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THRF NEEDS YOU!
Dear Dimensions,
It's unfortunate but true that the radical right
is intent on destroying our basic freedoms.
They wish to force their narrow dogma on
all of us, and they have now taken their
campaign to our college campuses. Their
announcement,the administration reinstated
the Gay/Lesbian Student Association.
This time, we didn't have to sue to win. Wc
didn't have to because we already had
established precedent through an earlier
court case. But we did have to respond.Only
well-funded propaganda machine is stealing
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through our own vigilance will the illegal
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To maintain such vigilance, we need your
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You can become a sustaining member of
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A case in point: the recent events at Stephen
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At the urging of young conservatives, the
Student Government Association voted to
revoke the charter of the Gay/Lesbian
can really make a difference.
Student Association,depriving the group of
funding and the use of campus facilities.
On public college campuses,students must
be free to express themselves without fear
The radical right has demonstrated that there
really is strength in numbers. Through the
individual contributions of their supporters,
they have generated a war chest of millions.
The time has come for us to join together:
each of us giving what we can.
of condemnation. The courts have agreed.
They have upheld free expression on college
campuses,regardless ofwhether the message
To donate or for more information, call or
is popular. The Texas Human Rights
right of gay and lesbian student groups to
write THRF at:(512)479-THRF;P.O. Box
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Sincerely,
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use campus facilities. The result, we have
seen gay and lesbian student organizations
Acting Executive Director
Texas Human Rights Foundation
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Texas A&M University that affirmed the
and support groups formed on every major
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From Around the Region, the Country & the World
All Eyes On The
104th
WASHINGTON, D.C. — Promising
to revolutionize American government.
Republicans opened the doors of the
Capitol Building to a new House of
Representatives and Senate both
dominated by the Republican party for
the first time in 40 years.Stepping up to
the rostrum for the first time on the
who have a long-standing tradition of
opposing gay-positive legislation.Chief
among them is Jesse Helms, the
homophobic North Carolina senator,
who will now head the Senate Foreign
Relations Committee.
Activists can expect to spend the bulk
of their energies throughout the 104th
Congress fighting off anti-gay
legislation and funding cuts. Many
morning of January 3rd, new Speaker
previously defeated Radical Right
initiatives may find a second wind in
of the House Newt Gingrich touted his
the 104th session.Anti-gay amendments
Contract With America. Previous
statements by Gingrich, including that
"it is madness to pretend that families
may appear in legislation on topics
ranging from government personnel
policies to milk subsidies.Funding may
are anything other than heterosexual
be challenged for the Ryan White CARE
couples,"make it clear that his Contract
With America is intended to support
only some Americans.Gay,lesbian and
bisexual people have learned to read
between the lines of proposed Contract
policies
like "The
Family
Reinforcement Act"and mightconsider
renaming the Republican Contract a
Actand other AIDS research and service
appropriations, the
National
Endowment of the Arts for its funding
of gay positive art, and for sehools
teaching tolerance and acceptance of
all students, including gay and lesbian
youth.Unfortunately,pro-active efforts,
What concerns most progressive
activists is notthe takeover ofthe House
ineluding movement of pro-gay federal
legislation such as the Employment
Non-Discrimination Actseem unlikely
in such politically conservative and
and Senate by the Republican party per
hostile environment.In addition,attacks
se but rather the dominance of an
on abortion rights, social security
ultraconservative faction of Senators
and Representatives. According to a
recentreport by the Christian Coalition,
a full 44 of the 62 new Republican
members ofthe House conformed to its
insurance, health care and new
"Contract on America.
"pro-family, pro-life" agenda. Also
alarming are the number of familiar
immigrants all appear likely.
Activistsfrom all comers ofthe country
will need to keep up on the new hostile
Congress by lobbying their Senators
and Representatives regularly if the
voices gay,lesbian and bisexual people
faces now chairing powerful committees
February 1995• Dimensions• Page 7
are to be heard on Capitol Hill.
The National Gay and Lesbian Task
Force(NGLTF)offers several resources
to assist in lobbying the federal
government. To learn more about
writing, calling and visiting your
senators and representatives,Call(202)
332-6483, ext. 3327 and request
screen lover)will star in the production.
"Serving in Silence" will include a much
anticipated lesbian kiss between these
two well-respected and popular
actresses. The Radical Right is already
up in arms over the kiss and is urging
advertisers to boycott the movie.
Executive producers are Glenn Close,
Lobbying Tips($1.00)from the NGLTF
publication request line.
Barbra Streisand, Craig Zadan, Neil
NBC TO Air
Margarethe
TLC & March To Be
Bred In Austin
Cammermeyer Story
AUSTIN, TX - The Eighth Annual
HOLLYWOOD,CA - NBC will air the
Texas Lesbian Conference(TLC) will
two hour, made for television movie
"Serving in Silence; The Margarethe
Cammermeyer Story" on Monday,
February 6th.
The movie is based on the true story of
Colonel Margarethe Cammermeyer,the
highest ranking officer ever to be
discharged from the U.S. military for
admitting she is a lesbian. Colonel
Cammermeyerhasfought her discharge
through the federal courts with the help
of the Lambda Defense Fund,
Northwestern Women'sLaw Center and
the National Lawyers Guild. In June of
1994, a federal judge declared the
regulation leading to her discharge
unconstitutional and reinstated the
Colonel in the National Guard. An
appeal is pending,but it is believed that
it will be resolved in her favor based on
the Keith Meinhold decision.
Academy Award nominated actresses
Glen Close(as Colonel Cammermeyer)
and Australian Judy Davis (as her on
Meron and Cis Corman.
be held March 31, April 1 & 2 at the
Radisson Hotel onTownLake in Austin.
TLC is the only annual statewide lesbian
conference in the United States.
Organized each year by volunteers in
the host city, TLC has proven to be an
effective tool for sharing resources and
ideas, for expanding awareness and
developing leadership asTexaslesbians.
This year's theme is "Texas Women:
Living Out Loud." We are currently
accepting proposals for workshops to
be presented at the conference under
this theme.
TLC'95 will dovetail with the Statewide
"Stop the Violence, Stop the Hate
Lesbian and Gay Rights March on
Austin on April 2nd.The March begins
at 12 noon at Palmer Auditorium and
will proceed up Congress Avenue
toward the Capitol.The March is being
held because seven people in Texas
were murdered because they were gay
in 1994.The March is sponsored by the
Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby of Texas.
Page 8 • Dimensions • February 1995
Early registration for TLC '95 is $45
478-9611 and state that you are a TLC
participant.TLC will arrange alternative
housing upon request.
and includes entertainment, keynote
speakers, workshops, a banquet,
Saturday night women's dance and all
other conference activities. Registration
fees will increase closer to the
For more information, call the TLC
Hotline at (512) 326-4453 or write to
TLC'95,P.O.Box 200546,Austin,TX
conference.
78720-0546. The conference is
The Radisson Hotel is offering a special
rate for conference participants. Single
or double occupancy will be $82 per
room, with three or four per room the
rate will be $92 per night. The hotel is
wheelchair accessible,and will provide
sign language interpreters. Braille
materials, and child care on request.
only holding 100 rooms for the
conference, so be sure to make your
reservations early to get the special
room rates. Call the Radisson at (512)
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What's
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A Monthly Listing Of Special Events All Around The Area
SUZANNE WESTENHOEFER -
AUSTIN - Make your plans now to
Suzanne Westenhoefer, comedienne
attend the 8th Annual Texas Lesbian
extrodinairre will be making a quick
tour of Texas in February. If you have
caught her act on Comedy Central or
various talk shows, you know just how
Conference and to show your pride in
the Lesbian and Gay March on
funny she is. This is a don't miss show.
on Town Lake. The March (sponsored
SAN ANTONIO - First stop, San
Antonio. Ms. Westenhoefer will be
by the Lesbian/Gay Rights Lobby of
Texas)will begin at 12 noon on April 2
Austin. The conference will be held
March 31-April2atthe Radisson Hotel
appearing at Bonham Exchange on
atthePalmer Auditorium and proceed
Thursday,February 9th. The show will
start about 9:30pm. Tickets are $10 in
For more info on the conference, call
advance and $12 at the door and are
(512) 326-4453. For more info on the
available at Bonham Exchange. For
more info, call(210) 224-9219.
AUSTIN - She will be appearing in
march, call (512)474-5475.
Austin atthe Radisson Hotel Ballroom
on
Friday, February 10th at 8pm.
up Congress Ave. toward the Capitol.
DALLAS - ART-Positive, a gallery
show & sale featuring the work ofHIVpositive artists opens Sunday, March
Tickets are $15 in advance and $18 at
19th at the Edith Baker Gallery(2404
the
Cedaar Springs Road). The show will
present a wide range of paintings and
sculpturefrom area HIV-positive artists.
A portion of the proceeds will go to
benefit Legacy Counseling Center, a
door and
are
available
at
Bookwoman, Celebration! and
Liberty Books. Call (512) 929-8630
for more info.
FORT WORTH - She will then travel to
the Metroplex for a show on Saturday,
February 11th at 8pm at Orchestra
Hal! (4401 Trail Lake Dr.) in Fort
Worth. Tickets are $15 in advance and
non-profit mental health care agency
that provides counseling and emotional
support to individuals, friends and
family members challenged with AlDs
$17 at the door and are available at
and HIV. For more info, call Carolyn
Connections Bookstore and Agape
at(214)622-5252.
MCC in Fort Worth and at Crossroads
Market in Dallas. For more info, call
(817)924-3264.
HOUSTON - Then, it's on to Houston
on Sunday,February 12th for her final
Texas appearance at the Heinen
Theatre(3517 Austin St.at Holman)at
7:30pm.Tickets are$15 in advance and
OKLAHOMA CITY - Herland Sister
Resourcesisforming acommunityfood
pantry to help lesbians in need.
Donationsofnon-perishablefood items,
pet food and household supplies are
needed.If you can donate or if you need
Inklings Bookshop and Crossroads
help,go by Herland(2312 N.W.39th)
during business hours on Saturdays
10am-5pm and Sundays lpm-5pm.For
Market.For more info,call(713)521-
more info, call(405)521-9696.
$17 at the door and are available at
3369.
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hold their 4th annual festival on
OF INTEREST TO ALL
Golden Threads, a worldwide social
network ofLesbian women over50and
February 16-18. This year's festival
will again be held at the Dallas Theater
Center on Turtle Creek with a special
opening night screening at the Inwood
older women will hold its 9th Annual
Golden Threads Celebration on June
23-25 in Provincetown,Massachusetts.
DALLAS - The Dallas Lesbian &
Gay International Film Festival will
Theater.If you would like more info or
are interested in volunteering to help
with the festival, call Deb at(214)2574443.
women ofany age who are interested in
There will be workshops,entertainment
provided by Alix Dobkin and a banquet
to be followed by dancing.OLOC(Old
Lesbians Organizingfor Change)will
also hold their June meeting to coincide
FORT WORTH - The First Thursday
with the Celebration. For more
Lesbian Social (formerly Second
Tuesday, formerly First Friday) meets
the first Thursday of each month from
6-9pm at Downtown Java(at 6th St.&
Houston on Sundance Square). First
Thursday is amonthly social networking
group for lesbians. Admission is $1.
food,coffee and beverages are available.
information, write Christine Burton,
Golden Threads, P.O. Box 60475,
Northhampton, MA 01060-0475.
Team Seattle will hold its Second
Annual Winter SportsFestival March
10-12 at the Seattle Center Arena and
the Lesbian Caucus of the Women's
at Snoqualmie Pass ski area.
Competitions will be held in alpine
skiing, cross-country
skiing,
snowboarding, ice hockey and figure
skating(singles,pairs and ice dancing).
For more info or to register, call(206)
Caucusfor Art will host"Re/Defining
820-3438.
BYOB if desired.
SAN ANTONIO - The Esperanza
Peace & Justice Center (EPJC) and
Lesbians: Power/Transition", a
national exhibition of recent visual art
by self-identifying lesbians. The show
will be held through February 19th at
EPJC (922 San Pedro at Evergreen).
For more info, call(210)228-0201.
If you have Information for
What's Goln'On,
please send It to us!
Deadline for submissions
is the 20th of each month.
hazelwitch productions presents
SUZANNE WE5TENH0BFER
Lesbian Comedian Extraordinarie
Sunday, FE&RUARY 12, 1995, 7:30 pm
at Houston's HEINEN THEATRE. 3517 Austin @ Holman
TICKETS: $ 15 advance, $ 1 7 at door (k
In advance at: Inklings Bookshop, (713)521-3369
& Crossroads Market, (713)942-0147
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Answers to your questions about love,
RELATIONSHIIPS & PERSONAL PROBLEMS
Dear Agnes,
Dear Agnes,
How refreshing to read that there is a
butch out there willing to be "a butch
searching for a femme." She can feel
free to write to me if you will give her
This is in reference to the letter in the
Dec./Jan.94-95 issue signed "Looking
for Femmes."
It seems that a lesbian is in the eye ofthe
beholder, like beauty. You see,I don't
The best thing she can do is quit putting
women into categories based on their
looks. I have long hair, wear makeup
and occasionally even heels.I can work
see many (if any) butches out there
on my own car,do my own home repairs
unless already welded - oops -1 mean
and have a collection oftools that would
wedded.
make most men drool. I may look
"femme," but I'm truly a butch girl at
my address.
"Looking for Femmes" would not be
attracted to mefor I am an older woman,
heart.
not too femme, but attractive. Living
has left its trace-lines and so forth. But,
On the other hand,I know women with
I delighted in her letter and strongly
encourage her to keep up her search.
change their own tire.
I believe there can be good butch/femme
attracted to someone who looks like
a classic "butch" look who can't even
The letter-writer states that she is "not
togetherness, mutual respect. I cherish
myself."I think she needs to change her
a dream of someday meeting a butch
with whom I can live life as her femme
even though I understand women's
standards.Looks are not what it is about.
If she truly wants to find someone to
all-ableness and liberation. Women's
shares her interests and not someone
Lib empowered me and Iam a person,
even try a dance ...
who looks just right but couldn't care
less about the things she finds fun,
interesting or entertaining.
One last note: going on the "big love
hunt," usually results only in
disappointment. The best way to find
love is to quit looking for it. Make
friends, have fun. Love can find you in
the most amazing places.
Sincerely,
Look Below the Haircut
Femme Looking for a Butch
Dallas, TX
a lesbian, a femme — all part of a
spiritual being and hey — it's great.
I believe a good way to approach me as
a femme is to be simple and honest.
Say, "I'm not a good dancer, but I'd
like to buy you a coke (or a drink, or
whatever) and talk with you a little —
love,she should look for a woman who
Austin, TX
February 1995• Dimensions • Page 13
Dear Agnes,
Gray on December 27th,without paying
This is to "Looking forFemmes"in the
for the items that had previously hung
January issue. Give me a break! Can't
we get passed all this butch/femme crap?
rack.
on the hangers left on the magazine
Women are women are women.Period.
We are blessed to have a gay store that
Whether they have short hair or long,
provides a variety ofitems and services,
wearjeans or skirts,heels or workboots,
they all have the same plumbing.
middle ofthe butch/femme equation.In
for San Antonio's gays and lesbians.
How could you steal from your
"family"?
Your Conscience
the right circumstances they can lean
San Antonio, TX
Most women I know fall close to the
either way. They may go to work in a
dress,heels and full makeup,and to the
bar in jeans, t-shirt and no makeup.
The only way to know if you are truly
attracted to someone or not is to talk to
them.It may be that the prettiestfemme
in the bar has a mouth like a sailor and
that semi-butch girl you passed over
because she didn'tlook rightis someone
you could really fall in love with.
Also,the best way to approach someone
if you don't know how to dance is
simply to ask if they mind if you buy
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COME OUT
Dear Agnes,
SUZANNE
I would like to address the two heavy-
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If You Have A Problenn^
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send your letter to:
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IN ADNANCE
Celebration
LOVE
HUN?
HANDY HINTS AND TIPS TO HELP YOU IN
YOUR SEARCH FOR A VALENTINE
You're single (not by choice) and it
seems like everyone around you has
someone to love. You would really like
someone to share your bed and your
life.Someone who will bring you candy
and flowers on Valentine's Day,comfort
you when you've had a bad day and
expect it." Instead of going out to a bar,
coffee house or church and seeing every
woman present as a potential partner,
try going to those places just for fun.
Desperation is not pretty. When you are
on a big hunt for love, it shows on your
face and scares off those who might
someone who will help you do laundry
otherwise respond to an overture of
and clean house on Saturdays. So you
set out for the bar, dressed in your best
and start looking,right? Wrong.Below
are some tips to help you find love.
friendship.
2. NETWORK.Sounds like a business
Some are common sense, some are a
term, but it can be applied to personal
relationships as well. Many women are
little harder to implement, but all are
sound advice.
in relationships with people who started
out being"friends offriends." Ask your
friends to introduce you to women they
1, QUIT LOOKING.I know,I know.
You've heard it before. The problem is
that the old adage usually holds true —
"Love will find you when you least
think you might like. Go to parties
where you are likely to meet women
you wouldn't meet in the normal course
of your life.
February 1995• Dimensions • Page 15
Join a club that interests you.There are
your cat. You've heard the old joke:
hundreds of specialized groups for gay
What does a lesbian bring on the first
date? A U-Haul. Don't be a u-hauler.
Just because you've met a woman you
men and lesbians out there. There are
outdoor groups,political groups,sports
teams, gardening clubs, theater cjubs,
and organizations for gays of many
occupations or certain ages or both.
Pick one that suits your interests and
like and enjoyed your first date doesn t
mean you have to move in together
within the week.
Put yourself in her shoes: You've met a
join up. If you can't find a group you
woman at a friends house. You ask er
like, start your own.
out to dinner and a movie. Before you
If you are a religious person, join and
even getto the main course,she's talking
attend a gay church in your area. Even
about
whatarecolors
the ^
house you
goingyou'll
to buy decorate
together an
if you live out in the sticks, you could
still attend church in a city close to you
once a month or so. Of course, while
you are doing all this networking,keep
rule number one in mind.
3.ADVERTISE.No,this doesn't mean
wearing a low cut blouse and skin-tight
jeans to the bar.I mean...place an ad.In
your local gay paper, here in
Dimensions,or on the bulletin board at
your local women's group. Don't go
into it looking for love.Start by looking
for new friends. Give yourself some
space. This way you don't have to feel
bad if you don't find that perfect
someone and you might end up with
alot of new friends to network through.
asking if you want to be the one to e
artificially inseminated. What
do? a. Swoon and say yes, you d mve
to have a family with her, or; b. un
screaming from the restaurant an go
straight home to call all your frien s o
tell them how crazy she is and tha you
are lucky you got out alive? Most o us
would probably pick "b."
6. DONT COUNT ON "LOVE AT
FIRST SIGHT." Yes, it does happen,
but that doesn't mean it's the only way
to find true love.I once had a frien w o
believed fervently in love at first sig t
— and she practiced at the bar every
weekend.She always knew she was in
love" with a woman just because s e
a. CO ON LOTS OF CASUAL
danced a certain way or walked ^ross
DATES.I do mean casual.Don't make
the
bar in just the right manner, ever
mind that she didn't know the woman s
every date the wine,dinner and dancing
type.Go to lunch or to the Softball park.
name,age, occupation or temperament
Be creative. It is hard to know if you
— all she needed was to see her
really like a woman when the only
a crowed, smoky room and tha as
enough.Overtheyearsshehadcoun ss
conversation you have is shouting at
each other over the music in a bar or
"lovers" who lasted a week
sitting quietly next to her in the pew at
months. I don't know where s
church. Go somewhere where neither
today, but I hope she's learne
of you will feel that romantic pressure
although love at first sight is a
and there's lots of room to just talk.
is ^
possibility, it isn't anything to hase a
long-term relationship on.
5. NO TALK OF COMMITMENT
ON THE FIRST (OR SECOND OR
THIRD) DATE. The fastest way to
scare offa woman is to talk about setting
up housekeeping before she's even met
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7.WHEN YOU DO SEE SOMEOJE
YOU THINK YOU LIKE, BE
PERSISTENT (BUT NOT TOO
PERSISTENT). Most of us have had
,
this experience. You are sitting in the
bar with friends when a nice looking
woman comes over and asks you to
dance.You havejustcome offthe dance
floor and you are hot,sweaty and thirsty.
You tell her no thanks and say you'd
love to dance later, after you rest for a
minute. She takes it as total rejection
and never comes back. On the other
hand there are the women you might
have talked to if they hadn't been so
pushy — asking you to dance at the
beginning of every song for an hour
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when all you want to do is sit back and
take it easy. If she had only offered to
buy you a drink instead of constantly
bugging you to dance, you might have
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accepted and gotten to know her.
Take these examples as lessons. Just
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doesn't mean she is totally uninterested.
Ask again — you may be surprised. If
you've asked her a couple oftimes with
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right before you meet Ms. Right.
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What A World,
What A World
SMART FAT
BY NANCY FORD
The New Queer Year is here, and a
mere one month later,already the sound
family, should be regarded and
respected as fat with a Master's degree.
of resolutions can be heard shattering
Weight and body image have been very
across this great self-deprecating land
much in the forefront of our collective
of ours.
American consciousness since Dolly
I personally have never been much of
Madison put aside her needle and started
baking snack cakes. We've watched
Oprah expand and contract,expand and
contract, expand and contract. We've
listened to Susan Powter pout. We've
played poker with our Deal-A-Meal
cards. I'll see your three vegetable
exchanges and raise you a chocolate
one for resolutions. I figure, I'm forty
years old. The only New Trick this Old
Dog is interested in has little to do with
changing habits permanently ingrained
into my psyche for four decades. Not to
imply that I'm inflexible. Absolutely
not.I am flexible,I don't care what you
say,and I'll never change.Sof _you.
Silliness aside,(Yeah, right.) There is
one resolution-type specterthat has hung
over my head for as nearly as long as I
can remember. It's the old "This year
I'm definitely losing weight" post-
croissant.
Food for thought, but not for
swallowing. The average American
female stands 5'4" tall and weighs 146
pounds.Conversely,the average fashion
model stands 5'10" and weighs 120
holiday mantra.
pounds. Hel-/o? Who's doing the math
I was raised to believe that the best time
at the fashion designing store? Hubbell
to start a diet is January 2. If that date
happens to fall on Monday,all the better.
Magic Monday.It's as though we think
fat is stupid. We think we can binge all
week long, but then, come Monday
morning,we eatacouple ofcarrotsticks,
pop some bee pollen, and chase that
telescope scientists?
It's been suggested that love always has
a metabolic effect on those who have
the good fortune to tumble into it. Some
insist that one has a tendency to lose
weight when in love, as a result of
turning to one's paramour, rather than
silly, stupid old fat away — right?
Wrong. Fat is not stupid. Fat is smart.
food, for comfort. It's true — who
Fat homesteads.Fat is not nomadic.Fat
ourselves by curling up on the couch
finds a place where it is most
comfortable,and it stays.Like on thighs.
with a big pork roastdipped in chocolate
on a cold,rainy night? Maybe that'sjust
Smartfat.Smart,smart,smart.Cellulite,
me.
the most enduring member of the fat
Now comes psychiatrist and eating-
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among us,when single,haven'tindulged
^
disorder specialist Dr.Leo Wollman to
relatively inconsequential. But it still
tell us that "two out of three people
beats the hell out of bowling. And you
can wear your own shoes.
gain weight afterfalling in love, Social
drinking also increases because meeting
each other's family and friends often
involves afew drinks;sometimes,alot
of drinks,depending on the family and
friends.
The good doctor offered tips to avoid
adding poundage after giving your heart
to another. These suggestions were
originally published in Weekly World
News,in the same issue in which Elvis
informed President Clinton of his
eminent return to show business. So
don't think I haven't done my
journalistic research.
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Bring flowers instead of wine. Even
non-edible panties might be nice for a
change.
• Don't make a special event out of
mealtime. Avoid exotic restaurants and
gourmet cookbooks. This is a good
way to your honey's depth ofdevotion,
too.Do you love me a la Filet do boeuf
or do you love me a la Whopper?It's all
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in the translation.
'Have a talk aboutfood early in your
relationship. Determine through open
communication if you and your partner
intend to eattogether.Make sure you're
both ready. Plan it, don't be
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It's a matter of respect. Oh, wait —
that's the procedure for safe sex.Forget
I brought it up.
• Work off anxious moments with
activity rather than food.
Unfortunately, it has been determined
that while sex can be wonderfully
invigorating, the actual number of
calories burned during the act is
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The Coffee Ceub
Lesbians In The Arts • Books, Music, Movies, Etc.
This Month, Tasha Sumner Introduces:
Getting to tiie Point
tg Teresa Stores
Night Songs
by Penny Mickelbury
The first book we'll look at this month
for the occasional "don't tell your
is Getting to thePoint by Teresa Stores.
The story revolves around Dix, an
grandmother," and her brother and his
wife are trying hard notto bejudgmental.
aspiring writer who has returned home
Everything is moving along semismoothly until Dix's lover, Sarah,
to"The Point" to help her mother while
her grandmother dies. The Point is a
arrives.
town at the end of the road on the
Sarah has never had a family.
Florida-Georgia border.
Dix's family is filled with bom-again
Abandoned by her mother at age five,
she grew up in a procession of foster
Christians. Her father hasn't spoken to
homes. She doesn't understand Dix's
her since she announced her lesbianism.
need for her family's love. She shows
up at the Point in her restored'52pickup
Her mother avoids the subject except
February 1995• Dimensions• Page 23
with pink triangles painted down the
for Baby Doll's life.
side and Greenpeace, Pro-Choice and
No Nukes bumper stickers all over the
back end. One of the first things she
does is kiss Dix in full view ofthe entire
family.
The next question is: Who is killing
There are no stereotypes here — only
family. Dix's right-wing family reacts
with real-life confusion to the news that
one of their members is gay. There is
love and concern mixed with disgust
and embarrassment.
women on the streets of Washington,
D.C.?The further each woman gets into
her own investigation, the more the
evidence points to the highest levels of
the political food chain.
NightSongs is astep above mostlesbian
murder mysteries.The plot is believable
and the characters feel real. Plot and
sub-plot work together seamlessly to
make Night Songs a great read.
Getting to the Point is a wonderful
book although a little choppy. Abrupt
changes in person (i.e.: from whose
point-of-view the story is being told)
are,confusing and ineffective.However,
those complaints aside,the overall effect
is an honest look at how families cope
— with death, with life, with abuse,
Both Getting to the Point and Night
Songs are available at your local
women's bookstore orfor $10.95 from
Naiad Press, Inc., P.O. Box 10543,
Tallahassee, FL 32302. Please include
15% postage and handling. Complete
catalogs are available upon request.
with love and with a lesbian in their
<S
midst.I highly recommend this book to
any and all.
Next, we'll look at Night Songs, A
Gianna Maglione Mystery by Penny
Micklebury (author of Keeping
Books, music and more
Secrets).
for the lesbian, gay and
Gianna Maglione is a police lieutenant
feminist communities.
and head of the Hate Crimes Unit in
Washington, D.C.. Her lover, Mimi
Patterson, is a hot-shot investigative
newspaper reporter. Both,on their own
time are investigating the murder of a
Inklings
number of prostitutes in the city. The
two women can't share information
about their separate investigations
although each knows the other is
working on the same case. Gianna,as a
1846 Richmond Ave.
Houston, Texas 77098
cop, can't even be seen talking with
Mimi, much less acknowledge their
(713) 521-3369
relationship. Mimi,a a reporter, is just
Toll-Free Ordering:
tiying to break a hot story until she
meets Baby Doll.Then her quest to find
the killers becomes personal as she fears
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Poetry
From Our Readers
Take me away,
Take me to the place that my passion runs free
hearing the song that can take me there
The intense fire that burns within
The yearning for fulfillment
Look into my eyes
Read my sord
Look and admire
Do not try to possess
Come with me
Release the passion
You have created erotic fantasy
The longing for you will die slowly
This will be fire or ice,
Love or hate
No neutral state
That fleeting moment must subside
The waiting. Oh the waiting
A heavy weight
Will this weight lift
Can the fire go out
Is the fire of the earth
Will time let it die
Of the earth there is a volcano
This volcanic activity rules my soul.
Mostly my heart.
-CJ
Dallas, TX
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February 1995• Dimensions• Page 25
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OP is It
UIST?
There are many stages toa relationship.
S. On a typical date, you:
First comes lust... you know, it's that
time when you first get really involved
a. go to dinner and a movie.
when you can't seem to drag yourself
out of the bedroom. Hopefully the lust
period is followed by love — when you
finally emerge from the bedroom to
find that even out here, you still want to
spend your time with her. So,is it love
or lust or on the rocks? To find out,
answer the questions below.
b. talk about anything & everything.
c.intend to go out,but never make it out
the door.
4. When you are away from her,
you think about:
a. how mad she was this morning
because you left the lid off the
toothpaste.
b. her smile.
/.The most attractive thing about
c. the hot time you had last night and
her is:
will have again tonight.
a. her eyes.
b. everything.
5. When the two of you talk
c. her butt.
2. When you look into her eyes,
about sex, you:
a. wonder why you don't do it more
often.
you:
b. tell each other how wonderful you
a. wonder if she fed the dog.
are together.
b. think about how much you love her.
c. don't talk, you act.
c. wonder how many steps it is to the
bedroom.
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67 She looks her best:
a. when she's asleep.
b. all the time.
c. in the shower.
7. During the last seven nights
you've spent together,you've had
sex:
a. not at all.
b. one to three times.
c. 15 to 20 times if you count more than
once a night.
<?. When you go out of town:
a. you go to the museum while she goes
to the zoo.
b. you plan things you both enjoy and
save the nights for romance.
c. you never see anything but your hotel
and the room service waiter.
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Give yourself points as follows:
4 points for every "A" answer.
6 points for every "B" answer.
10 points for every "C" answer.
6^-iSOjoints/
Although love may be in the making,
you are definitely in the extreme lust
stage right now. The question is if the
love will grow enough to replace the
lust when it cools down. Although it
may seem hard right now,try to think
about what you like about her other
than the feel of her naked body in your
bed.Can you imagine living with heron
a daily basis when you aren't spending
every moment in the bedroom? If so,
this relationship just might have a
chance!
4^-6^S
Congratulations! You have found love.
Sex is important to both of you,but it is
not the entire basis of your relationship.
You share common interests and enjoy
spending time together outside the
bedroom. Your sex life is fun,but your
whole life together doesn't revolve
around it.
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You may have settled into this
relationship a little too comfortably.
You take each other for granted and
forget sometimes just how lucky you
are. You may need to plan time for
intimacy and getting to know each other
again. Next time you look at her, try to
think about what is right in your
relationship instead of focusing on the
negative aspects.
A&A
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Horoscope
What's in the stars for you this month?
ARIES
You may be feeling especially vulnerable to
stress during the first part of February.
Upsetting conditions at home or work could
be affecting you more than they should.
Getting out to socialize could improve your
February. Between work, financial, and
family problems, you may feel you are
being pulled in too many directions after the
8th.Try not to lose your temper with anyone
and stay focused on the task at hand.Things
work themselves out by the 14th. The last
mood as long as you don't overspend. After
part ofthe month brings more fun and social
the 15th your patience and diplomacy can
engagements.
help keep a minor argument from getting
totally out of hand. Your mood is much
improved after the 22nd when your finances
and love life both seem to be improving.
TAI7R1TS
You can get what you want in February if
you ask for it. Whether it's love or money,
if you put in a word to the right person you
just might hit thejackpot! A minor crisis can
be turned into a great opportunity if you play
yourcardsrightafterthe ISth.Don'thesitate
on an important decision—yourfirst instinct
is the one to go with. After the 24th you'll
need to move into the background and follow
a partner's lead to get what you want. You
liBO
Your communication skills are the focus in
February. Even though you aren't in a
sociable mood, you may have many
obligations that require your diplomatic
skills. Although your finances seem to be in
good shape, you should watch spending
after the 15th when you may have to shell
outsome money for a household emergency.
You may have to compromise with your
partner to resolve and old problem on the
20th. Speak up about your wishes toward
month's end — you may be surprised and
get just what you want!
can't always run the show!
VIRGO
GEmm
or a move to bigger and better living
All work and no play won't make for a very
exciting February. A change ofjobs or just
a change of routine could be just what you
conditions could be on the horizon in
A major change in your living arrangements
February. Improvements on the financial
front could be behind the big change. Try to
need to lift your spirits. After the 8th don't
find a balance between work and home
be too trusting with someone who has misled
you in the past. You may be reluctant to
obligations after the 15th. Leaning too far in
form new ties or new relationships after the
21 St. Although this may make you appear to
be standoffish, it is best to remain low-key
and approach any new people in your life
either direction could get you into trouble.
You income could rise after the 23rd, but
along with the extra money will come extra
responsibilities. Be sure to save time for
family activities towards month's end.
with caution.
EIIIRA
CAllfCER
Try not to spread yourself thin or change
directions too quickly during the first part of
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Your bargaining skills should be put to use
during February.If you go about it the right
way, you could talk higher ups into giving
you a raise, promotion or both! An
unexpected attraction to someone you meet
after the 10th could catch you off guard. Be
careful not to move to quickly or you could
get hurt. A weekend apart from a loved one
might bejust what you need to improve your
relationship after the 22nd. Month's end is
a good time to explore new career options
open to you.
SCORPIO
Your financial picture looks rosy during
AQUARnJ!!§»
You'll have to watch your finances closely
this month. Romance could give way to
bickering ifspending continues to rise. Your
life becomes even more hectic after the 15th
when financial concerns carry over to the
workplace and cause friction among your
co-workers. Everything falls into place and
it's smooth sailing after the 24th. Work,
family and home lives are all on an even
keel through month's end.
February, but you may have some minor
problems with the people you live and work
with.Trust and cooperation can help improve
a primary relationship after the 13th. You'll
have to carefully balance work and pleasure
after the 18th.You are likely to find yourself
in a precarious position if you lean too much
in one way or the other. Around the 22nd
you may be feeling hemmed in. A weekend
trip could improve your mood.
PISCES
You certainly won't be lonely during
February! Social and group events fill your
calendar all month. A new friend that you
meet around the 5th could have a very
calming effect on your life. Luck is on your
side after the 19th. Take advantage of this
trend to push your goals and ambitions
forward. Budget your money carefully or
you could find yourselfin a bind by month's
SAorrrARius
You have your work cut out for you during
February. Juggling love, money and career
interests can be difficult if you don't set
your priorities at the outset. The urge to get
away may set in by the 15th. A break from
your usual routine can help you relax and be
ready to go back to work with a new outlook.
An opportunity to advance your career may
arise during the last week,but you'll have to
put in some long hours to secure the position.
Make a plan and stick to it and you'll reach
your goal.
CAPRICORIV
Romance and creative pursuits are at the
forefront during February. The great mood
you are in could cause you to overspend or
ignore your work. This works out fine until
the 13th when you'll have to turn your
attention to the workplace. Travel may be in
the works after the 23rd. Although you and
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The Dirbctort
A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
Business De&very Systems• 14902 Preston Rd.75240 •733-1108
ALBUQUERQUE,NM (area code 505)
organizations
clubs
Sister Source Cooperative & Lesbian Resource line
Sue Ellen's •3903 Cedar Springs•5598707
144 Harvard SE'268-2116
organizations
AMARILLO,TX (area code 806)
organizations
LesbianA3ayAliance-POBox9361 79105•359-4219
MCC of Amarilo • PC Box 1276•3724557
ARUNGTON,TX (area code 817)
Affirmation • PO Box 225831 75222•948-1546
AIDS Resource Center • P.O. Box 190712 75219
Asians & Friends-PO Box 9142 76209-392-3339
Catliedral ol Hope MCC ■ 5910 Cedar Spnngs Rd.- 361-1901
Community Church & College of Divine Metaphysics
400lUveOak#40l'826-7110.ExL401
Congregation Betti El Binali - P.O.Box 191188 75219 - 497-1591
Couples Metro Dallas - PO Box 803156 75380 - E04-6775
Dallas Gay and Lesbian Alliance
clubs
P.O. Box 190712 75219•5284233• FAX 5224604
Ropers•2023 South Cooper •26&^4
Dallas Gay/Lesbian Historic Archives• P.O. Box 190712 75219 •821-1653
Dallas Gay Youth Group •300 Turtle Creek Plaza #116'307-7203
organizations
Gay/Lesbian Association of LTTA
P.O. Box 19348-77, UTA SL 76019•794-6140
Trinity MCC•331 Aaron Ave.,Ste 125 •265-5454
Dallas Outdoors• P.O. Box 35474 75235•2755270
Dallas Tavern Guild •3900 Lemmon Ave.#220• 5255292
Dignity/Dallas • PO Box 190133 75219 •2264101
Foundation for Human Understanding ■ 5284233
Gay/Lesbian Gardeners • PO Box 190552 75219• 3398787
AUSTIN,TX (area code 512)
GLAAD/Dallas• P.O. Box 190712 75219•525GLAD
Grace Fellowship in Christ Jesus •2727 Oak l_awn • 5252811
clubs
Lesbian/(Say Demoaats of Texas•521-5342 exL 229
HdlywDOd • 113 San Jadnto •4809627
LesbianASay Political CJoalition • P.O. Box 224424 75222•8259882
Nexus-305W.Stti •472-5288
organizations
Affirmation (Methodist)•7403 Shoal Creek•451-2329
Austin Latino/a LesbianyOay Organization
PC Box 1350 78787 • 2808107
Lesbian Resource Center • 1315 Skiles* 8218999
Usbian Visionaries • PO Box 191443 75219•521-5342 Xe44
UL(Usbian Info Une •521-5342 exL 298
SPROUTS(coming out group)• £21-5342 exL 256
TWKaS (the wymn in gay society)• 5218342 exL 269
The New Vision (newsjoumal)•521-5342 exL 255
Austin Lesbian/Gay Politicai Caucus• P.O. Box 822 78767•474^)750
MetroplexRepublicans 'P.O.Box 191033 75219 '9418114
Center for Battered Women • (Lesbian(^p)
Oak Lawn Community Services 4300 MacArthur•5208108
Oak Lawn Symphonic Band -P.O. Box 19097376219'9851751
385-5181 Of 9209070(hotline)
Gay/Lesbian Student Association at UT Austin
458-3971 'Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338
PFLAG/Dallas' Helpline 5588640
Imperial Sovereign Royal Court of Dallas
Lesbian/Gay Rights lx>bby • PO Box 2579 78768•474-6475
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Lesbian Mothers - Karen •339-8508
Sevenlh-Oay Adventist Knshp '4151358
Live Wire Productions • PO Box 14120278714
Womyn Together'3920 Ced^ Springs'5284233
Metropolitan Community Church •1100 Springdale Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Mnistry•5555 N. Lamar Blvd.#L101 • 441-9191
P-Fiag (Parents/Friends Lesbians/Gays)• 331-8445
Sapphfire!• Lesbian Social Group• 4508659
Meeting Address• 825 E. 531/2 SL.Ste E103
Maiing Address* 201 W.Stassney,Ste.#321 78746-3156
Waterloo Counseling Center •507 Powell 78703• 322-9654
Texas Human Rights Foundation • P.O. Box 49740 78765•479-8473
AIDS Legal Assistance 1-800-8288417
The Treehouse (Lesbian Mothers Support(aroup)
607 Nueces SL 78701 •477-6822
DEm"ON,TX(area code 817)
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P.O. Box 5067 76203
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Harvest MCC'5900 S.Stemmons 76205• 1805497-HMX
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P-Fiag (Parents/Friends Lesbians/Gays)•6758326
Recreation Rantation • Campground • HC01 box 45A 78620• 894-0567
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HC3.Box 650 78003'796-7446
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Agape MCC - 4815 SE Loop 820 - 535-5002
Alternative Visions • Dating Service•747-2033
Affirmation (MethorSst)•4757837
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Imperial Coutl de Fort Worth/Arlington •870-1555 or 535-7188
Lesblan-'Gay Politcal Coalitjon ol Tarrant County •263^006 or 8600326
P-Rag (Parents'Fnends Lesbians'Ga)S)•498-5607/498-4855
RESPECT •828 Hardvrood Rd.• Hursl.TX 76054
Tarrant County L'G Alliance ■ 3327 Wmttirop. Suite 243 76116• 763-5544
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IrkJmgs Bookshop • 1846 Richmond • 521-3369
clubs
National Gay/Lesbian Clearinghouse
666 Broadway 4th Floor - NY. NY 10012
National Gay/Lesbian Task Force
1517 U Street NW • Washington D.C. 20009• 202-332-6483
Parents & Friends ol Lesbians and Gays(P-Rag)• 1-8G0-4-FAMILY
The Fund for Human Dignity
666 Broadway 4th Floor • NY. NY 10012
NEW ORLEANS, LA (area code 504)
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Charlene's • 940 Elysian Fields • 9469328
Ranch • 9218 Buffalo Spdwy.• 666-3464
Ms. Bs • 9208 Bufiao Spdwy.•666<3356
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AIDS Foundation •3927 Essex Lane •623-6796
AIDS HOTLINE • c/o Swtcfiboard •529-3211
2l35NW39th 73112• 526AIDS
XTC • 9212 Buffalo SpcJwy.•666-3356
Oasis the Community Center
Gay^Lesbtan Students Umversity of Houston • 4800 Calhoun • 529-3211
Herland Sister Resources. Inc.
Gay/Lesplan Switchboard • PC Box 66591 77266 •529-3211
Houston Gay & Lesbian Parents • 980-7995
Houston Gay Political Caucus• P.O. Box 66664 77266 ■ 521-1000
Integnty • P.O. Box 66008 772666008 • 432-6414
Kingdom Community Church '614 E. I9th •862-7533
2312 NW 39th 73112-521-9696
SAN ANGELO,TX (area code 915)
organizations
Lambda ALAJ40N • 1214 Joanne-521-9772
P-Flag (Parer.ts/Friends Lesbians^Gays)•944-4323
LesbiaaGay Sludents-Univ. Houston Clear Lake • 2700 Bay Aea 77058
Concho Valey Gay/lesCxan Alliance
LTN Houston • Lesbian Teacher Network
P.O. Box 750 76902 - 6562956
FO Box 1835• Beliaire, TX 77402• 529-3211
Metropd.lan Community Church Of The Resunection
SAN ANTONIO,TX (area code 210)
1919 Decatur-861-9149
Montrose Counseling Center - 900 Lovett #203 770O6• 5230037
Montrose Pod League/Bltia,Tj3• PJ 863-8482
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P-Flag (Parents/Friends Lestjians/Gays)•867-9(^
Nexus San Antonio • 8021 Pinebrook • 341-2818
PWA Coa'rtion • Houston • 1475 W.Gray #163•522-5428
organizations
SORA (Sex or Relationship Addicts Anonymous) lesbian group • 523-9398
Deaf Rainbow - 804-1904 TTY
Bonham Exchange • 411 Bonham • 224-9219
The Women's Group • 529-5871
Dignity/San Antonio • 202 N. St. Mary's • 349-3632
Womynspace • P.O. Box 980601 77098-0601
Integrity/San Antonio
Women^ Softball League • 6431 Pineshade •8680256
PO Box 150006 78212• 684-4920
LUBBOCK.TX (area code 806)
businesses
P-Rag (Parents/Friends Lesbians/Gays)•822-4135
River City Living Metropolitan Community Church
202 Holland 78212 -622-1121
Lambda Students Center • 1140 W. Woodtawn Ave.
Dstinct Travel • 793-8374
LISA (Lesbian Information SA)• 828-LISA (5472)
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SALGA - San Antonio Lesbian/Gay Assembly - 733-7300
Lbttock Lesbian/Gay Alliance & Wild Wilde West Prod.
P.O. Box 64746 79464 • 79M499
Community Outreach Center & Outreach AA (Tues. AThurs.@8pm) l02N.Ave.S- 762-1019
MCC Lubbock - 5502 34lh SL • 792-5562
SALSA - San Antonio Lambda Students Alliance
PO Box 12715 76212 - SALSA Une 733-1225
San Antonio AIDS Foundation
PO Box 120113 78212-9313
San Antonio Tavem Guild - 822-2823
P-Flag (Parents/Friends Lesbians.'Gays)• 7990529
South Plains AIDS Resource Center(SPARC)
4204-B 50th SI 79413• 1-806627-7079• 7967068
NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS
Affirmation: United Methodsts for Lesbian/Gay Concerns
SHERMAN,TX (area code 903)
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AIDS Resource Center of Texhoma - 8161272 or 800-5266361
Alliance for Ufe•PO Box 1695 75091 - 892-9049
HIV/AIDS Setvices•PO Box 169575091 •4667258
PO Box 1021 - Evanston. IL 60204
AIDS Action Counal• 729 Eighth St. S.E. Suite 200
Washington. DC 20003 -{202)647-3101
AIDS 800-1-806221-7044
Conference For Catholic Lesbians
PO Box 436, Planetarium Station • New York, NY 10024
GLAAD/USA • 80 Vanck St. #3E • NY. NY 10013
Hate Crime Line • 1-606347-HATE
Gay & Lesbian Parents Coalition International (GLPCI)
PO Box 50360, Washington. DC 20091 •(202) 583-8029
Lesbian Mothers' National Defense Fund
PO Box 21S67 • Seattle. WA 98111 - (206) 3262643
Lesbian Teachers Network (LTN)
PO Box 638-Solon, IA 52333
National Gay Alliance for Young Adults, Inc.
PO Box 190426 • Dallas. TX 75219 •(214)307-7203
WACO,TX (area code 817)
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P-Flag (Parents/Friends Lesbians/Gays)• 750-7211
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