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Dimensions : v.4: no.5(1989:Nov.)
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Dimensions was a lesbian lifestyle magazine published in Lubbock, TX from July 1986 until the end of 1996. Content includes national news, poetry, book reviews, advice columns, and horoscopes.
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Visions Publishing Co.
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1989-11
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HERLAND LIBRARY PREE
Property of the Center
Volume 4,Issue 5
November 1989
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Volume 4, Issue 5
November 1989
eotures
17 Are You Prepared?
Preparing for distoster
24 the Coffee Club
o discussion of lesbians in
^departments
7 News
11 What's Goin' On
14 Dear Agnes
The 1990 Women
Only Calendar
27 Quiz:
Are You
A Worrier?
38 Graffiti
29 Poetry
30 Horoscope
33 Directory
36 Classifieds
22 What A World,
What A World!
humor by comedian
Nancy Ford
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ews
From Around the Region,the Country & the World
Texas Attorney
disclosures of AIDS information in the
General Rules
Realtors' Disclosure of
AIDS Information
real estate contextare prohibited by the
Federal Fair Housing Act
Although the Attorney General's
opinion is not law, it provides both
Unconstitutional
realtors and sellers faced with a
AUSTIN - On September 5th, Texas
Attorney General Jim Mattox issued an
opinion declaring that the portions of
House Bill 976 which allow a realtor to
disclose
AIDS information
to a
potential buyer violate the Federal Fair
Housing Act and are therefore invalid.
The opinion was issued in response to a
request from the Texas Real Estate
Commission for clarification of the
new disclosure law, which took effect
on September 1, 1989. The new law
permits a realtor to disclose the HIV
status of a prior or current occupant of
a home to a potential buyer if the buyer
specifically requests the information
and
the realtor
knowledge.
has the actual
The
Commission
situation
involving a request for
disclosure of AIDS information a solid
reason for refusing disclosure all
together. In a telephone conversation
with THRF staff member Margaret
Tucker on September 25th, Mr.
Wallace Collins, the Administrator for
the Texas Real Estate Commission,
confirmed that the Attorney General's
opinion provided "sufficient
clarification" of HB 976, and that the
Commission would administer HB 976
as interpreted by Mr. Mattox.(i.e., no
AIDS disclosures whatsoever).
Logo Contest for 1990
TIC Announced
perceived this new rule as being in
SAN ANTONIO - The
conflict with the Texas Communicable
Disease Prevention and Control Act,as
organizing the 1990 Texas Lesbian
Conference (TLC) has announced a
Committee
violating the Act's prohibition against
logo design contest for that event. The
unauthorized disclosure of test results.
theme for the event will be"Lesbians in
In the opinion, Mattox declined to
the Nineties: Speaking Out".
All entries should be designed on an 8
1/2" X11"sheetof white paper with the
answer particular questions posed by
the Commission regarding the proper
afplication of the disclosure rule(e.g.,
what constitute "actual knowledge"),
focusing instead on the fact that all
entrants name, address and phone
number on the back of each entry.
Deadline for entries is December 1,
1989.
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 7
The winner will receive a free TLC t-
shirt, as well as free admission to and
prejudiced remarks concerning the
murder oftwo gay men in Dallas;and to
Bill Nelson (The Robert Schwab
Award), THRF board member and
special recognition at the 1990 Texas
Lesbian Conference, to be held in San
Antonio on May 18,19 & 20,1990.
They are also searching for contact
people to distribute TLC information
former president of the Dallas Gay
throughout Texas.
To enter the contest or get more
information regarding the contest or
Resource Center.
information distribution, contact TLC
Contest, 263 Barbara Drive, San
Antonio,TX 78216 or call(512) 8281761.
Alliance (DGA), whose dedicated
vision and activism were essential in
founding DO A'sfood pantry and AIDS
The Schwab awards are named for the
late M. Robert Schwab, THJU^'s
founder and first president. Schwab, a
dedicated gay activist and Houston
attorney, was the driving force behind
THRF's 1970's lidgation in federal
court to declare Section 21.06 of the
THRF to Honor Leaders
Texas Penal Code unconsdtutional.
in the Fight for
THRFis now sponsoring a second legal
Gay Civil Rights
AUSTIN - The board of trustees of the
Texas Human Rights Foundation
(THRF) has selected its honorees for
THRF's 3rd Annual Robert Schwab
Memorial Award ceremonies. The
challenge to Secdon 21.06 in state court
in the case known as Morales vs. The
Stale of Texas. Section 21.06
criminalizes the private, consensual
sexual reladons of two men or two
women.
As a tribute to Schwab's vision, the M.
Schwab awards are given each year to
Robert Schwab Collection (which
individuals who have diligenUy and
includes his writings, papers,
documents, clippings, tapes &
courageously led the fight for lesbian
and gay civil rights. With these awards,
THRF recognizes and honors the
continued struggle by various
photographs) opened to the public in
the archives of the Houston FHiblic
Library in September. THRF's legal
individuals for the civil liberties of
director, David Bryan,emphasized the
lesbians and gay men.
importance of Schwab's legacy
This year's awards go to Senator Craig
Washington (Legislator of the Year)
for his outstanding work against AIDS
discrimination in the 71st Legislative
Session; to Lori Montgomery of the
"Although Robert died of AIDS in
1983, a glimpse of his life and
dedication is now on display for all
Dallas Times-Herald (Journalist of the
Year) for her exposure of Judge Jack
Hampton's homophobic and
Texans who have been inspired by his
struggle for equal civil rights. His
dreams of equality continue to reach
fruidon through the work of THRF.
The Schwab awards are meant to honor
Page 8 • Dimensions • November 1989
those persons who are on the front line
of this struggle."
The ceremony will consist of a formal
cocktail reception,to be held in Dallas
from 7-9pm on November 18th at 5824
Del Roy Drive, during which time the
awards will be presented.The previous
the experienceoflesbian immigrants in
the United States. Works are especially
encouraged from undocumented,ESL,
older, differently abled, and Third
World lesbian immigrants,and women
in immigrant/citizen relationships.
Anonymous contributions are ok, and
held in Austin and the second in
all submissions are strictly
confidential. Also looking for lesbian
Houston, were attended by several
hundred guests. Former honorees have
immigrants willing to complete survey
on their experiences. The new
included Representative Nancy
McDonald of El Paso, Glen Maxey of
submissions deadline is March 31,
the Lesbian Gay Rights Lobby, Cleve
Send submissions/inquiries and SASE
for returns to:TheProject,c/o Lundy,3
Madison Street, Cambridge, MA
Schwab Award ceremonies, the first
Jones of the Names Project,and Molly
Ivins of the Dallas Times-Herald.
1990.
02138.
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KBIT BENEFIT SHOW
(Houston Billiards Invitational Tournament)
November 12th ■ Sunday ■ Spin
Benefitting Participants In
1990 Gay Games in Vancouver
SLAVE AUCTION
Sunday ■ November 19th
Benefitting The
Synergy Softball Team
Join The Employees at the Ranch for
Thanksgiving Dinner!
Check crt the Bar for Time & Menu
Sunday ■ November 5th
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hats I toin
A Monthy Listing of Special Events All Around Texas, Oklahoma & New Mexico
AUSTIN - If you're looking for a good
time,NEXUS is the place on Thursday
Nights with the "Girls Nite Out"
afterwards
Show!
live
the toumament! Get on out to support
entertainment every Friday in
yourfavorite non-profit organization at
There's
also
entry fee. There will be a party
with
food, awards
presentations and viewing the video of
November,so don't miss it! NEXUS &
a Chili Cookoff on November I2th at
PETTICOAT JUNCTION are having a
Thanksgiving Potluck Buffet on
Thanksgiving Day, Thursday the 23rd
at 3pm - if you want to bring a dish,just
tell Mary what you're bringing! Also,
2pm - there'll be chili,$I longnecks &
don't miss Terri - "The Bartender
From Hell" live and in person on
Sunday the 19th!
HOUSTON - Get out and support
HBIT (Houston Billiards Invitational
Tournament)attheRANCHon Sunday
the 12th! They'll be having a Benefit
Show to help all those Houston
participants in the 1990 Gay Games in
Vancouver! And, while you in the
benefit mood, be sure to come out for
the Slave Auction to benefit the
heartburn for fim and charity!
AUSTIN -
The Mother's Legal
Defense Fund is hosting afundraiser to
benefit an Austin mother fighting for
custody in Louisiana.The event will be
held at CHANCES on Sunday,
November 12th from 3-8pm and will
feature the music ofNancy Scott,Cate
&Zana Sue,and others.Cover is$5.00
at the door.
DALLAS - Thursday night is Country
& Western Night at SUE ELLEN'S!
In addition to lots of great music,
there's also $I Domestic Longnecks,
$2 Coronas and a Show at 10;30pm
Synergy Softball Team on the 19th!
Join the employees at the RANCH for
Thanksgiving Dinner on the 23rd -
featuring Kathy Jack, Lisa Bryson,
Cozy White and special guests!
check at the bar for time and menu!
And,last but not least,rumor has it that
a"KS"Reunion Show is in the works
HOUSTON - Fun and excitement is
the name ofthe game at KEYSTROKE
2 on November 10th & 24th! Join DJ
BJ.Sweat and lots of women at 202
so keep your eyes and ears open!
Tuam for two nights of great
DALLAS - Get ready to Tee-Off for
entertainment! If you'd like more info
the 1st Annual DESERT MOON
on KEYSTROKE,call their HOTLINE
at(713)785-9258.
Golf Classic on Saturday, November
4th! The Toumey will be held at Chase
Oaks Golf Course in Piano with a$45
AUSTIN - Don't miss Live Wire
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 11
Production's presentation of The
Washington Sisters and Melanie
Monsur in Concert Friday, November
night- check outJUGS on Sunday from
Noon-4pm — they've got Bloody
Marys,Screwdrivers & Mimosa's —
17th. The concert will be held at The
all for one dollar! And, last but not
least, you can get Free Draft and $1
Riverside Quarters Capitol Room at
Riverside Drive and IH35 and will start
at 8pm. Don't miss out!
Longnecks all day and all night on
Tuesdays! Give em a try!
to buy Halloween Candy for State
SAN ANTONIO - Tuesday Nights at
the CIRCLE are now "Girl's Night
Out At The Circe Roundup"(in other
words. Country & Western Night)! It
School Residents a such a smashing
all starts at 9pm with No Cover, $1
success! Thanks ya'll! PARTNERS is
Longnecks, 750 Schnapps &
Tequila, $1.75 Margaritas and they
promise it will be 90% Country &
Western Music All Night Long! On
Wednesdays you can sing along with
the circle's new "toy" - a laser disc
machine that will play the music, the
FT.
WORTH
PARTNERS
-
Barbara
of
would like to thank
everyone who made the Benefit Show
also beginning a new stage of
remodeling and promises when they're
done they'll have one of the rockinest,
scootinest,slickest dance floor in all of
Texas! They'll also have the DJ's to go
with it - Kathy, Spanky & Electric
Whitehead Tony are all spinning your
favorite tunes!
DALLAS - Don't miss it - Brandi and
her girls are back, but this time at
JUGS! You can catch Brandi, along
with Cozy White and Dana, every
Wednesday Night at 10pm! Also on
Wednesdays, get $1.50 Swirls while
you enjoy the show! If you are looking
video & run the words across the
bottom so you can add your own voice!
On November 19th be sure and enter
the Doubles Fool Tournament - there
is a 500 entry fee and a SlOO first prize
(in cash)! Also,be sure you check at the
bar for Thanksgiving details. There's
sure to be something fun!
for a place to recover from Saturday
byiE
Cor^venient Air Connections to
^Horlingen Airport
TEXAS
AQUESTHOOS
Women Meet Women
3rd Full Weekend
& 3rd Week
of Each Month
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Write or call for brochure:
120 E. Atol St. P.O. Box 2326
South Padre Island, TX 78597
512-761-LYLE
THURSDAYS
$1 Domestic Longneeks
$2 Coronas
SHOW
AT
10:30
Kathy Jack,
Lisa Bryson,
Cozy White
and
Special Guest
3903 CEDAR SPRINGS
(214)380-3386
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 13
ear/^gnes
/T(
Answers to your questions about love,
relationships & personal problems
Dear Agnes,
I have met the mostdivine woman.She
is absolutely everything I have always
wanted. She is sophisticated, classy,
she has an excellent set of friends, and
she is quite beautiful.
I am a thirty-four year old professional
woman. I am very settled with an
excellentjob,and I would like nothing
better than settling down with this
beautiful creature. We have been
seeing each other for the past eight
months and are currently negotating
our living arrangements. I own a large
three bedroom home, so space is no
problem.
The problem is this woman has three
kids,a three year old,a five year old and
a eight year old. I love her, but I really
do not want children. I feel torn
between really wanting this woman and
really not wanting her kids.
Do you have any words of wisdom?
San Antonio
at the top of the other side. Listing all
the positive and negative things you can
think of if you decide to live together.
Be honest with yourself. Once you are
through, weigh the pros and cons
against each other. You may find some
surprises on your list.
Children are a big responsibility, but
the rewards can be great. If you cannot
accept these children and make a home
for them,scrap the moving plans. You
will only do them harm by allowing
them to live in your home when you
really do not want them.
Children need love and caring. They
cannot be tossed aside because you
decide you don't want them anymore.
Dear Agnes,
I read your letter to "Help"
(Dimensions, September 1989) and
frankly I find your advice lacking, to
say the least. I am disappointed that a
woman turned to you for advice and I,
Dear San Antonio,
What you have is a package deal-all or
none. If you really want to settle down
with this woman,the kiddos are a part
of the package. A major part.
Analyze your feelings,on paper. Draw
a line down the middle ofthe page,and
write pro at the top ofone side,and con
a layman, can see it isn't thoroughly
sound. 1 am sure your intentions were
good, but take a look at this.
People feel happy, sad, scared, love,
anger, anxious and lonely. "Feeling
like someone.." is a thought process.
And itautomatically puts'someone'on
the defensive.Instead of"I feel like you
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I think you have a good idea going
frankly I find your advice lacking,
to say the least. I am disappointed
that a woman turned to you for
and I am not questioning your
integrety at all. Please take this into
consideration.
advice and I, a layman, can see it
isn't thoroughly sound. I am sure
Thanks for your time.
your intentions were good, but take
K. Morris
a look at this.
People feel happy, sad, scared,
love, anger, anxious and lonely.
"Feeling like someone.." is a
Dear K.,
You're right. I goofed, sorry.
<S
thought
process. And
it
automatically puts 'someone' on
the defensive. Instead of"I feel like
Write To Dear Agnes
you are withdrawn" say "I feel
With Your Problems or
Comments at:
lonely when you are withdrawn.""I
feel angry when you yell at me."
Dimensions
Etc..
P.O Box 856
Lubbock,TX 79408
It probably seems trival, but
experts think it makes a diffrence
and so do I.
Take some time and think about it
POOIv
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1 0Thursday
for Steak Night'
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November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 15
T- .1
i,^r. T^w^n/lrvc Hurricanes.
Earthquakes
, Tornadoes, Hurricanes,
Floods.... ail can occur anywhere in the
homes are in good
tmod condition
rnniiitinn or at a
shelter set up by relief agencies. Do not
continental United States. As recent
attempt to enter a home that has been
events have shown, whether it s major
hurricane, a major earthquake, or a
badly damaged to retrieve valuables.
Your life is much more important.
If you are able to retrieve some
valuables, take only the clothing you
need and things of value that you can
good 'ole Texas tornado, it pays to be
prepared.
What steps can you take niiw to be
prepared in case of a disaster in the
future? We'll start with the basics.
Shelter
It is a possibility that any type of
carry.
If you are able to remain in your home,
be alert to hidden damage and keep in
the mind the suggestions below.
disaster can force you from your home.
Water
As we've seen in San Francisco, it is
No matter what the disaster, water
supplies are always vulnerable. Water
dangerous to remain in your home if
mainscan be damaged leaving you with
you suspect any structural damage at
all. Contact officials (police, fire
department,civil defense,etc..)to help
sewage or untreated water to back up
you determine if it is safe to stay at
contaminating the water supply.And,if
no water at all. Floods can cause
home.
you take shelter in a storm cellar or
If your home is deemed unsafe or is
destroyed, you will need to find shelter
other structure, there may be no water
supply to begin with.
either with friends and relatives whose
Experts recommend that you have two
Page 16 • Dimensions • November 1989
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gallons of water per person,per day on
hand, and you should have enough to
last a week. That amounts to fourteen
gallons of water for every person in
your household. It should be on hand
and stored in a convenient place.If you
have a storm cellar, be sure you have
water both in the house and in the cellar
since you never know where you could
be stuck.
If you haven'tstored any water,you can
use water that is already in the water
heater and has not been contaminated.
You can fill up bathtubsand sinks if you
have enough warning. You may also
want to have a small container of
chlorine bleach or water purifying
tablets on hand. If you use bleach, use
only a tablespoon in each gallon of
water and allow it to sit for 30 minutes
or more before drinking. Water may
also be boiled for 20 minutes to remove
bacteria. If you even suspect that water
is contaminated (discoloration or smell
are tip-offs) be sure you take measures
have enough canned goods and non-
perishable foods on hand to last a week.
If the power goes off, the highly
perishable foods in your refrigerator
will last only 6 hours before bacteria
growth starts. These foods include:
open cartons of milk, cooked and
uncooked meats, and soft dairy
products such as cottage cheese,
yogurt,etc.. These foods need to be put
on ice as soon as possible or thrown out.
Remember that opening your
refrigerator door causes the
temperature to rise faster and food to
spoil more quickly.
In the case of electrical power failure,
cooking can be done on a gas stove,in
a fireplace, on a barbecue grill or
hibachi, a camp stove, or small
kerosene heater. Be sure that you cook
in a very well ventilated area to avoid
carbon monoxide poisoning.
If you suspect a gas leak in your home,
do notattemptto use any gas appliances
(including outdoor gas grills) and do
to protect yourself.
not cook inside. You also should not:
Never drink contaminated water.
strike matches, flip electrical switches
or do anything thatcan produce a spark.
Drinking water that has not been
purified can cause a host of diseases. It
Turn the gas off at the alley if possible
can also result in diarrhea and vomiting
which can cause dehydration and death
much sooner than if you had drunk
nothing at all. Do not ever attempt to
drink swimming pool water since the
chemicals can cause severe kidney and
and contact officials. Gas leaks are a
good sign of hidden structural damage.
As with water, if you have a storm
shelter or other outside shelter where
you may take refuge, be sure that it is
also stocked with food.
liver damage.
First Aid Kit
Food & Cooking
Most people will have enough canned
goods on hand to last them a while. If
you store canned goods specifically for
emergencies, be sure that you do not
store them for more than one year or
you risk food poisoning. You should
Keep a commercially prepared first aid
kit handy in all areas where you could
be. trapped. These should include:
Bandages in assorted sizes; adhesive
tape;a roll of absorbent cotton; aspirin;
hydrogen peroxide; an antibiotic
ointment;an anti-vomiting compound;
Page 18 • Dimensions • November 1989
thermometer; scissors; and tweezers.
want to)and I also keep water for them.
At least one person in your household
should have first aid and CPR training.
Training is available from your local
Many of us have the attitude that a
disaster will never happen to us,but you
Red Cross chapter.
never really know, do you? All this
may sound like alotto do,butif disaster
strikes, you'll be glad you took the time
Power Outages
You should have a flashlight,transistor
radio and lots of extra batteries on hand
in case of a power failure. Candles and
matches are also essential, but do not
use them inside if you suspect a gas
to prepare. Preparation doesn't take
very long, and you'll be much better
equipped to handle whatever might
come up if you have the supplies and
knowledge on hand before you need
them.
leak.
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Your power could be out for several
days or longer in severe cases. Be
prepared.
Storm Cellars
Be sure your storm cellar or shelter is
stocked with food, water, first aid kit,
flashlight, radio and batteries. Some of
the otheritems I keepin our storm cellar
are optional,butcan add greatly to your
comfort and safety in case you become
trapped. I've listed some of them
below. Be sure you wrap anything that
could be damaged by water in plastic
garbage bags. Coffee cans also make
great holders for toilet paper, matches,
extra batteries, etc.
Extra Clothes - tornado season strikes
when the weather is warm and I'm
usually in shorts when we head for the
cellar. I keep a pair of jeans, socks,
sweatshirt and jacket down there,just
in case.
Blankets - same reason.
Toilet Paper - obvious reasons.
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THANKSGIVING P
Thursday • Move
Petticoc
JERRI
The Bartender From Hell
^ Sunday • November 19th
THURSDAYS
"Girls NitedDut
Show in Nexus
401 E.2nd St.• Austin, TX 78701 •(512)495-9553
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SI
>OTLUCK BUFFET
mber 23rd • 3pm
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%ICC Benefit Show
Wednesday • November 29th
FRIDAYS
November 3rd — Nicole • 9-10pm
t^ovember 10th — Denlse Fawcett • 6pm
November 17th — Lara Linette • 6pm
November 24th — Nancy Ford • 6pm
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 21
hat A World,
^hat A World!
Moving Day
by Nancy Ford
Does anyone know when the Pope
is coming back to Texas? It would
be good to know when to expect
him, because I'm moving at the end
of this month and I could really use
his help with the heavy stuff.
As it happens, 1 have become
comfortable relying on the
kindness of strangers. 1 have no
muscular piece of fem-meat that
happens to be in the neighborhood.
If you could help me just this one
time, 1 can get the couch, loveseat
and dining room table all by myself.
Probably. Works every time.
But a few days ofthe discomfort of
lower back pain (if 1 were a tube of
Ben Gay in which sealed carton
would 1 be hiding? In the medicine
choice.People who move atthe end
of every lease cannot afford to be
picky. In the last ten years, 1 have
chest carton. But,did 1 remember to
moved ten, count 'em, ten times.
price to pay to upgrade one's
Once, 1500 mUes.
That's ten
pack the medicine chest?)is a small
residential status.
microwaves or 10 chances to win a
But the actual moving isn't the
trip to beautiful Puerto Vallarta,
problem. Moving is a snap — it's
the pre-production that's the kiUer.
Box gathering! Refrigerator
defrosting! Glass-wrapping! Ovencleaning! That's right — OVEN
CLEANING! This is no way to
spend a Saturday afternoon.
Mexico (airfare not included) in
lease language. Improbable as this
may seem, 1 no longer have any
friends who own pickup tmcks.
As a result, I have no problem
entrusting the safe down-one-
flight-of-stairs-and-up-another
joumey of my grandmother's 200-
examinations of motives when
pound heirloom etagere to any
trying to determine the real reason
And then there's the inevitable self-
Page 22* Dimensions • November 1989
remained
You can see Nancy Ford live and in
person November 2-4 & 9-11 at
unopened — sealing tape intact —
Missouri Street Station in Houston,
for the last three moves. Why do I
November 24th and December 8th
keep the index card notes from my
high school senior term paper
at Nexus in Austin, December 7th
at Sue EUen's in Dallas, and
entitled, "The Golden Era of the
November 5th at the Ranch in
Silver Screen"?
Houston.
for not discarding the contents of
boxes
that
have
Why do I keep them? How could I
not keep them? I got an A.
In those same boxes are my high
school yearbooks. I flip through
them once every few years or so it's my way of keeping in touch
with old friends It's heartwarming
in a predictable sort of way to read
that at least 20 people from my past
Nancy Ford's column.
What A World,
What A World,
appears every
month right here in
Dimensions!
believe that I am 2 sweet 2 be
forgotten and that 1'11 go far if I stay
as 1 are. Am. It's reasonable to
assume that people who wrote
things like that in high school
yearbooks do so with the certainty
that after commencement none of
us would ever see each other again.
Except Duane Kurd. Duane Kurd,
my friend, the then president of
Young Religious Republicans or a
similar incredibly upright
organization and whom I haven't
nancy ford
• comedy •
residential • commercial•
seen since commencement wrote in
my yearbook in an almost prophetic
manner(and I quote):
". . . if I can ever help you in any
way,just let me know."
Well, Duane, like I said, I'm
moving at the end of this month.
for booking info
call or v/rite:
You'll See Productions
2990 Richmond #316
Houston,Texas 77098
(713)721-4125
(713)520-7237
November 1989 • Dimensions• Page 23
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A Discussion of Lesbian Literature Botti New and Old
THE 1990 WOMEN ONLY CALENDAI^
INTO THE
GAY 90s
WITH CLASS
The 1990 Women Only Calendar
Reviewed by Asian Brooke
photographed in black & white at
locales in and around Los Angeles.The
theme of the calendar is easily
discernible as "Lesbians of the Gay
Frontiers After Dark
West Hollywood, OA
90's." The women in the photos are an
For years the gay male community has
attractive multi-racial mixture of
feminine and masculine — that subtle
put out superior calendars, but now
women have joined the ranks — with
lesbian culture.
impressive force.
The 1990 Women Only Calendar from
Nur Damen Productions is a work ofart
yin-yang so much a part of gay and
The range of the photos — from the
campy, vampish movement-oriented
cover to the quiet eroticism of
— one that both men and women will
December's entry — includes high
appreciate.
fashion, adventure, romance and sex.
The
calendar
is
stunningly
From the pastoral setting of two lovers
Page 24• Dimensions • Novemioer 1989
contemplative woman sitting at her
photography. "Their
having
incorporated
personal styles and
bureau, the quality of the women
interests into the idea behind each shot
represented is matched only by the
made it much more than posed
imagery," she says.
And the concept works. The 1990
Women Only Calendar is a
and their horse to the provocative,
superb settings captured
photographer Robyn Flynn.
by
The dominant force behind
the
development and promotion of the
calendar is D.L. Mackey, a marketing
consultant for eight years. Her
objective, she told Frontiers After
Dark,is two-fold: to promote the works
of
lesbian
artists,
writers,
photographers and musicians so that
they may develop their talent and
establish a sound reputation in their
field, and to produce products which
accurately portray today's lesbian.
In this she has succeeded. Although
there is a suggestion of a European
style, the work is decidedly
contemporary. Creating each
photograph to blend into a cohesive
sophisticated work which more than
gives evidence that gay women have
joined their brothers in creating quality
calendars.Mackey,Flynn and make-up
artist and stylist Sherry Randle have,
together with the models, created a
work that is certain to be discussed all
year long.
Those who wonder what to get their
favorite lesbian for the holidays,for her
birthday or just to say "I love you,
thanks for being my friend," need look
no further: the 1990 Women Only
Calendar is it.
You can order your calendar directly
concept, she gives much credit to the
from Nur Damen Productions, 13601
E. Whittier Blvd,. Suite 212, Whittier
90605. Enclose $19.45 (covers, tax,
mailing and handling). (213) 698-
women who volunteered as models for
5604.
unit was no easy task, says Mackey.
Although she designed the basic
assisting in the development of the
1990 Calendar
EXCELLENT GIFTS
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CHANUKAH
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(Friends.
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Lr
Everybody worries some of the time.
Some people worry all of the time.
They worry about things they can and
can't control. They worry about the
improbable, the impossible and the
outrageous. They worry too much!
Excessive worrying can make you both
physically and emotionally ill.
Although you probably already know if
do and worry atx)ut it only if it was
extremely important,
c. accept it and go on.
3.1 worry about:
a. everything.
b. some things.
c. little or nothing.
4.1 worry about things:
a. present, future & past
you are a worrier or not, answer the
b. usually only in the future.
questions below to see if you've
stepped over the line and worry too
c. only of immediate concern.
much.
5.1 am sometimes overwhelmed by
the number of things that could go
1.1 believe I worry:
a. yes
a. all the time.
b. sometimes
wrong in any given situation.
b. sometimes, but more often than I
should.
c. only in times of stress.
2. Even when I know I've done my
best in a trying situation, I:
a. worry that I could have done more.
b.know there was nothing more I could
6.1 know I shouldn't worry about
things beyond my control:
a. but I can't seem to help myself.
b. but sometimes I do.
c. so I don't.
7.1 have been a worrier:
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 27
a. all my life.
b. only since adulthood.
c. when I'm under pressure.
2. Try to recognize when worrying
8. Once I start worrying about
something:
a. I worry about it for days or even
3. When you catch yourself worrying,
weeks.
b. I try to talk myself out of it
c. I start working on a solution.
SCORING
Give Yourself:
3 points for every "A' answer
2 points for every'B' answer
1 point for every'
C* answer
starts at other times ofthe day and make
an effort to stop.
write down what you are worried about
and put it off until yoim worry session.
4.If you are still worrying about it after
writing it down,focus yotu*attention on
an object in the room and study it
carefully.Since itis hard to concentrate
on two things at once, you should be
able to stop worrying.Ifit doesn't work
the first time, do it several times until
you feel better.
5. Write down your worries during
your worry session. Having it in black
& white may make it seem less
threatening and help you find a solution
instead ofjust worrying.
If You Scored:
21-27
You definitely go over-board in the
worrying department. You may have a
tendency to dwell on "what ifs".
Worrying is self-destructive and can be
14-20
You are about average on the worrying
scale but in times of stress you may
When something negative happens it
have a tendency to overdo it. If this is
the case, you too could benefit from
sets off a chain reaction in the worrier
using the five step program above.
a form of addiction for some people.
and part of you begins to constantly
scan for things that could go wrong.
There are five steps to worrying less. If
you use this program and still find you
8-13
Worry doesn't play a big part in your
have a problem - see a professional.
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You'll feel much better and so will
those around you.
Five Steps to
Worrying Less
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oetry.
Leaving My Mold Behind
I am but a mass of flesh and bones,
A model of the human race,
A structure doomed to be imprisoned by its own boundary.
If I could, I would leave my mold behind.
I would set free the spirit that dwells within me.
I would be free.
1 would walk through wet cement without leaving a trace.
I would compose a symphony of crickets, rustiing leaves,
A violent storm surge.
1 would float freely on a cool summer breeze.
Have a cup of tea with nature. I would be any strand of life;
But not myself.
1 would go out just before dawn, and see the day through.
A transparent stranger to all evil;
Yet, an illusion of good will and love to a child.
1 would be silent friend to nature. 1 would be a secret
echoed utterly among the vastness of the universe.
Afraid of being heard.
Yes, if I could, I would be walking out of my body;
Leaving behind, at the blink of an eye.
Body, flesh, blood, and loones.
Rosie Garza
-Houston, TX
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November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 29
oroscope
What's in the Stars for You this month?
SCORPIO
(Oct 24th -Nov 22ncD
You are happy with the way a current
romance is going during the first week
ofNovember.Be careful that you don't
fool yourself about the seriousness of
the relationship.From the 9th thru the
16th try not to be too demanding or
possessive with someone close to you.
You could end up driving them away
instead of bringing them closer. From
the 17th thru the 23rd you are headed
in a positive direction both at work and
at home.You can gofar if you play your
cards right. From the 24th thru the
30th be open to someone who wants to
get close to you. You can sometimes
scare people away with your
seriousness.
SAGinARIUS
(Nov 23-Dec 21)
joint venture could bejust the ticket for
financial and emotional security.
CAPRICORN
(Dec 22ncl - Jan 19th)
Your charm and charisma might get
you in trouble during the first week of
November.You can atUact people that
are only out to use you if you don't stay
on your toes. From the 9th thru the
16th don't take the rap for someone
who is not living up to their
responsibilities.Lay the blame where it
belongs and don't look back. From the
17th thru the 23rd you may be in the
spotlight for recent accomplishments.
Take advantage of the opportunity to
show off — you deserve it. From the
24th thru the 30th you can come offas
quite a tyrant when someone interferes
with your ambitions.Cool off,it wasn't
intentional and you could make a
lasting enemy if you keep it up.
You'll have to be careful about
advertising your private business
AQUARIUS
affairs during the first week of
November. Discuss them only with
loved ones and close friends. From the
9th thru the I6th be as hcmest as
(Jon 20th - Feb 18lh)
Although you may be feeling like a
little fun during the first week of
possible abouta situation that has come
November,you'll have tobuckledown
up involving a loved one. Pretending
and get to work on a major project
like a problem doesn't exist will not
make it go away. From the 17th thru
before you can play.From the 9th thru
the 16th impatience may be pulling
the 23rd don't take an obligations
lightly. You won't get anywhere by
making promises and not keeping
you in the wrong direction at work.
Lighten up and take your time. You'll
them.From the 24th thru the 30th love
17th thru the 23rd be sure you keep
any promises you have made recently.
and money will blend well. A gift or
be much more successful, from the
PaaeSO* Dimensions • November 1989
Property of the Center
Someone who looks up to you could be
has arisen is causing hard feelings and
hurt if you fail to take your obligations
seriously.From the 24th thru the 30th
all sides and you are called on to
luck is on your side in every aspect of
TAURUS
(April 20th-May 20th)
your life. Enjoy.
mediate.
A relationship you've been toying with
could turn out to be lh£ one during the
PISCES
firstweek of November.Don't worry,
(Feb 19th-Mar 20th)
Good news seems to follow you
everywhere during the first week of
be happy — it will all work out for the
November. Now is a good time to
make plans and set goals - you just
time for anything else, spending some
best! From the 9th thru the 16th you
may be up to your ears in work and no
money or love life. The high stakes are
time alone can help you feel more
relaxed,from the 17th thru the 23rd a
break with holiday traditions may not
sit well with some family members.
not worth the risk. From the 17th thru
Don't let it get you down,they'll enjoy
the 23rd you could be in line for a
promotion at work. You may want to
consider turning it down if you feel you
thru the 30th a trip you've been
can't fail! From the 9th thru the 16th
you should avoid gambling with your
are not up to it. From the 24th thru the
30th you will have to watch your
impulse to overspend on holiday gifts.
Work and play go together well,
business travel can bring the
opportunity for a romantic interlude.
ARIES
(Mar 21st - April 19)
Romance is definitely heating up
during the first week of November. A
decision you make now could be luckyI
From the9th thru the 16th try notto let
success in recent endeavors go to your
head — an inflated ego does not
become you. From the 17th thru the
23rd explore money making
possibilities in real estate, property or
investments. Money making seems to
come easy right now but be sure not to
overspend. From the 24th thru the
30th you may have to take on a
troubling family issue. A dispute that
themselves anyway. From the 24th
planning may be moved up.If you leave
now, you'll stand less chance of being
delayed or running into problems.
GEMINI
(May 21st - June 21st)
Romance, money,and lots of luck are
in the cards during the first week of
November. Try not to push yourself
too hard, take things as they come and
you'll get alot more done.From the 9th
thru the 16th you may want to avoid
becoming too intimate with someone
you just met — your emotions can get
you in big trouble if you let them.From
the 17th thru the 23rd you may
receive a message youjustcan'tignore.
A dramatic situation calls for your
immediate attention, from the 24th
thru the 30th you'll have to take time
out to get yourselfre-organized at work
after the long holiday weekend. Be
careful about spending too much on
gifts for loved ones.
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 31
CANCER
(June 22th - July 22th)
A romantic fling could develop into a
permanent arrangement during the
first week of November. Pressures at
work ease up and allow you to spend
more time with your loved ones. From
the 9th thru the 16th a manipulative
person is trying to win you over for
reasons other than friendship. Be
careful that you don't fall for insincere
flattery, it can cause you great harm.
From
the 17th thru the 23rd
communications, teaching and
traveling are all on your agenda. You
can be very persuasive with friends and
family.From the 24th thru the 30th a
close companion could surprise you
with a gift Plans can change quickly be ready for spur of the moment
VIRGO
(August 23rd- Sept 22nd)
You may acquire a great "wealth" of
love or money during the first week of
November. No matter what it is, you
will be feeling very happy! From the
9th thru the 16th humor may be the
best way to cope with a trying family
situation. A scheme you've cooked up
may not go over well with loved ones.
From the 17th thru the 23rd you don't
have to be aggressive to get your way
— a little charm and sweet talk is all it
will take! From the 24th thru the 30th
a short trip over the long holiday
weekend may be just what the doctor
ordered to help you relax after a hard
month at work!
LIBRA
activities!
(Sept 23rd - Oct 23rd)
Plans that you've made for travel may
LEO
(July 23rcl - August 22nd)
be put on hold due to financial
considerations during the first week of
Don't let a simple disagreement turn
November. But, a financial windfall
nasty during the first week of
alter in the week could revive those
November. A compromise can be
reached if you will make the
plans! From the 9th thru the 16th you
will have to move fast to get everything
done. The pressure can make you
irritable if you don't take time for
suggestion.From the 9th thru the 16th
you need to tend to personal affairs that
you have neglected in past weeks.
Results won't show overnight, so be
patient From the 17th thru the 23rd
don't leta conflict with an older relative
about holiday traditions getoutofhand.
It might be best to give in, even if it
means a least minute change of plans.
From the 24th thru the 30th you could
be feeling restless. Be sure you finish
yourself.From the 17th thru the 23rd
you may not be in the mood for family
get-togethers. Go anyway — you'll
have a better time than you anticipated.
From the 24th thru the 30th you'll be
feeling more optimistic than you have
in a long while. A new love could be the
cause!
up any pressing work before you take
offfor a fiin weekend.A short tripcould
be just the ticket to lift your spirits and
help you relax.
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A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
ARLINGTON,TX (area code 817)
organizations
Gay/Lesbian Association of UTA
P.O. Box 19348-77, UTA St. 76019
794-5140
4012-B Cedar Springs 75219 #528-4233
Dallas GayA^sblan Historic Arctilves
4012-B Cedar Springs • 821-1653
Dallas Gay Youtti Group
300 Turtle Creek Plaza #116•307-7203
Dallas Outdoors
P.O. Box 35474 75235• 276-5270
Dallas Tavern Guild
AUSTIN,TX (area code 512)
3900 Lemmon Ave. #220•526-5292
Foundation for Human Understanding
clubs
Nexus/Petticoot Junction
528-4233
401 & 401-8 E. 2nd •495-9553
GayAesblan Young Adults
organizations
528-4233
Atfirrrxation (Mettiodlst)
Grace Fellowstiip In Ctirlst Jesus
7403 Shoal Creek • 451-2329
Austin Lambda
P.O. Box 5455 78763
2727 Oak Lawn 75219• 528-2811
Lesbian Information Line (UL)
P.O. Box 191443 75219• 528-2426
Lesbia/Gay Political Coalition
Gay/Lesbian Student
Association at UT Austin •458-3971
Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338
P.O. Box 224424 75222• 828-9882
Lesbian Visionaries
P.O. Box 191443 75219•521-9642
Lesbian/Gay Rigtits Lobby
P.O. Box 2505 78768
Metroplex Republicans
Metropolitan Community Churcti
1100 Springdcle Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Ministry
5555 N. Lamer Blvd. #L101 • 441-9191
Waterloo Counseling Center
P.O. Box 191033 75219 • 941-8114
3000 Turtle Creek Rozo, Suite 116
507 Powell 78703• 322-9654
P.O. Box 190973 75219 # 986-1751
Texas Human Rigtits Foundation
2201 N. Lamar # 203 78705•479-8473
AIDS Legal Assistance 1-800-828-6417
Womyn Togettier
3920 Cedar Springs # 528-4233
Oak Lawn Community Services
75219-5311 #520-8108
Oak Lawn Symptionic Band
DALLAS, TX (area code 214)
DENTON,TX (area code 817)
organizations
businesses
Business Delivery Systems
14902 Preston Rd. 75240 • 733-1108
COURAGE, Lesbian Gay Student Org.
c/o Student Activities Center
P.O. Box 5067 76203 # 382-3813
Crossroads Market
3930 Cedar Springs
521-8919 or 1-800-992-6404
Curious Times - Women's Books etc.
FT. WORTH (area code 817)
clubs
4008-D Cedar Springs 75219 • 528-4087
Partners #1612 Park Place # 924-2519
clubs
organizations
Sue Ellen's
Affirmation (Mettiodist) # 478-7837
3903 Cedar Springs • 559-0707
Desert Moon • 5903 Willis • 828-4471
Jugs•3810 Congress • 521-3474
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From Around the Region,the Country & the World
Texas Attorney
disclosures of AIDS information in the
General Rules
Realtors' Disclosure of
AIDS Information
real estate contextare prohibited by the
Federal Fair Housing Act
Although the Attorney General's
opinion is not law, it provides both
Unconstitutional
realtors and sellers faced with a
AUSTIN - On September 5th, Texas
Attorney General Jim Mattox issued an
opinion declaring that the portions of
House Bill 976 which allow a realtor to
disclose
AIDS information
to a
potential buyer violate the Federal Fair
Housing Act and are therefore invalid.
The opinion was issued in response to a
request from the Texas Real Estate
Commission for clarification of the
new disclosure law, which took effect
on September 1, 1989. The new law
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status of a prior or current occupant of
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and
the realtor
knowledge.
has the actual
The
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situation
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reason for refusing disclosure all
together. In a telephone conversation
with THRF staff member Margaret
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Logo Contest for 1990
TIC Announced
perceived this new rule as being in
SAN ANTONIO - The
conflict with the Texas Communicable
Disease Prevention and Control Act,as
organizing the 1990 Texas Lesbian
Conference (TLC) has announced a
Committee
violating the Act's prohibition against
logo design contest for that event. The
unauthorized disclosure of test results.
theme for the event will be"Lesbians in
In the opinion, Mattox declined to
the Nineties: Speaking Out".
All entries should be designed on an 8
1/2" X11"sheetof white paper with the
answer particular questions posed by
the Commission regarding the proper
afplication of the disclosure rule(e.g.,
what constitute "actual knowledge"),
focusing instead on the fact that all
entrants name, address and phone
number on the back of each entry.
Deadline for entries is December 1,
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The winner will receive a free TLC t-
shirt, as well as free admission to and
prejudiced remarks concerning the
murder oftwo gay men in Dallas;and to
Bill Nelson (The Robert Schwab
Award), THRF board member and
special recognition at the 1990 Texas
Lesbian Conference, to be held in San
Antonio on May 18,19 & 20,1990.
They are also searching for contact
people to distribute TLC information
former president of the Dallas Gay
throughout Texas.
To enter the contest or get more
information regarding the contest or
Resource Center.
information distribution, contact TLC
Contest, 263 Barbara Drive, San
Antonio,TX 78216 or call(512) 8281761.
Alliance (DGA), whose dedicated
vision and activism were essential in
founding DO A'sfood pantry and AIDS
The Schwab awards are named for the
late M. Robert Schwab, THJU^'s
founder and first president. Schwab, a
dedicated gay activist and Houston
attorney, was the driving force behind
THRF's 1970's lidgation in federal
court to declare Section 21.06 of the
THRF to Honor Leaders
Texas Penal Code unconsdtutional.
in the Fight for
THRFis now sponsoring a second legal
Gay Civil Rights
AUSTIN - The board of trustees of the
Texas Human Rights Foundation
(THRF) has selected its honorees for
THRF's 3rd Annual Robert Schwab
Memorial Award ceremonies. The
challenge to Secdon 21.06 in state court
in the case known as Morales vs. The
Stale of Texas. Section 21.06
criminalizes the private, consensual
sexual reladons of two men or two
women.
As a tribute to Schwab's vision, the M.
Schwab awards are given each year to
Robert Schwab Collection (which
individuals who have diligenUy and
includes his writings, papers,
documents, clippings, tapes &
courageously led the fight for lesbian
and gay civil rights. With these awards,
THRF recognizes and honors the
continued struggle by various
photographs) opened to the public in
the archives of the Houston FHiblic
Library in September. THRF's legal
individuals for the civil liberties of
director, David Bryan,emphasized the
lesbians and gay men.
importance of Schwab's legacy
This year's awards go to Senator Craig
Washington (Legislator of the Year)
for his outstanding work against AIDS
discrimination in the 71st Legislative
Session; to Lori Montgomery of the
"Although Robert died of AIDS in
1983, a glimpse of his life and
dedication is now on display for all
Dallas Times-Herald (Journalist of the
Year) for her exposure of Judge Jack
Hampton's homophobic and
Texans who have been inspired by his
struggle for equal civil rights. His
dreams of equality continue to reach
fruidon through the work of THRF.
The Schwab awards are meant to honor
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those persons who are on the front line
of this struggle."
The ceremony will consist of a formal
cocktail reception,to be held in Dallas
from 7-9pm on November 18th at 5824
Del Roy Drive, during which time the
awards will be presented.The previous
the experienceoflesbian immigrants in
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encouraged from undocumented,ESL,
older, differently abled, and Third
World lesbian immigrants,and women
in immigrant/citizen relationships.
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held in Austin and the second in
all submissions are strictly
confidential. Also looking for lesbian
Houston, were attended by several
hundred guests. Former honorees have
immigrants willing to complete survey
on their experiences. The new
included Representative Nancy
McDonald of El Paso, Glen Maxey of
submissions deadline is March 31,
the Lesbian Gay Rights Lobby, Cleve
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A Monthy Listing of Special Events All Around Texas, Oklahoma & New Mexico
AUSTIN - If you're looking for a good
time,NEXUS is the place on Thursday
Nights with the "Girls Nite Out"
afterwards
Show!
live
the toumament! Get on out to support
entertainment every Friday in
yourfavorite non-profit organization at
There's
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entry fee. There will be a party
with
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presentations and viewing the video of
November,so don't miss it! NEXUS &
a Chili Cookoff on November I2th at
PETTICOAT JUNCTION are having a
Thanksgiving Potluck Buffet on
Thanksgiving Day, Thursday the 23rd
at 3pm - if you want to bring a dish,just
tell Mary what you're bringing! Also,
2pm - there'll be chili,$I longnecks &
don't miss Terri - "The Bartender
From Hell" live and in person on
Sunday the 19th!
HOUSTON - Get out and support
HBIT (Houston Billiards Invitational
Tournament)attheRANCHon Sunday
the 12th! They'll be having a Benefit
Show to help all those Houston
participants in the 1990 Gay Games in
Vancouver! And, while you in the
benefit mood, be sure to come out for
the Slave Auction to benefit the
heartburn for fim and charity!
AUSTIN -
The Mother's Legal
Defense Fund is hosting afundraiser to
benefit an Austin mother fighting for
custody in Louisiana.The event will be
held at CHANCES on Sunday,
November 12th from 3-8pm and will
feature the music ofNancy Scott,Cate
&Zana Sue,and others.Cover is$5.00
at the door.
DALLAS - Thursday night is Country
& Western Night at SUE ELLEN'S!
In addition to lots of great music,
there's also $I Domestic Longnecks,
$2 Coronas and a Show at 10;30pm
Synergy Softball Team on the 19th!
Join the employees at the RANCH for
Thanksgiving Dinner on the 23rd -
featuring Kathy Jack, Lisa Bryson,
Cozy White and special guests!
check at the bar for time and menu!
And,last but not least,rumor has it that
a"KS"Reunion Show is in the works
HOUSTON - Fun and excitement is
the name ofthe game at KEYSTROKE
2 on November 10th & 24th! Join DJ
BJ.Sweat and lots of women at 202
so keep your eyes and ears open!
Tuam for two nights of great
DALLAS - Get ready to Tee-Off for
entertainment! If you'd like more info
the 1st Annual DESERT MOON
on KEYSTROKE,call their HOTLINE
at(713)785-9258.
Golf Classic on Saturday, November
4th! The Toumey will be held at Chase
Oaks Golf Course in Piano with a$45
AUSTIN - Don't miss Live Wire
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Production's presentation of The
Washington Sisters and Melanie
Monsur in Concert Friday, November
night- check outJUGS on Sunday from
Noon-4pm — they've got Bloody
Marys,Screwdrivers & Mimosa's —
17th. The concert will be held at The
all for one dollar! And, last but not
least, you can get Free Draft and $1
Riverside Quarters Capitol Room at
Riverside Drive and IH35 and will start
at 8pm. Don't miss out!
Longnecks all day and all night on
Tuesdays! Give em a try!
to buy Halloween Candy for State
SAN ANTONIO - Tuesday Nights at
the CIRCLE are now "Girl's Night
Out At The Circe Roundup"(in other
words. Country & Western Night)! It
School Residents a such a smashing
all starts at 9pm with No Cover, $1
success! Thanks ya'll! PARTNERS is
Longnecks, 750 Schnapps &
Tequila, $1.75 Margaritas and they
promise it will be 90% Country &
Western Music All Night Long! On
Wednesdays you can sing along with
the circle's new "toy" - a laser disc
machine that will play the music, the
FT.
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PARTNERS
-
Barbara
of
would like to thank
everyone who made the Benefit Show
also beginning a new stage of
remodeling and promises when they're
done they'll have one of the rockinest,
scootinest,slickest dance floor in all of
Texas! They'll also have the DJ's to go
with it - Kathy, Spanky & Electric
Whitehead Tony are all spinning your
favorite tunes!
DALLAS - Don't miss it - Brandi and
her girls are back, but this time at
JUGS! You can catch Brandi, along
with Cozy White and Dana, every
Wednesday Night at 10pm! Also on
Wednesdays, get $1.50 Swirls while
you enjoy the show! If you are looking
video & run the words across the
bottom so you can add your own voice!
On November 19th be sure and enter
the Doubles Fool Tournament - there
is a 500 entry fee and a SlOO first prize
(in cash)! Also,be sure you check at the
bar for Thanksgiving details. There's
sure to be something fun!
for a place to recover from Saturday
byiE
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ear/^gnes
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Answers to your questions about love,
relationships & personal problems
Dear Agnes,
I have met the mostdivine woman.She
is absolutely everything I have always
wanted. She is sophisticated, classy,
she has an excellent set of friends, and
she is quite beautiful.
I am a thirty-four year old professional
woman. I am very settled with an
excellentjob,and I would like nothing
better than settling down with this
beautiful creature. We have been
seeing each other for the past eight
months and are currently negotating
our living arrangements. I own a large
three bedroom home, so space is no
problem.
The problem is this woman has three
kids,a three year old,a five year old and
a eight year old. I love her, but I really
do not want children. I feel torn
between really wanting this woman and
really not wanting her kids.
Do you have any words of wisdom?
San Antonio
at the top of the other side. Listing all
the positive and negative things you can
think of if you decide to live together.
Be honest with yourself. Once you are
through, weigh the pros and cons
against each other. You may find some
surprises on your list.
Children are a big responsibility, but
the rewards can be great. If you cannot
accept these children and make a home
for them,scrap the moving plans. You
will only do them harm by allowing
them to live in your home when you
really do not want them.
Children need love and caring. They
cannot be tossed aside because you
decide you don't want them anymore.
Dear Agnes,
I read your letter to "Help"
(Dimensions, September 1989) and
frankly I find your advice lacking, to
say the least. I am disappointed that a
woman turned to you for advice and I,
Dear San Antonio,
What you have is a package deal-all or
none. If you really want to settle down
with this woman,the kiddos are a part
of the package. A major part.
Analyze your feelings,on paper. Draw
a line down the middle ofthe page,and
write pro at the top ofone side,and con
a layman, can see it isn't thoroughly
sound. 1 am sure your intentions were
good, but take a look at this.
People feel happy, sad, scared, love,
anger, anxious and lonely. "Feeling
like someone.." is a thought process.
And itautomatically puts'someone'on
the defensive.Instead of"I feel like you
Page 14 • Dimensions • November 1989
I think you have a good idea going
frankly I find your advice lacking,
to say the least. I am disappointed
that a woman turned to you for
and I am not questioning your
integrety at all. Please take this into
consideration.
advice and I, a layman, can see it
isn't thoroughly sound. I am sure
Thanks for your time.
your intentions were good, but take
K. Morris
a look at this.
People feel happy, sad, scared,
love, anger, anxious and lonely.
"Feeling like someone.." is a
Dear K.,
You're right. I goofed, sorry.
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thought
process. And
it
automatically puts 'someone' on
the defensive. Instead of"I feel like
Write To Dear Agnes
you are withdrawn" say "I feel
With Your Problems or
Comments at:
lonely when you are withdrawn.""I
feel angry when you yell at me."
Dimensions
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It probably seems trival, but
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and so do I.
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T- .1
i,^r. T^w^n/lrvc Hurricanes.
Earthquakes
, Tornadoes, Hurricanes,
Floods.... ail can occur anywhere in the
homes are in good
tmod condition
rnniiitinn or at a
shelter set up by relief agencies. Do not
continental United States. As recent
attempt to enter a home that has been
events have shown, whether it s major
hurricane, a major earthquake, or a
badly damaged to retrieve valuables.
Your life is much more important.
If you are able to retrieve some
valuables, take only the clothing you
need and things of value that you can
good 'ole Texas tornado, it pays to be
prepared.
What steps can you take niiw to be
prepared in case of a disaster in the
future? We'll start with the basics.
Shelter
It is a possibility that any type of
carry.
If you are able to remain in your home,
be alert to hidden damage and keep in
the mind the suggestions below.
disaster can force you from your home.
Water
As we've seen in San Francisco, it is
No matter what the disaster, water
supplies are always vulnerable. Water
dangerous to remain in your home if
mainscan be damaged leaving you with
you suspect any structural damage at
all. Contact officials (police, fire
department,civil defense,etc..)to help
sewage or untreated water to back up
you determine if it is safe to stay at
contaminating the water supply.And,if
no water at all. Floods can cause
home.
you take shelter in a storm cellar or
If your home is deemed unsafe or is
destroyed, you will need to find shelter
other structure, there may be no water
supply to begin with.
either with friends and relatives whose
Experts recommend that you have two
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gallons of water per person,per day on
hand, and you should have enough to
last a week. That amounts to fourteen
gallons of water for every person in
your household. It should be on hand
and stored in a convenient place.If you
have a storm cellar, be sure you have
water both in the house and in the cellar
since you never know where you could
be stuck.
If you haven'tstored any water,you can
use water that is already in the water
heater and has not been contaminated.
You can fill up bathtubsand sinks if you
have enough warning. You may also
want to have a small container of
chlorine bleach or water purifying
tablets on hand. If you use bleach, use
only a tablespoon in each gallon of
water and allow it to sit for 30 minutes
or more before drinking. Water may
also be boiled for 20 minutes to remove
bacteria. If you even suspect that water
is contaminated (discoloration or smell
are tip-offs) be sure you take measures
have enough canned goods and non-
perishable foods on hand to last a week.
If the power goes off, the highly
perishable foods in your refrigerator
will last only 6 hours before bacteria
growth starts. These foods include:
open cartons of milk, cooked and
uncooked meats, and soft dairy
products such as cottage cheese,
yogurt,etc.. These foods need to be put
on ice as soon as possible or thrown out.
Remember that opening your
refrigerator door causes the
temperature to rise faster and food to
spoil more quickly.
In the case of electrical power failure,
cooking can be done on a gas stove,in
a fireplace, on a barbecue grill or
hibachi, a camp stove, or small
kerosene heater. Be sure that you cook
in a very well ventilated area to avoid
carbon monoxide poisoning.
If you suspect a gas leak in your home,
do notattemptto use any gas appliances
(including outdoor gas grills) and do
to protect yourself.
not cook inside. You also should not:
Never drink contaminated water.
strike matches, flip electrical switches
or do anything thatcan produce a spark.
Drinking water that has not been
purified can cause a host of diseases. It
Turn the gas off at the alley if possible
can also result in diarrhea and vomiting
which can cause dehydration and death
much sooner than if you had drunk
nothing at all. Do not ever attempt to
drink swimming pool water since the
chemicals can cause severe kidney and
and contact officials. Gas leaks are a
good sign of hidden structural damage.
As with water, if you have a storm
shelter or other outside shelter where
you may take refuge, be sure that it is
also stocked with food.
liver damage.
First Aid Kit
Food & Cooking
Most people will have enough canned
goods on hand to last them a while. If
you store canned goods specifically for
emergencies, be sure that you do not
store them for more than one year or
you risk food poisoning. You should
Keep a commercially prepared first aid
kit handy in all areas where you could
be. trapped. These should include:
Bandages in assorted sizes; adhesive
tape;a roll of absorbent cotton; aspirin;
hydrogen peroxide; an antibiotic
ointment;an anti-vomiting compound;
Page 18 • Dimensions • November 1989
thermometer; scissors; and tweezers.
want to)and I also keep water for them.
At least one person in your household
should have first aid and CPR training.
Training is available from your local
Many of us have the attitude that a
disaster will never happen to us,but you
Red Cross chapter.
never really know, do you? All this
may sound like alotto do,butif disaster
strikes, you'll be glad you took the time
Power Outages
You should have a flashlight,transistor
radio and lots of extra batteries on hand
in case of a power failure. Candles and
matches are also essential, but do not
use them inside if you suspect a gas
to prepare. Preparation doesn't take
very long, and you'll be much better
equipped to handle whatever might
come up if you have the supplies and
knowledge on hand before you need
them.
leak.
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Your power could be out for several
days or longer in severe cases. Be
prepared.
Storm Cellars
Be sure your storm cellar or shelter is
stocked with food, water, first aid kit,
flashlight, radio and batteries. Some of
the otheritems I keepin our storm cellar
are optional,butcan add greatly to your
comfort and safety in case you become
trapped. I've listed some of them
below. Be sure you wrap anything that
could be damaged by water in plastic
garbage bags. Coffee cans also make
great holders for toilet paper, matches,
extra batteries, etc.
Extra Clothes - tornado season strikes
when the weather is warm and I'm
usually in shorts when we head for the
cellar. I keep a pair of jeans, socks,
sweatshirt and jacket down there,just
in case.
Blankets - same reason.
Toilet Paper - obvious reasons.
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November 17th — Lara Linette • 6pm
November 24th — Nancy Ford • 6pm
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 21
hat A World,
^hat A World!
Moving Day
by Nancy Ford
Does anyone know when the Pope
is coming back to Texas? It would
be good to know when to expect
him, because I'm moving at the end
of this month and I could really use
his help with the heavy stuff.
As it happens, 1 have become
comfortable relying on the
kindness of strangers. 1 have no
muscular piece of fem-meat that
happens to be in the neighborhood.
If you could help me just this one
time, 1 can get the couch, loveseat
and dining room table all by myself.
Probably. Works every time.
But a few days ofthe discomfort of
lower back pain (if 1 were a tube of
Ben Gay in which sealed carton
would 1 be hiding? In the medicine
choice.People who move atthe end
of every lease cannot afford to be
picky. In the last ten years, 1 have
chest carton. But,did 1 remember to
moved ten, count 'em, ten times.
price to pay to upgrade one's
Once, 1500 mUes.
That's ten
pack the medicine chest?)is a small
residential status.
microwaves or 10 chances to win a
But the actual moving isn't the
trip to beautiful Puerto Vallarta,
problem. Moving is a snap — it's
the pre-production that's the kiUer.
Box gathering! Refrigerator
defrosting! Glass-wrapping! Ovencleaning! That's right — OVEN
CLEANING! This is no way to
spend a Saturday afternoon.
Mexico (airfare not included) in
lease language. Improbable as this
may seem, 1 no longer have any
friends who own pickup tmcks.
As a result, I have no problem
entrusting the safe down-one-
flight-of-stairs-and-up-another
joumey of my grandmother's 200-
examinations of motives when
pound heirloom etagere to any
trying to determine the real reason
And then there's the inevitable self-
Page 22* Dimensions • November 1989
remained
You can see Nancy Ford live and in
person November 2-4 & 9-11 at
unopened — sealing tape intact —
Missouri Street Station in Houston,
for the last three moves. Why do I
November 24th and December 8th
keep the index card notes from my
high school senior term paper
at Nexus in Austin, December 7th
at Sue EUen's in Dallas, and
entitled, "The Golden Era of the
November 5th at the Ranch in
Silver Screen"?
Houston.
for not discarding the contents of
boxes
that
have
Why do I keep them? How could I
not keep them? I got an A.
In those same boxes are my high
school yearbooks. I flip through
them once every few years or so it's my way of keeping in touch
with old friends It's heartwarming
in a predictable sort of way to read
that at least 20 people from my past
Nancy Ford's column.
What A World,
What A World,
appears every
month right here in
Dimensions!
believe that I am 2 sweet 2 be
forgotten and that 1'11 go far if I stay
as 1 are. Am. It's reasonable to
assume that people who wrote
things like that in high school
yearbooks do so with the certainty
that after commencement none of
us would ever see each other again.
Except Duane Kurd. Duane Kurd,
my friend, the then president of
Young Religious Republicans or a
similar incredibly upright
organization and whom I haven't
nancy ford
• comedy •
residential • commercial•
seen since commencement wrote in
my yearbook in an almost prophetic
manner(and I quote):
". . . if I can ever help you in any
way,just let me know."
Well, Duane, like I said, I'm
moving at the end of this month.
for booking info
call or v/rite:
You'll See Productions
2990 Richmond #316
Houston,Texas 77098
(713)721-4125
(713)520-7237
November 1989 • Dimensions• Page 23
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A Discussion of Lesbian Literature Botti New and Old
THE 1990 WOMEN ONLY CALENDAI^
INTO THE
GAY 90s
WITH CLASS
The 1990 Women Only Calendar
Reviewed by Asian Brooke
photographed in black & white at
locales in and around Los Angeles.The
theme of the calendar is easily
discernible as "Lesbians of the Gay
Frontiers After Dark
West Hollywood, OA
90's." The women in the photos are an
For years the gay male community has
attractive multi-racial mixture of
feminine and masculine — that subtle
put out superior calendars, but now
women have joined the ranks — with
lesbian culture.
impressive force.
The 1990 Women Only Calendar from
Nur Damen Productions is a work ofart
yin-yang so much a part of gay and
The range of the photos — from the
campy, vampish movement-oriented
cover to the quiet eroticism of
— one that both men and women will
December's entry — includes high
appreciate.
fashion, adventure, romance and sex.
The
calendar
is
stunningly
From the pastoral setting of two lovers
Page 24• Dimensions • Novemioer 1989
contemplative woman sitting at her
photography. "Their
having
incorporated
personal styles and
bureau, the quality of the women
interests into the idea behind each shot
represented is matched only by the
made it much more than posed
imagery," she says.
And the concept works. The 1990
Women Only Calendar is a
and their horse to the provocative,
superb settings captured
photographer Robyn Flynn.
by
The dominant force behind
the
development and promotion of the
calendar is D.L. Mackey, a marketing
consultant for eight years. Her
objective, she told Frontiers After
Dark,is two-fold: to promote the works
of
lesbian
artists,
writers,
photographers and musicians so that
they may develop their talent and
establish a sound reputation in their
field, and to produce products which
accurately portray today's lesbian.
In this she has succeeded. Although
there is a suggestion of a European
style, the work is decidedly
contemporary. Creating each
photograph to blend into a cohesive
sophisticated work which more than
gives evidence that gay women have
joined their brothers in creating quality
calendars.Mackey,Flynn and make-up
artist and stylist Sherry Randle have,
together with the models, created a
work that is certain to be discussed all
year long.
Those who wonder what to get their
favorite lesbian for the holidays,for her
birthday or just to say "I love you,
thanks for being my friend," need look
no further: the 1990 Women Only
Calendar is it.
You can order your calendar directly
concept, she gives much credit to the
from Nur Damen Productions, 13601
E. Whittier Blvd,. Suite 212, Whittier
90605. Enclose $19.45 (covers, tax,
mailing and handling). (213) 698-
women who volunteered as models for
5604.
unit was no easy task, says Mackey.
Although she designed the basic
assisting in the development of the
1990 Calendar
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Everybody worries some of the time.
Some people worry all of the time.
They worry about things they can and
can't control. They worry about the
improbable, the impossible and the
outrageous. They worry too much!
Excessive worrying can make you both
physically and emotionally ill.
Although you probably already know if
do and worry atx)ut it only if it was
extremely important,
c. accept it and go on.
3.1 worry about:
a. everything.
b. some things.
c. little or nothing.
4.1 worry about things:
a. present, future & past
you are a worrier or not, answer the
b. usually only in the future.
questions below to see if you've
stepped over the line and worry too
c. only of immediate concern.
much.
5.1 am sometimes overwhelmed by
the number of things that could go
1.1 believe I worry:
a. yes
a. all the time.
b. sometimes
wrong in any given situation.
b. sometimes, but more often than I
should.
c. only in times of stress.
2. Even when I know I've done my
best in a trying situation, I:
a. worry that I could have done more.
b.know there was nothing more I could
6.1 know I shouldn't worry about
things beyond my control:
a. but I can't seem to help myself.
b. but sometimes I do.
c. so I don't.
7.1 have been a worrier:
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 27
a. all my life.
b. only since adulthood.
c. when I'm under pressure.
2. Try to recognize when worrying
8. Once I start worrying about
something:
a. I worry about it for days or even
3. When you catch yourself worrying,
weeks.
b. I try to talk myself out of it
c. I start working on a solution.
SCORING
Give Yourself:
3 points for every "A' answer
2 points for every'B' answer
1 point for every'
C* answer
starts at other times ofthe day and make
an effort to stop.
write down what you are worried about
and put it off until yoim worry session.
4.If you are still worrying about it after
writing it down,focus yotu*attention on
an object in the room and study it
carefully.Since itis hard to concentrate
on two things at once, you should be
able to stop worrying.Ifit doesn't work
the first time, do it several times until
you feel better.
5. Write down your worries during
your worry session. Having it in black
& white may make it seem less
threatening and help you find a solution
instead ofjust worrying.
If You Scored:
21-27
You definitely go over-board in the
worrying department. You may have a
tendency to dwell on "what ifs".
Worrying is self-destructive and can be
14-20
You are about average on the worrying
scale but in times of stress you may
When something negative happens it
have a tendency to overdo it. If this is
the case, you too could benefit from
sets off a chain reaction in the worrier
using the five step program above.
a form of addiction for some people.
and part of you begins to constantly
scan for things that could go wrong.
There are five steps to worrying less. If
you use this program and still find you
8-13
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those around you.
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oetry.
Leaving My Mold Behind
I am but a mass of flesh and bones,
A model of the human race,
A structure doomed to be imprisoned by its own boundary.
If I could, I would leave my mold behind.
I would set free the spirit that dwells within me.
I would be free.
1 would walk through wet cement without leaving a trace.
I would compose a symphony of crickets, rustiing leaves,
A violent storm surge.
1 would float freely on a cool summer breeze.
Have a cup of tea with nature. I would be any strand of life;
But not myself.
1 would go out just before dawn, and see the day through.
A transparent stranger to all evil;
Yet, an illusion of good will and love to a child.
1 would be silent friend to nature. 1 would be a secret
echoed utterly among the vastness of the universe.
Afraid of being heard.
Yes, if I could, I would be walking out of my body;
Leaving behind, at the blink of an eye.
Body, flesh, blood, and loones.
Rosie Garza
-Houston, TX
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What's in the Stars for You this month?
SCORPIO
(Oct 24th -Nov 22ncD
You are happy with the way a current
romance is going during the first week
ofNovember.Be careful that you don't
fool yourself about the seriousness of
the relationship.From the 9th thru the
16th try not to be too demanding or
possessive with someone close to you.
You could end up driving them away
instead of bringing them closer. From
the 17th thru the 23rd you are headed
in a positive direction both at work and
at home.You can gofar if you play your
cards right. From the 24th thru the
30th be open to someone who wants to
get close to you. You can sometimes
scare people away with your
seriousness.
SAGinARIUS
(Nov 23-Dec 21)
joint venture could bejust the ticket for
financial and emotional security.
CAPRICORN
(Dec 22ncl - Jan 19th)
Your charm and charisma might get
you in trouble during the first week of
November.You can atUact people that
are only out to use you if you don't stay
on your toes. From the 9th thru the
16th don't take the rap for someone
who is not living up to their
responsibilities.Lay the blame where it
belongs and don't look back. From the
17th thru the 23rd you may be in the
spotlight for recent accomplishments.
Take advantage of the opportunity to
show off — you deserve it. From the
24th thru the 30th you can come offas
quite a tyrant when someone interferes
with your ambitions.Cool off,it wasn't
intentional and you could make a
lasting enemy if you keep it up.
You'll have to be careful about
advertising your private business
AQUARIUS
affairs during the first week of
November. Discuss them only with
loved ones and close friends. From the
9th thru the I6th be as hcmest as
(Jon 20th - Feb 18lh)
Although you may be feeling like a
little fun during the first week of
possible abouta situation that has come
November,you'll have tobuckledown
up involving a loved one. Pretending
and get to work on a major project
like a problem doesn't exist will not
make it go away. From the 17th thru
before you can play.From the 9th thru
the 16th impatience may be pulling
the 23rd don't take an obligations
lightly. You won't get anywhere by
making promises and not keeping
you in the wrong direction at work.
Lighten up and take your time. You'll
them.From the 24th thru the 30th love
17th thru the 23rd be sure you keep
any promises you have made recently.
and money will blend well. A gift or
be much more successful, from the
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Someone who looks up to you could be
has arisen is causing hard feelings and
hurt if you fail to take your obligations
seriously.From the 24th thru the 30th
all sides and you are called on to
luck is on your side in every aspect of
TAURUS
(April 20th-May 20th)
your life. Enjoy.
mediate.
A relationship you've been toying with
could turn out to be lh£ one during the
PISCES
firstweek of November.Don't worry,
(Feb 19th-Mar 20th)
Good news seems to follow you
everywhere during the first week of
be happy — it will all work out for the
November. Now is a good time to
make plans and set goals - you just
time for anything else, spending some
best! From the 9th thru the 16th you
may be up to your ears in work and no
money or love life. The high stakes are
time alone can help you feel more
relaxed,from the 17th thru the 23rd a
break with holiday traditions may not
sit well with some family members.
not worth the risk. From the 17th thru
Don't let it get you down,they'll enjoy
the 23rd you could be in line for a
promotion at work. You may want to
consider turning it down if you feel you
thru the 30th a trip you've been
can't fail! From the 9th thru the 16th
you should avoid gambling with your
are not up to it. From the 24th thru the
30th you will have to watch your
impulse to overspend on holiday gifts.
Work and play go together well,
business travel can bring the
opportunity for a romantic interlude.
ARIES
(Mar 21st - April 19)
Romance is definitely heating up
during the first week of November. A
decision you make now could be luckyI
From the9th thru the 16th try notto let
success in recent endeavors go to your
head — an inflated ego does not
become you. From the 17th thru the
23rd explore money making
possibilities in real estate, property or
investments. Money making seems to
come easy right now but be sure not to
overspend. From the 24th thru the
30th you may have to take on a
troubling family issue. A dispute that
themselves anyway. From the 24th
planning may be moved up.If you leave
now, you'll stand less chance of being
delayed or running into problems.
GEMINI
(May 21st - June 21st)
Romance, money,and lots of luck are
in the cards during the first week of
November. Try not to push yourself
too hard, take things as they come and
you'll get alot more done.From the 9th
thru the 16th you may want to avoid
becoming too intimate with someone
you just met — your emotions can get
you in big trouble if you let them.From
the 17th thru the 23rd you may
receive a message youjustcan'tignore.
A dramatic situation calls for your
immediate attention, from the 24th
thru the 30th you'll have to take time
out to get yourselfre-organized at work
after the long holiday weekend. Be
careful about spending too much on
gifts for loved ones.
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CANCER
(June 22th - July 22th)
A romantic fling could develop into a
permanent arrangement during the
first week of November. Pressures at
work ease up and allow you to spend
more time with your loved ones. From
the 9th thru the 16th a manipulative
person is trying to win you over for
reasons other than friendship. Be
careful that you don't fall for insincere
flattery, it can cause you great harm.
From
the 17th thru the 23rd
communications, teaching and
traveling are all on your agenda. You
can be very persuasive with friends and
family.From the 24th thru the 30th a
close companion could surprise you
with a gift Plans can change quickly be ready for spur of the moment
VIRGO
(August 23rd- Sept 22nd)
You may acquire a great "wealth" of
love or money during the first week of
November. No matter what it is, you
will be feeling very happy! From the
9th thru the 16th humor may be the
best way to cope with a trying family
situation. A scheme you've cooked up
may not go over well with loved ones.
From the 17th thru the 23rd you don't
have to be aggressive to get your way
— a little charm and sweet talk is all it
will take! From the 24th thru the 30th
a short trip over the long holiday
weekend may be just what the doctor
ordered to help you relax after a hard
month at work!
LIBRA
activities!
(Sept 23rd - Oct 23rd)
Plans that you've made for travel may
LEO
(July 23rcl - August 22nd)
be put on hold due to financial
considerations during the first week of
Don't let a simple disagreement turn
November. But, a financial windfall
nasty during the first week of
alter in the week could revive those
November. A compromise can be
reached if you will make the
plans! From the 9th thru the 16th you
will have to move fast to get everything
done. The pressure can make you
irritable if you don't take time for
suggestion.From the 9th thru the 16th
you need to tend to personal affairs that
you have neglected in past weeks.
Results won't show overnight, so be
patient From the 17th thru the 23rd
don't leta conflict with an older relative
about holiday traditions getoutofhand.
It might be best to give in, even if it
means a least minute change of plans.
From the 24th thru the 30th you could
be feeling restless. Be sure you finish
yourself.From the 17th thru the 23rd
you may not be in the mood for family
get-togethers. Go anyway — you'll
have a better time than you anticipated.
From the 24th thru the 30th you'll be
feeling more optimistic than you have
in a long while. A new love could be the
cause!
up any pressing work before you take
offfor a fiin weekend.A short tripcould
be just the ticket to lift your spirits and
help you relax.
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A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
ARLINGTON,TX (area code 817)
organizations
Gay/Lesbian Association of UTA
P.O. Box 19348-77, UTA St. 76019
794-5140
4012-B Cedar Springs 75219 #528-4233
Dallas GayA^sblan Historic Arctilves
4012-B Cedar Springs • 821-1653
Dallas Gay Youtti Group
300 Turtle Creek Plaza #116•307-7203
Dallas Outdoors
P.O. Box 35474 75235• 276-5270
Dallas Tavern Guild
AUSTIN,TX (area code 512)
3900 Lemmon Ave. #220•526-5292
Foundation for Human Understanding
clubs
Nexus/Petticoot Junction
528-4233
401 & 401-8 E. 2nd •495-9553
GayAesblan Young Adults
organizations
528-4233
Atfirrrxation (Mettiodlst)
Grace Fellowstiip In Ctirlst Jesus
7403 Shoal Creek • 451-2329
Austin Lambda
P.O. Box 5455 78763
2727 Oak Lawn 75219• 528-2811
Lesbian Information Line (UL)
P.O. Box 191443 75219• 528-2426
Lesbia/Gay Political Coalition
Gay/Lesbian Student
Association at UT Austin •458-3971
Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338
P.O. Box 224424 75222• 828-9882
Lesbian Visionaries
P.O. Box 191443 75219•521-9642
Lesbian/Gay Rigtits Lobby
P.O. Box 2505 78768
Metroplex Republicans
Metropolitan Community Churcti
1100 Springdcle Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Ministry
5555 N. Lamer Blvd. #L101 • 441-9191
Waterloo Counseling Center
P.O. Box 191033 75219 • 941-8114
3000 Turtle Creek Rozo, Suite 116
507 Powell 78703• 322-9654
P.O. Box 190973 75219 # 986-1751
Texas Human Rigtits Foundation
2201 N. Lamar # 203 78705•479-8473
AIDS Legal Assistance 1-800-828-6417
Womyn Togettier
3920 Cedar Springs # 528-4233
Oak Lawn Community Services
75219-5311 #520-8108
Oak Lawn Symptionic Band
DALLAS, TX (area code 214)
DENTON,TX (area code 817)
organizations
businesses
Business Delivery Systems
14902 Preston Rd. 75240 • 733-1108
COURAGE, Lesbian Gay Student Org.
c/o Student Activities Center
P.O. Box 5067 76203 # 382-3813
Crossroads Market
3930 Cedar Springs
521-8919 or 1-800-992-6404
Curious Times - Women's Books etc.
FT. WORTH (area code 817)
clubs
4008-D Cedar Springs 75219 • 528-4087
Partners #1612 Park Place # 924-2519
clubs
organizations
Sue Ellen's
Affirmation (Mettiodist) # 478-7837
3903 Cedar Springs • 559-0707
Desert Moon • 5903 Willis • 828-4471
Jugs•3810 Congress • 521-3474
HOUSTON,TX (area code 713)
organizations
clubs
Affirmation (Mettrodist)
P.O. Box 225831 75222• 948-1546
Keystroke # Hotline # 785-9258
AIDS Resource Center
organizations
4012-B Cedar Springs 75219
AIDS Foundation
Ranctr • 9125 S. Main # 666-3464
Dallas Gay Alliance
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 33
3400 Montrose #700• 524-AIDS
Notional GayAesbian Task Force
AIDS HOTLINE
1517 U Street NW
c/o Switchboard • 529-3211
Gay/Lesbian Students
University of Houston
Washington D.C, 20009 • 202-332-6483
The Fund for Human Dignity
666 Broadway 4th Floor
4800 Ccihoun • 529-3211
NY, NY 10012
Gay & Lesbian Switctitx>ard
P.O. Box 66591 77266 •529-3211
Houston Gay Political Caucus
P.O. Box 66664 77266•521-1000
organizations
Kingdom Community Ctiurcti
614 E. 19th.862-7533
Lambda ALANON
NORMAN,OK (area code 405)
Women's Resource Center
P.O. Box 5089 73070
Lambda Center for Alchohollcs
1214 Joanne • 521-9772
Lesbian/Gay Students
University of Houston - Clear Lake
2700 Bay Area 77058
OKLAHOMA CITY, OK
(area code 405)
organizations
Montrose Pool League/Billiards
2135 NW 39th 73112 « 525-AIDS
PJ 863-8482
PWA Coalition - Houston
3327 Essex Lane *623-4436
Womynspace
P.O. Box 980601 77098-0601
880-9517 or 521-0780
Women's Softball League
6431 Plneshade • 868-6256
Oasis the Community Center
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SAN ANTONIO,TX (area code 512)
clubs
The Circle
8021 Pinebrook • 341-2818
organizations
Dignity/San Antonio
202 N. St. Mary's • 349-3632
LUBBOCK,TX (area code 806)
organizations
Integrity/San Antonio
Lubbock Lesbian/Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 150006 78212• 684-4920
P.O. Box 64746 79464.796-2403
Names Project/Lubbock
River City Living Metropolitan
Community Church
796-1800 or 744-1957
202 Holland 78212 * 822-1121
NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS
Affirmation: United Mettiodists for
Lesbian/Gay Concerns
P.O. Box 1021 • Evanston, IL 60204
AIDS Action Council
729 Eighth St. S.E. Suite 200
Washington. DC 20003 *(202) 547-3101
AIDS 800 • 1-800-221-7044
LISA (Lesbian InfornrKition SA)
828-LiSA (5472)
SALGA - San Antonio Lesbian & Gay
Assembly * 733-7300
San Antonio AIDS Foundation
P.O. Box 120113 78212-9313
San Antonio Tavern Guild * 822-2823
SOUTH PADRE ISLAND, TX
(area code 512)
Conference For Cattiolic Lesbians
P.O. Box 436, Planetarium Station
New York, New York 10024
acconrrodations
Lyie's Deck * 120 E. Atol St.
Ntl Gay Alliance for Young Adults,
P.O. Box 2326 78597 * 761-LYLE
Inc.P.O, Box 190426
Dallas, TX 75219-0426 •(214)307-7203
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ews
From Around the Region,the Country & the World
Texas Attorney
disclosures of AIDS information in the
General Rules
Realtors' Disclosure of
AIDS Information
real estate contextare prohibited by the
Federal Fair Housing Act
Although the Attorney General's
opinion is not law, it provides both
Unconstitutional
realtors and sellers faced with a
AUSTIN - On September 5th, Texas
Attorney General Jim Mattox issued an
opinion declaring that the portions of
House Bill 976 which allow a realtor to
disclose
AIDS information
to a
potential buyer violate the Federal Fair
Housing Act and are therefore invalid.
The opinion was issued in response to a
request from the Texas Real Estate
Commission for clarification of the
new disclosure law, which took effect
on September 1, 1989. The new law
permits a realtor to disclose the HIV
status of a prior or current occupant of
a home to a potential buyer if the buyer
specifically requests the information
and
the realtor
knowledge.
has the actual
The
Commission
situation
involving a request for
disclosure of AIDS information a solid
reason for refusing disclosure all
together. In a telephone conversation
with THRF staff member Margaret
Tucker on September 25th, Mr.
Wallace Collins, the Administrator for
the Texas Real Estate Commission,
confirmed that the Attorney General's
opinion provided "sufficient
clarification" of HB 976, and that the
Commission would administer HB 976
as interpreted by Mr. Mattox.(i.e., no
AIDS disclosures whatsoever).
Logo Contest for 1990
TIC Announced
perceived this new rule as being in
SAN ANTONIO - The
conflict with the Texas Communicable
Disease Prevention and Control Act,as
organizing the 1990 Texas Lesbian
Conference (TLC) has announced a
Committee
violating the Act's prohibition against
logo design contest for that event. The
unauthorized disclosure of test results.
theme for the event will be"Lesbians in
In the opinion, Mattox declined to
the Nineties: Speaking Out".
All entries should be designed on an 8
1/2" X11"sheetof white paper with the
answer particular questions posed by
the Commission regarding the proper
afplication of the disclosure rule(e.g.,
what constitute "actual knowledge"),
focusing instead on the fact that all
entrants name, address and phone
number on the back of each entry.
Deadline for entries is December 1,
1989.
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 7
The winner will receive a free TLC t-
shirt, as well as free admission to and
prejudiced remarks concerning the
murder oftwo gay men in Dallas;and to
Bill Nelson (The Robert Schwab
Award), THRF board member and
special recognition at the 1990 Texas
Lesbian Conference, to be held in San
Antonio on May 18,19 & 20,1990.
They are also searching for contact
people to distribute TLC information
former president of the Dallas Gay
throughout Texas.
To enter the contest or get more
information regarding the contest or
Resource Center.
information distribution, contact TLC
Contest, 263 Barbara Drive, San
Antonio,TX 78216 or call(512) 8281761.
Alliance (DGA), whose dedicated
vision and activism were essential in
founding DO A'sfood pantry and AIDS
The Schwab awards are named for the
late M. Robert Schwab, THJU^'s
founder and first president. Schwab, a
dedicated gay activist and Houston
attorney, was the driving force behind
THRF's 1970's lidgation in federal
court to declare Section 21.06 of the
THRF to Honor Leaders
Texas Penal Code unconsdtutional.
in the Fight for
THRFis now sponsoring a second legal
Gay Civil Rights
AUSTIN - The board of trustees of the
Texas Human Rights Foundation
(THRF) has selected its honorees for
THRF's 3rd Annual Robert Schwab
Memorial Award ceremonies. The
challenge to Secdon 21.06 in state court
in the case known as Morales vs. The
Stale of Texas. Section 21.06
criminalizes the private, consensual
sexual reladons of two men or two
women.
As a tribute to Schwab's vision, the M.
Schwab awards are given each year to
Robert Schwab Collection (which
individuals who have diligenUy and
includes his writings, papers,
documents, clippings, tapes &
courageously led the fight for lesbian
and gay civil rights. With these awards,
THRF recognizes and honors the
continued struggle by various
photographs) opened to the public in
the archives of the Houston FHiblic
Library in September. THRF's legal
individuals for the civil liberties of
director, David Bryan,emphasized the
lesbians and gay men.
importance of Schwab's legacy
This year's awards go to Senator Craig
Washington (Legislator of the Year)
for his outstanding work against AIDS
discrimination in the 71st Legislative
Session; to Lori Montgomery of the
"Although Robert died of AIDS in
1983, a glimpse of his life and
dedication is now on display for all
Dallas Times-Herald (Journalist of the
Year) for her exposure of Judge Jack
Hampton's homophobic and
Texans who have been inspired by his
struggle for equal civil rights. His
dreams of equality continue to reach
fruidon through the work of THRF.
The Schwab awards are meant to honor
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those persons who are on the front line
of this struggle."
The ceremony will consist of a formal
cocktail reception,to be held in Dallas
from 7-9pm on November 18th at 5824
Del Roy Drive, during which time the
awards will be presented.The previous
the experienceoflesbian immigrants in
the United States. Works are especially
encouraged from undocumented,ESL,
older, differently abled, and Third
World lesbian immigrants,and women
in immigrant/citizen relationships.
Anonymous contributions are ok, and
held in Austin and the second in
all submissions are strictly
confidential. Also looking for lesbian
Houston, were attended by several
hundred guests. Former honorees have
immigrants willing to complete survey
on their experiences. The new
included Representative Nancy
McDonald of El Paso, Glen Maxey of
submissions deadline is March 31,
the Lesbian Gay Rights Lobby, Cleve
Send submissions/inquiries and SASE
for returns to:TheProject,c/o Lundy,3
Madison Street, Cambridge, MA
Schwab Award ceremonies, the first
Jones of the Names Project,and Molly
Ivins of the Dallas Times-Herald.
1990.
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A Monthy Listing of Special Events All Around Texas, Oklahoma & New Mexico
AUSTIN - If you're looking for a good
time,NEXUS is the place on Thursday
Nights with the "Girls Nite Out"
afterwards
Show!
live
the toumament! Get on out to support
entertainment every Friday in
yourfavorite non-profit organization at
There's
also
entry fee. There will be a party
with
food, awards
presentations and viewing the video of
November,so don't miss it! NEXUS &
a Chili Cookoff on November I2th at
PETTICOAT JUNCTION are having a
Thanksgiving Potluck Buffet on
Thanksgiving Day, Thursday the 23rd
at 3pm - if you want to bring a dish,just
tell Mary what you're bringing! Also,
2pm - there'll be chili,$I longnecks &
don't miss Terri - "The Bartender
From Hell" live and in person on
Sunday the 19th!
HOUSTON - Get out and support
HBIT (Houston Billiards Invitational
Tournament)attheRANCHon Sunday
the 12th! They'll be having a Benefit
Show to help all those Houston
participants in the 1990 Gay Games in
Vancouver! And, while you in the
benefit mood, be sure to come out for
the Slave Auction to benefit the
heartburn for fim and charity!
AUSTIN -
The Mother's Legal
Defense Fund is hosting afundraiser to
benefit an Austin mother fighting for
custody in Louisiana.The event will be
held at CHANCES on Sunday,
November 12th from 3-8pm and will
feature the music ofNancy Scott,Cate
&Zana Sue,and others.Cover is$5.00
at the door.
DALLAS - Thursday night is Country
& Western Night at SUE ELLEN'S!
In addition to lots of great music,
there's also $I Domestic Longnecks,
$2 Coronas and a Show at 10;30pm
Synergy Softball Team on the 19th!
Join the employees at the RANCH for
Thanksgiving Dinner on the 23rd -
featuring Kathy Jack, Lisa Bryson,
Cozy White and special guests!
check at the bar for time and menu!
And,last but not least,rumor has it that
a"KS"Reunion Show is in the works
HOUSTON - Fun and excitement is
the name ofthe game at KEYSTROKE
2 on November 10th & 24th! Join DJ
BJ.Sweat and lots of women at 202
so keep your eyes and ears open!
Tuam for two nights of great
DALLAS - Get ready to Tee-Off for
entertainment! If you'd like more info
the 1st Annual DESERT MOON
on KEYSTROKE,call their HOTLINE
at(713)785-9258.
Golf Classic on Saturday, November
4th! The Toumey will be held at Chase
Oaks Golf Course in Piano with a$45
AUSTIN - Don't miss Live Wire
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 11
Production's presentation of The
Washington Sisters and Melanie
Monsur in Concert Friday, November
night- check outJUGS on Sunday from
Noon-4pm — they've got Bloody
Marys,Screwdrivers & Mimosa's —
17th. The concert will be held at The
all for one dollar! And, last but not
least, you can get Free Draft and $1
Riverside Quarters Capitol Room at
Riverside Drive and IH35 and will start
at 8pm. Don't miss out!
Longnecks all day and all night on
Tuesdays! Give em a try!
to buy Halloween Candy for State
SAN ANTONIO - Tuesday Nights at
the CIRCLE are now "Girl's Night
Out At The Circe Roundup"(in other
words. Country & Western Night)! It
School Residents a such a smashing
all starts at 9pm with No Cover, $1
success! Thanks ya'll! PARTNERS is
Longnecks, 750 Schnapps &
Tequila, $1.75 Margaritas and they
promise it will be 90% Country &
Western Music All Night Long! On
Wednesdays you can sing along with
the circle's new "toy" - a laser disc
machine that will play the music, the
FT.
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-
Barbara
of
would like to thank
everyone who made the Benefit Show
also beginning a new stage of
remodeling and promises when they're
done they'll have one of the rockinest,
scootinest,slickest dance floor in all of
Texas! They'll also have the DJ's to go
with it - Kathy, Spanky & Electric
Whitehead Tony are all spinning your
favorite tunes!
DALLAS - Don't miss it - Brandi and
her girls are back, but this time at
JUGS! You can catch Brandi, along
with Cozy White and Dana, every
Wednesday Night at 10pm! Also on
Wednesdays, get $1.50 Swirls while
you enjoy the show! If you are looking
video & run the words across the
bottom so you can add your own voice!
On November 19th be sure and enter
the Doubles Fool Tournament - there
is a 500 entry fee and a SlOO first prize
(in cash)! Also,be sure you check at the
bar for Thanksgiving details. There's
sure to be something fun!
for a place to recover from Saturday
byiE
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ear/^gnes
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Answers to your questions about love,
relationships & personal problems
Dear Agnes,
I have met the mostdivine woman.She
is absolutely everything I have always
wanted. She is sophisticated, classy,
she has an excellent set of friends, and
she is quite beautiful.
I am a thirty-four year old professional
woman. I am very settled with an
excellentjob,and I would like nothing
better than settling down with this
beautiful creature. We have been
seeing each other for the past eight
months and are currently negotating
our living arrangements. I own a large
three bedroom home, so space is no
problem.
The problem is this woman has three
kids,a three year old,a five year old and
a eight year old. I love her, but I really
do not want children. I feel torn
between really wanting this woman and
really not wanting her kids.
Do you have any words of wisdom?
San Antonio
at the top of the other side. Listing all
the positive and negative things you can
think of if you decide to live together.
Be honest with yourself. Once you are
through, weigh the pros and cons
against each other. You may find some
surprises on your list.
Children are a big responsibility, but
the rewards can be great. If you cannot
accept these children and make a home
for them,scrap the moving plans. You
will only do them harm by allowing
them to live in your home when you
really do not want them.
Children need love and caring. They
cannot be tossed aside because you
decide you don't want them anymore.
Dear Agnes,
I read your letter to "Help"
(Dimensions, September 1989) and
frankly I find your advice lacking, to
say the least. I am disappointed that a
woman turned to you for advice and I,
Dear San Antonio,
What you have is a package deal-all or
none. If you really want to settle down
with this woman,the kiddos are a part
of the package. A major part.
Analyze your feelings,on paper. Draw
a line down the middle ofthe page,and
write pro at the top ofone side,and con
a layman, can see it isn't thoroughly
sound. 1 am sure your intentions were
good, but take a look at this.
People feel happy, sad, scared, love,
anger, anxious and lonely. "Feeling
like someone.." is a thought process.
And itautomatically puts'someone'on
the defensive.Instead of"I feel like you
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I think you have a good idea going
frankly I find your advice lacking,
to say the least. I am disappointed
that a woman turned to you for
and I am not questioning your
integrety at all. Please take this into
consideration.
advice and I, a layman, can see it
isn't thoroughly sound. I am sure
Thanks for your time.
your intentions were good, but take
K. Morris
a look at this.
People feel happy, sad, scared,
love, anger, anxious and lonely.
"Feeling like someone.." is a
Dear K.,
You're right. I goofed, sorry.
<S
thought
process. And
it
automatically puts 'someone' on
the defensive. Instead of"I feel like
Write To Dear Agnes
you are withdrawn" say "I feel
With Your Problems or
Comments at:
lonely when you are withdrawn.""I
feel angry when you yell at me."
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P.O Box 856
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It probably seems trival, but
experts think it makes a diffrence
and so do I.
Take some time and think about it
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T- .1
i,^r. T^w^n/lrvc Hurricanes.
Earthquakes
, Tornadoes, Hurricanes,
Floods.... ail can occur anywhere in the
homes are in good
tmod condition
rnniiitinn or at a
shelter set up by relief agencies. Do not
continental United States. As recent
attempt to enter a home that has been
events have shown, whether it s major
hurricane, a major earthquake, or a
badly damaged to retrieve valuables.
Your life is much more important.
If you are able to retrieve some
valuables, take only the clothing you
need and things of value that you can
good 'ole Texas tornado, it pays to be
prepared.
What steps can you take niiw to be
prepared in case of a disaster in the
future? We'll start with the basics.
Shelter
It is a possibility that any type of
carry.
If you are able to remain in your home,
be alert to hidden damage and keep in
the mind the suggestions below.
disaster can force you from your home.
Water
As we've seen in San Francisco, it is
No matter what the disaster, water
supplies are always vulnerable. Water
dangerous to remain in your home if
mainscan be damaged leaving you with
you suspect any structural damage at
all. Contact officials (police, fire
department,civil defense,etc..)to help
sewage or untreated water to back up
you determine if it is safe to stay at
contaminating the water supply.And,if
no water at all. Floods can cause
home.
you take shelter in a storm cellar or
If your home is deemed unsafe or is
destroyed, you will need to find shelter
other structure, there may be no water
supply to begin with.
either with friends and relatives whose
Experts recommend that you have two
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gallons of water per person,per day on
hand, and you should have enough to
last a week. That amounts to fourteen
gallons of water for every person in
your household. It should be on hand
and stored in a convenient place.If you
have a storm cellar, be sure you have
water both in the house and in the cellar
since you never know where you could
be stuck.
If you haven'tstored any water,you can
use water that is already in the water
heater and has not been contaminated.
You can fill up bathtubsand sinks if you
have enough warning. You may also
want to have a small container of
chlorine bleach or water purifying
tablets on hand. If you use bleach, use
only a tablespoon in each gallon of
water and allow it to sit for 30 minutes
or more before drinking. Water may
also be boiled for 20 minutes to remove
bacteria. If you even suspect that water
is contaminated (discoloration or smell
are tip-offs) be sure you take measures
have enough canned goods and non-
perishable foods on hand to last a week.
If the power goes off, the highly
perishable foods in your refrigerator
will last only 6 hours before bacteria
growth starts. These foods include:
open cartons of milk, cooked and
uncooked meats, and soft dairy
products such as cottage cheese,
yogurt,etc.. These foods need to be put
on ice as soon as possible or thrown out.
Remember that opening your
refrigerator door causes the
temperature to rise faster and food to
spoil more quickly.
In the case of electrical power failure,
cooking can be done on a gas stove,in
a fireplace, on a barbecue grill or
hibachi, a camp stove, or small
kerosene heater. Be sure that you cook
in a very well ventilated area to avoid
carbon monoxide poisoning.
If you suspect a gas leak in your home,
do notattemptto use any gas appliances
(including outdoor gas grills) and do
to protect yourself.
not cook inside. You also should not:
Never drink contaminated water.
strike matches, flip electrical switches
or do anything thatcan produce a spark.
Drinking water that has not been
purified can cause a host of diseases. It
Turn the gas off at the alley if possible
can also result in diarrhea and vomiting
which can cause dehydration and death
much sooner than if you had drunk
nothing at all. Do not ever attempt to
drink swimming pool water since the
chemicals can cause severe kidney and
and contact officials. Gas leaks are a
good sign of hidden structural damage.
As with water, if you have a storm
shelter or other outside shelter where
you may take refuge, be sure that it is
also stocked with food.
liver damage.
First Aid Kit
Food & Cooking
Most people will have enough canned
goods on hand to last them a while. If
you store canned goods specifically for
emergencies, be sure that you do not
store them for more than one year or
you risk food poisoning. You should
Keep a commercially prepared first aid
kit handy in all areas where you could
be. trapped. These should include:
Bandages in assorted sizes; adhesive
tape;a roll of absorbent cotton; aspirin;
hydrogen peroxide; an antibiotic
ointment;an anti-vomiting compound;
Page 18 • Dimensions • November 1989
thermometer; scissors; and tweezers.
want to)and I also keep water for them.
At least one person in your household
should have first aid and CPR training.
Training is available from your local
Many of us have the attitude that a
disaster will never happen to us,but you
Red Cross chapter.
never really know, do you? All this
may sound like alotto do,butif disaster
strikes, you'll be glad you took the time
Power Outages
You should have a flashlight,transistor
radio and lots of extra batteries on hand
in case of a power failure. Candles and
matches are also essential, but do not
use them inside if you suspect a gas
to prepare. Preparation doesn't take
very long, and you'll be much better
equipped to handle whatever might
come up if you have the supplies and
knowledge on hand before you need
them.
leak.
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Your power could be out for several
days or longer in severe cases. Be
prepared.
Storm Cellars
Be sure your storm cellar or shelter is
stocked with food, water, first aid kit,
flashlight, radio and batteries. Some of
the otheritems I keepin our storm cellar
are optional,butcan add greatly to your
comfort and safety in case you become
trapped. I've listed some of them
below. Be sure you wrap anything that
could be damaged by water in plastic
garbage bags. Coffee cans also make
great holders for toilet paper, matches,
extra batteries, etc.
Extra Clothes - tornado season strikes
when the weather is warm and I'm
usually in shorts when we head for the
cellar. I keep a pair of jeans, socks,
sweatshirt and jacket down there,just
in case.
Blankets - same reason.
Toilet Paper - obvious reasons.
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November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 21
hat A World,
^hat A World!
Moving Day
by Nancy Ford
Does anyone know when the Pope
is coming back to Texas? It would
be good to know when to expect
him, because I'm moving at the end
of this month and I could really use
his help with the heavy stuff.
As it happens, 1 have become
comfortable relying on the
kindness of strangers. 1 have no
muscular piece of fem-meat that
happens to be in the neighborhood.
If you could help me just this one
time, 1 can get the couch, loveseat
and dining room table all by myself.
Probably. Works every time.
But a few days ofthe discomfort of
lower back pain (if 1 were a tube of
Ben Gay in which sealed carton
would 1 be hiding? In the medicine
choice.People who move atthe end
of every lease cannot afford to be
picky. In the last ten years, 1 have
chest carton. But,did 1 remember to
moved ten, count 'em, ten times.
price to pay to upgrade one's
Once, 1500 mUes.
That's ten
pack the medicine chest?)is a small
residential status.
microwaves or 10 chances to win a
But the actual moving isn't the
trip to beautiful Puerto Vallarta,
problem. Moving is a snap — it's
the pre-production that's the kiUer.
Box gathering! Refrigerator
defrosting! Glass-wrapping! Ovencleaning! That's right — OVEN
CLEANING! This is no way to
spend a Saturday afternoon.
Mexico (airfare not included) in
lease language. Improbable as this
may seem, 1 no longer have any
friends who own pickup tmcks.
As a result, I have no problem
entrusting the safe down-one-
flight-of-stairs-and-up-another
joumey of my grandmother's 200-
examinations of motives when
pound heirloom etagere to any
trying to determine the real reason
And then there's the inevitable self-
Page 22* Dimensions • November 1989
remained
You can see Nancy Ford live and in
person November 2-4 & 9-11 at
unopened — sealing tape intact —
Missouri Street Station in Houston,
for the last three moves. Why do I
November 24th and December 8th
keep the index card notes from my
high school senior term paper
at Nexus in Austin, December 7th
at Sue EUen's in Dallas, and
entitled, "The Golden Era of the
November 5th at the Ranch in
Silver Screen"?
Houston.
for not discarding the contents of
boxes
that
have
Why do I keep them? How could I
not keep them? I got an A.
In those same boxes are my high
school yearbooks. I flip through
them once every few years or so it's my way of keeping in touch
with old friends It's heartwarming
in a predictable sort of way to read
that at least 20 people from my past
Nancy Ford's column.
What A World,
What A World,
appears every
month right here in
Dimensions!
believe that I am 2 sweet 2 be
forgotten and that 1'11 go far if I stay
as 1 are. Am. It's reasonable to
assume that people who wrote
things like that in high school
yearbooks do so with the certainty
that after commencement none of
us would ever see each other again.
Except Duane Kurd. Duane Kurd,
my friend, the then president of
Young Religious Republicans or a
similar incredibly upright
organization and whom I haven't
nancy ford
• comedy •
residential • commercial•
seen since commencement wrote in
my yearbook in an almost prophetic
manner(and I quote):
". . . if I can ever help you in any
way,just let me know."
Well, Duane, like I said, I'm
moving at the end of this month.
for booking info
call or v/rite:
You'll See Productions
2990 Richmond #316
Houston,Texas 77098
(713)721-4125
(713)520-7237
November 1989 • Dimensions• Page 23
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A Discussion of Lesbian Literature Botti New and Old
THE 1990 WOMEN ONLY CALENDAI^
INTO THE
GAY 90s
WITH CLASS
The 1990 Women Only Calendar
Reviewed by Asian Brooke
photographed in black & white at
locales in and around Los Angeles.The
theme of the calendar is easily
discernible as "Lesbians of the Gay
Frontiers After Dark
West Hollywood, OA
90's." The women in the photos are an
For years the gay male community has
attractive multi-racial mixture of
feminine and masculine — that subtle
put out superior calendars, but now
women have joined the ranks — with
lesbian culture.
impressive force.
The 1990 Women Only Calendar from
Nur Damen Productions is a work ofart
yin-yang so much a part of gay and
The range of the photos — from the
campy, vampish movement-oriented
cover to the quiet eroticism of
— one that both men and women will
December's entry — includes high
appreciate.
fashion, adventure, romance and sex.
The
calendar
is
stunningly
From the pastoral setting of two lovers
Page 24• Dimensions • Novemioer 1989
contemplative woman sitting at her
photography. "Their
having
incorporated
personal styles and
bureau, the quality of the women
interests into the idea behind each shot
represented is matched only by the
made it much more than posed
imagery," she says.
And the concept works. The 1990
Women Only Calendar is a
and their horse to the provocative,
superb settings captured
photographer Robyn Flynn.
by
The dominant force behind
the
development and promotion of the
calendar is D.L. Mackey, a marketing
consultant for eight years. Her
objective, she told Frontiers After
Dark,is two-fold: to promote the works
of
lesbian
artists,
writers,
photographers and musicians so that
they may develop their talent and
establish a sound reputation in their
field, and to produce products which
accurately portray today's lesbian.
In this she has succeeded. Although
there is a suggestion of a European
style, the work is decidedly
contemporary. Creating each
photograph to blend into a cohesive
sophisticated work which more than
gives evidence that gay women have
joined their brothers in creating quality
calendars.Mackey,Flynn and make-up
artist and stylist Sherry Randle have,
together with the models, created a
work that is certain to be discussed all
year long.
Those who wonder what to get their
favorite lesbian for the holidays,for her
birthday or just to say "I love you,
thanks for being my friend," need look
no further: the 1990 Women Only
Calendar is it.
You can order your calendar directly
concept, she gives much credit to the
from Nur Damen Productions, 13601
E. Whittier Blvd,. Suite 212, Whittier
90605. Enclose $19.45 (covers, tax,
mailing and handling). (213) 698-
women who volunteered as models for
5604.
unit was no easy task, says Mackey.
Although she designed the basic
assisting in the development of the
1990 Calendar
EXCELLENT GIFTS
for
CHRISTMAS &
CHANUKAH
ll^memBeran your LesBian
(Friends.
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Whittier, California 90505
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Lr
Everybody worries some of the time.
Some people worry all of the time.
They worry about things they can and
can't control. They worry about the
improbable, the impossible and the
outrageous. They worry too much!
Excessive worrying can make you both
physically and emotionally ill.
Although you probably already know if
do and worry atx)ut it only if it was
extremely important,
c. accept it and go on.
3.1 worry about:
a. everything.
b. some things.
c. little or nothing.
4.1 worry about things:
a. present, future & past
you are a worrier or not, answer the
b. usually only in the future.
questions below to see if you've
stepped over the line and worry too
c. only of immediate concern.
much.
5.1 am sometimes overwhelmed by
the number of things that could go
1.1 believe I worry:
a. yes
a. all the time.
b. sometimes
wrong in any given situation.
b. sometimes, but more often than I
should.
c. only in times of stress.
2. Even when I know I've done my
best in a trying situation, I:
a. worry that I could have done more.
b.know there was nothing more I could
6.1 know I shouldn't worry about
things beyond my control:
a. but I can't seem to help myself.
b. but sometimes I do.
c. so I don't.
7.1 have been a worrier:
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 27
a. all my life.
b. only since adulthood.
c. when I'm under pressure.
2. Try to recognize when worrying
8. Once I start worrying about
something:
a. I worry about it for days or even
3. When you catch yourself worrying,
weeks.
b. I try to talk myself out of it
c. I start working on a solution.
SCORING
Give Yourself:
3 points for every "A' answer
2 points for every'B' answer
1 point for every'
C* answer
starts at other times ofthe day and make
an effort to stop.
write down what you are worried about
and put it off until yoim worry session.
4.If you are still worrying about it after
writing it down,focus yotu*attention on
an object in the room and study it
carefully.Since itis hard to concentrate
on two things at once, you should be
able to stop worrying.Ifit doesn't work
the first time, do it several times until
you feel better.
5. Write down your worries during
your worry session. Having it in black
& white may make it seem less
threatening and help you find a solution
instead ofjust worrying.
If You Scored:
21-27
You definitely go over-board in the
worrying department. You may have a
tendency to dwell on "what ifs".
Worrying is self-destructive and can be
14-20
You are about average on the worrying
scale but in times of stress you may
When something negative happens it
have a tendency to overdo it. If this is
the case, you too could benefit from
sets off a chain reaction in the worrier
using the five step program above.
a form of addiction for some people.
and part of you begins to constantly
scan for things that could go wrong.
There are five steps to worrying less. If
you use this program and still find you
8-13
Worry doesn't play a big part in your
have a problem - see a professional.
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You'll feel much better and so will
those around you.
Five Steps to
Worrying Less
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oetry.
Leaving My Mold Behind
I am but a mass of flesh and bones,
A model of the human race,
A structure doomed to be imprisoned by its own boundary.
If I could, I would leave my mold behind.
I would set free the spirit that dwells within me.
I would be free.
1 would walk through wet cement without leaving a trace.
I would compose a symphony of crickets, rustiing leaves,
A violent storm surge.
1 would float freely on a cool summer breeze.
Have a cup of tea with nature. I would be any strand of life;
But not myself.
1 would go out just before dawn, and see the day through.
A transparent stranger to all evil;
Yet, an illusion of good will and love to a child.
1 would be silent friend to nature. 1 would be a secret
echoed utterly among the vastness of the universe.
Afraid of being heard.
Yes, if I could, I would be walking out of my body;
Leaving behind, at the blink of an eye.
Body, flesh, blood, and loones.
Rosie Garza
-Houston, TX
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November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 29
oroscope
What's in the Stars for You this month?
SCORPIO
(Oct 24th -Nov 22ncD
You are happy with the way a current
romance is going during the first week
ofNovember.Be careful that you don't
fool yourself about the seriousness of
the relationship.From the 9th thru the
16th try not to be too demanding or
possessive with someone close to you.
You could end up driving them away
instead of bringing them closer. From
the 17th thru the 23rd you are headed
in a positive direction both at work and
at home.You can gofar if you play your
cards right. From the 24th thru the
30th be open to someone who wants to
get close to you. You can sometimes
scare people away with your
seriousness.
SAGinARIUS
(Nov 23-Dec 21)
joint venture could bejust the ticket for
financial and emotional security.
CAPRICORN
(Dec 22ncl - Jan 19th)
Your charm and charisma might get
you in trouble during the first week of
November.You can atUact people that
are only out to use you if you don't stay
on your toes. From the 9th thru the
16th don't take the rap for someone
who is not living up to their
responsibilities.Lay the blame where it
belongs and don't look back. From the
17th thru the 23rd you may be in the
spotlight for recent accomplishments.
Take advantage of the opportunity to
show off — you deserve it. From the
24th thru the 30th you can come offas
quite a tyrant when someone interferes
with your ambitions.Cool off,it wasn't
intentional and you could make a
lasting enemy if you keep it up.
You'll have to be careful about
advertising your private business
AQUARIUS
affairs during the first week of
November. Discuss them only with
loved ones and close friends. From the
9th thru the I6th be as hcmest as
(Jon 20th - Feb 18lh)
Although you may be feeling like a
little fun during the first week of
possible abouta situation that has come
November,you'll have tobuckledown
up involving a loved one. Pretending
and get to work on a major project
like a problem doesn't exist will not
make it go away. From the 17th thru
before you can play.From the 9th thru
the 16th impatience may be pulling
the 23rd don't take an obligations
lightly. You won't get anywhere by
making promises and not keeping
you in the wrong direction at work.
Lighten up and take your time. You'll
them.From the 24th thru the 30th love
17th thru the 23rd be sure you keep
any promises you have made recently.
and money will blend well. A gift or
be much more successful, from the
PaaeSO* Dimensions • November 1989
Property of the Center
Someone who looks up to you could be
has arisen is causing hard feelings and
hurt if you fail to take your obligations
seriously.From the 24th thru the 30th
all sides and you are called on to
luck is on your side in every aspect of
TAURUS
(April 20th-May 20th)
your life. Enjoy.
mediate.
A relationship you've been toying with
could turn out to be lh£ one during the
PISCES
firstweek of November.Don't worry,
(Feb 19th-Mar 20th)
Good news seems to follow you
everywhere during the first week of
be happy — it will all work out for the
November. Now is a good time to
make plans and set goals - you just
time for anything else, spending some
best! From the 9th thru the 16th you
may be up to your ears in work and no
money or love life. The high stakes are
time alone can help you feel more
relaxed,from the 17th thru the 23rd a
break with holiday traditions may not
sit well with some family members.
not worth the risk. From the 17th thru
Don't let it get you down,they'll enjoy
the 23rd you could be in line for a
promotion at work. You may want to
consider turning it down if you feel you
thru the 30th a trip you've been
can't fail! From the 9th thru the 16th
you should avoid gambling with your
are not up to it. From the 24th thru the
30th you will have to watch your
impulse to overspend on holiday gifts.
Work and play go together well,
business travel can bring the
opportunity for a romantic interlude.
ARIES
(Mar 21st - April 19)
Romance is definitely heating up
during the first week of November. A
decision you make now could be luckyI
From the9th thru the 16th try notto let
success in recent endeavors go to your
head — an inflated ego does not
become you. From the 17th thru the
23rd explore money making
possibilities in real estate, property or
investments. Money making seems to
come easy right now but be sure not to
overspend. From the 24th thru the
30th you may have to take on a
troubling family issue. A dispute that
themselves anyway. From the 24th
planning may be moved up.If you leave
now, you'll stand less chance of being
delayed or running into problems.
GEMINI
(May 21st - June 21st)
Romance, money,and lots of luck are
in the cards during the first week of
November. Try not to push yourself
too hard, take things as they come and
you'll get alot more done.From the 9th
thru the 16th you may want to avoid
becoming too intimate with someone
you just met — your emotions can get
you in big trouble if you let them.From
the 17th thru the 23rd you may
receive a message youjustcan'tignore.
A dramatic situation calls for your
immediate attention, from the 24th
thru the 30th you'll have to take time
out to get yourselfre-organized at work
after the long holiday weekend. Be
careful about spending too much on
gifts for loved ones.
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 31
CANCER
(June 22th - July 22th)
A romantic fling could develop into a
permanent arrangement during the
first week of November. Pressures at
work ease up and allow you to spend
more time with your loved ones. From
the 9th thru the 16th a manipulative
person is trying to win you over for
reasons other than friendship. Be
careful that you don't fall for insincere
flattery, it can cause you great harm.
From
the 17th thru the 23rd
communications, teaching and
traveling are all on your agenda. You
can be very persuasive with friends and
family.From the 24th thru the 30th a
close companion could surprise you
with a gift Plans can change quickly be ready for spur of the moment
VIRGO
(August 23rd- Sept 22nd)
You may acquire a great "wealth" of
love or money during the first week of
November. No matter what it is, you
will be feeling very happy! From the
9th thru the 16th humor may be the
best way to cope with a trying family
situation. A scheme you've cooked up
may not go over well with loved ones.
From the 17th thru the 23rd you don't
have to be aggressive to get your way
— a little charm and sweet talk is all it
will take! From the 24th thru the 30th
a short trip over the long holiday
weekend may be just what the doctor
ordered to help you relax after a hard
month at work!
LIBRA
activities!
(Sept 23rd - Oct 23rd)
Plans that you've made for travel may
LEO
(July 23rcl - August 22nd)
be put on hold due to financial
considerations during the first week of
Don't let a simple disagreement turn
November. But, a financial windfall
nasty during the first week of
alter in the week could revive those
November. A compromise can be
reached if you will make the
plans! From the 9th thru the 16th you
will have to move fast to get everything
done. The pressure can make you
irritable if you don't take time for
suggestion.From the 9th thru the 16th
you need to tend to personal affairs that
you have neglected in past weeks.
Results won't show overnight, so be
patient From the 17th thru the 23rd
don't leta conflict with an older relative
about holiday traditions getoutofhand.
It might be best to give in, even if it
means a least minute change of plans.
From the 24th thru the 30th you could
be feeling restless. Be sure you finish
yourself.From the 17th thru the 23rd
you may not be in the mood for family
get-togethers. Go anyway — you'll
have a better time than you anticipated.
From the 24th thru the 30th you'll be
feeling more optimistic than you have
in a long while. A new love could be the
cause!
up any pressing work before you take
offfor a fiin weekend.A short tripcould
be just the ticket to lift your spirits and
help you relax.
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Irecfory
A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
ARLINGTON,TX (area code 817)
organizations
Gay/Lesbian Association of UTA
P.O. Box 19348-77, UTA St. 76019
794-5140
4012-B Cedar Springs 75219 #528-4233
Dallas GayA^sblan Historic Arctilves
4012-B Cedar Springs • 821-1653
Dallas Gay Youtti Group
300 Turtle Creek Plaza #116•307-7203
Dallas Outdoors
P.O. Box 35474 75235• 276-5270
Dallas Tavern Guild
AUSTIN,TX (area code 512)
3900 Lemmon Ave. #220•526-5292
Foundation for Human Understanding
clubs
Nexus/Petticoot Junction
528-4233
401 & 401-8 E. 2nd •495-9553
GayAesblan Young Adults
organizations
528-4233
Atfirrrxation (Mettiodlst)
Grace Fellowstiip In Ctirlst Jesus
7403 Shoal Creek • 451-2329
Austin Lambda
P.O. Box 5455 78763
2727 Oak Lawn 75219• 528-2811
Lesbian Information Line (UL)
P.O. Box 191443 75219• 528-2426
Lesbia/Gay Political Coalition
Gay/Lesbian Student
Association at UT Austin •458-3971
Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338
P.O. Box 224424 75222• 828-9882
Lesbian Visionaries
P.O. Box 191443 75219•521-9642
Lesbian/Gay Rigtits Lobby
P.O. Box 2505 78768
Metroplex Republicans
Metropolitan Community Churcti
1100 Springdcle Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Ministry
5555 N. Lamer Blvd. #L101 • 441-9191
Waterloo Counseling Center
P.O. Box 191033 75219 • 941-8114
3000 Turtle Creek Rozo, Suite 116
507 Powell 78703• 322-9654
P.O. Box 190973 75219 # 986-1751
Texas Human Rigtits Foundation
2201 N. Lamar # 203 78705•479-8473
AIDS Legal Assistance 1-800-828-6417
Womyn Togettier
3920 Cedar Springs # 528-4233
Oak Lawn Community Services
75219-5311 #520-8108
Oak Lawn Symptionic Band
DALLAS, TX (area code 214)
DENTON,TX (area code 817)
organizations
businesses
Business Delivery Systems
14902 Preston Rd. 75240 • 733-1108
COURAGE, Lesbian Gay Student Org.
c/o Student Activities Center
P.O. Box 5067 76203 # 382-3813
Crossroads Market
3930 Cedar Springs
521-8919 or 1-800-992-6404
Curious Times - Women's Books etc.
FT. WORTH (area code 817)
clubs
4008-D Cedar Springs 75219 • 528-4087
Partners #1612 Park Place # 924-2519
clubs
organizations
Sue Ellen's
Affirmation (Mettiodist) # 478-7837
3903 Cedar Springs • 559-0707
Desert Moon • 5903 Willis • 828-4471
Jugs•3810 Congress • 521-3474
HOUSTON,TX (area code 713)
organizations
clubs
Affirmation (Mettrodist)
P.O. Box 225831 75222• 948-1546
Keystroke # Hotline # 785-9258
AIDS Resource Center
organizations
4012-B Cedar Springs 75219
AIDS Foundation
Ranctr • 9125 S. Main # 666-3464
Dallas Gay Alliance
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 33
3400 Montrose #700• 524-AIDS
Notional GayAesbian Task Force
AIDS HOTLINE
1517 U Street NW
c/o Switchboard • 529-3211
Gay/Lesbian Students
University of Houston
Washington D.C, 20009 • 202-332-6483
The Fund for Human Dignity
666 Broadway 4th Floor
4800 Ccihoun • 529-3211
NY, NY 10012
Gay & Lesbian Switctitx>ard
P.O. Box 66591 77266 •529-3211
Houston Gay Political Caucus
P.O. Box 66664 77266•521-1000
organizations
Kingdom Community Ctiurcti
614 E. 19th.862-7533
Lambda ALANON
NORMAN,OK (area code 405)
Women's Resource Center
P.O. Box 5089 73070
Lambda Center for Alchohollcs
1214 Joanne • 521-9772
Lesbian/Gay Students
University of Houston - Clear Lake
2700 Bay Area 77058
OKLAHOMA CITY, OK
(area code 405)
organizations
Montrose Pool League/Billiards
2135 NW 39th 73112 « 525-AIDS
PJ 863-8482
PWA Coalition - Houston
3327 Essex Lane *623-4436
Womynspace
P.O. Box 980601 77098-0601
880-9517 or 521-0780
Women's Softball League
6431 Plneshade • 868-6256
Oasis the Community Center
Heriand Sister ResourcesrlTS:
n
2312 NW 39th 73112 Q94-7464 J
SAN ANTONIO,TX (area code 512)
clubs
The Circle
8021 Pinebrook • 341-2818
organizations
Dignity/San Antonio
202 N. St. Mary's • 349-3632
LUBBOCK,TX (area code 806)
organizations
Integrity/San Antonio
Lubbock Lesbian/Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 150006 78212• 684-4920
P.O. Box 64746 79464.796-2403
Names Project/Lubbock
River City Living Metropolitan
Community Church
796-1800 or 744-1957
202 Holland 78212 * 822-1121
NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS
Affirmation: United Mettiodists for
Lesbian/Gay Concerns
P.O. Box 1021 • Evanston, IL 60204
AIDS Action Council
729 Eighth St. S.E. Suite 200
Washington. DC 20003 *(202) 547-3101
AIDS 800 • 1-800-221-7044
LISA (Lesbian InfornrKition SA)
828-LiSA (5472)
SALGA - San Antonio Lesbian & Gay
Assembly * 733-7300
San Antonio AIDS Foundation
P.O. Box 120113 78212-9313
San Antonio Tavern Guild * 822-2823
SOUTH PADRE ISLAND, TX
(area code 512)
Conference For Cattiolic Lesbians
P.O. Box 436, Planetarium Station
New York, New York 10024
acconrrodations
Lyie's Deck * 120 E. Atol St.
Ntl Gay Alliance for Young Adults,
P.O. Box 2326 78597 * 761-LYLE
Inc.P.O, Box 190426
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From Around the Region,the Country & the World
Texas Attorney
disclosures of AIDS information in the
General Rules
Realtors' Disclosure of
AIDS Information
real estate contextare prohibited by the
Federal Fair Housing Act
Although the Attorney General's
opinion is not law, it provides both
Unconstitutional
realtors and sellers faced with a
AUSTIN - On September 5th, Texas
Attorney General Jim Mattox issued an
opinion declaring that the portions of
House Bill 976 which allow a realtor to
disclose
AIDS information
to a
potential buyer violate the Federal Fair
Housing Act and are therefore invalid.
The opinion was issued in response to a
request from the Texas Real Estate
Commission for clarification of the
new disclosure law, which took effect
on September 1, 1989. The new law
permits a realtor to disclose the HIV
status of a prior or current occupant of
a home to a potential buyer if the buyer
specifically requests the information
and
the realtor
knowledge.
has the actual
The
Commission
situation
involving a request for
disclosure of AIDS information a solid
reason for refusing disclosure all
together. In a telephone conversation
with THRF staff member Margaret
Tucker on September 25th, Mr.
Wallace Collins, the Administrator for
the Texas Real Estate Commission,
confirmed that the Attorney General's
opinion provided "sufficient
clarification" of HB 976, and that the
Commission would administer HB 976
as interpreted by Mr. Mattox.(i.e., no
AIDS disclosures whatsoever).
Logo Contest for 1990
TIC Announced
perceived this new rule as being in
SAN ANTONIO - The
conflict with the Texas Communicable
Disease Prevention and Control Act,as
organizing the 1990 Texas Lesbian
Conference (TLC) has announced a
Committee
violating the Act's prohibition against
logo design contest for that event. The
unauthorized disclosure of test results.
theme for the event will be"Lesbians in
In the opinion, Mattox declined to
the Nineties: Speaking Out".
All entries should be designed on an 8
1/2" X11"sheetof white paper with the
answer particular questions posed by
the Commission regarding the proper
afplication of the disclosure rule(e.g.,
what constitute "actual knowledge"),
focusing instead on the fact that all
entrants name, address and phone
number on the back of each entry.
Deadline for entries is December 1,
1989.
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The winner will receive a free TLC t-
shirt, as well as free admission to and
prejudiced remarks concerning the
murder oftwo gay men in Dallas;and to
Bill Nelson (The Robert Schwab
Award), THRF board member and
special recognition at the 1990 Texas
Lesbian Conference, to be held in San
Antonio on May 18,19 & 20,1990.
They are also searching for contact
people to distribute TLC information
former president of the Dallas Gay
throughout Texas.
To enter the contest or get more
information regarding the contest or
Resource Center.
information distribution, contact TLC
Contest, 263 Barbara Drive, San
Antonio,TX 78216 or call(512) 8281761.
Alliance (DGA), whose dedicated
vision and activism were essential in
founding DO A'sfood pantry and AIDS
The Schwab awards are named for the
late M. Robert Schwab, THJU^'s
founder and first president. Schwab, a
dedicated gay activist and Houston
attorney, was the driving force behind
THRF's 1970's lidgation in federal
court to declare Section 21.06 of the
THRF to Honor Leaders
Texas Penal Code unconsdtutional.
in the Fight for
THRFis now sponsoring a second legal
Gay Civil Rights
AUSTIN - The board of trustees of the
Texas Human Rights Foundation
(THRF) has selected its honorees for
THRF's 3rd Annual Robert Schwab
Memorial Award ceremonies. The
challenge to Secdon 21.06 in state court
in the case known as Morales vs. The
Stale of Texas. Section 21.06
criminalizes the private, consensual
sexual reladons of two men or two
women.
As a tribute to Schwab's vision, the M.
Schwab awards are given each year to
Robert Schwab Collection (which
individuals who have diligenUy and
includes his writings, papers,
documents, clippings, tapes &
courageously led the fight for lesbian
and gay civil rights. With these awards,
THRF recognizes and honors the
continued struggle by various
photographs) opened to the public in
the archives of the Houston FHiblic
Library in September. THRF's legal
individuals for the civil liberties of
director, David Bryan,emphasized the
lesbians and gay men.
importance of Schwab's legacy
This year's awards go to Senator Craig
Washington (Legislator of the Year)
for his outstanding work against AIDS
discrimination in the 71st Legislative
Session; to Lori Montgomery of the
"Although Robert died of AIDS in
1983, a glimpse of his life and
dedication is now on display for all
Dallas Times-Herald (Journalist of the
Year) for her exposure of Judge Jack
Hampton's homophobic and
Texans who have been inspired by his
struggle for equal civil rights. His
dreams of equality continue to reach
fruidon through the work of THRF.
The Schwab awards are meant to honor
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those persons who are on the front line
of this struggle."
The ceremony will consist of a formal
cocktail reception,to be held in Dallas
from 7-9pm on November 18th at 5824
Del Roy Drive, during which time the
awards will be presented.The previous
the experienceoflesbian immigrants in
the United States. Works are especially
encouraged from undocumented,ESL,
older, differently abled, and Third
World lesbian immigrants,and women
in immigrant/citizen relationships.
Anonymous contributions are ok, and
held in Austin and the second in
all submissions are strictly
confidential. Also looking for lesbian
Houston, were attended by several
hundred guests. Former honorees have
immigrants willing to complete survey
on their experiences. The new
included Representative Nancy
McDonald of El Paso, Glen Maxey of
submissions deadline is March 31,
the Lesbian Gay Rights Lobby, Cleve
Send submissions/inquiries and SASE
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Schwab Award ceremonies, the first
Jones of the Names Project,and Molly
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November 12th ■ Sunday ■ Spin
Benefitting Participants In
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A Monthy Listing of Special Events All Around Texas, Oklahoma & New Mexico
AUSTIN - If you're looking for a good
time,NEXUS is the place on Thursday
Nights with the "Girls Nite Out"
afterwards
Show!
live
the toumament! Get on out to support
entertainment every Friday in
yourfavorite non-profit organization at
There's
also
entry fee. There will be a party
with
food, awards
presentations and viewing the video of
November,so don't miss it! NEXUS &
a Chili Cookoff on November I2th at
PETTICOAT JUNCTION are having a
Thanksgiving Potluck Buffet on
Thanksgiving Day, Thursday the 23rd
at 3pm - if you want to bring a dish,just
tell Mary what you're bringing! Also,
2pm - there'll be chili,$I longnecks &
don't miss Terri - "The Bartender
From Hell" live and in person on
Sunday the 19th!
HOUSTON - Get out and support
HBIT (Houston Billiards Invitational
Tournament)attheRANCHon Sunday
the 12th! They'll be having a Benefit
Show to help all those Houston
participants in the 1990 Gay Games in
Vancouver! And, while you in the
benefit mood, be sure to come out for
the Slave Auction to benefit the
heartburn for fim and charity!
AUSTIN -
The Mother's Legal
Defense Fund is hosting afundraiser to
benefit an Austin mother fighting for
custody in Louisiana.The event will be
held at CHANCES on Sunday,
November 12th from 3-8pm and will
feature the music ofNancy Scott,Cate
&Zana Sue,and others.Cover is$5.00
at the door.
DALLAS - Thursday night is Country
& Western Night at SUE ELLEN'S!
In addition to lots of great music,
there's also $I Domestic Longnecks,
$2 Coronas and a Show at 10;30pm
Synergy Softball Team on the 19th!
Join the employees at the RANCH for
Thanksgiving Dinner on the 23rd -
featuring Kathy Jack, Lisa Bryson,
Cozy White and special guests!
check at the bar for time and menu!
And,last but not least,rumor has it that
a"KS"Reunion Show is in the works
HOUSTON - Fun and excitement is
the name ofthe game at KEYSTROKE
2 on November 10th & 24th! Join DJ
BJ.Sweat and lots of women at 202
so keep your eyes and ears open!
Tuam for two nights of great
DALLAS - Get ready to Tee-Off for
entertainment! If you'd like more info
the 1st Annual DESERT MOON
on KEYSTROKE,call their HOTLINE
at(713)785-9258.
Golf Classic on Saturday, November
4th! The Toumey will be held at Chase
Oaks Golf Course in Piano with a$45
AUSTIN - Don't miss Live Wire
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Production's presentation of The
Washington Sisters and Melanie
Monsur in Concert Friday, November
night- check outJUGS on Sunday from
Noon-4pm — they've got Bloody
Marys,Screwdrivers & Mimosa's —
17th. The concert will be held at The
all for one dollar! And, last but not
least, you can get Free Draft and $1
Riverside Quarters Capitol Room at
Riverside Drive and IH35 and will start
at 8pm. Don't miss out!
Longnecks all day and all night on
Tuesdays! Give em a try!
to buy Halloween Candy for State
SAN ANTONIO - Tuesday Nights at
the CIRCLE are now "Girl's Night
Out At The Circe Roundup"(in other
words. Country & Western Night)! It
School Residents a such a smashing
all starts at 9pm with No Cover, $1
success! Thanks ya'll! PARTNERS is
Longnecks, 750 Schnapps &
Tequila, $1.75 Margaritas and they
promise it will be 90% Country &
Western Music All Night Long! On
Wednesdays you can sing along with
the circle's new "toy" - a laser disc
machine that will play the music, the
FT.
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PARTNERS
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Barbara
of
would like to thank
everyone who made the Benefit Show
also beginning a new stage of
remodeling and promises when they're
done they'll have one of the rockinest,
scootinest,slickest dance floor in all of
Texas! They'll also have the DJ's to go
with it - Kathy, Spanky & Electric
Whitehead Tony are all spinning your
favorite tunes!
DALLAS - Don't miss it - Brandi and
her girls are back, but this time at
JUGS! You can catch Brandi, along
with Cozy White and Dana, every
Wednesday Night at 10pm! Also on
Wednesdays, get $1.50 Swirls while
you enjoy the show! If you are looking
video & run the words across the
bottom so you can add your own voice!
On November 19th be sure and enter
the Doubles Fool Tournament - there
is a 500 entry fee and a SlOO first prize
(in cash)! Also,be sure you check at the
bar for Thanksgiving details. There's
sure to be something fun!
for a place to recover from Saturday
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ear/^gnes
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Answers to your questions about love,
relationships & personal problems
Dear Agnes,
I have met the mostdivine woman.She
is absolutely everything I have always
wanted. She is sophisticated, classy,
she has an excellent set of friends, and
she is quite beautiful.
I am a thirty-four year old professional
woman. I am very settled with an
excellentjob,and I would like nothing
better than settling down with this
beautiful creature. We have been
seeing each other for the past eight
months and are currently negotating
our living arrangements. I own a large
three bedroom home, so space is no
problem.
The problem is this woman has three
kids,a three year old,a five year old and
a eight year old. I love her, but I really
do not want children. I feel torn
between really wanting this woman and
really not wanting her kids.
Do you have any words of wisdom?
San Antonio
at the top of the other side. Listing all
the positive and negative things you can
think of if you decide to live together.
Be honest with yourself. Once you are
through, weigh the pros and cons
against each other. You may find some
surprises on your list.
Children are a big responsibility, but
the rewards can be great. If you cannot
accept these children and make a home
for them,scrap the moving plans. You
will only do them harm by allowing
them to live in your home when you
really do not want them.
Children need love and caring. They
cannot be tossed aside because you
decide you don't want them anymore.
Dear Agnes,
I read your letter to "Help"
(Dimensions, September 1989) and
frankly I find your advice lacking, to
say the least. I am disappointed that a
woman turned to you for advice and I,
Dear San Antonio,
What you have is a package deal-all or
none. If you really want to settle down
with this woman,the kiddos are a part
of the package. A major part.
Analyze your feelings,on paper. Draw
a line down the middle ofthe page,and
write pro at the top ofone side,and con
a layman, can see it isn't thoroughly
sound. 1 am sure your intentions were
good, but take a look at this.
People feel happy, sad, scared, love,
anger, anxious and lonely. "Feeling
like someone.." is a thought process.
And itautomatically puts'someone'on
the defensive.Instead of"I feel like you
Page 14 • Dimensions • November 1989
I think you have a good idea going
frankly I find your advice lacking,
to say the least. I am disappointed
that a woman turned to you for
and I am not questioning your
integrety at all. Please take this into
consideration.
advice and I, a layman, can see it
isn't thoroughly sound. I am sure
Thanks for your time.
your intentions were good, but take
K. Morris
a look at this.
People feel happy, sad, scared,
love, anger, anxious and lonely.
"Feeling like someone.." is a
Dear K.,
You're right. I goofed, sorry.
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thought
process. And
it
automatically puts 'someone' on
the defensive. Instead of"I feel like
Write To Dear Agnes
you are withdrawn" say "I feel
With Your Problems or
Comments at:
lonely when you are withdrawn.""I
feel angry when you yell at me."
Dimensions
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Earthquakes
, Tornadoes, Hurricanes,
Floods.... ail can occur anywhere in the
homes are in good
tmod condition
rnniiitinn or at a
shelter set up by relief agencies. Do not
continental United States. As recent
attempt to enter a home that has been
events have shown, whether it s major
hurricane, a major earthquake, or a
badly damaged to retrieve valuables.
Your life is much more important.
If you are able to retrieve some
valuables, take only the clothing you
need and things of value that you can
good 'ole Texas tornado, it pays to be
prepared.
What steps can you take niiw to be
prepared in case of a disaster in the
future? We'll start with the basics.
Shelter
It is a possibility that any type of
carry.
If you are able to remain in your home,
be alert to hidden damage and keep in
the mind the suggestions below.
disaster can force you from your home.
Water
As we've seen in San Francisco, it is
No matter what the disaster, water
supplies are always vulnerable. Water
dangerous to remain in your home if
mainscan be damaged leaving you with
you suspect any structural damage at
all. Contact officials (police, fire
department,civil defense,etc..)to help
sewage or untreated water to back up
you determine if it is safe to stay at
contaminating the water supply.And,if
no water at all. Floods can cause
home.
you take shelter in a storm cellar or
If your home is deemed unsafe or is
destroyed, you will need to find shelter
other structure, there may be no water
supply to begin with.
either with friends and relatives whose
Experts recommend that you have two
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gallons of water per person,per day on
hand, and you should have enough to
last a week. That amounts to fourteen
gallons of water for every person in
your household. It should be on hand
and stored in a convenient place.If you
have a storm cellar, be sure you have
water both in the house and in the cellar
since you never know where you could
be stuck.
If you haven'tstored any water,you can
use water that is already in the water
heater and has not been contaminated.
You can fill up bathtubsand sinks if you
have enough warning. You may also
want to have a small container of
chlorine bleach or water purifying
tablets on hand. If you use bleach, use
only a tablespoon in each gallon of
water and allow it to sit for 30 minutes
or more before drinking. Water may
also be boiled for 20 minutes to remove
bacteria. If you even suspect that water
is contaminated (discoloration or smell
are tip-offs) be sure you take measures
have enough canned goods and non-
perishable foods on hand to last a week.
If the power goes off, the highly
perishable foods in your refrigerator
will last only 6 hours before bacteria
growth starts. These foods include:
open cartons of milk, cooked and
uncooked meats, and soft dairy
products such as cottage cheese,
yogurt,etc.. These foods need to be put
on ice as soon as possible or thrown out.
Remember that opening your
refrigerator door causes the
temperature to rise faster and food to
spoil more quickly.
In the case of electrical power failure,
cooking can be done on a gas stove,in
a fireplace, on a barbecue grill or
hibachi, a camp stove, or small
kerosene heater. Be sure that you cook
in a very well ventilated area to avoid
carbon monoxide poisoning.
If you suspect a gas leak in your home,
do notattemptto use any gas appliances
(including outdoor gas grills) and do
to protect yourself.
not cook inside. You also should not:
Never drink contaminated water.
strike matches, flip electrical switches
or do anything thatcan produce a spark.
Drinking water that has not been
purified can cause a host of diseases. It
Turn the gas off at the alley if possible
can also result in diarrhea and vomiting
which can cause dehydration and death
much sooner than if you had drunk
nothing at all. Do not ever attempt to
drink swimming pool water since the
chemicals can cause severe kidney and
and contact officials. Gas leaks are a
good sign of hidden structural damage.
As with water, if you have a storm
shelter or other outside shelter where
you may take refuge, be sure that it is
also stocked with food.
liver damage.
First Aid Kit
Food & Cooking
Most people will have enough canned
goods on hand to last them a while. If
you store canned goods specifically for
emergencies, be sure that you do not
store them for more than one year or
you risk food poisoning. You should
Keep a commercially prepared first aid
kit handy in all areas where you could
be. trapped. These should include:
Bandages in assorted sizes; adhesive
tape;a roll of absorbent cotton; aspirin;
hydrogen peroxide; an antibiotic
ointment;an anti-vomiting compound;
Page 18 • Dimensions • November 1989
thermometer; scissors; and tweezers.
want to)and I also keep water for them.
At least one person in your household
should have first aid and CPR training.
Training is available from your local
Many of us have the attitude that a
disaster will never happen to us,but you
Red Cross chapter.
never really know, do you? All this
may sound like alotto do,butif disaster
strikes, you'll be glad you took the time
Power Outages
You should have a flashlight,transistor
radio and lots of extra batteries on hand
in case of a power failure. Candles and
matches are also essential, but do not
use them inside if you suspect a gas
to prepare. Preparation doesn't take
very long, and you'll be much better
equipped to handle whatever might
come up if you have the supplies and
knowledge on hand before you need
them.
leak.
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Your power could be out for several
days or longer in severe cases. Be
prepared.
Storm Cellars
Be sure your storm cellar or shelter is
stocked with food, water, first aid kit,
flashlight, radio and batteries. Some of
the otheritems I keepin our storm cellar
are optional,butcan add greatly to your
comfort and safety in case you become
trapped. I've listed some of them
below. Be sure you wrap anything that
could be damaged by water in plastic
garbage bags. Coffee cans also make
great holders for toilet paper, matches,
extra batteries, etc.
Extra Clothes - tornado season strikes
when the weather is warm and I'm
usually in shorts when we head for the
cellar. I keep a pair of jeans, socks,
sweatshirt and jacket down there,just
in case.
Blankets - same reason.
Toilet Paper - obvious reasons.
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November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 21
hat A World,
^hat A World!
Moving Day
by Nancy Ford
Does anyone know when the Pope
is coming back to Texas? It would
be good to know when to expect
him, because I'm moving at the end
of this month and I could really use
his help with the heavy stuff.
As it happens, 1 have become
comfortable relying on the
kindness of strangers. 1 have no
muscular piece of fem-meat that
happens to be in the neighborhood.
If you could help me just this one
time, 1 can get the couch, loveseat
and dining room table all by myself.
Probably. Works every time.
But a few days ofthe discomfort of
lower back pain (if 1 were a tube of
Ben Gay in which sealed carton
would 1 be hiding? In the medicine
choice.People who move atthe end
of every lease cannot afford to be
picky. In the last ten years, 1 have
chest carton. But,did 1 remember to
moved ten, count 'em, ten times.
price to pay to upgrade one's
Once, 1500 mUes.
That's ten
pack the medicine chest?)is a small
residential status.
microwaves or 10 chances to win a
But the actual moving isn't the
trip to beautiful Puerto Vallarta,
problem. Moving is a snap — it's
the pre-production that's the kiUer.
Box gathering! Refrigerator
defrosting! Glass-wrapping! Ovencleaning! That's right — OVEN
CLEANING! This is no way to
spend a Saturday afternoon.
Mexico (airfare not included) in
lease language. Improbable as this
may seem, 1 no longer have any
friends who own pickup tmcks.
As a result, I have no problem
entrusting the safe down-one-
flight-of-stairs-and-up-another
joumey of my grandmother's 200-
examinations of motives when
pound heirloom etagere to any
trying to determine the real reason
And then there's the inevitable self-
Page 22* Dimensions • November 1989
remained
You can see Nancy Ford live and in
person November 2-4 & 9-11 at
unopened — sealing tape intact —
Missouri Street Station in Houston,
for the last three moves. Why do I
November 24th and December 8th
keep the index card notes from my
high school senior term paper
at Nexus in Austin, December 7th
at Sue EUen's in Dallas, and
entitled, "The Golden Era of the
November 5th at the Ranch in
Silver Screen"?
Houston.
for not discarding the contents of
boxes
that
have
Why do I keep them? How could I
not keep them? I got an A.
In those same boxes are my high
school yearbooks. I flip through
them once every few years or so it's my way of keeping in touch
with old friends It's heartwarming
in a predictable sort of way to read
that at least 20 people from my past
Nancy Ford's column.
What A World,
What A World,
appears every
month right here in
Dimensions!
believe that I am 2 sweet 2 be
forgotten and that 1'11 go far if I stay
as 1 are. Am. It's reasonable to
assume that people who wrote
things like that in high school
yearbooks do so with the certainty
that after commencement none of
us would ever see each other again.
Except Duane Kurd. Duane Kurd,
my friend, the then president of
Young Religious Republicans or a
similar incredibly upright
organization and whom I haven't
nancy ford
• comedy •
residential • commercial•
seen since commencement wrote in
my yearbook in an almost prophetic
manner(and I quote):
". . . if I can ever help you in any
way,just let me know."
Well, Duane, like I said, I'm
moving at the end of this month.
for booking info
call or v/rite:
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November 1989 • Dimensions• Page 23
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A Discussion of Lesbian Literature Botti New and Old
THE 1990 WOMEN ONLY CALENDAI^
INTO THE
GAY 90s
WITH CLASS
The 1990 Women Only Calendar
Reviewed by Asian Brooke
photographed in black & white at
locales in and around Los Angeles.The
theme of the calendar is easily
discernible as "Lesbians of the Gay
Frontiers After Dark
West Hollywood, OA
90's." The women in the photos are an
For years the gay male community has
attractive multi-racial mixture of
feminine and masculine — that subtle
put out superior calendars, but now
women have joined the ranks — with
lesbian culture.
impressive force.
The 1990 Women Only Calendar from
Nur Damen Productions is a work ofart
yin-yang so much a part of gay and
The range of the photos — from the
campy, vampish movement-oriented
cover to the quiet eroticism of
— one that both men and women will
December's entry — includes high
appreciate.
fashion, adventure, romance and sex.
The
calendar
is
stunningly
From the pastoral setting of two lovers
Page 24• Dimensions • Novemioer 1989
contemplative woman sitting at her
photography. "Their
having
incorporated
personal styles and
bureau, the quality of the women
interests into the idea behind each shot
represented is matched only by the
made it much more than posed
imagery," she says.
And the concept works. The 1990
Women Only Calendar is a
and their horse to the provocative,
superb settings captured
photographer Robyn Flynn.
by
The dominant force behind
the
development and promotion of the
calendar is D.L. Mackey, a marketing
consultant for eight years. Her
objective, she told Frontiers After
Dark,is two-fold: to promote the works
of
lesbian
artists,
writers,
photographers and musicians so that
they may develop their talent and
establish a sound reputation in their
field, and to produce products which
accurately portray today's lesbian.
In this she has succeeded. Although
there is a suggestion of a European
style, the work is decidedly
contemporary. Creating each
photograph to blend into a cohesive
sophisticated work which more than
gives evidence that gay women have
joined their brothers in creating quality
calendars.Mackey,Flynn and make-up
artist and stylist Sherry Randle have,
together with the models, created a
work that is certain to be discussed all
year long.
Those who wonder what to get their
favorite lesbian for the holidays,for her
birthday or just to say "I love you,
thanks for being my friend," need look
no further: the 1990 Women Only
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You can order your calendar directly
concept, she gives much credit to the
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Although she designed the basic
assisting in the development of the
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Everybody worries some of the time.
Some people worry all of the time.
They worry about things they can and
can't control. They worry about the
improbable, the impossible and the
outrageous. They worry too much!
Excessive worrying can make you both
physically and emotionally ill.
Although you probably already know if
do and worry atx)ut it only if it was
extremely important,
c. accept it and go on.
3.1 worry about:
a. everything.
b. some things.
c. little or nothing.
4.1 worry about things:
a. present, future & past
you are a worrier or not, answer the
b. usually only in the future.
questions below to see if you've
stepped over the line and worry too
c. only of immediate concern.
much.
5.1 am sometimes overwhelmed by
the number of things that could go
1.1 believe I worry:
a. yes
a. all the time.
b. sometimes
wrong in any given situation.
b. sometimes, but more often than I
should.
c. only in times of stress.
2. Even when I know I've done my
best in a trying situation, I:
a. worry that I could have done more.
b.know there was nothing more I could
6.1 know I shouldn't worry about
things beyond my control:
a. but I can't seem to help myself.
b. but sometimes I do.
c. so I don't.
7.1 have been a worrier:
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 27
a. all my life.
b. only since adulthood.
c. when I'm under pressure.
2. Try to recognize when worrying
8. Once I start worrying about
something:
a. I worry about it for days or even
3. When you catch yourself worrying,
weeks.
b. I try to talk myself out of it
c. I start working on a solution.
SCORING
Give Yourself:
3 points for every "A' answer
2 points for every'B' answer
1 point for every'
C* answer
starts at other times ofthe day and make
an effort to stop.
write down what you are worried about
and put it off until yoim worry session.
4.If you are still worrying about it after
writing it down,focus yotu*attention on
an object in the room and study it
carefully.Since itis hard to concentrate
on two things at once, you should be
able to stop worrying.Ifit doesn't work
the first time, do it several times until
you feel better.
5. Write down your worries during
your worry session. Having it in black
& white may make it seem less
threatening and help you find a solution
instead ofjust worrying.
If You Scored:
21-27
You definitely go over-board in the
worrying department. You may have a
tendency to dwell on "what ifs".
Worrying is self-destructive and can be
14-20
You are about average on the worrying
scale but in times of stress you may
When something negative happens it
have a tendency to overdo it. If this is
the case, you too could benefit from
sets off a chain reaction in the worrier
using the five step program above.
a form of addiction for some people.
and part of you begins to constantly
scan for things that could go wrong.
There are five steps to worrying less. If
you use this program and still find you
8-13
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oetry.
Leaving My Mold Behind
I am but a mass of flesh and bones,
A model of the human race,
A structure doomed to be imprisoned by its own boundary.
If I could, I would leave my mold behind.
I would set free the spirit that dwells within me.
I would be free.
1 would walk through wet cement without leaving a trace.
I would compose a symphony of crickets, rustiing leaves,
A violent storm surge.
1 would float freely on a cool summer breeze.
Have a cup of tea with nature. I would be any strand of life;
But not myself.
1 would go out just before dawn, and see the day through.
A transparent stranger to all evil;
Yet, an illusion of good will and love to a child.
1 would be silent friend to nature. 1 would be a secret
echoed utterly among the vastness of the universe.
Afraid of being heard.
Yes, if I could, I would be walking out of my body;
Leaving behind, at the blink of an eye.
Body, flesh, blood, and loones.
Rosie Garza
-Houston, TX
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oroscope
What's in the Stars for You this month?
SCORPIO
(Oct 24th -Nov 22ncD
You are happy with the way a current
romance is going during the first week
ofNovember.Be careful that you don't
fool yourself about the seriousness of
the relationship.From the 9th thru the
16th try not to be too demanding or
possessive with someone close to you.
You could end up driving them away
instead of bringing them closer. From
the 17th thru the 23rd you are headed
in a positive direction both at work and
at home.You can gofar if you play your
cards right. From the 24th thru the
30th be open to someone who wants to
get close to you. You can sometimes
scare people away with your
seriousness.
SAGinARIUS
(Nov 23-Dec 21)
joint venture could bejust the ticket for
financial and emotional security.
CAPRICORN
(Dec 22ncl - Jan 19th)
Your charm and charisma might get
you in trouble during the first week of
November.You can atUact people that
are only out to use you if you don't stay
on your toes. From the 9th thru the
16th don't take the rap for someone
who is not living up to their
responsibilities.Lay the blame where it
belongs and don't look back. From the
17th thru the 23rd you may be in the
spotlight for recent accomplishments.
Take advantage of the opportunity to
show off — you deserve it. From the
24th thru the 30th you can come offas
quite a tyrant when someone interferes
with your ambitions.Cool off,it wasn't
intentional and you could make a
lasting enemy if you keep it up.
You'll have to be careful about
advertising your private business
AQUARIUS
affairs during the first week of
November. Discuss them only with
loved ones and close friends. From the
9th thru the I6th be as hcmest as
(Jon 20th - Feb 18lh)
Although you may be feeling like a
little fun during the first week of
possible abouta situation that has come
November,you'll have tobuckledown
up involving a loved one. Pretending
and get to work on a major project
like a problem doesn't exist will not
make it go away. From the 17th thru
before you can play.From the 9th thru
the 16th impatience may be pulling
the 23rd don't take an obligations
lightly. You won't get anywhere by
making promises and not keeping
you in the wrong direction at work.
Lighten up and take your time. You'll
them.From the 24th thru the 30th love
17th thru the 23rd be sure you keep
any promises you have made recently.
and money will blend well. A gift or
be much more successful, from the
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Someone who looks up to you could be
has arisen is causing hard feelings and
hurt if you fail to take your obligations
seriously.From the 24th thru the 30th
all sides and you are called on to
luck is on your side in every aspect of
TAURUS
(April 20th-May 20th)
your life. Enjoy.
mediate.
A relationship you've been toying with
could turn out to be lh£ one during the
PISCES
firstweek of November.Don't worry,
(Feb 19th-Mar 20th)
Good news seems to follow you
everywhere during the first week of
be happy — it will all work out for the
November. Now is a good time to
make plans and set goals - you just
time for anything else, spending some
best! From the 9th thru the 16th you
may be up to your ears in work and no
money or love life. The high stakes are
time alone can help you feel more
relaxed,from the 17th thru the 23rd a
break with holiday traditions may not
sit well with some family members.
not worth the risk. From the 17th thru
Don't let it get you down,they'll enjoy
the 23rd you could be in line for a
promotion at work. You may want to
consider turning it down if you feel you
thru the 30th a trip you've been
can't fail! From the 9th thru the 16th
you should avoid gambling with your
are not up to it. From the 24th thru the
30th you will have to watch your
impulse to overspend on holiday gifts.
Work and play go together well,
business travel can bring the
opportunity for a romantic interlude.
ARIES
(Mar 21st - April 19)
Romance is definitely heating up
during the first week of November. A
decision you make now could be luckyI
From the9th thru the 16th try notto let
success in recent endeavors go to your
head — an inflated ego does not
become you. From the 17th thru the
23rd explore money making
possibilities in real estate, property or
investments. Money making seems to
come easy right now but be sure not to
overspend. From the 24th thru the
30th you may have to take on a
troubling family issue. A dispute that
themselves anyway. From the 24th
planning may be moved up.If you leave
now, you'll stand less chance of being
delayed or running into problems.
GEMINI
(May 21st - June 21st)
Romance, money,and lots of luck are
in the cards during the first week of
November. Try not to push yourself
too hard, take things as they come and
you'll get alot more done.From the 9th
thru the 16th you may want to avoid
becoming too intimate with someone
you just met — your emotions can get
you in big trouble if you let them.From
the 17th thru the 23rd you may
receive a message youjustcan'tignore.
A dramatic situation calls for your
immediate attention, from the 24th
thru the 30th you'll have to take time
out to get yourselfre-organized at work
after the long holiday weekend. Be
careful about spending too much on
gifts for loved ones.
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 31
CANCER
(June 22th - July 22th)
A romantic fling could develop into a
permanent arrangement during the
first week of November. Pressures at
work ease up and allow you to spend
more time with your loved ones. From
the 9th thru the 16th a manipulative
person is trying to win you over for
reasons other than friendship. Be
careful that you don't fall for insincere
flattery, it can cause you great harm.
From
the 17th thru the 23rd
communications, teaching and
traveling are all on your agenda. You
can be very persuasive with friends and
family.From the 24th thru the 30th a
close companion could surprise you
with a gift Plans can change quickly be ready for spur of the moment
VIRGO
(August 23rd- Sept 22nd)
You may acquire a great "wealth" of
love or money during the first week of
November. No matter what it is, you
will be feeling very happy! From the
9th thru the 16th humor may be the
best way to cope with a trying family
situation. A scheme you've cooked up
may not go over well with loved ones.
From the 17th thru the 23rd you don't
have to be aggressive to get your way
— a little charm and sweet talk is all it
will take! From the 24th thru the 30th
a short trip over the long holiday
weekend may be just what the doctor
ordered to help you relax after a hard
month at work!
LIBRA
activities!
(Sept 23rd - Oct 23rd)
Plans that you've made for travel may
LEO
(July 23rcl - August 22nd)
be put on hold due to financial
considerations during the first week of
Don't let a simple disagreement turn
November. But, a financial windfall
nasty during the first week of
alter in the week could revive those
November. A compromise can be
reached if you will make the
plans! From the 9th thru the 16th you
will have to move fast to get everything
done. The pressure can make you
irritable if you don't take time for
suggestion.From the 9th thru the 16th
you need to tend to personal affairs that
you have neglected in past weeks.
Results won't show overnight, so be
patient From the 17th thru the 23rd
don't leta conflict with an older relative
about holiday traditions getoutofhand.
It might be best to give in, even if it
means a least minute change of plans.
From the 24th thru the 30th you could
be feeling restless. Be sure you finish
yourself.From the 17th thru the 23rd
you may not be in the mood for family
get-togethers. Go anyway — you'll
have a better time than you anticipated.
From the 24th thru the 30th you'll be
feeling more optimistic than you have
in a long while. A new love could be the
cause!
up any pressing work before you take
offfor a fiin weekend.A short tripcould
be just the ticket to lift your spirits and
help you relax.
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Irecfory
A Listing of Service Organizations, Businesses & Clubs
ARLINGTON,TX (area code 817)
organizations
Gay/Lesbian Association of UTA
P.O. Box 19348-77, UTA St. 76019
794-5140
4012-B Cedar Springs 75219 #528-4233
Dallas GayA^sblan Historic Arctilves
4012-B Cedar Springs • 821-1653
Dallas Gay Youtti Group
300 Turtle Creek Plaza #116•307-7203
Dallas Outdoors
P.O. Box 35474 75235• 276-5270
Dallas Tavern Guild
AUSTIN,TX (area code 512)
3900 Lemmon Ave. #220•526-5292
Foundation for Human Understanding
clubs
Nexus/Petticoot Junction
528-4233
401 & 401-8 E. 2nd •495-9553
GayAesblan Young Adults
organizations
528-4233
Atfirrrxation (Mettiodlst)
Grace Fellowstiip In Ctirlst Jesus
7403 Shoal Creek • 451-2329
Austin Lambda
P.O. Box 5455 78763
2727 Oak Lawn 75219• 528-2811
Lesbian Information Line (UL)
P.O. Box 191443 75219• 528-2426
Lesbia/Gay Political Coalition
Gay/Lesbian Student
Association at UT Austin •458-3971
Box 275 Texas Union 78712-7338
P.O. Box 224424 75222• 828-9882
Lesbian Visionaries
P.O. Box 191443 75219•521-9642
Lesbian/Gay Rigtits Lobby
P.O. Box 2505 78768
Metroplex Republicans
Metropolitan Community Churcti
1100 Springdcle Rd.• 929-3660
Oasis Ministry
5555 N. Lamer Blvd. #L101 • 441-9191
Waterloo Counseling Center
P.O. Box 191033 75219 • 941-8114
3000 Turtle Creek Rozo, Suite 116
507 Powell 78703• 322-9654
P.O. Box 190973 75219 # 986-1751
Texas Human Rigtits Foundation
2201 N. Lamar # 203 78705•479-8473
AIDS Legal Assistance 1-800-828-6417
Womyn Togettier
3920 Cedar Springs # 528-4233
Oak Lawn Community Services
75219-5311 #520-8108
Oak Lawn Symptionic Band
DALLAS, TX (area code 214)
DENTON,TX (area code 817)
organizations
businesses
Business Delivery Systems
14902 Preston Rd. 75240 • 733-1108
COURAGE, Lesbian Gay Student Org.
c/o Student Activities Center
P.O. Box 5067 76203 # 382-3813
Crossroads Market
3930 Cedar Springs
521-8919 or 1-800-992-6404
Curious Times - Women's Books etc.
FT. WORTH (area code 817)
clubs
4008-D Cedar Springs 75219 • 528-4087
Partners #1612 Park Place # 924-2519
clubs
organizations
Sue Ellen's
Affirmation (Mettiodist) # 478-7837
3903 Cedar Springs • 559-0707
Desert Moon • 5903 Willis • 828-4471
Jugs•3810 Congress • 521-3474
HOUSTON,TX (area code 713)
organizations
clubs
Affirmation (Mettrodist)
P.O. Box 225831 75222• 948-1546
Keystroke # Hotline # 785-9258
AIDS Resource Center
organizations
4012-B Cedar Springs 75219
AIDS Foundation
Ranctr • 9125 S. Main # 666-3464
Dallas Gay Alliance
November 1989 • Dimensions • Page 33
3400 Montrose #700• 524-AIDS
Notional GayAesbian Task Force
AIDS HOTLINE
1517 U Street NW
c/o Switchboard • 529-3211
Gay/Lesbian Students
University of Houston
Washington D.C, 20009 • 202-332-6483
The Fund for Human Dignity
666 Broadway 4th Floor
4800 Ccihoun • 529-3211
NY, NY 10012
Gay & Lesbian Switctitx>ard
P.O. Box 66591 77266 •529-3211
Houston Gay Political Caucus
P.O. Box 66664 77266•521-1000
organizations
Kingdom Community Ctiurcti
614 E. 19th.862-7533
Lambda ALANON
NORMAN,OK (area code 405)
Women's Resource Center
P.O. Box 5089 73070
Lambda Center for Alchohollcs
1214 Joanne • 521-9772
Lesbian/Gay Students
University of Houston - Clear Lake
2700 Bay Area 77058
OKLAHOMA CITY, OK
(area code 405)
organizations
Montrose Pool League/Billiards
2135 NW 39th 73112 « 525-AIDS
PJ 863-8482
PWA Coalition - Houston
3327 Essex Lane *623-4436
Womynspace
P.O. Box 980601 77098-0601
880-9517 or 521-0780
Women's Softball League
6431 Plneshade • 868-6256
Oasis the Community Center
Heriand Sister ResourcesrlTS:
n
2312 NW 39th 73112 Q94-7464 J
SAN ANTONIO,TX (area code 512)
clubs
The Circle
8021 Pinebrook • 341-2818
organizations
Dignity/San Antonio
202 N. St. Mary's • 349-3632
LUBBOCK,TX (area code 806)
organizations
Integrity/San Antonio
Lubbock Lesbian/Gay Alliance
P.O. Box 150006 78212• 684-4920
P.O. Box 64746 79464.796-2403
Names Project/Lubbock
River City Living Metropolitan
Community Church
796-1800 or 744-1957
202 Holland 78212 * 822-1121
NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS
Affirmation: United Mettiodists for
Lesbian/Gay Concerns
P.O. Box 1021 • Evanston, IL 60204
AIDS Action Council
729 Eighth St. S.E. Suite 200
Washington. DC 20003 *(202) 547-3101
AIDS 800 • 1-800-221-7044
LISA (Lesbian InfornrKition SA)
828-LiSA (5472)
SALGA - San Antonio Lesbian & Gay
Assembly * 733-7300
San Antonio AIDS Foundation
P.O. Box 120113 78212-9313
San Antonio Tavern Guild * 822-2823
SOUTH PADRE ISLAND, TX
(area code 512)
Conference For Cattiolic Lesbians
P.O. Box 436, Planetarium Station
New York, New York 10024
acconrrodations
Lyie's Deck * 120 E. Atol St.
Ntl Gay Alliance for Young Adults,
P.O. Box 2326 78597 * 761-LYLE
Inc.P.O, Box 190426
Dallas, TX 75219-0426 •(214)307-7203
List Your Business in The
National GayAesbian Clearinghouse
Directory For Only
666 Broadway 4th Floor
$10 Per Month!
NY, NY 10012
NatiorKil GayAesbian Crisisiine
1-800-SOS-GAYS
Community Service Organizations
Listed Free Of Charge!
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