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amid Proiect
11,ePyramid Project
www.PyramidProject.org

Quarterly No. 5

The Clock is ticking...
As

May, 2002

Capital Campaign Grants for GLBT causes

we approach the midway point of the

are difficult to find, especially in Oklahoma.

second year of this history · making capital

We don't have the advantages of community

campaign, it seems fitting to get a bit more centers in larger cities on the East or West
specific about how we, as a community, can

coast who often receive large sums of state or

make this dream a reality.

municipal funding.

Our community has raised nearly $180,000

Admittedly, events are the "fun"

to date. Every gift, regardless of amount, is

fundraising . However, events are costly and
time consuming . Consequently, we cannot

very important. The chart below illustrates an
aggressive

concise

way

to

rrnse

the

remaining $820,000.
Totals
$50,000
$150,000
$330,000
$520,000
$670,000
$770,000

simple

enough.

members

and

Project

capital

Outgiving

campaigns,

1

<a

I

S

f
e

5

~

depend on events to provide a significant
portion of the goal. To date, events have

answer is a resounding NO!
However,

our

Committee

have

worked

attending

hosting

And so we ask you to please step forward.
Donate at a giving level on the donation
chart, increase your current gift or choose

events

Gill
to

conducting research for grant applications
and preparing an integrated financial plan .
held our first of a series of community

caucuses and established a trust at the Tulsa
Community Foundation .

< ---

dream to become a reality? We hope your

increase exposure of the Pyramid Project,

We

I

remaining funds this way. Must our GLBT and

$820,000

Steering

volunteers

seminars,

part of

7

allied community wait 34 years for this

thousands of hours researching best practices
of

j

year. It would take 34 years to raise the

we ask to donate, 3 wi ll say no.
Pyramid

t t! ---

At most, we could host 4 major events a

training has taught us that for every 4 people

The

Women's Tea DanC'e II:
September 15th
Details to follow

the remaining $820,000.

153 minimum lolial donors
seems

TOHR Community Caucus II:
June 27th, 7 :00pm
Aaronson Auditorium
Central Lbrary

raised an average of $6,000 each. We
would have to hold 136 such events to raise

No. of donors/ Amounts
1 donation of $50,000
4 donations of $25,000
9 donations of $20,000
19 donations of $10,000
30 donations of $5,000
40 donations of $2,500
50 donations of $1,000
Unlimited gifts less than $1000

It

Diversity Celebration 2002:
Jrne 2nd-9th

another gift level that is meaningful for you.
Over the life of a 4 year capital campaign,
$1000 is only $20.80 a month.

Act

now

and become a part of this progressive
movement. Be bold, brave, and pledge to
change our society.

Your generosity will

provide for a permanent, visible presence for
the Tulsa GLBT and allied community.
A donation form is included in the
brochure and your pledge may be
paid in installments. It's Time... !

~
r
I

,

---

7

:::s::::::d
;

~
&::>

e

,

1

House Parties
A special thank you to Dwight
Kealiher and Mike Tedrick for
hosting the inaugural Pyramid
Project House Party for 2002 .
The party was well attended and
many questions were answered

"The Diary of One Who Vanished"
What can we say about this ground breaking event? We must first thank Carol I. Crawford,
General Director for the Tulsa Opera, Tulsa Opera Marketing and Graphics staff, Tulsa
Opera Artists, Ms. Robin Guarino, Director for "the Diary" and emcee Karen Keith. This
event marked the FIRST EVER direct collaboration between a non-gay opera compony and a
GLBT organization. Read that last sentence again.

for the party goers. This event Once again, history is being made through the efforts of the Pyramid Project Steering
raised $5,400 for the Pyramid Committee and our friends in the Tulsa area and beyond. Just over $10,000 was netted.
Project. Great job!
Our April house party, held by The evening began with a reception honoring our VIP sponsors which included Williams
Dave Collins and Doug Campbell, Companies, The Schusterman Foundation, American Express Financial Services and private
raised $4490 so far, with pledges individuals. Melanie Davis played acoustic guitar while Tim Williams AFAB Catering and
and donations still coming in!

Harvard Liquor joined forces to provide a perfect bolance of wine and cheese. An eclectic

We currently have two parties array of auction items graced the serpentine tables in the reception hall. Items included tickets
planned for May.

from the Tulsa Opera, a fashion consultation with Toronto couture designer Phillipe Au, a

Contact Sue Welch at 749-4272 P.S. Gordon signed print, $150 bottle of wine donated by Harvard Liquor from Francis Ford
to book your

2002 / 2003 Coppola wineries and other gifts from Stephen Michael's Photography, Clearwater Day Spa,

house party.

Visage, Aberson's, TW's AFAB Catering, Harp Interiors and BigKnife Designs. These in-kind
donations from all auction donors and Closs Act Party Rental are deeply appreciated.
After the reception, we made our way into the "Black box" theater for an intense, avant
garde presentation of Czech Leos Janacek's lustful "Diary of One Who Vanished" .
We dosed the evening with a dessert and coffee reception sponsored by none other than
Godiva Chocolatiers as last minute bids were placed. Wonderful, just wonderful! Thank you
one and all for making this such a memorable evening!

Wild Hearts Ball II

DC
"Pride Worldwide ... One voice,
One Family'' " is the theme this
year for Diversity Celebration
2002 . TOHR will once again

This year's Wild Hearts Ball (WHB 11) was held at the beautiful German
American Society building on February 16th. Built in the early 20's, this cut
stone former church was a perfect gothic venue. All lit up in red with the
rainbow flag draped over the outdoor balcony, we were slowing traffic down on
15th Street. Just over $ I0,000 was netted at this year's event.

host the largest GLBT festival in
the state and regional area.
Cheer us on as the Pyramid
Project

Steering

Committee

marches in the parade. Come by
our booth for. a free pair of
shades and chat about things to
come.
DC 2002: June 2nd-9th
Saturday: Parade - Cherry St.
Festival - Veterans Parle

More than 2 50 were in attendance. The theme "a party of dreams awaits you"
brought out all kinds of "evening" wear. Hmmmm! Stars and moons filled the
dance hall as we moved to the music of DJ Mike Sheldon. Entertainment was
provided by emcee Peaches Lennox, Tabitha Taylor, Anita Richards, Lois, Alan
Davenport, Pat Hobbs, John Orslott, Tom Votaw, John Draper. The food was
absolutely fabulous as always, thanks to: TW's AFAB Catering, Baxter's
Interurban, Reasor's, St. Michael's Alley, The Chalkboard, Wild Fork, Jim's
Coney Island, The White Lion, Bill & Ruth's and Wild Oats. Thank you to Events
Unlimited, Bamboo Lounge and TNT's for in-kind donations.
Smiles abounded as folks got their photos taken by Shelly Ledford in their PJs.
Thank you WHB II attendees and sponsors! We're just a few months away from
planning WHB Ill!
2

Diamond - $25,000 or more
Mitch Savage & Michael Smith

Founders
Thank You!

Amethyst Up to $499 cont'd.

Woods-Gallardo Allstate Insurance, Liz
Harris & Debbie Jensen, Damon Vick, Tim
Sapphire $500 or more
Grogan, Jeff Potts, David Hoot, Anthony &
Lynn Mostoller & Kathy McKnight
Jones, P.C., Robin Tait &. Mark lackey,
Ruby $10,000 or more
Russ McCarty.Tulsa Area Prime Timers,
Nina Reinecke, Dwight Holden & Ted
The Gill Foundation, Mark Bonney,
Camille Quinn & Susan Kamphaus, Dick Miller, Eudy, Michael Reed, David Paddock & Phil
Dennis Neill & John Southard
Cindy Marinella, Cisar-Holt, Inc., Kathleen
Cyr, Charles Peterson, Joel Cousins & Frank
Williams, Gina Bradford, Ron Toulouse, Jeff£. & Madearis, Sharisse O'Carroll, James Vore,
Josh C., Bernd Oehler, Doug Hartson, Vance
Topaz $5,000 or more
James Wheeler, Mike O'Meara, Carol
Reed, Dale Todd, Rick Phillips, Pat Gordon,
Bob Inglish & Craig Wood,
English, Rick Fortner, Richard Groendyke,
Renee Bruce & Libby Bender, Hope Savage
Kaye Smith (Parent Challenge)
Cathy Elliott, Dave Rosebeary, Tamalie
Sue Welch & Marcy Smith
Heimerdinger, Marilyn Ihloff, Inc., Fred
Amethyst Up to $499
Bassett, Josh Stroman, Judy Crumrine, Ors.
Steve Wright Don Eagleton, Gary Allison & Barb Gordon & Jane Purser, Greg Johnson, John
Citrine $1,500 or more
Henke, Lamont Lindstrom & DevreJackson,
Dan Burnstein & Martin Martinez, Greg
Massie, Top Hat Magic & Fun Shop, Inc.,
Thom Dombuowski (in honor of T.U.l.S.A.),
Gray, Glenn Jones, Dave Collins, Doug
sue Delaney, Murrel Wilmoth, Sherry
Jennifer Jones, John Madigan, JohnMercer,
Campbell, Joe & Nancy McDonald(Parent
Stinson, lee Dunning, Wanda Patrick, Jay
Lisa Temple, Diane Newhouse, Mona Pittenger, Ferraro, Steven Hall, Susie Thornton, Gene
Challenge), Rick Martin & Daniel
Phillip Miller & Dan Hale, Mary Schepers.Neal
Schneider, Tim Williams & Randy Ritter,
Pelizzoni, Tom Williamson, Jim firth, Steve
Family Trust Marty Newman, Whitney Price,
Greg Gatewood & Kerry lewis, Steve
Mccurley, Jessie Engle, Barry Hensley,
Stewart Scott, Jane Barnes, Terri Bond & Debra Rebecca Howard, Cathy Rousseau, Fred
Aberson & Brent Ortolani, The Williams
fish, Michelle Hoffman & Heather Harp, Mike
Companies
Naifeh, Charles Duran, Maureen Lawler,
Tedrick, Deborah Karns, Carol I. Crawford, Pat Johna Abbott, John Cutright, Derrick
Emerald $1,000 or more
Oetjen, Sol Smith, Judy McHenry & Suzanne
Henry, Deanna Ogez, Bruce Hartnitt, Betty
George Kravis, Jack Camden, Howard Nix (in Knott, Stitchwitch, Renegades, Joe Rackley,
Vanaltenburg, Adam Erlewien, Kathie Fite
memory of Gary Durst), Dwight Kealiher,
Troy McGoveran, Don Rush, Dr. Lora Larson,
Fernando Este & Don Glass, Scottie Hale,
Bill & Kathy Hinkle, Jonathan Stanley, Shelly
HOUSe Parties
Theresa Barnard & Tamara Thompson,
Ledford, Bridget DeGraffenreid, Shirley Riggs,
Dwight Kealiher & Mike Tedrick · $5,400
Catheryn Mason & Dr.laura Belmonte,Ph.D., Sharon Thoele, Rex Ball & Stephen Edwards,
Dave Collins and Doug Campbell - $4,490
Marcus Rice & Mark Henry w/ 100% corp.
Mike Eslick, iGive.com, Dick Miller, Elisabeth
match, Vanessa Welch, Michael Green, The
Fuller, Discount Wrecker Service, Karen Weldin, Business Founders $500 or more
Charles & Lynn Schusterman Foundation,
Susanne Bain, Marc Frieden, Gary Lawson,
Broken Arrow Electrology, Compulogics,
The Maxine & Jack Zarrow Foundation
Paula Russo & Mary Regan, Jeff Cowan, Robert International Tours of Claremore, TW's AFAB
Holland, carolyn Ridgeway , Blane Snodgrass, Catering

Capital Campaign Funds Held in Trust
Who is TCf? Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF) is a tax exempt, public charity

TULSA
COMMUNITY
FOUNDATION

established in 1998 to receive, protect and distribute gifts from individuals and
organizations for the improvement of the Tulsa and northeastern Oklahoma area.
TCf V'ISion Statement: To be the recognized community-owned organization that initiates, teaches and encourages
personal and corporate charitable giving today to ensure that the philantrhopic needs of northeastern Oklahomans
can be met for all generations.

Board otrrustees: TCF Trustees are selected for having demonstrated a personal involvement in civic affairs and a
high level of committment and philanthropic leadership to our community. TCF Trustees are: Chester Cadieux, Joe
Cappy, Paula Marshall-Chapman, Kathleen Coan, Fred Dorwart, Jim Dunn, Phil Frolich, Hans He_lmerich, George
Kaiser, John Kirkpatrick, David Kyle, Bob Lorton, Stan Lybarger, Steve Malcolm, John Oxley, Franas Rooney, Susan
Savage, Stacy Schusterman, Ray Siegfried, Henry Will and Jack Zarrow. Phil Lakin is Executive Director.
3

TCF Trust continued ...

~mid Project
Steering Committee
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Co Chairs
Kerry Lewis
Sue Welch

Legal
Mark Bonney

Finance

Theresa Barnard

Grant Development
Nancy McDonalcf, Director
Theresa Barnard
Greg Gatewood
Kerry Lewis
Rick Martin
Daniel Schneider

Financial Development
Theresa Barnard
Mark Bonney
Kerry Lewis
Sue Welch

Needs Assessment
Mark Bonney
Greg Gatewood
Sue Welch

Marketing

Marc Frieden
Rick Martin
Marcy Smith
Tim Williams

Euents
Greg Gatewood
David Hoot
Rick Martin
Marcy Smith
Sue Welch

Correspondence
Theresa Barnard
Sue Welch

Documentary
Mark Bonney

Parliamentarian

Why has TOHR established a TCF Trust? To ensure that the funds donated to the
Pyramid Project Capital Campaign are used solely for the purposes of purchasing,
refurbishing and sustaining a permanent home for the Tulsa Gay, Lesbian,
Bisexual and Transgender Community Center.
How are the funds invested? The foundation is a collection of many charitable
funds varying in size from $1000 to multiple millions of dollars. Each fund has
it's own identity and philanthropic purpose and each benefits from being
invested with other funds to create a lasting community resource.
TCFs investment committee meets quarterly to review investment performance
and select investment managers. Trustees appointed by TOHR and the Pyramid
Project Steering Committee may advise TCF of alternate investment allocation
strategies that may seem more prudent for specific needs.
Who are the trustees for TOHR's Pyramid Project capital campaign TCF trust?
The trust document states that there will be three TOHR trustees made up of:
a representative appointed by the Pyramid Project Steering Committee (Mark
Bonney), an appointee from the TOHR membership (Nancy McDonald) and
the TOHR President (Brent Ortolani).
What other charitable organizations hold funds at TCF? All Souls Unitarian
Church, Arts & Humanities Council, Brady Heights Neighborhood Assoc., DVIS,
Magic Empire Girl Scouts, Hospice of Green Country, League of Women Voters,
Planned Parenthood, Special Olympics, Tulsa Opera, Youth Services of Tulsa,
Town and Country School, Tulsa Historical Society and others.

can gifts be given directly to TCF for TOHR's Pyramid Project capital campaign?
Yes. At times, some donors may desire anonymity. Such donors may make gifts
directly into TOHR's Pyramid Project Capital Campaign fund at TCF by noting the
account number. TCF is equipped to recieve gifts of stock, real estate, artwork,
and other appreciated assets. TCF will issue receipts directly to the donors.
Please contact TCF Executive Director Phil Lakin at (918) 494-8823 for more
information on this special type of giving.

Marc Frieden

li1 [YI [BJ !Al [HJ [ID I!] [ID [BJ

Campaign Mission:

TOHR Board Liaison

Brent Ortolani

The Pyramid Project is TOHR's capital campaign

Advisory Board

to

Dwight Kealiher, CPA
Nancv McDonald
Denms Neill
Rick Phillips
Vance Reed

raise

funds

to

purchase

and

sustain

a

permanent visible presence, a safe and affirming
home for the Tulsa GLBT Community Center.

"Building a Home... Funding the Future"
www .PyramidProject.org

Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR)
Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) Community Center
2114 S. Memorial Drive, P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74101

918.743.4297

$1,000,000 GOAL



Pro~erty of tiic C

.!,er

amid Proiect
11,ePyramid Project
www.PyramidProject.org

Quarterly No. 5

The Clock is ticking...
As

May, 2002

Capital Campaign Grants for GLBT causes

we approach the midway point of the

are difficult to find, especially in Oklahoma.

second year of this history · making capital

We don't have the advantages of community

campaign, it seems fitting to get a bit more centers in larger cities on the East or West
specific about how we, as a community, can

coast who often receive large sums of state or

make this dream a reality.

municipal funding.

Our community has raised nearly $180,000

Admittedly, events are the "fun"

to date. Every gift, regardless of amount, is

fundraising . However, events are costly and
time consuming . Consequently, we cannot

very important. The chart below illustrates an
aggressive

concise

way

to

rrnse

the

remaining $820,000.
Totals
$50,000
$150,000
$330,000
$520,000
$670,000
$770,000

simple

enough.

members

and

Project

capital

Outgiving

campaigns,

1

<a

I

S

f
e

5

~

depend on events to provide a significant
portion of the goal. To date, events have

answer is a resounding NO!
However,

our

Committee

have

worked

attending

hosting

And so we ask you to please step forward.
Donate at a giving level on the donation
chart, increase your current gift or choose

events

Gill
to

conducting research for grant applications
and preparing an integrated financial plan .
held our first of a series of community

caucuses and established a trust at the Tulsa
Community Foundation .

< ---

dream to become a reality? We hope your

increase exposure of the Pyramid Project,

We

I

remaining funds this way. Must our GLBT and

$820,000

Steering

volunteers

seminars,

part of

7

allied community wait 34 years for this

thousands of hours researching best practices
of

j

year. It would take 34 years to raise the

we ask to donate, 3 wi ll say no.
Pyramid

t t! ---

At most, we could host 4 major events a

training has taught us that for every 4 people

The

Women's Tea DanC'e II:
September 15th
Details to follow

the remaining $820,000.

153 minimum lolial donors
seems

TOHR Community Caucus II:
June 27th, 7 :00pm
Aaronson Auditorium
Central Lbrary

raised an average of $6,000 each. We
would have to hold 136 such events to raise

No. of donors/ Amounts
1 donation of $50,000
4 donations of $25,000
9 donations of $20,000
19 donations of $10,000
30 donations of $5,000
40 donations of $2,500
50 donations of $1,000
Unlimited gifts less than $1000

It

Diversity Celebration 2002:
Jrne 2nd-9th

another gift level that is meaningful for you.
Over the life of a 4 year capital campaign,
$1000 is only $20.80 a month.

Act

now

and become a part of this progressive
movement. Be bold, brave, and pledge to
change our society.

Your generosity will

provide for a permanent, visible presence for
the Tulsa GLBT and allied community.
A donation form is included in the
brochure and your pledge may be
paid in installments. It's Time... !

~
r
I

,

---

7

:::s::::::d
;

~
&::>

e

,

1

House Parties
A special thank you to Dwight
Kealiher and Mike Tedrick for
hosting the inaugural Pyramid
Project House Party for 2002 .
The party was well attended and
many questions were answered

"The Diary of One Who Vanished"
What can we say about this ground breaking event? We must first thank Carol I. Crawford,
General Director for the Tulsa Opera, Tulsa Opera Marketing and Graphics staff, Tulsa
Opera Artists, Ms. Robin Guarino, Director for "the Diary" and emcee Karen Keith. This
event marked the FIRST EVER direct collaboration between a non-gay opera compony and a
GLBT organization. Read that last sentence again.

for the party goers. This event Once again, history is being made through the efforts of the Pyramid Project Steering
raised $5,400 for the Pyramid Committee and our friends in the Tulsa area and beyond. Just over $10,000 was netted.
Project. Great job!
Our April house party, held by The evening began with a reception honoring our VIP sponsors which included Williams
Dave Collins and Doug Campbell, Companies, The Schusterman Foundation, American Express Financial Services and private
raised $4490 so far, with pledges individuals. Melanie Davis played acoustic guitar while Tim Williams AFAB Catering and
and donations still coming in!

Harvard Liquor joined forces to provide a perfect bolance of wine and cheese. An eclectic

We currently have two parties array of auction items graced the serpentine tables in the reception hall. Items included tickets
planned for May.

from the Tulsa Opera, a fashion consultation with Toronto couture designer Phillipe Au, a

Contact Sue Welch at 749-4272 P.S. Gordon signed print, $150 bottle of wine donated by Harvard Liquor from Francis Ford
to book your

2002 / 2003 Coppola wineries and other gifts from Stephen Michael's Photography, Clearwater Day Spa,

house party.

Visage, Aberson's, TW's AFAB Catering, Harp Interiors and BigKnife Designs. These in-kind
donations from all auction donors and Closs Act Party Rental are deeply appreciated.
After the reception, we made our way into the "Black box" theater for an intense, avant
garde presentation of Czech Leos Janacek's lustful "Diary of One Who Vanished" .
We dosed the evening with a dessert and coffee reception sponsored by none other than
Godiva Chocolatiers as last minute bids were placed. Wonderful, just wonderful! Thank you
one and all for making this such a memorable evening!

Wild Hearts Ball II

DC
"Pride Worldwide ... One voice,
One Family'' " is the theme this
year for Diversity Celebration
2002 . TOHR will once again

This year's Wild Hearts Ball (WHB 11) was held at the beautiful German
American Society building on February 16th. Built in the early 20's, this cut
stone former church was a perfect gothic venue. All lit up in red with the
rainbow flag draped over the outdoor balcony, we were slowing traffic down on
15th Street. Just over $ I0,000 was netted at this year's event.

host the largest GLBT festival in
the state and regional area.
Cheer us on as the Pyramid
Project

Steering

Committee

marches in the parade. Come by
our booth for. a free pair of
shades and chat about things to
come.
DC 2002: June 2nd-9th
Saturday: Parade - Cherry St.
Festival - Veterans Parle

More than 2 50 were in attendance. The theme "a party of dreams awaits you"
brought out all kinds of "evening" wear. Hmmmm! Stars and moons filled the
dance hall as we moved to the music of DJ Mike Sheldon. Entertainment was
provided by emcee Peaches Lennox, Tabitha Taylor, Anita Richards, Lois, Alan
Davenport, Pat Hobbs, John Orslott, Tom Votaw, John Draper. The food was
absolutely fabulous as always, thanks to: TW's AFAB Catering, Baxter's
Interurban, Reasor's, St. Michael's Alley, The Chalkboard, Wild Fork, Jim's
Coney Island, The White Lion, Bill & Ruth's and Wild Oats. Thank you to Events
Unlimited, Bamboo Lounge and TNT's for in-kind donations.
Smiles abounded as folks got their photos taken by Shelly Ledford in their PJs.
Thank you WHB II attendees and sponsors! We're just a few months away from
planning WHB Ill!
2

Diamond - $25,000 or more
Mitch Savage & Michael Smith

Founders
Thank You!

Amethyst Up to $499 cont'd.

Woods-Gallardo Allstate Insurance, Liz
Harris & Debbie Jensen, Damon Vick, Tim
Sapphire $500 or more
Grogan, Jeff Potts, David Hoot, Anthony &
Lynn Mostoller & Kathy McKnight
Jones, P.C., Robin Tait &. Mark lackey,
Ruby $10,000 or more
Russ McCarty.Tulsa Area Prime Timers,
Nina Reinecke, Dwight Holden & Ted
The Gill Foundation, Mark Bonney,
Camille Quinn & Susan Kamphaus, Dick Miller, Eudy, Michael Reed, David Paddock & Phil
Dennis Neill & John Southard
Cindy Marinella, Cisar-Holt, Inc., Kathleen
Cyr, Charles Peterson, Joel Cousins & Frank
Williams, Gina Bradford, Ron Toulouse, Jeff£. & Madearis, Sharisse O'Carroll, James Vore,
Josh C., Bernd Oehler, Doug Hartson, Vance
Topaz $5,000 or more
James Wheeler, Mike O'Meara, Carol
Reed, Dale Todd, Rick Phillips, Pat Gordon,
Bob Inglish & Craig Wood,
English, Rick Fortner, Richard Groendyke,
Renee Bruce & Libby Bender, Hope Savage
Kaye Smith (Parent Challenge)
Cathy Elliott, Dave Rosebeary, Tamalie
Sue Welch & Marcy Smith
Heimerdinger, Marilyn Ihloff, Inc., Fred
Amethyst Up to $499
Bassett, Josh Stroman, Judy Crumrine, Ors.
Steve Wright Don Eagleton, Gary Allison & Barb Gordon & Jane Purser, Greg Johnson, John
Citrine $1,500 or more
Henke, Lamont Lindstrom & DevreJackson,
Dan Burnstein & Martin Martinez, Greg
Massie, Top Hat Magic & Fun Shop, Inc.,
Thom Dombuowski (in honor of T.U.l.S.A.),
Gray, Glenn Jones, Dave Collins, Doug
sue Delaney, Murrel Wilmoth, Sherry
Jennifer Jones, John Madigan, JohnMercer,
Campbell, Joe & Nancy McDonald(Parent
Stinson, lee Dunning, Wanda Patrick, Jay
Lisa Temple, Diane Newhouse, Mona Pittenger, Ferraro, Steven Hall, Susie Thornton, Gene
Challenge), Rick Martin & Daniel
Phillip Miller & Dan Hale, Mary Schepers.Neal
Schneider, Tim Williams & Randy Ritter,
Pelizzoni, Tom Williamson, Jim firth, Steve
Family Trust Marty Newman, Whitney Price,
Greg Gatewood & Kerry lewis, Steve
Mccurley, Jessie Engle, Barry Hensley,
Stewart Scott, Jane Barnes, Terri Bond & Debra Rebecca Howard, Cathy Rousseau, Fred
Aberson & Brent Ortolani, The Williams
fish, Michelle Hoffman & Heather Harp, Mike
Companies
Naifeh, Charles Duran, Maureen Lawler,
Tedrick, Deborah Karns, Carol I. Crawford, Pat Johna Abbott, John Cutright, Derrick
Emerald $1,000 or more
Oetjen, Sol Smith, Judy McHenry & Suzanne
Henry, Deanna Ogez, Bruce Hartnitt, Betty
George Kravis, Jack Camden, Howard Nix (in Knott, Stitchwitch, Renegades, Joe Rackley,
Vanaltenburg, Adam Erlewien, Kathie Fite
memory of Gary Durst), Dwight Kealiher,
Troy McGoveran, Don Rush, Dr. Lora Larson,
Fernando Este & Don Glass, Scottie Hale,
Bill & Kathy Hinkle, Jonathan Stanley, Shelly
HOUSe Parties
Theresa Barnard & Tamara Thompson,
Ledford, Bridget DeGraffenreid, Shirley Riggs,
Dwight Kealiher & Mike Tedrick · $5,400
Catheryn Mason & Dr.laura Belmonte,Ph.D., Sharon Thoele, Rex Ball & Stephen Edwards,
Dave Collins and Doug Campbell - $4,490
Marcus Rice & Mark Henry w/ 100% corp.
Mike Eslick, iGive.com, Dick Miller, Elisabeth
match, Vanessa Welch, Michael Green, The
Fuller, Discount Wrecker Service, Karen Weldin, Business Founders $500 or more
Charles & Lynn Schusterman Foundation,
Susanne Bain, Marc Frieden, Gary Lawson,
Broken Arrow Electrology, Compulogics,
The Maxine & Jack Zarrow Foundation
Paula Russo & Mary Regan, Jeff Cowan, Robert International Tours of Claremore, TW's AFAB
Holland, carolyn Ridgeway , Blane Snodgrass, Catering

Capital Campaign Funds Held in Trust
Who is TCf? Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF) is a tax exempt, public charity

TULSA
COMMUNITY
FOUNDATION

established in 1998 to receive, protect and distribute gifts from individuals and
organizations for the improvement of the Tulsa and northeastern Oklahoma area.
TCf V'ISion Statement: To be the recognized community-owned organization that initiates, teaches and encourages
personal and corporate charitable giving today to ensure that the philantrhopic needs of northeastern Oklahomans
can be met for all generations.

Board otrrustees: TCF Trustees are selected for having demonstrated a personal involvement in civic affairs and a
high level of committment and philanthropic leadership to our community. TCF Trustees are: Chester Cadieux, Joe
Cappy, Paula Marshall-Chapman, Kathleen Coan, Fred Dorwart, Jim Dunn, Phil Frolich, Hans He_lmerich, George
Kaiser, John Kirkpatrick, David Kyle, Bob Lorton, Stan Lybarger, Steve Malcolm, John Oxley, Franas Rooney, Susan
Savage, Stacy Schusterman, Ray Siegfried, Henry Will and Jack Zarrow. Phil Lakin is Executive Director.
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TCF Trust continued ...

~mid Project
Steering Committee
■----------1
Co Chairs
Kerry Lewis
Sue Welch

Legal
Mark Bonney

Finance

Theresa Barnard

Grant Development
Nancy McDonalcf, Director
Theresa Barnard
Greg Gatewood
Kerry Lewis
Rick Martin
Daniel Schneider

Financial Development
Theresa Barnard
Mark Bonney
Kerry Lewis
Sue Welch

Needs Assessment
Mark Bonney
Greg Gatewood
Sue Welch

Marketing

Marc Frieden
Rick Martin
Marcy Smith
Tim Williams

Euents
Greg Gatewood
David Hoot
Rick Martin
Marcy Smith
Sue Welch

Correspondence
Theresa Barnard
Sue Welch

Documentary
Mark Bonney

Parliamentarian

Why has TOHR established a TCF Trust? To ensure that the funds donated to the
Pyramid Project Capital Campaign are used solely for the purposes of purchasing,
refurbishing and sustaining a permanent home for the Tulsa Gay, Lesbian,
Bisexual and Transgender Community Center.
How are the funds invested? The foundation is a collection of many charitable
funds varying in size from $1000 to multiple millions of dollars. Each fund has
it's own identity and philanthropic purpose and each benefits from being
invested with other funds to create a lasting community resource.
TCFs investment committee meets quarterly to review investment performance
and select investment managers. Trustees appointed by TOHR and the Pyramid
Project Steering Committee may advise TCF of alternate investment allocation
strategies that may seem more prudent for specific needs.
Who are the trustees for TOHR's Pyramid Project capital campaign TCF trust?
The trust document states that there will be three TOHR trustees made up of:
a representative appointed by the Pyramid Project Steering Committee (Mark
Bonney), an appointee from the TOHR membership (Nancy McDonald) and
the TOHR President (Brent Ortolani).
What other charitable organizations hold funds at TCF? All Souls Unitarian
Church, Arts & Humanities Council, Brady Heights Neighborhood Assoc., DVIS,
Magic Empire Girl Scouts, Hospice of Green Country, League of Women Voters,
Planned Parenthood, Special Olympics, Tulsa Opera, Youth Services of Tulsa,
Town and Country School, Tulsa Historical Society and others.

can gifts be given directly to TCF for TOHR's Pyramid Project capital campaign?
Yes. At times, some donors may desire anonymity. Such donors may make gifts
directly into TOHR's Pyramid Project Capital Campaign fund at TCF by noting the
account number. TCF is equipped to recieve gifts of stock, real estate, artwork,
and other appreciated assets. TCF will issue receipts directly to the donors.
Please contact TCF Executive Director Phil Lakin at (918) 494-8823 for more
information on this special type of giving.

Marc Frieden

li1 [YI [BJ !Al [HJ [ID I!] [ID [BJ

Campaign Mission:

TOHR Board Liaison

Brent Ortolani

The Pyramid Project is TOHR's capital campaign

Advisory Board

to

Dwight Kealiher, CPA
Nancv McDonald
Denms Neill
Rick Phillips
Vance Reed

raise

funds

to

purchase

and

sustain

a

permanent visible presence, a safe and affirming
home for the Tulsa GLBT Community Center.

"Building a Home... Funding the Future"
www .PyramidProject.org

Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR)
Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) Community Center
2114 S. Memorial Drive, P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74101

918.743.4297

$1,000,000 GOAL



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Quarterly No. 5

The Clock is ticking...
As

May, 2002

Capital Campaign Grants for GLBT causes

we approach the midway point of the

are difficult to find, especially in Oklahoma.

second year of this history · making capital

We don't have the advantages of community

campaign, it seems fitting to get a bit more centers in larger cities on the East or West
specific about how we, as a community, can

coast who often receive large sums of state or

make this dream a reality.

municipal funding.

Our community has raised nearly $180,000

Admittedly, events are the "fun"

to date. Every gift, regardless of amount, is

fundraising . However, events are costly and
time consuming . Consequently, we cannot

very important. The chart below illustrates an
aggressive

concise

way

to

rrnse

the

remaining $820,000.
Totals
$50,000
$150,000
$330,000
$520,000
$670,000
$770,000

simple

enough.

members

and

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capital

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depend on events to provide a significant
portion of the goal. To date, events have

answer is a resounding NO!
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our

Committee

have

worked

attending

hosting

And so we ask you to please step forward.
Donate at a giving level on the donation
chart, increase your current gift or choose

events

Gill
to

conducting research for grant applications
and preparing an integrated financial plan .
held our first of a series of community

caucuses and established a trust at the Tulsa
Community Foundation .

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dream to become a reality? We hope your

increase exposure of the Pyramid Project,

We

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remaining funds this way. Must our GLBT and

$820,000

Steering

volunteers

seminars,

part of

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allied community wait 34 years for this

thousands of hours researching best practices
of

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year. It would take 34 years to raise the

we ask to donate, 3 wi ll say no.
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At most, we could host 4 major events a

training has taught us that for every 4 people

The

Women's Tea DanC'e II:
September 15th
Details to follow

the remaining $820,000.

153 minimum lolial donors
seems

TOHR Community Caucus II:
June 27th, 7 :00pm
Aaronson Auditorium
Central Lbrary

raised an average of $6,000 each. We
would have to hold 136 such events to raise

No. of donors/ Amounts
1 donation of $50,000
4 donations of $25,000
9 donations of $20,000
19 donations of $10,000
30 donations of $5,000
40 donations of $2,500
50 donations of $1,000
Unlimited gifts less than $1000

It

Diversity Celebration 2002:
Jrne 2nd-9th

another gift level that is meaningful for you.
Over the life of a 4 year capital campaign,
$1000 is only $20.80 a month.

Act

now

and become a part of this progressive
movement. Be bold, brave, and pledge to
change our society.

Your generosity will

provide for a permanent, visible presence for
the Tulsa GLBT and allied community.
A donation form is included in the
brochure and your pledge may be
paid in installments. It's Time... !

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House Parties
A special thank you to Dwight
Kealiher and Mike Tedrick for
hosting the inaugural Pyramid
Project House Party for 2002 .
The party was well attended and
many questions were answered

"The Diary of One Who Vanished"
What can we say about this ground breaking event? We must first thank Carol I. Crawford,
General Director for the Tulsa Opera, Tulsa Opera Marketing and Graphics staff, Tulsa
Opera Artists, Ms. Robin Guarino, Director for "the Diary" and emcee Karen Keith. This
event marked the FIRST EVER direct collaboration between a non-gay opera compony and a
GLBT organization. Read that last sentence again.

for the party goers. This event Once again, history is being made through the efforts of the Pyramid Project Steering
raised $5,400 for the Pyramid Committee and our friends in the Tulsa area and beyond. Just over $10,000 was netted.
Project. Great job!
Our April house party, held by The evening began with a reception honoring our VIP sponsors which included Williams
Dave Collins and Doug Campbell, Companies, The Schusterman Foundation, American Express Financial Services and private
raised $4490 so far, with pledges individuals. Melanie Davis played acoustic guitar while Tim Williams AFAB Catering and
and donations still coming in!

Harvard Liquor joined forces to provide a perfect bolance of wine and cheese. An eclectic

We currently have two parties array of auction items graced the serpentine tables in the reception hall. Items included tickets
planned for May.

from the Tulsa Opera, a fashion consultation with Toronto couture designer Phillipe Au, a

Contact Sue Welch at 749-4272 P.S. Gordon signed print, $150 bottle of wine donated by Harvard Liquor from Francis Ford
to book your

2002 / 2003 Coppola wineries and other gifts from Stephen Michael's Photography, Clearwater Day Spa,

house party.

Visage, Aberson's, TW's AFAB Catering, Harp Interiors and BigKnife Designs. These in-kind
donations from all auction donors and Closs Act Party Rental are deeply appreciated.
After the reception, we made our way into the "Black box" theater for an intense, avant
garde presentation of Czech Leos Janacek's lustful "Diary of One Who Vanished" .
We dosed the evening with a dessert and coffee reception sponsored by none other than
Godiva Chocolatiers as last minute bids were placed. Wonderful, just wonderful! Thank you
one and all for making this such a memorable evening!

Wild Hearts Ball II

DC
"Pride Worldwide ... One voice,
One Family'' " is the theme this
year for Diversity Celebration
2002 . TOHR will once again

This year's Wild Hearts Ball (WHB 11) was held at the beautiful German
American Society building on February 16th. Built in the early 20's, this cut
stone former church was a perfect gothic venue. All lit up in red with the
rainbow flag draped over the outdoor balcony, we were slowing traffic down on
15th Street. Just over $ I0,000 was netted at this year's event.

host the largest GLBT festival in
the state and regional area.
Cheer us on as the Pyramid
Project

Steering

Committee

marches in the parade. Come by
our booth for. a free pair of
shades and chat about things to
come.
DC 2002: June 2nd-9th
Saturday: Parade - Cherry St.
Festival - Veterans Parle

More than 2 50 were in attendance. The theme "a party of dreams awaits you"
brought out all kinds of "evening" wear. Hmmmm! Stars and moons filled the
dance hall as we moved to the music of DJ Mike Sheldon. Entertainment was
provided by emcee Peaches Lennox, Tabitha Taylor, Anita Richards, Lois, Alan
Davenport, Pat Hobbs, John Orslott, Tom Votaw, John Draper. The food was
absolutely fabulous as always, thanks to: TW's AFAB Catering, Baxter's
Interurban, Reasor's, St. Michael's Alley, The Chalkboard, Wild Fork, Jim's
Coney Island, The White Lion, Bill & Ruth's and Wild Oats. Thank you to Events
Unlimited, Bamboo Lounge and TNT's for in-kind donations.
Smiles abounded as folks got their photos taken by Shelly Ledford in their PJs.
Thank you WHB II attendees and sponsors! We're just a few months away from
planning WHB Ill!
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Diamond - $25,000 or more
Mitch Savage & Michael Smith

Founders
Thank You!

Amethyst Up to $499 cont'd.

Woods-Gallardo Allstate Insurance, Liz
Harris & Debbie Jensen, Damon Vick, Tim
Sapphire $500 or more
Grogan, Jeff Potts, David Hoot, Anthony &
Lynn Mostoller & Kathy McKnight
Jones, P.C., Robin Tait &. Mark lackey,
Ruby $10,000 or more
Russ McCarty.Tulsa Area Prime Timers,
Nina Reinecke, Dwight Holden & Ted
The Gill Foundation, Mark Bonney,
Camille Quinn & Susan Kamphaus, Dick Miller, Eudy, Michael Reed, David Paddock & Phil
Dennis Neill & John Southard
Cindy Marinella, Cisar-Holt, Inc., Kathleen
Cyr, Charles Peterson, Joel Cousins & Frank
Williams, Gina Bradford, Ron Toulouse, Jeff£. & Madearis, Sharisse O'Carroll, James Vore,
Josh C., Bernd Oehler, Doug Hartson, Vance
Topaz $5,000 or more
James Wheeler, Mike O'Meara, Carol
Reed, Dale Todd, Rick Phillips, Pat Gordon,
Bob Inglish & Craig Wood,
English, Rick Fortner, Richard Groendyke,
Renee Bruce & Libby Bender, Hope Savage
Kaye Smith (Parent Challenge)
Cathy Elliott, Dave Rosebeary, Tamalie
Sue Welch & Marcy Smith
Heimerdinger, Marilyn Ihloff, Inc., Fred
Amethyst Up to $499
Bassett, Josh Stroman, Judy Crumrine, Ors.
Steve Wright Don Eagleton, Gary Allison & Barb Gordon & Jane Purser, Greg Johnson, John
Citrine $1,500 or more
Henke, Lamont Lindstrom & DevreJackson,
Dan Burnstein & Martin Martinez, Greg
Massie, Top Hat Magic & Fun Shop, Inc.,
Thom Dombuowski (in honor of T.U.l.S.A.),
Gray, Glenn Jones, Dave Collins, Doug
sue Delaney, Murrel Wilmoth, Sherry
Jennifer Jones, John Madigan, JohnMercer,
Campbell, Joe & Nancy McDonald(Parent
Stinson, lee Dunning, Wanda Patrick, Jay
Lisa Temple, Diane Newhouse, Mona Pittenger, Ferraro, Steven Hall, Susie Thornton, Gene
Challenge), Rick Martin & Daniel
Phillip Miller & Dan Hale, Mary Schepers.Neal
Schneider, Tim Williams & Randy Ritter,
Pelizzoni, Tom Williamson, Jim firth, Steve
Family Trust Marty Newman, Whitney Price,
Greg Gatewood & Kerry lewis, Steve
Mccurley, Jessie Engle, Barry Hensley,
Stewart Scott, Jane Barnes, Terri Bond & Debra Rebecca Howard, Cathy Rousseau, Fred
Aberson & Brent Ortolani, The Williams
fish, Michelle Hoffman & Heather Harp, Mike
Companies
Naifeh, Charles Duran, Maureen Lawler,
Tedrick, Deborah Karns, Carol I. Crawford, Pat Johna Abbott, John Cutright, Derrick
Emerald $1,000 or more
Oetjen, Sol Smith, Judy McHenry & Suzanne
Henry, Deanna Ogez, Bruce Hartnitt, Betty
George Kravis, Jack Camden, Howard Nix (in Knott, Stitchwitch, Renegades, Joe Rackley,
Vanaltenburg, Adam Erlewien, Kathie Fite
memory of Gary Durst), Dwight Kealiher,
Troy McGoveran, Don Rush, Dr. Lora Larson,
Fernando Este & Don Glass, Scottie Hale,
Bill & Kathy Hinkle, Jonathan Stanley, Shelly
HOUSe Parties
Theresa Barnard & Tamara Thompson,
Ledford, Bridget DeGraffenreid, Shirley Riggs,
Dwight Kealiher & Mike Tedrick · $5,400
Catheryn Mason & Dr.laura Belmonte,Ph.D., Sharon Thoele, Rex Ball & Stephen Edwards,
Dave Collins and Doug Campbell - $4,490
Marcus Rice & Mark Henry w/ 100% corp.
Mike Eslick, iGive.com, Dick Miller, Elisabeth
match, Vanessa Welch, Michael Green, The
Fuller, Discount Wrecker Service, Karen Weldin, Business Founders $500 or more
Charles & Lynn Schusterman Foundation,
Susanne Bain, Marc Frieden, Gary Lawson,
Broken Arrow Electrology, Compulogics,
The Maxine & Jack Zarrow Foundation
Paula Russo & Mary Regan, Jeff Cowan, Robert International Tours of Claremore, TW's AFAB
Holland, carolyn Ridgeway , Blane Snodgrass, Catering

Capital Campaign Funds Held in Trust
Who is TCf? Tulsa Community Foundation (TCF) is a tax exempt, public charity

TULSA
COMMUNITY
FOUNDATION

established in 1998 to receive, protect and distribute gifts from individuals and
organizations for the improvement of the Tulsa and northeastern Oklahoma area.
TCf V'ISion Statement: To be the recognized community-owned organization that initiates, teaches and encourages
personal and corporate charitable giving today to ensure that the philantrhopic needs of northeastern Oklahomans
can be met for all generations.

Board otrrustees: TCF Trustees are selected for having demonstrated a personal involvement in civic affairs and a
high level of committment and philanthropic leadership to our community. TCF Trustees are: Chester Cadieux, Joe
Cappy, Paula Marshall-Chapman, Kathleen Coan, Fred Dorwart, Jim Dunn, Phil Frolich, Hans He_lmerich, George
Kaiser, John Kirkpatrick, David Kyle, Bob Lorton, Stan Lybarger, Steve Malcolm, John Oxley, Franas Rooney, Susan
Savage, Stacy Schusterman, Ray Siegfried, Henry Will and Jack Zarrow. Phil Lakin is Executive Director.
3

TCF Trust continued ...

~mid Project
Steering Committee
■----------1
Co Chairs
Kerry Lewis
Sue Welch

Legal
Mark Bonney

Finance

Theresa Barnard

Grant Development
Nancy McDonalcf, Director
Theresa Barnard
Greg Gatewood
Kerry Lewis
Rick Martin
Daniel Schneider

Financial Development
Theresa Barnard
Mark Bonney
Kerry Lewis
Sue Welch

Needs Assessment
Mark Bonney
Greg Gatewood
Sue Welch

Marketing

Marc Frieden
Rick Martin
Marcy Smith
Tim Williams

Euents
Greg Gatewood
David Hoot
Rick Martin
Marcy Smith
Sue Welch

Correspondence
Theresa Barnard
Sue Welch

Documentary
Mark Bonney

Parliamentarian

Why has TOHR established a TCF Trust? To ensure that the funds donated to the
Pyramid Project Capital Campaign are used solely for the purposes of purchasing,
refurbishing and sustaining a permanent home for the Tulsa Gay, Lesbian,
Bisexual and Transgender Community Center.
How are the funds invested? The foundation is a collection of many charitable
funds varying in size from $1000 to multiple millions of dollars. Each fund has
it's own identity and philanthropic purpose and each benefits from being
invested with other funds to create a lasting community resource.
TCFs investment committee meets quarterly to review investment performance
and select investment managers. Trustees appointed by TOHR and the Pyramid
Project Steering Committee may advise TCF of alternate investment allocation
strategies that may seem more prudent for specific needs.
Who are the trustees for TOHR's Pyramid Project capital campaign TCF trust?
The trust document states that there will be three TOHR trustees made up of:
a representative appointed by the Pyramid Project Steering Committee (Mark
Bonney), an appointee from the TOHR membership (Nancy McDonald) and
the TOHR President (Brent Ortolani).
What other charitable organizations hold funds at TCF? All Souls Unitarian
Church, Arts & Humanities Council, Brady Heights Neighborhood Assoc., DVIS,
Magic Empire Girl Scouts, Hospice of Green Country, League of Women Voters,
Planned Parenthood, Special Olympics, Tulsa Opera, Youth Services of Tulsa,
Town and Country School, Tulsa Historical Society and others.

can gifts be given directly to TCF for TOHR's Pyramid Project capital campaign?
Yes. At times, some donors may desire anonymity. Such donors may make gifts
directly into TOHR's Pyramid Project Capital Campaign fund at TCF by noting the
account number. TCF is equipped to recieve gifts of stock, real estate, artwork,
and other appreciated assets. TCF will issue receipts directly to the donors.
Please contact TCF Executive Director Phil Lakin at (918) 494-8823 for more
information on this special type of giving.

Marc Frieden

li1 [YI [BJ !Al [HJ [ID I!] [ID [BJ

Campaign Mission:

TOHR Board Liaison

Brent Ortolani

The Pyramid Project is TOHR's capital campaign

Advisory Board

to

Dwight Kealiher, CPA
Nancv McDonald
Denms Neill
Rick Phillips
Vance Reed

raise

funds

to

purchase

and

sustain

a

permanent visible presence, a safe and affirming
home for the Tulsa GLBT Community Center.

"Building a Home... Funding the Future"
www .PyramidProject.org

Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR)
Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) Community Center
2114 S. Memorial Drive, P.O. Box 2687 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74101

918.743.4297

$1,000,000 GOAL