page 34 • Dimensions • August 1988
1424-C Westlielmer« 522-5156
Clubs
Kindred Spirits
4902-C Westtieimer • 522-5156
Rancti
9125 S. Main « 666-3464
organizations
AIDS Foundation
3400 Montrose #700 • 524-AIDS
AIDS HOTLINE
c/o Switchboard • 529-3211
National Gay/Lesbian Crisisline
Gay/Lesbian Students
University of Houston
Ttie Fund for Human Dignity
666 Broadway 4th Floor
4800 Colhoun • 529-3211
NY, NY 10012
NY, NY 10012
1-800-221-7044
Gay & Lesbian Switctiboard
P.O. Box 66591 77266 • 529-3211
P.O. Box 66664 77266 * 521-1000
NORMAN,OK (area code 405)
organizations
Houston Ttiurday Nite Mixers
Bowling League
Women's Resource Center
P.O. Box 5089 73070
Houston Gay Political Caucus
Steve: 699-3732 or Phil: 688-6970
Kingdom Community Ctiurcti
614 E. 19th.862-7533
Lambda ALANON
Lambda Center for Alchoholics
1214 Joanne • 521-9772
Lesbian/Gay Students
University of Houston - Clear Lake
2700 Bay Area 77058
OKLAHOMA CITY, OK
(area code 405)
organizations
Oasis the Community Center
2135 NW 39th 73112 • 525-AiDS
Herland Sister Resources, Inc.
2312 NW 39th 73112 • 794-7464
Lesbian Mottiers
Mottiers Group
864-3098
Montrose Pool League/Billiards
PJ 863-8482
PWA Coalition - Houston
3327 Essex Lane, Suite #16 77027
623-4436
SAN ANTONIO,TX
(area code 512)
clubs
Blue Angel West
1583 Bandera • 434-5652
The Jezebel
Women's Lobby Alliance
8755 Wurzbdch Rd.• 697-0413
4 Chelsea « 521-0439
organizations
Women's Softball League
LISA (Lesbian Information SA)
828-LiSA (5472)
6431 Pineshade • 868-6256
LUBBOCK.TX (area code 806)
organizations
San Antonio AIDS Foundation
P.O. Box 120113 78212-9313
San Antonio Tavern Guild
822-2823
Lubbock Lesbian/Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 64746 79464 • 796-2403
West Texas Aids Foundation, Inc.
P.O. Box 93120.794-1757
SOUTH PADRE ISLAND, TX
(area code 512)
accomodations
NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS
Lyie's Deck
AIDS Action Council
120 E. AtolSt.
729 Eighth St. S.E. Suite 200
Washington, D.C. 20003
P.O. Box 2326 78597
761-LYLE
(202) 547-3101
^ List Your Business in the
AIDS 800
1-800-221-7044
National Gay Alliance for Young
Adults, Inc.
P.O. Box 190426
Dallas, TX 75219-0426
(214) 307-7203
National Gay/Lesbian Clearingtiouse
666 Broadway 4th Floor
Dimensions Directory
for only
Non-Profit Community Service
Organizations Listed Free of Charge
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 35
TO PLACE A CLASSIFIED AD:
Print clearly or type your ad on the form below or on a separate sheet
of paper. (If typed on a separate sheet, please be sure to include your
name, address and phone number.)
2. Count the number of words in the ad. Phone numbers, addresses and
zip codes count as one word each. Hyphenated words count as two words.
Figure the cost of the ad by multiplying the number of words times 250
(500 per word for business and comercial ads) and multiply the cost
of the ad by the number of months you would like it to run.
4. Check the classification in which you would like the ad to appear.
5. Box number for personal ads will be assigned and should not be counted.
6. All classified ads must be paid in advance. Please enclose a check or
money order for the total amount of the ad.
1.
AD INFO
All personal information will be held in strictest confidence
NameAddress.
City/State
□ Personals
□ Messages
□ Books/Publications
□ Travel
_Phone(
)
□ Work Wanted
□ Professional Services
□ Investments
□ Miscellaneous
-Zip
□ Roommates
□ For Rent/Lease
□ For Sale
□ Help Wanted
Please print or type your ad in the space below:
No. of words (250 ea.)*
No. Bold words (500 ea.)*.
No. Months to run
Total Cost-
' Business and Commercial Ads are 500 for regular wording and $1 for bold type.
Complete form and mail to:
DIMENSIONS
P.O. Box 856
•
Lubbock, TX
Page 36 • Dimensions • August 1988
•
(806) 797-9647
C
2"X 1 1/2"
Display Ad
s
RATES:
250 Per Word
With Border
500 Per Word BOLD TYPE
& Bold Headline
Add $ 1.50 for Ads in ALL
Deadline for Qassified Ads is ihe 20ih of each month prior to the month of publication. Payment must
accompany all ads. All Classified Ads will be accepted at the discretion of Dimensions. Dimensions wUl not
be held responsible for errors in your ad after the first month of publication and cannot be held liable for more
than the cost of the original ad.
personals
TRANSEXUAL Needs Friends Too -
Dallas area pre-op male to female
transexual, very altraclive, degreed
professional. I'm sincere, stable, intel
ligent, and lonely! Seeking friendship
with attractive,feminine female.I have
a very likeable personality, great sense
of humor,and a soft heart.I like movies,
theater, dining out, fashion, shopping,
travel,spontaneity, quiet conversation,
nights out, etc. Please don't be scared
off by my transexual situation; I'm a
neat person to have as friend. Reply to
Box# 133.
Photo requested. Reply to Box # 134
SEEKING:OWE,very feminine,thin,
young, patient, monogamous. Likes:
older,athletic women,living in Dallas,
staying home, active relationship.
Working,tired college,graduating. No
smoking,alcohol,drugs, men.Reply to
Box # 137.
DALLAS-FT. WORTH AREA -
Professional OWE,5'7",athletic build,
loves life, people, animals, dancing,
quiet evenings and a variety ofinterests
and hobbies. I am shy at first but once I
feel comfortable around who I am with,
I am more outgoing.I don't care for the
singles bar scene but I do go occasion
ally for dancing with a date or to meet
friends (rarely now because of early
mornings and busy schedule). Light
HOUSTON: I'm an energetic, young
looking 41 year old who is professional
and independent. I'm seeking a lady to
share a variety of activities from sports
drinker,absolutely no drugs.I am look
and dancing to quiet, relaxing, eve
ing
for a nice lady who loves life.
nings at home. I'm caring and faithful^
August 1988 • Dimensions • Page 37
people, animals and has a variety of
Professionai
interests for friendship and possible
future romantic relationship. Photo if
Services
possible. Reply to Box # 138.
DALLAS - Private Piano & Guitar
CERCLE Des Femmes. Correspon
lessons by N.T.S.U. Graduate. Contact
Cathy at(214) 394-0642.
dence Club for womyn. $1 Two ad
dresses. Age and photo please. Box
418. Dysart,Iowa 52224.
investments
essages
CHERYL -1 would have already lost
my mind if 1 didn't have you. Thanks
for being so supportive. I love you!
Vicki.
^ooks/
publications
GAY WOMEN write/meet - EVERY
WHERE!- through The Wishing Well.
Established
1974. Confidential.
Prompt. Tender, loving alternative to
"The Well of Loneliness." Introduc
tory copy $5.00(mailed discreetly first
class). Also,"Well-Talk" Tapes. Free
information: P.O. Box G, Santee, CA
92071-0167.
ifCisceiianeous
L
HOW TO
ANSWER
A NUMBERED
PERSONAL
AD:
Put your reply in an
envelope and seal the
envelope shut. On
the outside of the envelope
put your return address in
the upper left-hand corner
and put the number listed In
the ad on the bottom
right-hand corner.
Please be sure to stamp
both envelopes. Put the first
envelope Into a second
envelope and address it to:
Dimensions,
FREE LESBIAN MAIL ORDER
BOOK CATALOG, describing over
300 books, records, videos (including
P.O. Box 856, 79408.
We will then forward your
letter unopened to the
person who placed the ad!
ALL Naiad titles). Send 2 stamps to:
Dont Forget to Stamp
Both Envelopes!
Womankind Books, Dept. DTX, 5
Kivy St., Huntington Station, NY
11746. Mailed discreetly.
Your
Return
Address
tt XXX
7rove/
Your
Return
Address
l^oommates
Page 38 • Dimensions • August 1988
DIMENSIONS
pq
O
Lut>t>ock. TX 79408
University of Central Oklahoma Library. Edmond. OK
M 001 110 959
Property of the Cei)ter
i
•^<1 •
.1...
V'
...
t.
r .l
''.I
«;'«k
m
■, •
'■ ■■'■ ■:
:■
'•
I'&d
'-i ',
'
'''
Join Us For The
DIMENSIONS
6ETAW >VECI\END
AT LYLE'S DECK
South Padre Island
October 7, 8,9 &10
• Enjoy meeting new friends
• Miles of beoutifui beaches in
worm,80 degree temperatures
• Shopping in Motomoros Mexico
• Surfing, sailing, sunning & fishing
with special friends
Private Sundecks • Jacuzzi •
Swimming Pool • Choose from 14
Comfortable Guest Rooms with
Private Baths or shore the Nautical
Locker Room with several friends
Plus...
• FREE Cocktail Party Fri. & Sat. Nights(BYOB)
• FREE Continental Breakfast
• FREE Sunday Night Dinner
For Reservations & information Contact:
12GE. AtoiSt.
\/irv^
r\rir*l/
UHLrV
Q%2
AquESBiousr^=c__!b±^
P O- Box 2326
(512)
761-LYLE
vw i c./ # v i i. ■ k.i.
American Express • Discover • MC • Visa